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[ - ] Of my 23 cousins, only four of which are married, there are two divorces happening. Married 8 and 6 years. Start of things to come? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:39 PM Flag
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only if you want to. No one is forcing them to get divorced. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:39 PM Flag
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Do a little research. Divorce is much more common among uneducated women than it is among women with PHDs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:41 PM Flag
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One cousin has a masters in chemical engineering. The other only has a bachelor degree but is successful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:43 PM Flag
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Thank you!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:44 PM Flag
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So you're saying that anything below a phd is considered uneducated? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:46 PM Flag
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I have 7 cousins. All of them have been divorced except two. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:42 PM Flag
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First of all, my husband comes from a family with serious wealth, so we don't have to make any trade offs and we have less stress in our lives . But my sisters did not marry men with money and my sisters are really really struggling they fight all the time with their husbands -- argue about money --- life is very hard for people without money who try to live in Manhattan [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:43 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:44 PM Flag
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We all live in the tri-state area and have reasonable levels of success. As far as I know, they are not fighting over money but you never truly know what is happening in someone else's life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:45 PM Flag
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It is not so much lack of money, but jealousy towards those with more money .. The jealousy causes the fighting... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:49 PM Flag
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There could be something to this. I know someone who is going through a divorce because her dh "held her back from reaching her full potential." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:50 PM Flag
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True that... If I know someone whose friends have husbands with less money, then she will appreciate husband. If her friends' husbands have more then she will silently hate her own DH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:06 PM Flag
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You wrote this exact same thing yesterday in response to some other question. Is this your go-to response regardless of the question: "What do you think about these shoes?" "First of all, my husband comes from a family with serious wealth, so we don't have to make any trade offs and we have less stress in our lives . But my sisters did not marry men with money and my sisters are really really struggling" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:55 PM Flag
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So what of it ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:06 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:13 PM Flag
[ - ] Hi, please recommend place in Manhattan for gymnastics Birthday party for 11 years old girl. Thank You! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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Chelsea piers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:32 PM Flag
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That or NYC Soho Elite or Asphalt Green are your 3 choices. All expensive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:45 PM Flag
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If you have an 11 year old, doesn't she do gymnastics somewhere? Shouldn't party be there? And it's a little old for that. Girls at 11 are either really into gymnastics or not. Are all her friends gymnasts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:53 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you wish you would have known before the divorce proceedings began? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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tested for stds :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:26 PM Flag
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:( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:30 PM Flag
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why does that matter - I learned my spouse had herpes after we were married - I was tested and somehow have never gotten it, but we had 10 years of safe sex which kinda of sucked as I was looking forward to not having to deal with that once married - but seriously I am going through a divorce now what would it matter to the court? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:34 PM Flag
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How great being divorced is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:26 PM Flag
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Me too, me too. He turned into a prick after DD was born, complained all I cared about was her. He had an affair and left me. Everyone felt sorry for me, even his parents. Truth was, she was welcome to her. And unbelievable, now that DD is older, he has tried to re-write history and enjoys spending time with her, but spends ZERO time with his new kids (according to DD). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:53 PM Flag
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How much I'd miss him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:27 PM Flag
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:(. Too late to get back together? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:30 PM Flag
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If you were married for at least ten years, you can collect social security from ex-spouse's account, providing you haven't remarried. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:45 PM Flag
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How long it would take (1.5 years). How much of a prick he would be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:45 PM Flag
[ - ] Dh's company announced layoffs in September. My position is not secure either. WWYD with the nanny if you where us? Currently she is working for us ft and does housekeeping as well as childcare which is great. She is also very flexible and I can always work late when I need to. In September all kids will be in school ft. My youngest will be at school till 4pm. Given my current job, I get home around 6pm most days. If both of us are employed we would need a housekeeper for 15-20 hours a week and childcare for 10-15 hours a week. Would you look to replace with pt person or keep until work situation becomes more clear? TYIA 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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Do you have an alternative in mind? Finding someone willing to work a few hours a day is not easy. What do you for school vacations? sick days? (I will be in your shoes in a few years and would love not to have a nanny but the reality is that unless you have someone willing to step in or a lot of family help, a nanny tends to be the best option.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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I don't know... I think with a lot of planning school vacations can be covered. Sick days are more challenging. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:36 PM Flag
