• Filter the conversation
[ - ] Anybody been to Orlando (to visit Universal/Disney ) recenty? Just got here, will spend a day doing Harry Potter stuff with 12 year okd, then have4 days at Disney. Any tips/advice appreciated!! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:10 AM Flag
»
4 at Disney is a lot for kid that age. 2 at Universal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:14 AM Flag
»
Did you book any fast passes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:26 AM Flag
»
Check what is happening at Epcot - 12 year old might like it better than magic kingdom. The round the world food is fun (don't know when they do that though) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:37 AM Flag
»
You just got there and want advice? Too late. Should have planned before you leave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:02 AM Flag
»
Wow [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:11 AM Flag
»
You need park to park tickets to see diagon alley and hogsmeade and ride the Harry Potter train ride. They are in 2 different parks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Any real estate moms on? Thinking of bidding on a vacation condo. Listed at 370k. Closest comps for similar size and location are 299 to 325k but the place I like has much nicer finishes, been fully upgraded with high end kitchen, includes furnishings etc. What would your opening bid be? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:05 AM Flag
»
I have no idea [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:50 AM Flag
»
Hope you want to keep it for a long, long, time because that high above comps will lose you money. I don't care how nice the finishes are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:24 AM Flag
[ - ] I just went to WF and asked a black woman in produce if she can tell which watermelon is the ripest. She was all like "Why are you asking ME?" "Well I can never pick a good watermelon, but some people can, for example my mother always can." "So you think I can pick a good watermelon?" "Yes, PICK A WATERMELON FOR ME PLEASE" And so she did. I could tell she was very confused and conflicted. It was awesome. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:57 AM Flag
»
did she pick a winner? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:57 AM Flag
»
I don't know I did not buy it, I bought a fruit tray instead [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:58 AM Flag
»
You're a funny lady. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:59 AM Flag
»
If by funny you mean mentally ill and unmedicated [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:03 AM Flag
»
Just slap the watermelon and if it makes a nice hollow sound it was ripe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:58 AM Flag
»
Np: knock on it, don't slap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:17 AM Flag
»
Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:36 AM Flag
»
+1 - dont understand why more people don't know this- a ripe watermelon has different acoustics than one that isn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:44 AM Flag
»
no. she just thought you were stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:19 AM Flag
»
This. And was trying to wrap up the conversation with the crazy woman who was bothering her in the fruit aisle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:02 AM Flag
»
You are disturbed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:09 AM Flag
»
Lol, was she your little watermelon picker slave? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:16 AM Flag
»
LOL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:19 AM Flag
»
Loll, niggers should be deported to arfica [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 04:31 AM Flag
»
And people who lack the education to spell correctly should be deported to Alabama [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:06 PM Flag
»
This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:39 PM Flag
»
Flagged. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:44 AM Flag
»
Is there any fried chicken in this story? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 07:55 AM Flag
[ - ] I STILL HATE SUMMER. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:57 AM Flag
»
Anyone with me tonight? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:02 AM Flag
»
Summer is great if you have a pool, AC and a cold cocktail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:12 AM Flag
»
Love summer food [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:31 AM Flag
»
Me too. I can't wait until fall. Usually I'd escape up to San Francisco to escape the weather, but the homeless are getting to hostile and aggressive for me to enjoy it there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:36 AM Flag
»
Come to Marin/Sonoma. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 07:55 AM Flag
»
ITA, so happy it's almost over [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:07 PM Flag
[ - ] look, you seem angry and stupid. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:53 AM Flag
»
? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:54 AM Flag
»
Are you talking to ME? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 07:56 AM Flag
[ - ] Ex dh got remarried 1 year later and according to instagram they just closed on a house today in Jersey City. sigh. 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:49 AM Flag
»
I hate social media. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:50 AM Flag
»
Sorry :( but there's a reason he's your ex right?!? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:52 AM Flag
»
yeah, he was a cheating sex addict. So.... good point! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:53 AM Flag
»
How long were you married? How did you find out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:55 AM Flag
»
sorry to hear but likely will cheat on her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:56 AM Flag
»
yeah, sometimes I wonder that! She went to Harvard and seems nice. I wonder if she tolerates his... proclivities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:57 AM Flag
»
3 years, I found out because I suspected something and then put a keylogger on his laptop and phone. It was horrible, he was spending thousands a month on "nonpros" from craigslist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:56 AM Flag
»
Ugh - thank god he is the ex husband- NEXT! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:00 AM Flag
»
yup! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:04 AM Flag
»
