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[ - ] How much do the most country clubs near NYC cost ? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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most exclusive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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Ten dollars [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:38 AM Flag
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One million dollars [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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which ones [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:02 AM Flag
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The most exclusive ones [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:40 AM Flag
[ - ] I gotta say, Streisand's version of "Memory" was great. Especially the money note, "touch meeeeee" 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:28 AM Flag
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^ but her "Somewhere" was the best. And the orchestrations on that even better. Very 80s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:28 AM Flag
[ - ] DH is cheating on me with his high school crush. He is in his early 50s. She is the same age and divorced. I am so disgusted. Should I call her and say we are still married? 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:28 AM Flag
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Join them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:32 AM Flag
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What a douche. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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Sure. Remind your DH too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:34 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 11:21 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:35 AM Flag
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Okay. I have her # and I supposed I would just call her and say I am His wife and I don't know what he he told you but we are very much still married and have a young DC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:42 AM Flag
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How do you have a young dc? Sounds like he's very much into trying to stay young. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:51 AM Flag
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Our DC is 8..so not super young. Based on FB posts, high school girl crush has DCs who are college age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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Wow. She'll tire of him fast. He's waaaayyyyy too old to have an 8 year old and she wants to party. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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np: having a kid in his forties hardly makes him too old to have an 8 year old. Do you live in Alabama? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:15 AM Flag
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Having a baby in your forties is too old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 07:25 AM Flag
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Yeah it does. No one wants to deal with school and kid shit in their 50s. WTF does Alabama have to do with it. I love what passes for an insult on ub. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 11:21 AM Flag
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Are you dw #2 or 3? Were you the ow? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:54 AM Flag
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I am DW#1,been married 18 yrs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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Ow troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 11:21 AM Flag
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Have you spoken to dh? Why would you call her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Yes. When I was in my late twenties this guy that I had gone back and forth with in high school contact ed me. He had visited me in college and we fooled around but didn't have sex. Long story short wrote me multiple love letters (e-mails) after I graduated and sent me his contact info. When I called him back he acted very odd. His wife (and mother of his two children) reached out to me a week later. She may have no idea that your husband is married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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You have nothing to lose but remember if this is "the love of her life" she might not care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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How do you know they are cheating? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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Does he know you know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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talk to a lawyer first. make sure you and your child are protected. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 05:11 AM Flag
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Call HIM and say you are still married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 10:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Cailtin Jenner queefed, pass it on. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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I like how they switched to heat vision cameras every time he queefed and you saw a cloud of heat exit his fake vag! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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I heard he queens on people in the subway. It's a dirty little secret he has. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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Queefs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:28 AM Flag
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I've heard that too! His appetite for queefs knows no bounds! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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He queens on people too! Drag queens, that is! LOL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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Hahaha that's a hoot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:33 AM Flag
[ - ] The US is in decline due to liberal democratd. Now you whine and cry after you fuck everything up. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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The boomers would be enough to destroy any country [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:23 AM Flag
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It's really the gen x and the millennials that nailed the coffin, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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Gen X is tiny and hasn't even risen to power yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:37 AM Flag
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Got the idiot into the white house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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Who? Gen-X begins in 1965. Boomer = 1945-1964. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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Of course we're in power. If not us, who? We are now middle aged. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:40 AM Flag
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I guess it depends where your birthday falls. I am Generation X but I'm only in my late thirties. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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That's middle age. The youngest boomer is in his mid fifties. Do you think seniors are the ones in power? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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Late thirties isn't middle age but I agree that I didn't take into accounts the range of ages underneath the Generation X banner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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That is middle age. What else could it be? Young adult? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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It's your prime. Middle age is the beginning of the decline. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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Pretty much [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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We aren't whning and crying. Trump is GOOD for us. He's distracting republicans from real candidates and issues. All good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Trump won't get the nom. He's a bull in the China shop and the party needs someone they can control. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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Also, even Republicans know he's embarrassing and unqualified. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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No true. They are all scared shit loss of his popularity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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Yes, scared shitless because if he runs in the general election, he will lose by a wide margin to whichever Democrat runs against him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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Trump is in the lead baby [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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Yes, based on telephone polling. As in the opinions of people with landlines who are home during the day to answer their phones. Have you completely forgotten all of the polls that reported Romney's huge lead 30 seconds before he lost the election? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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Dream on. You are so out of touch with America and what we want [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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it is never gonna happen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:52 AM Flag