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you don't "need" a housekeeper [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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You don't need a clean house but you would like one wouldn't you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:31 PM Flag
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WTF is wrong with you people that you need 15-20 hours worth of housekeeping per week to keep a clean house? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:32 PM Flag
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Do you work ft and have 3 your children? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:36 PM Flag
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^ young [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:37 PM Flag
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looks like you had more children than you can cope with [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:38 PM Flag
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? I earn enough money now to pay to have a housekeeper. Just because you don't doesn't mean you are a better parent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:47 PM Flag
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everyone works and has children, and we all manage with less than 20 hours of help to clean the bathrooms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:38 PM Flag
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good for you. I don't have the bandwidth to do it and would end up with a messy house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:46 PM Flag
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dear god -- I feel sorry for whoever your kids marry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 09:04 PM Flag
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I do and have a cleaning lady 4 hours a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:58 PM Flag
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so you should have had fewer kids, sounds like you can't handle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:59 PM Flag
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I think a cleaning lady 4 hours a week is eminently reasonable. I could clean on the week end but I'd rather rest. I also compare paying $100 to my cleaning lady vs. my salary and it's worth it. She needs the money, I need the break. 20 hours seems insane though! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:04 PM Flag
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I would find the PT person now. They are hard to find. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:47 PM Flag
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That was my original plan but I wonder if I should keep the ft person until we know dh's job situation as to not have to fire 2 people in a row. What do you think? (If dh isn't working we don't need anyone until he finds a job) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:50 PM Flag
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Is your DH going to do 20 hours of housekeeping??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:59 PM Flag
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Is your DH going to do 20 hours of housekeeping??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:59 PM Flag
[ - ] I don't like to borrow things from people, so when peole ask to borrow things from me, I always get a little uptight (internally). My cousin and he BF asked to borrow our car for the long weekend as we will be away to which I said fine but it bugs me, not sure why. How do you feel about lending stuff? I just would never borrow someones car but that is just me maybe. Thoughts? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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I feel the same as you, although I would never admit it; "Neither a borrower nor a lender be" is my motto. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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I hate it when anyone borrows our car. Most of the time they don't have car insurance of their own and I know if anything happened with the car the headache and the expense will end up being our problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:25 PM Flag
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I don't mind lending items of small value (anything that I would not be upset about losing) but a car? That's too much to ask for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:30 PM Flag
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you have control issues, which is interchangeable with trust. Just trust that everything will be fine, and even if it's not, trust in yourself to get through whatever problem happens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:36 PM Flag
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i would just say no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:38 PM Flag
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OP - couldn't do it, they don't have a lot of $ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:40 PM Flag
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Then they need to not go places that require a car. lending out yours is a big risk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:45 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:04 PM Flag
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I don't like lending things at all, especially not a car. I would have said no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:40 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:44 PM Flag
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I don't generally have issues lending stuff but would never lend a car. Too many issues w insurance, risk, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 09:06 PM Flag
[ - ] We require guests wear socks in our home. No shoes, no bare feet. We have a basket of socks for people to use. I wash them and put them back in the basket. Someone recently told me that this was gross and she would never wear used socks. Wdyt? 59 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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I agree with the OP. This is a great system. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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I would rather wear clean socks than walk on bare floors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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If OP implemented this stupid rule, her floors must be pristine. Too bad no one wants to set foot in her house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:31 PM Flag
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I don't know. I'm a no-shoes in house kind of person (for family members only), but this seems a bit much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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+1 No shoes for just family - asking guests to take off their shoes is bad enough - wearing other people's socks is a whole new level of weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:05 PM Flag
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there should be two separate baskets one that is labeled "used socks" and the other labeled "newly cleaned socks" . psychologically, if people take out of the basket whose sign reminds them that socks are newly cleaned they will be cool with it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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Op: once the socks have been used I put them in a laundry bag (like people use for bras). Dirty socks never go back into the basket. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:26 PM Flag
