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[ - ] My boyfriend's kids are hopelessly dysfunctional, entitled, spoiled, defiant, ignorant brats with zero sense of responsibility or ability to do anything beyond mindlessly consuming passive screen entertainment. Their mother is a negligent recovering addict and I am so sick of the weekly drama when they stay up all night at her place, sleep all day and miss school--or fall asleep in school--and generally fail at life. He tries to have them on school nights, but they often refuse to go to his place, and he is afraid to fight her or go to court, so usually lets her have them because he hates trying to discipline them, which I can see is really exhausting from the two years I have known them. I have spent plenty of time around them and nothing is improving- they are now 8, 10 and 12 and living in utter emotional chaos. I love him, but I feel so sorry for his kids. Thanks for letting me rant anonymously, UB. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.15.18, 04:45 AM Flag
It will never get better, it will only get worse. The chaos will escalate and finally one will get in trouble with police and one will get pregnant. If your boyfriend is afraid to fight for them or discipline them, you have a huge problem. Dysfunctional, entitled, spoiled, defiant, ignorant brats have two parents who made them that way. It didn't happen by magic. Due yourself a favor - RUN, RUN FAST. I've BTDT and didn't run. I regret it every day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.15.18, 05:22 AM Flag
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