Nonpros? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:10 AM Flag
»
+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:44 AM Flag
»
They're escorts/prostitutes who market themselves as "not an escort" or a "nonprofessional" ... kinda girl next door vibe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:10 AM Flag
»
Craigslist allows this? Wow [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:38 AM Flag
»
What's a key logger? Why did you suspect? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:26 AM Flag
»
np. it's a program that records whatever you typed on the keyboard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:29 AM Flag
»
And will continue to be a cheating sex addict. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:57 AM Flag
»
thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:11 AM Flag
»
Unfollow and block. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:05 AM Flag
»
I normally don't check and don't think about them, just every few months if I am having a rough day I will give in and take a peak. :-/ You are right though! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:07 AM Flag
»
Yea, unfollow and block immediately. You don't need to see what he's up to... Who cares?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:09 AM Flag
»
Sounds like no kids with him, right? If so move on forever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:20 AM Flag
»
nope! Phew. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:11 AM Flag
»
Jersey City. You dodged a bullet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:21 AM Flag
»
haha... thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:11 AM Flag
»
This x1000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:08 PM Flag
»
And? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:15 AM Flag
»
I am your ex-dh's wife 10 years down the road. Trust me, she's got great heartache in store for her, and you'll be glad to have missed it. One year (and an intervening marriage later) is not enough time for him to have changed (assuming he even tried, which he probably didn't). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 07:02 AM Flag
[ - ] TMI, but how would you react if you were fooling around in bed with DH, and he told you to lay face-down so that he could give you "a surprise"... and the surprise was a thermometer up the bum? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:49 AM Flag
»
Were you having a hot flash? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:50 AM Flag
»
Assume there's no medical reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:21 AM Flag
»
Hot flashes aren't medical, they are a normal part of life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:59 AM Flag
»
wtf [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:54 AM Flag
»
Funny guy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:57 AM Flag
»
I could only wish my do was this creative [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:00 AM Flag
»
Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:06 AM Flag
»
Flagged. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:44 AM Flag
[ - ] I moved to a new place and the common areas are presentable. The home office and master bedroom are not. I am hosting a play date tomorrow and DH thinks that in the US it is considered rude to refuse when a guest asks for a tour of the house. I am European and I never heard of some guest trying to see my bedroom. If the mom wants to see I will either refuse or make up an excuse. Wdyt? Who is right? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:48 AM Flag
»
It's highly unlikely that the mom will ask to see your bedroom. Over the years I've hosted/been on many playdates and have never been given/asked for a tour. I do think it's generational (perhaps our moms did show guests around) so DH might have memories of that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:51 AM Flag
»
What about the study/home office? Why would she want to see that? In general, if she wants a tour, all I can show her are the living room, dining room and kitchen. Maybe the kids' rooms. Would she be satisfied with that? In fact, I don't even want to show her anything. It's a drop off date and the kid in not some infant where she would have to check if I child proofed everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:56 AM Flag
»
I doubt she'll ask to see anything (it would be weird, IMO, to say "can I look around". I generally invite people in (living room etc) just so we aren't standing at the door etc. It would be rude for her to ask to see something more [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:15 AM Flag
»
you are correct [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:52 AM Flag
»
Doubt anyone would ask. I know I would never ask for a tour. If so just say it's a mess and off limits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:54 AM Flag
»
I agree about asking for a tour. I think that is rude. If the host wants to give a tour, they will offer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:58 AM Flag
»
+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:00 AM Flag
»
I feel so badly. I just had a fight with my 9 year old DS because he wanted to watch TV and not go to bed. I got upset with him. He yelled back at me. I am not happy- he needs to get to bed earlier ( he 's a growing kid and needs to sleep). But, I feel badly about the fight! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:07 AM Flag
»
Oops- that was supposed to be a new post!!! How did that happen?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:08 AM Flag
»
I've done it before, too. :) you shouldn't feel bad - they do need to get enough sleep and it's late (I have a 9 yo son, too). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:28 AM Flag
»
The reason my DH is concerned, I think, is because some woman who wants to do our closets (carpenter for walk in closets) asked to see our house and before he knew it, she was all over the place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:00 AM Flag
»
OK, that's different (business/professional context). She may have been agressive and probably wanted to do more work so she wasn't beingnosy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:22 AM Flag
»
this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:28 PM Flag
»
I live in a very nice apartment and only my closest friends have seen my bedroom. Have never had a play date ask. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:07 AM Flag
»
Well, la-dee-da to you in your very nice apartment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:11 AM Flag
»