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Freak [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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+1. This is just too much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:25 PM Flag
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+2. Are you a get aphids in other ways too? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:28 PM Flag
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Lol - GERMAPHOBE [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:32 PM Flag
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The only time I ask people to take their shoes off is after a storm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:25 PM Flag
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We don't wear shoes in the house either but I wouldn't want to your socks. I don't get your barefoot policy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:26 PM Flag
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Bare feet from flip flops on the city streets are just as dirty as shoe soles. My child has severe allergies, so it is critical that we keep our home incredibly clean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:28 PM Flag
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your child doesn't go outside? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:28 PM Flag
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Are you the OP? If so, it changes the situation and perhaps I would respond differently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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You believe this BS? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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I'm not sure I a believe it, but there are people out there who go to extremes. It would just change my negative opinion if there were other circumstances. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:31 PM Flag
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And what do you think her child is allergic to that bare feet would present a problem? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:35 PM Flag
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I have no idea. I'm just saying that if there is a health issue, maybe OP should have stated that in her OP. I'm the third OR above. I think it's crazy to ask people to do this without any other circumstances that would require it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:39 PM Flag
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I just don't like crazy people like OP so I doubt I would stay friends with her. I do not buy the allergy story. Her kid would be in a bubble if this was true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:38 PM Flag
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No. it's fake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:44 PM Flag
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Yes. I am op. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:30 PM Flag
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So DC is allergic to feet or shoes or both?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:44 PM Flag
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Pineapples [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:59 PM Flag
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Your obsession with hygiene is more likely to make your dc's allergies worse, not better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:30 PM Flag
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Allergic to what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:33 PM Flag
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This was my thought? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:40 PM Flag
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Then tell your child not to lick the floor! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:39 PM Flag
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Just a tidbit, but extreme cleanliness is linked to allergies. Mine has allergies and I don't go to those lengths. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:47 PM Flag
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Just a tidbit, but extreme cleanliness is linked to allergies. Mine has allergies and I don't go to those lengths. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:47 PM Flag
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+1 What do you have against bare feet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:30 PM Flag
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she is right, you can get some nasty nail fungus infections [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:27 PM Flag
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How about house slippers? This is what Asian households do. You can easily get disposable ones too. Something skeevy about wearing someone else's socks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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my next door neighbors are Japanese - My wife and I bought are own and bring them over - we are over frequently - something weird about wearing community slippers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:32 PM Flag
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I can see that. That's why I mentioned disposable too, though some may see that as wasteful. Most people in Japan wear socks so it's not like your foot is touching where another foot has been. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:39 PM Flag
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the op needs to ADVERTISE that the socks are clean. make it O B V I O U S [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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They are used. It sucks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:33 PM Flag
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I agree with the above. I don't like to wear other people's used socks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:39 PM Flag
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We have a no shoe policy in our home. But people can be barefoot or wear their own socks, of course. Sorry- but can't have gross shoes that have been wandering all over the crud of NYC walking around our floors and rugs, where the baby crawls and walks all day. We are of Asian descent (born/raised in the US), but this also doesn't seem to be that unusual in NYC, given the nastiness of what we walk through. Still, I Don't like the sock idea that OP has proposed. Better to allow people to be barefoot, wear whatever socks/stockings they have on, or wear disposable,new slippers that you provide. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:37 PM Flag
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Same tradition in our house - Scandinavians. Dragging dirt from the street into your carpets and floors is gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:02 PM Flag
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Why no bare feet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:39 PM Flag
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We have a box of medical booties by the front door everyone uses them without complaint http://www.amazon.com/Medical-Booties-Shoe-Covers-Package/dp/B000CDG7EI [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:40 PM Flag
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medical booties are a better idea than socks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:40 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:02 PM Flag