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I've never voted in my life but if I get the chance I'll vote for Trump no matter what just tell the GOP they're nothing but a bunch of cucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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God I hope he wins the nomination. The GOP will finally have gotten what it's spent 2 decades working towards [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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He will bring jobs back to america [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:33 AM Flag
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How? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:45 AM Flag
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He will stop punishing businesses with high taxes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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Then they'll just stop paying $2.50 per inventory t-shirt and pay $19 instead? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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Yeah, allow corporations to steal even more. You're not very bright. Corporations will outsource no matter what [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 07:03 AM Flag
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LOL, this! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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A country full of uneducated racists [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 07:02 AM Flag
[ - ] What's your best tip for always looking put together / polished? I need to start wearing real clothes now since I am taking my company to the next level and will be regularly meeting partners / clients. Online media btw. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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Dresses, hands down. Add jewelry and/or scarf, sweater or coat and you are all set. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:14 AM Flag
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op here: i am more into black and leather non-girly stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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eyeroll. Like there has never been a black non girly dresd. Grow up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:23 AM Flag
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NP: Why eyeroll? I'm the same way. I feel like I'm in a costume in a dress. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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That works fine with what OR suggested..NP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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NP: Some really good blazers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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no leather [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:38 AM Flag
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tailored clothing!!!!! esp if you need to wear suits, dresses for work [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:45 AM Flag
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Np. I'd love to wear dresses but they always seem to draw attention to my tummy, which has always stuck out a bit no matter how thin I am otherwise. Any suggestions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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Wrap dresses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:29 AM Flag
[ - ] What is the other forum, similar to UB? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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Eh, not really similar, it's full of poors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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LOL. Slow day at work today, so I was on Babycenter, and stumbled upon this gem of a thread... fairly representative of what you'll find out there: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a58126291/on_assistance_but_want_baby_2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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"A strange series of circumstances that led us to get pregnant" -- it wasn't sex? And holy cow, 6 kids already and counting! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:34 AM Flag
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Then the enablers all chime in, with nuggets such as: "Well I strongly feel that God provides things such as medicaid/wic/food stamps, He made it so these programs got created and available, If you don't believe in God (general you) I guess that would be hard to wrap ones head around." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:40 AM Flag
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That is so awesome. I wonder if they think God made serial killers and rapists, too. Gotta take advantage of those, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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No, Satan made those (but God could control Satan if he wanted to, but he chooses not to), but God is there for you in case you encounter them! Oh, wait...that doesn't make any sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:55 AM Flag
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Babycenter is quite an eye opening picture of American life, isn't it? PS I guarantee you she will have another kid/kids by that guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Www.youbemom.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:54 AM Flag
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Citidata [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:01 AM Flag
[ - ] I hate living in the U.S. What a dump. It's just getting worse and worse every day. I can't see any positives in this place. The rich are getting richer, the poor are getting poorer, everyone is angry and the race problem is getting worse and there is no way out of it. 81 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:00 AM Flag
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Stop electing mendacious amateurs like Obama, and things will improve. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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Yeah, he made it worse. It's not like the rich take advantage no matter who sits in the oval. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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Doesn't matter who sits in that seat. They're all in the pocket of the 1%. So guess which policies will get passed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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+10000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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Try moving to a different country for a few years. You'll either re-remember the things you like about the US and feel good about moving back, or you'll find a place you like better and never go back. Either way, you'll be happier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 10:26 AM Flag
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I forgot to add: the politicians are corrupt and democracy is an illusion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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This. It doesn't matter who is in office, the US is on the decline. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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On, no. Democracy, unfortunately, is all too real. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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Not if people vote like sheep, based on who spends more money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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No, you fool. The democrats have bussing where they get inner city people from church for mass registration, mass voting. They are trying to get the feeling vote now. They courted Hispanics and now they've come home to roost. Democracy is all too real. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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What you're describing is not democracy either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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Of course it's democracy. It's power to the people. People voting, no matter how ignorant, stupid or criminal, that's democracy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:35 AM Flag