Np: if someone has a nice home, I'd like to see it but only if they offered and woud never think it included the master b/r. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:30 AM Flag
»
If it does happen, just show the rooms you are comfortable with. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do in your own home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:46 AM Flag
»
It's common when you move to a new place for people to want a tour. I personally wouldn't refuse to show these rooms - people know you just moved, say "we haven't gotten to these rooms yet", but it's ok to pass by them. I wouldn't highlight that you're skipping them, just do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:26 AM Flag
»
Are you serious? In what culture is this ok? This woman is not my friend, our 6 year olds are friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 04:17 AM Flag
»
rude to push to tour private spaces in a home, if someone asks to see the apartment just say no or here is the public areas, the private space is is private [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:31 PM Flag
[ - ] Any finance moms or wives of finance husbands on? How did you fare post 2008 and how are you doing now? For those that lost jobs, did you stay in finance or have to reinvent yourselves? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:46 AM Flag
»
Reinvented myself, I'm a nurse now. Much happier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:48 AM Flag
»
Good for you! What was your position in finance? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:52 AM Flag
»
Roadshows on the trading floor. It was fun and fast paced, but so is nursing (I'm in the ER). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:52 AM Flag
»
Graduated bschool in 2009 and lost the job offer i had earned as an intern before even starting on it! tried again a year later and one job change later, im still hanging on. Yes HAD to reinvent and be very flexible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:17 AM Flag
»
what would be your advice for choosing a career in equity investing with longevity/flexibility ( Doing MBA - I have prior experience but probably the possibility to go private or public markets depending on preferences/serendipity/etc.) I do understand the nuances of these roles, but I want to hear from someone who is navigating and maybe thinking long -term. And to the extent it matters, thinking about politics as a woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 04:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Nice to see all the recent South Pasadena love on UB! Anyone want to say what school district and how many kids? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:46 AM Flag
»
OP: I'll start: AV, 2 kids (10, 15), SFH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:47 AM Flag
»
^and if you live I a house, apt, etc) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:47 AM Flag
»
Poly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:23 AM Flag
»
I'm the regular Pasadena mom who loves to come hang out with the friendly South Pasadena crowd. I daydream about my DD going to Westridge or Poly one day. She's only 14 months old, so I have some time! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:33 AM Flag
»
save up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:57 AM Flag
»
Seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 04:44 AM Flag
»
I had that dream but DD was waitlisted for Poly, even with great ISEEs, grades, recs, etc. Try for K if you want the high school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 04:00 AM Flag
»
I'll get flamed, but DH is going to homeschool her. He's got the brains and background to do it well, and then when she's high school age we'll give her the option to keeping homeschooling or enroll in school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 04:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Major fight with husband here and could use some advice. We have been together or 12 years and have 6 year old ds with mild SN. Issues include, lots of money and career stress, he states I am aggressive and angry a lot, I think he is checked out completely, not affcionate anymore, etc. I feel he is just with me for DS. Our fight was an ongoing one about clutter- basically he collects things- lots of books etc. they are in piles around the house and growing- it drives me crazy. Essentially I feel like, Our apartment is a dumping ground- it is also not decorated, etc. we moved in when DS was born and have still not gotten around to it. I would like a home- but we can't get on the same page. He stated tonight he keeps his things or he will move out. Other issues include him overriding me with ds, he is the fun one, sugar all day, toys etc. so I am the bad one- disciplinarian, etc. essentially, I feel like he doesn't respect me anymore. Any hope for us? Suggestions or advice? Marriages that have come back? It is sad we had a wonderful marriage at one point- now horrible and I feel stuck, not a lot if money and not sure it would be better bring solo divorced in NYC at 46...., 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:44 AM Flag
»
To much info. Break it Down... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:47 AM Flag
»
Np: financial stress is the worst. Maybe move the hell out of the city where life is more affordable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:52 AM Flag
»
We would but both in creative fields-hard to be other places. Thinking of options though... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:56 AM Flag
»
Try counseling. Sounds like a breakdown in communication. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:59 AM Flag
»
+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:48 AM Flag
»
Don't divorce. Work it out and suck it up. Find a way to be happy without him. But stay together [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:59 AM Flag
»
No: my DH went through this. Things have gotten better. You guys will be ok. It takes work, but you can do it. He's checked out because he's stressed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:01 AM Flag
»
Op: thanks- does anyone know any good marriage counselors? Or have any other suggestions? I agree our communication has evaporated... This is so sad though- and we feel stuck. No fun, lots of work, house but inviting, etc. he can't be with me for more then a minute without whipping out his phone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:04 AM Flag
»
Sorry OP. Guessing issues with DC are major source of stress,hoping things turnaround for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:02 AM Flag