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A few germs are good for you! Stop being dramatic! You do not want my bare feet but you expect me to put my feet in used socks, washed or not that is NASTY!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:42 PM Flag
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I bet you do not have many return do you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:42 PM Flag
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My ds is in EI and his team is here weekly. They often forget socks. I have them socks and they said they would take them home and bring them back, but they forget often. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:00 PM Flag
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What is EI? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:08 PM Flag
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Early intervention. He has five home therapists who come 2-3 times each. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:10 PM Flag
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WHat about if they already have socks on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:43 PM Flag
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That is ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:00 PM Flag
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this is so ridiculous fake. and not even in a good way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:44 PM Flag
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I wouldn't say it is gross, but it is entirely annoying. Fine to say no shoes, but barefeet should be welcome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:46 PM Flag
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Why can't you provide your guests with disposable slippers? You can buy them in bulk for under $1/pr. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:17 PM Flag
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Tell her it's no problem as long as she brings her own pair of socks when she comes to your house, because it's your home and your rules are your rules [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:38 PM Flag
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+1. Now she knows so she'll carry around her own socks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:48 PM Flag
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I think your friend is nuts. But buy some socks and leave in the wrapper for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:46 PM Flag
[ - ] DS has started yelling "Daddy!" at every black man he sees when we go out (he is biracial). DH is not happy about this, especially since we are both Caucasian. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:21 PM Flag
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huh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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Oh goody, camp is out I see. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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This one is kind of funny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:32 PM Flag
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Hi op. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:37 PM Flag
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well this is your own fault for creating the situation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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I don't know if this is totally fake, but dh is bald and when ds was a toddler he'd pretty much call any bald man "daddy." Really bizarre. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:44 PM Flag
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Since we can assume he is under the age of 3, nobody thinks twice about it. You all are just sensitive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:48 PM Flag
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He's adopted. So what. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:49 PM Flag
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^You want a star for that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:49 PM Flag
[ - ] This Trump situation is not going away!!!! I wonder what will come of the DONALD? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:19 PM Flag
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He's his own worst enemy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:20 PM Flag
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What situation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:21 PM Flag
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He has seized hostages. [ Reply | More ]
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What did he do now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Post your first world problem. Mine is someone sold my email address to an Italian website. I get one of these things twice a day. I cannot unsubscribe because I can't read Italian! 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:16 PM Flag
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Same problem, except in Japanese. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:18 PM Flag
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Annulla l'iscrizione [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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Thanks!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:41 PM Flag
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all teh shoes in my most recent zappos order are too big. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:28 PM Flag
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Google the wood unsubscribe in italian [ Reply | More ]
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Annulla l'iscrizione [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:31 PM Flag
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This. Anyone who says "I don't know the language" in the age of google translate is just plain lazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:06 PM Flag
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I can't find time to get my hair cut before I go on vacation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:40 PM Flag
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currently own 3 houses and the upkeep is killing me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:50 PM Flag
[ - ] Any sober moms on? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I am sober now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:18 PM Flag
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At work, sober. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:19 PM Flag
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What is the best AA in manhattan? I feel I need it. I don't drink to excess (2 drinks per night) but I can't relax without it and I've been drinking every night [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:20 PM Flag
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You need to quit your job and go to rehab for at least 2 months. 2 drinks a night? Holy hell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:21 PM Flag
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NP: Are you being sarcastic? 2 drinks a night is not that much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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NP: I think the PP was being sarcastic, but if the OR thinks that it is becoming a crutch, then she's in the best position to determine if she wants to seek support, even if it doesn't seem like that much to the rest of us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:25 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