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So your solution is? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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Cut welfare. Guest workers. No citizenship to babies born here unless parents here legally and permanently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:41 AM Flag
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I'm not sure what you're position is. We've established that you hate blacks and Hispanics and you're against immigration. You think if black and immigrants are not allowed to vote, voting will swing republican. And then what? What are the republicans going to do to make you happy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:45 AM Flag
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I don't have blacks and Hispanics. I like Hispanics. I hate welfare ghetto blacks. I don't want to give immigrants the vote, though. Because they'll want freebies just like blacks do. I want the ones who work to come then leave if there's no work. No welfare for anybody because bureaucracies become living organisms themselves and take a life of their own. If people are not capable of providing for their own, they shouldn't have children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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I don't have blacks and Hispanics. I like Hispanics. I hate welfare ghetto blacks. I don't want to give immigrants the vote, though. Because they'll want freebies just like blacks do. I want the ones who work to come then leave if there's no work. No welfare for anybody because bureaucracies become living organisms themselves and take a life of their own. If people are not capable of providing for their own, they shouldn't have children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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You're delusional if you don't realize that there are hordes of Hispanics on welfare. Just take a look at the Bronx. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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Of course there are. That's why i don't want them getting citizenship and permanent residence. But they are not as violent as native blacks. Hispanics in most of the country work hard in hard jobs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Come on. Californian jails are overrun with Hispanics. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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Gang violence in California is awful. But LA isn't most of the country. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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Yes and no. Politicians no longer represent their constituents, they represent lobbyists. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:23 AM Flag
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I wish they did. But lobbyists still only vote once. They may pass business policies friendly to them but the really f-ed up suicidal social policies go right to democracy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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Do you think the average middle class Democratic union voter doesn't want the government to deport illegal immigrants? Do you think the average low - skilled inner - city man doesn't want the government to deport illegal workers? We are being dictated to when it comes to many issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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But that's not the lobbyists. That's the Hispanic vote. You guys are now outnumbered by Hispanics in swing states. You don't count. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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I think this will be a fantastic place if it is ran by Hispanics! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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Yeah! Mexico, Honduras and Guatemala redux! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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All Hispanics aren't illegal immigrants or pro-Palestine immigration. Business es love it because it brings in a pool of cheap labor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:52 AM Flag
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But enough are. The republicans are catering to them now because their lack of support was why Romney lost. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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I meant pro-illegal immigration. I have no idea why my phone corrected to pro-Palestine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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I knew what you were saying. Wouldn't make sense with Palestinians. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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WTF are you talking about ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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Go back to sleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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Trump is the way out of it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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Hahahaha, yes - low rent white trash in the White House is the answer to all of our problems! Imitation gold gillt on everything, the First Lady in trashy strapless dresses at 2:00 p.m., a president with spray tan smudged all over the collar of his shirt - that's definetly the way to earn the respect of the rest of the world! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:08 AM Flag
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Low rent white trash you racist pos [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:08 AM Flag
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Is the definition of "racist" in reference to Trump someone who hates oompa-loompa's and the makers of Wet and Wild bronzer? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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Obama is soooo classy not hahaha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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Where is better? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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That's what I want to know. Canada? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:06 AM Flag
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No. Lol. And hardly any black people. What will you do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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OP: well gee, i'm not black, I'm as white as they come, so there's that... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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But what about diversity? Don't you want that? If you go where there are no black people, there won't be racists. But you won't have black people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:23 AM Flag
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OMG, LOLLLL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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Yeah, Sudan is just so much better. Oh, you like Norway better, probably, right? Well, those fuckers talk egalitarianism, but they don't allow immigration, do they? How about Sweden? Rapes up like 1000% since allowing minorities. They, too, a quickly becoming racist. Ditto France, UK, Italy, everywhere there is diversity, people become racist. What a coinkydink. And everywhere there's diversity, except in Africa, there's curiosity in income. So, where will you go? How about fantasyland? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:08 AM Flag
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*there's DISPARITY in income [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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I'M NOT BLACK. I'M WHITE. I DON'T CARE ABOUT RACISM. I JUST DON'T WANT THE PROBLEM. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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It's obvious you're a dumb white person. I never said you were black. Racism isn't the problem. Black people are the problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:28 AM Flag
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I get that you're a rabid racist but nothing else you say makes sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:35 AM Flag
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Black people have been on the country since the Revolutionary war. They're not even the largest minority anymore. Get some new talking points. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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But they're the largest problem demographics and it's becoming more so because of dysgenics through welfare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:43 AM Flag
