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[ - ] I discovered infidelity from my long term partner this past summer. After months apart, for various reasons, I have decided to give it another try. The problem is my family especially my mother. She wants to constantly remind me how stupid I look, how he will do this again, what kind of example am i setting for the kids...the list goes on and on. I don't disagree with her, i am well aware of all these things. I don't want or expect her encouraging me to try. I am just sooo tired of hearing about it. I have said this nicely and not so nicely. What can I say to friends and family when they express their feelings? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:57 AM Flag
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You over shared. You wanted their sympathy. Now they have opinions. And maybe they have some insight. Is it possible they are right and you just don't want to hear it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 09:01 AM Flag
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Do they just bring up the topic of your relationship out of the blue? Say Thanks, it will think about what you said. Then change the subject. But if you are still talking with them about your relationship, you have to expect their comments, if they care about you at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 09:33 AM Flag
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Both of the above replies are super solid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 11:50 AM Flag
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Listen to your mother. She's right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 11:57 AM Flag
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You should have stfu until you decided what's to do. Too late now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 12:46 PM Flag
[ - ] We are temporarily moving to NYC for 4 months starting in Jan. We live in CA. What do suggest I bring/buy to survive the winter? I have a fairly warm parka and sorrels...anything else essential? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:09 AM Flag
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Hehehe. No, that's all you'll need. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:10 AM Flag
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Mittens, hat, and a scarf. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:16 AM Flag
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silk long johns for everyone--my kids wear theirs under their clothes when it's really, really cold. You are lucky b/c there's no way it can be as bad as last winter! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:33 AM Flag
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Ski masks for each family member [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:39 AM Flag
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No. Don't move here now! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 06:10 AM Flag
[ - ] I get the sense that celebrities are largely incapable of "real" relationships - they don't have actual human "feelings;" merely simulacra of emotions deployed strategically for dramatic effect. So in that sense they're kind of like sociopathic robots rather than humans. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:03 AM Flag
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how many do you personally know? know-know, beyond a hello, that is. genuine question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:26 AM Flag
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What you see in public is not who people are in private, celebrity or not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 09:04 AM Flag
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I know one. He's a normal human being. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 11:51 AM Flag
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You're insane. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 12:47 PM Flag
[ - ] I just picked up thw wrong phone and accidentally found out that my dd (who's 20) lost her virginity last night to her very sweet boyfriend who she loves. I am busting a gut -- I feel like it's such a Red Tent moment! I can't believe she waited this long... 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:01 AM Flag
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Omg! Accidenly? Come on you had to do some reading to figure this out... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:11 AM Flag
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Nope, my text notifications went off, and I pitched up the phone. The text from her best friend, said " so you FINALLY turned in your virgin card!! Woo woo! How do you feel?" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:32 AM Flag
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Fake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 05:33 AM Flag
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