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Do you mean sober right now, or sober as in we don't drink at all? Yes to the former, no to the latter [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:22 PM Flag
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not me, patrooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:28 PM Flag
[ - ] s/o--Where are Kim Kardashian's breast & butt implant scars? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:09 PM Flag
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I think she gets fat injections and I am not sure she had breast implants (definitely a lift though). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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Armpits? Underneath the breast, so that the hanging orbs cover the smile scar? If you look at photos of her pre-fame, her chest is average. [ Reply | More ]
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a lift leaves a scar from the nipple down. [ Reply | More ]
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Androids don't scar. [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
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I don't think she has a butt implant. probably a lift, but why would someone choose to make their butt that big? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:41 PM Flag
[ - ] This show about transgendered parents (Becoming Us) is worth a look ... have to say it's very interesting to see the unscripted effect these transitions have on the kids. And I'm not on either side. Their former spouses look not too thrilled. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:05 PM Flag
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ya think? if a person had to change gender after being married to you, how would you feel? [ Reply | More ]
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word! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:08 PM Flag
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I'd feel the same way. The wife of one said it wasn't the transition so much as that her husband basically became someone completely wrapped up in themselves with no way to depend on them as a partner or a father to the kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:12 PM Flag
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The transitioned dad says that he/she still thinks she is a good parent but the daughter didn't want her former dad to walk her down the aisle and the mom said that she would be pissed if he tried to steal her show like that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:13 PM Flag
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Yeah, that would be complicated. I could see that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:17 PM Flag
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No one would be looking at the bride. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:17 PM Flag
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np. I thought it was her (former) step-father, not her actual father? Maybe I misunderstood that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:25 PM Flag
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I know some families going through this and this is an accurate assessment of what the fathers transitioning are like. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:13 PM Flag
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This is exactly how I feel. I hate that the transgender agenda has jumped on the gay rights bandwagon. It's not the same thing at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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ITDA. I am a lesbian and am also the poster below with a transgender father. I can't stand when people claim to be support of "gay rights" but are not interested in supporting or protecting our transgender citizens. Makes me sick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:27 PM Flag
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Haven't gotten around to watching but definitely want to. My father transitioned to become a woman when I was fairly young & I have not spoken to or heard much about other's experiences who were in the same boat. Might be interesting. However how my family (me, sister, & mother) felt when my dad first transitioned is vastly different from how we feel over a decade later. My entire family is still very close. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:14 PM Flag
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I like that your family is still close. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:17 PM Flag
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Yes, I'm very happy about that. My parents now go out as friends to the casino and we all get together for holidays, etc. Better than a messy divorce where they despise one another, imo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:22 PM Flag
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Yeah, I can't say I'd be pleased. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:15 PM Flag
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I consider myself educated on the subject and I would still think that my dad had lost his damn mind. I know that's wrong, but it's true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:19 PM Flag
[ - ] I am looking at NYC nursery schools. One of them that I'm interested in has a ".com" web address instead of a ".org"....Why would this be and could this indicate that it's a place to stay away from? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:00 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:02 PM Flag
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Please tell me why this is funny. Every other school I have looked at online is a .org. What am I missing here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:03 PM Flag
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Probably it's a for profit but not necessarily. Don't know why these peoe are laughing. Ask. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:06 PM Flag
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Thanks. I will. It just seems strange because I have a list of like 15 comparable schools in the neighborhood and it's literally the only one that's a .com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:13 PM Flag
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WTF.... .com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:02 PM Flag
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Are you an idiot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:03 PM Flag
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I guess no. Just need someone to explain please. Many thanks in advance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:03 PM Flag
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^I guess so [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:04 PM Flag
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It doesn't matter!!! That's why you're getting these responses. You're an idiot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:20 PM Flag
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np- you are an asshole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:25 PM Flag
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Not necessarily, it could be a for profit. Go visit it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:04 PM Flag
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".com" means you cum ".org" means you have an orgasm. Are we clear now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:05 PM Flag
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Some centers are non-profit and some are for-profit. Lots of for-profit nursery schools in my neighborhood. Just depends on if owner/director wants to run it as a non-profit (with the potential for grants, tax breaks) or if they want to run it as a private business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:06 PM Flag