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They aren't even the largest recipients of welfare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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They are only 13% of the country. They shouldn't also be the largest in absolute numbers in addition to being the largest in proportion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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I agree that their welfare recipient rate is way out of proportion with their numbers but if you're talking about the money spent on welfare you are looking at the actual numbers and black people aren't the largest recipients of welfare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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No, I'm not talking about welfare spending, which is bad. I'm talking about the growing dysfunctional mannerisms that welfare breeds and the children born to dysfunctional parents who become dysfunctional themselves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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The main problem isn't racism it's the lack of steady well - paying jobs. People are at each other's throats fighting over crumbs. The decline began with NAFTA and it's only going to get worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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ITA. Outsourcing is killing the U.S. The politicians are enabling this as it enriches the 1%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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Like the jobs trump has created [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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There are jobs if people were skilled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:37 AM Flag
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Not everybody is skilled. Unskilled people need living wages also or we're just going to give them welfare. The Baby Boomers grew up in a time when an unskilled man could get a steady job. Those days are over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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Those jobs got sold to the Chinese for a nice sum by the 1%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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What should the poor Chinese do? Just starve so unskilled Americans can make $25/hr? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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They are not our problem. I'm pretty sure the Chinese are looking out for themselves and we should do they same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:29 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 06:17 AM Flag
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We are. Do you know we export $14B worth of soybean oil to China every year? We sell $14B of airplanes, $13B in cars, $13B in machinery, $12B in electric equipment, $8B in medical equipment, $5B in plastics. What will happen to people working in those industries when china retaliates for not buying their goods by not buying our goods? Do you think we just ship jobs over there and don't get any shipped here because we're stupid? And more important, why do you care about middle class Americans but not starving, literally starving, people in China? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 08:40 AM Flag
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Unskilled people need to eat but there aren't jobs for them so they have to stop having children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:48 AM Flag
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Such as? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:40 AM Flag
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Science jobs, programming jobs, biotech, etc. We hire foreigners for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:49 AM Flag
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"Let them eat cake"! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:41 AM Flag
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You don't have skills, evolution has culled you out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:50 AM Flag
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Do you know what happened to the speaker of that quote? People are not going to just roll over and die because you deem them unworthy of basic human dignity. Remember our armed forces and police forces are mostly populated by unskilled men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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So let there be those who support themselves through military service, menial labor, small business, whatever. If you're culled, you're culled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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I think you missed my point entirely. Keep feeling superior and secure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Can we at least have a living wage? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 06:18 AM Flag
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Sure. Don't take jobs that are not "living wage." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 09:23 AM Flag
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I think the internet is part of the problem [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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How so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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Every nut job is finding each other and making things more difficult. It's also a time waster. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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This is happening on this very thread right now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:37 AM Flag
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exactly. we could be changing the world for the better but we are sitting here. lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:10 AM Flag
[ - ] What is pay/QOL/hours like as an attorney outside of NY? Considering moving OOS rather than looking for a different job here 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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It's a big country so you can't answer this question definitively. Assuming you're working in NYC big law, you'll probably do much better on a COL and life style adjusted basis in major Sun Belt cities like Dallas and Atlanta. [ Reply | More ]
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why do folks believe this stuff? the longest hours my sis ever worked was for a mid-sized company in rural wisconsin. every lawyer i know in a firm in midwest still has billable hours [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:18 AM Flag
[ - ] How do you stop apologizing so much? I tend to say sorry a lot, even for things that are not my fault. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:51 AM Flag
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why should you always be sorry. be more confident in yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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She's probably a nice person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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Stop listening to amy shumer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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I am you. Today I spent an entire day with someone who apologizes a lot and it's so annoying! Please carry yourself with confidence! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:06 AM Flag
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FWIW, in some culture, saying "i'm sorry" is simply an expression of empathy and does not imply responsibility [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:19 AM Flag
[ - ] Please teach me the art of mingling. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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This is hard for me to. I look for people who generally stay put in one spot, figuring that they aren't so comfortable either. I'll introduce myself and ask them how they know the host of the party, or how long they've been in their field if it's a networking event. Unless they are really socially inept the conversation usually gets rolling pretty easily. I'll also introduce them to other guests they don't know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:00 AM Flag
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I think I am socially inept. I sweat a lot when I am nervous too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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Are you socially inept or an introvert? There is a difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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Socially inept. I might be insecure as well [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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You are the OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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It's innate. You either like people and socializing or you don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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I like socializing. I am just not good at it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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That's innate, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:38 AM Flag
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Smile, laugh and ask questions until you get comfortable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 05:12 AM Flag
[ - ] Ex DH wants DD (6) to be the flower girl in his wedding. We aren't on great terms, as he married the OW. I don't want her to be in this wedding. I know it's so selfish, but it makes me want to throw up. What do I do? 61 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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I feel you. But it's about your DD. If she wants to do it, you have to let it happen. But fuck them and I hope it rains and she spills red wine on her dress. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Bingo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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I'd say no. Does she want to do it? Who will care for her at the wedding? I'd say no. Ex is going to be preoccupied and they want her for a set dressing. No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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Not sure this is a choice. Won't he just have wedding on his time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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So, poison the target- say all these horrible things to DD doesnt want to do it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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np: When did you cease being human? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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So how often have you been dumped. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 11:23 AM Flag
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I would imagine he'll have family at the wedding to care for her, or hire a baby sitter. np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Grandma will watch her. - OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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Maybe she'll get nervous and barf on the bride. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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DD, not Grandma, though that would work, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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I would not allow this to happen. This send the wrong message to dd that this situation is okay and it is not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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+1 this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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Are you even divorced? This is not really up to her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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That's going to be her stepmother, shitty as that may be for OP. Don't start off on wrong foot. Let DD do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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Obviously. But taking the high road isn't a UB specialty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 11:23 AM Flag
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I agree. Even if DD protests. She will understand later on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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Or dad and the new bitch will be happily married forever and it will be great in the long-run for DD. she should go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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We need more info. For all we know, OP and DH have been separated for 7 yrs and had a 1 month marriage when she declared she was pregnant after saying she was sterile. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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We were married 4, divorced 2 years ago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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This isn't me. We were married 8 years and divorced 2. - OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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This isn't something OP can prevent. Countless women have tried to stop this kind of thing in family court, but if the wedding takes place during DH's scheduled visitation, the DC can't be prevented from attending or participating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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"Countless women have tried to stop this kind of thing" what the fuck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 11:24 AM Flag
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That's childish. The ex-DH and the OW both suck, but it's up to her to be the grown-up. Honestly, her dd is not going to look back and think, "Thank God my awesome mom forbid me from being in my father's second wedding, it was important for her to make sure I knew at the age of 6 that my dad and his wife were assholes." She will, however, look back and think, "My mom was classy to allow that even though my dad is kind of an asshole." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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+10000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:14 AM Flag
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you are not being selfish at all. totally understandable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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How long since your separation is the wedding planned? What is the custody arrangement? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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We have been divorced 2 years (it was a quick process). It's 50/50, we live close to eachother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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You just get through it. My ex got married 2 months ago, our dd was her MOH. Ex promised her a car in order to get her to do it. I was not invited. I told her to get the car and do it, there is nothing helpful by being hostile. It pissed me off, but she did it, I'm glad she did because it would not have been helpful to do much else. We're still waiting for the car to materialize, though, so good luck to my Ex with his relationship with our daughter if he trotted her out like an endorsement without the payoff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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And guess who will probably have to get your DD a car now, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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Sorry, but you have no choice. My son was ring bearer in his dad's wedding. Sucked for me. He loved it. He has a great stepmother. It's all good in the end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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Don't fuck DD over by involving her in your issues with DH. Huge mistake. Will be awful for her, and she'll think you're a bitch 40 years from now. Let her if she wants to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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Yeah and those wedding pictures will last forever. If she's not in them, op will look like a vindictive fool until the end of time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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And that would be accurate if that's how it plays out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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I think you need to let her do it. I understand why you feel absolutely sick about it though. I am sorry, but for your dd's sake say yes. I am sure she is conflicted enough about it already. How old is she? I would suggest trying to reason with your dh and explain how you feel and that you would prefer she not, but something makes me think he is not capable of that level of sensitivity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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I'm going to suggest a compromise. This situation blows bTW and I'm sorry OP. Let DD walk down the aisle as flower girl, pose in formal pictures. But that's it. No reception. Just say she's too young. That way you look like you are playing nice, but you still get a little FU in there. Have your sister or a close friend pick her up after ceremony. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:50 AM Flag
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I like this - OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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Yes, no reception -- for absolutely no reason -- would absolutely make op look reasonable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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She's too young. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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Bullshit. You just want an excuse. If it were your sister getting married, dd would be at the reception. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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Yeah- I'm trying to give op a way to get a little zing in there. This sucks for her and she has to play along. She can take a little control back for herself this way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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No, she'll just look like a bitch. That's the thing about doing bitchy things: tends to make a person look like a bitch. She should do the right thing for dd. Besides, anything else will tell ex dh she still has a thing for him. Better to let dd enjoy as much as she wants to, get points for doing the right thing, and she she's moved on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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That's just setting up a destructive cycle. Then the new wife has to find a way to be a bitch right back and it goes on and on. I'm not saying OW isn't in the wrong, but I guarantee you ex-DH has fed her stories about how cold and mean OP is and how HAAAAARD it was being married to her, blah blah blah. Don't turn this into a power struggle. OP will be happier if she can move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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You tell him that your daughter is not going to be a flower girl at the wedding of a woman that broke her family. Period. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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Yes, great idea- use your child like a pawn to get back at DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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So what, he's using his daughter to flatter his floozie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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That doesn't mean op should stoop to his level. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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You can't do this if wedding is on his time. You don't get that this is not way world works. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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Let her do it, but let him handle everything- DD's clothes, shoes, hair [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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Mos def!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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np: Then OP will complain if OW does DD's hair, lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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Let her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:06 AM Flag
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I think you have to let her do it, because he has probably talked it up, but I just want to say you have every right to hate it and it is in awful taste on your ex-DH's part. The fact that they are having a formal wedding given the circumstances is extremely tacky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:08 AM Flag
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Didn't we have this same post a while back only it was supposedly from the OW's perspective? I smell a rat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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LOL. You would be right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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??? We've had both about 150 times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:05 AM Flag
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Don't worry about the message. What she will remember is she wasn't at her father's wedding, or wasn't in it though she was asked. She won't remember that you 'condoned' it. And don't use this as an FU to him. It's only your DD that matters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:12 AM Flag
[ - ] What is ur twitter name 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Never been on it. [ Reply | More ]
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What does ur mean? [ Reply | More ]
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urbanbaby [ Reply | More ]
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Dang, I thought that was UB! [ Reply | More ]
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it is. somebody's trolling. Ur is you're. [ Reply | More ]
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@saladmom [ Reply | More ]
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@finebaum [ Reply | More ]
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@24and1 [ Reply | More ]
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@fatcow [ Reply | More ]
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I initially set up one in my real name, then decided it was a really bad idea. Then I set up a sham one. I read only on that one. Twitter is a fucking trap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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how so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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My first name and last initial. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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What am I, a loser? I draw the line at UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:05 AM Flag
[ - ] WTF. My dog is freaking out like something is about to happen, but I am looking on weather.com and there are no storms coming. He is shaking and hiding. 9:25pm EST 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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gas? earthquake? [ Reply | More ]
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Tsunami? [ Reply | More ]
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intruder? [ Reply | More ]
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Ghosts [ Reply | More ]
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He seems dumb. [ Reply | More ]
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Hypothermia? [ Reply | More ]
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OP all of these, I don't know .. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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Most likely tsunami. Only advice is to run inland as fast as you can. [ Reply | More ]
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He smells coyotes [ Reply | More ]
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Dogs usually know when something is up. Are we do for a eclipse? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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No, I only use the treadmill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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Maybe he's sick. [ Reply | More ]
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Where are you? [ Reply | More ]
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Hot air balloon? [ Reply | More ]
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Blue moon tonight [ Reply | More ]
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Mice. [ Reply | More ]
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Full moon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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He's had it with your shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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He's been taking acting classes while you're at work. He has an audition tomorrow and he's nervous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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cute [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 04:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Oh gimme a break. Now they got Jennifer Garner in hospitals to make her look like the Saint. Yes, if it's true he cheated, then we know but don't use kids for your own positive publicity to make your crap ass husband pay. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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Ben Aflac is a buttface! I can't believe she married that guy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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Sure you do :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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Thanks lawyer mom! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:34 AM Flag
[ - ] How do you get rid of a mom from a mom group? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:15 AM Flag
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Lure her out of the group and tempt her with nubile young men [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:18 AM Flag
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+1 would love it if my girlfriends got me some nubile young men. I would let them explore my body... I would give my body over to them to do with as they please... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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That's a hard one. When it became really bad in groups where I was, we just started new secret groups with different titles, and just stopped posting on the original one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:19 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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Arsenic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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UES Mommas on fb is the worst [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:21 AM Flag
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Nobody will approve me to join that group. So annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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This made me laugh. They can't let too many women in, obviously. That would ruin their exclusive cachet .. on FACEBOOK. LOL Just start a group of your own as an admin and add a few of your friends and have it also be by referral only. God damn women are such bitches [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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We had a book group with world's most annoying mom. We did slow drift and started again on our own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.01.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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How was she annoying? What did she do? [ Reply | More ]
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