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My local town has a .com address. Could be they opened up website years ago, and didn't know any better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:06 PM Flag
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OP- The school is Madison Ave Presbyterian Church Day School- does anyone have any thoughts on this school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:09 PM Flag
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Head of school, there for 25 years, is leaving. Lots of uncertainty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:21 PM Flag
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NP- Lots of school heads are leaving or will leave soon. All Souls head is leaving too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:31 PM Flag
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They have a new head coming in, lady who has been a teacher for 6 yrs- no more than normal uncertainty when any turnover happens. The departing one actually stayed for an extra year vs when she first announced departure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:36 PM Flag
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Pedo central. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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It's a fine school. Very similar to most in the neighborhood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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terrible school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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DD is starting there in the fall and we obviously thought it was a great place. On the more progressive side. As someone said above, it's comparable to other nursery schools in the neighborhood, so I doubt the dot com factor makes any difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Does your nanny have guaranteed hours? This means she gets paid 52 weeks a year whether you travel, let her go early etc. (doesn't necessarily mean she gets paid if she asks for time off beyond what you've negotiated for her own choice -extra vacation, sick days, etc). Guaranteed hours do not include banking hours for future use (although it is legal in the same pay period). I am just curious how many people offer this perk/security to their nannies. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:58 PM Flag
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Yes, guaranteed pay of X every week, 52 wks/ yr. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:00 PM Flag
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The family I work for offers this to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:02 PM Flag
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Does it keep you happy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:03 PM Flag
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Yes, very. I also never call off of work and they really appreciate that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:06 PM Flag
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Of course. Same as I do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:06 PM Flag
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Op: I do this as well, but find many other mothers I know don't. They also don't understand why they should. IMO my nanny's life is in my hands. I took on the responsibility to support her. She trusts me to pay her for her time and she counts on every penny I've promised her. I see so many people who treat their nannies unfairly and wonder why they think they are entitled to be an employer if they can't actually be a good one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:10 PM Flag
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You are correct. And, don't forget that your child's well being and happiness is in your nanny's hands. I never understand why people treat their nannies awfully when the nannies are watching their children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:26 PM Flag
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Op: some of these women pay very fair rates overall too. If you're paying $800 why not lower the base pay and offer this consistent pay. Most nannies live paycheck to paycheck and can make $750 work but can't handle when they have to go a week or a month with no pay because you decided to go to France for a month and don't need her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:29 PM Flag
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yes, she gets a weekly check of the same amount every week regardless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:10 PM Flag
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Yes. We pay her for 52 full weeks regardless of if we have her come everyday or leave early. If she works late, we pay her extra. She gets approximately 5 weeks off plus all holidays plus going home early on many Fridays. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:11 PM Flag
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Yes. This is not considered a "perk" for a full-time nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:12 PM Flag
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I understand this. Apparently it is a perk because of the dozen mommies I was with today, majority of them do not offer this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:21 PM Flag
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I worked for two moms like that. They also had a rotating door of nannies, and they were also asshole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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If their nannies are full-time, then they are crooks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:24 PM Flag
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Do they actually have full time nannies? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:51 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:11 PM Flag
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I think that depends on how many paid weeks they get off. If the parents are professors and give them the whole summer off, that would certainly be considered a nice perk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:26 PM Flag
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I agree with that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:27 PM Flag
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This is standard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:13 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:19 PM Flag
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mine has to take her vacations at the same time that we do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:52 PM Flag
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Cheap motherfucker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:55 PM Flag
[ - ] My mother is so negative it is driving me absolutely crazy! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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you sound pretty negative yourself. maybe it runs in the family? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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my mother is critical and negative, too, and taught me her bad behaviors, so what's your point? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:34 PM Flag
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op - same here but try VERY hard to be different [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:45 PM Flag
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Shake it off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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Are you my sister? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:58 PM Flag
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Yes, stfu Liz. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:23 PM Flag
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How old is she? Mine started being this way about 2 years ago and it is driving me BONKERS!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:21 PM Flag
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65 and she has always been this way but now she lives near us and everything she says is negative. Not one nice thing to say to me or about anyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:22 PM Flag
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Same age but its base gotten worse over time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:37 PM Flag
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Mine too. She exhausts me. Only wants to talk about illnesses and problems. I feel very drained after a conversation with her. I do love her and want a relationship with her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:33 PM Flag
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op - THIS and because of the way she is she has very few friends. I actually think it has been very hard for me to NOT be a crappy friend since all I ever heard from my mother is what was wrong with every person I ever befriended! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:44 PM Flag
[ - ] SIL is having a 60th bday party. Invite says 'cocktails and conversation'. No mention of food. We spend Christmas and thanksgivings together, but aren't super close. Normally these family things go from 6 until 11. Is it rude to give her a call and ask if she will serve any food? Or should we just eat first? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:55 PM Flag
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Not rude to call. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:56 PM Flag
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just eat first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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No food. Eat first. Invite tells you no dinner or snacks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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It is unfathomable to me that it would go from 6 to 11 without food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:58 PM Flag
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Probably cocktail-type food. If you want a meal, you should eat first. I wouldn't call her, but that's just me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:58 PM Flag
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this. no way there isn't some food for a party at this time and for that long. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:00 PM Flag
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:02 PM Flag
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This. I'm sure there will be snacks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:07 PM Flag
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I'm assuming cocktail party food, finger foods, desserts, veggies, hummus type of thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:03 PM Flag
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What are the hours? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:06 PM Flag
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Eat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Spin Off: another mom and I took our kids for pizza and a game place. We took another child too whose mom was busy. This third mom had taken our kids out several times and the least we could do was invite her daughter. So the mom who came with me flinched when we got the check for pizza (was $32) and I contributed $20. I never went on a play date with her before and generally am not in touch with her so didn't feel like I had to invite them. When we went to the game place, is he wen her daughter to play with me and the other ones so that basically I had to pay for her daughter's games. She also refused to share the expense of the other girl. It's not about the money, because it wasn't a lot but I think she is very stingy and feel used. Wdyt? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:52 PM Flag
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Sorry this post is so long... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:53 PM Flag
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I hate people like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:53 PM Flag
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^^stingy people [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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Agreed, who could not know what these places cost? Shee's a moocher. If you cannot afford, it you say pizza and game does not work for us, would the two girls like to come to my place and I will rent a movie, etc.? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:16 PM Flag
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Yes, she was stingy and yes you were used. So from now on, no playdates with her kid outside of the house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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Used by the mom who was there, not used by the third mom, right? That's what I think [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:55 PM Flag
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correct, used by mom who was there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:56 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:09 PM Flag
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There are just people like this and they don't change. Either don't do things with her in the future where $$ is involved or wave it off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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I think your kid does not need to go on play dates anymore. Because these things are expensive. Paid $68 for two kids and myself in a restaurant two weekends ago. Paid around $50+ for take out three weekends ago. Sick! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:56 PM Flag
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Do not go out with her again. May be no play dates at home as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:58 PM Flag
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OP. Apparently she thought just because I took the lead in arranging the play date (I arranged with the third mom and the stingy mom only joined us after the fact), that I should have paid for her? Based on what? I don even know her - our kids are friends at school but don't usually hang out after school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:59 PM Flag
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It's fine that she didn't want to split for the other girl. I wouldn't have paid for her daughter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:09 PM Flag
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the pizza part maybe isn't too bad (you paying for the third girl's pizza since she was "your guest"), but letting (or even insisting) that you pay for her own daughter's game tickets is ridiculous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:06 PM Flag
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I wasn't upset about me paying for part of the pizza, by because she gave me an indignant stare - she had expected me to pick up the whole check for her and her 2 kids as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:09 PM Flag
[ - ] I don't live in NYC. Those who do, do you think the demographic of UB is representative of NYC moms? If not, how does it differ? Are there any parts of NYC that you do think UN accurately represents? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:49 PM Flag
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fewer and fewer NYC moms on this website now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:51 PM Flag
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UN? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:51 PM Flag
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UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:22 PM Flag
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It's mixed depending on time of day and day of the week. I think I'm a normal professional person but not a rich one and I've seen plenty of other posters here in a similar situation. Lately, though, I feel like there are an incredible amount of trolls (maybe one or two serial posters) and it doesn't move as fast here as it used to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:56 PM Flag
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Nah. Are there some people here who are like this? Sure. But NYC is a big city filled with lots of different kinds of people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:59 PM Flag
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it accurately represents Tribeca nad a part of the UES. in NYC, the average mom is probably not white and has an HHI under 100K; her kid goes to the local public school and they don't have a 2d home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:00 PM Flag
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^^ and lives in queens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:00 PM Flag
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I live in TriBeCa and don't feel accurately represented at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:14 PM Flag
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demographically? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:17 PM Flag
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depends on the time. I think it's heavy on working moms and introverted, less sociable moms. bc those are the ones with time to burn on here. this is true for NYC and non-NYC moms. but I also agree with above poster - fewer than half the posters here are NYC, I would guess. it also attracts way more on the far right and far left fringes. I've been on since 2004, so I've seen a lot of changes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:01 PM Flag
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many, many more wealthy people on here (or they claim to be) then in NYC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:03 PM Flag
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Most NYC moms are not as wealthy as the people on this website claim to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:12 PM Flag
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ITDA with you and above poster. people are really wealthy in NYC, so of course some of those people will be on here. it's fairly common, actually. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:13 PM Flag
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but UB skews wealthier than the City as a whole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:14 PM Flag
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definitely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:21 PM Flag
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^^^oh sorry, I misunderstood your original post. I thought you meant posters were lying about their wealth on here. I don't think they are, but they are wealthier than NYC moms overall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:22 PM Flag
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np. Yes, MUCH wealthier here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 08:23 PM Flag
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this site makes it seem like maybe half are really wealthy and, that's not at all the case. totally agree that a lot of people have a ton of money in nyc but, not at the percentage on here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:15 PM Flag
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I agree with above poster that UB skews wealthy though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:22 PM Flag
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I think this is right. The majority of people in Manhattan are definitely wealthy considered by salary/income, etc when compared to rest of US, but I think people overstate their wealth online. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:18 PM Flag
[ - ] who is going to scratch my itch? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:48 PM Flag
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Where is it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:49 PM Flag
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they have creams for that, you know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:51 PM Flag
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Emailing you now... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:25 PM Flag
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GROSS! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:50 PM Flag
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Ben Affleck is available now to scratch your itch. Call him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:26 PM Flag
[ - ] Ended my marriage with an abusive ex. Still have lots of contact with him as we have DC. Really missing him today for first time in ages. Tell me to get over it 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:41 PM Flag
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get over it. you are better off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:42 PM Flag
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take care of it yourself, if you know what i mean ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:42 PM Flag
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Few people are 100% good or 100% bad. It's normal to miss the good things and you probably have a basic sexual attraction to him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:43 PM Flag
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What do you mean by abusive? It seems hard to imagine that you'd miss someone who smacked you around. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:44 PM Flag
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Get over it!!! He's a total abusive asshole and you are waaaaaaaaaaay too good for the likes of him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:45 PM Flag
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Slap yourself out of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:49 PM Flag
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slap? i see what you did there :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:49 PM Flag
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you're just backsliding because its a holiday and you want to be with family. or as part of a couple. trust me, from personal experience, you are SO MUCH BETTER OFF now than you were when you were married to him. Thank God you woke up in time to make a change in your life. Look at it this way. You'll have a peaceful stress free time this weekend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 06:50 PM Flag
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Op here: thank you. You're so right. I didn't even think it's a holiday. So true, I do miss having my family together during the holidays. Holidays are hard. :( But I feel better realizing why I miss him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.01.15, 07:11 PM Flag
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