»
Op: they are for sure- hope to turn things around- therapy maybe [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:08 AM Flag
»
How about a storage unit for stuff that he wants to keep but doesn't use? Re your kid, tell him you would like to be a united front. So pick handful of recurring issues w her and discuss what the discipline should be so you can both execute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:22 AM Flag
»
Thanks- going to work on this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:24 AM Flag
»
What is holding you back from decorating? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:45 AM Flag
[ - ] What age would your kids have to be for you to leave them alone for a minute or two on a public beach while you visit the bathrooms? (Think Hamptons or Cape Cod, not a city beach.) At what age would feel comfortable reading a book at the beach while keeping an eye on the kids? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:38 AM Flag
»
it's a funny question because my mom would say 3 and i would say 9/10. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:42 AM Flag
»
^^^city beach [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:42 AM Flag
»
partially depends on maturity level of kid, but 8/9. Reading a book while kids play right near you or are in the water? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:44 AM Flag
»
You are right. It matters whether then are playing in the sand or in the water. I'm basically trying to figure out when things will get easier. I have left my kids (5 & 8) playing on the beach while I ran to the bathroom. Timed myself-it took exactly 1 minute. I haven't tried reading on the beach yet because I get really absorbed in what I'm reading, but I see everyone else doing it and am looking forward to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:49 AM Flag
»
OR- mine are 3 & 5, so we are far from solo playing in the water for a long time. In terms of right next to them on the beach, right now we are trying but can't imagine that happening for quite some time (constant whining at each other, wanting more water etc) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:59 AM Flag
»
Do you not have lifeguards? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:09 AM Flag
»
8 for the first question, 5 for the second question [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:43 AM Flag
»
Really depends on the beach... If not crowded and the bathroom was close 8. Reading a book depends on how well they swim. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:43 AM Flag
»
Assuming lifeguards are on this beach? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:09 AM Flag
»
I never trust that anyone is watching my kids in the water the way that I am. They have too many people to survey and they don't have nearly as much to lose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:25 AM Flag
»
Really depends on swimming ability.,, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:03 AM Flag
»
I'd pee in the ocean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:10 AM Flag
»
Considering the bathroom is usually far away from where you are sitting, probably 9 or 10, though depends on the kid. Half assed watching the kid? 8 or 9 and only if they can swim. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:24 AM Flag
»
On the beach (and you can trust them not to go in the water?), 8 - 10. In he water, 13+, with friends, assuming there's a lifeguard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:29 AM Flag
[ - ] i know there's no real answer to this but (asking on behalf of a df) once ovarian has spread to the liver, how long might this woman have left to live? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:35 AM Flag
»
So sorry to hear this. In the 2-3 similar cases I know of (not ovarian cancer, but other cancers that spread to liver) was 8 months give or take. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:39 AM Flag
»
I am sorry. Stay positive... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:49 AM Flag
»
Less than a year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:09 AM Flag
»
+1. Happened to my relative and she was dead within 3 months. So sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:23 AM Flag
»
6 months or less [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:13 PM Flag
[ - ] What are the main differences between Judaism and Christianity? Jesus was not the messiah and abstain from pig are the only things I know. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:19 AM Flag
»
Christianity is not an amoral religion of pure evil [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:32 AM Flag
»
Ouch. Either is Judaism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:53 AM Flag
»
Jews don't believe in eternal life. Jews seem to value social justice more. Not sure why. Christians are more about compassion. Not empowerment. But that's cultural. Not a religious difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Not the first time a TSA has done this either. Where the hell are their supervisors? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:19 AM Flag
»
»
It is bad enough they are annoying and incompetent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:20 AM Flag
»
Right?! Women matter! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:42 AM Flag
»
How can he face only one year in prison? Women matter! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:21 AM Flag
»
He was on the job for 13 years but his mom is 40-something? Hmm.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:24 AM Flag
»
I think the suspect was 40, not the mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:26 AM Flag
»
Or. You are right. I am dead-tired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:43 AM Flag
»
A lot of holes in that report. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Moms with small kids- how often do you go out and meet a friend for drinks in the evening? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:11 AM Flag
»
Never [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:12 AM Flag
»
um. never [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:13 AM Flag
»
Hardly ever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:18 AM Flag
»
About twice a month, not including book club once a month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:18 AM Flag
»
Me too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:13 AM Flag
»
rarely one friend at a time, but generally have get together with a group of girls every 3-4 weeks (book clubs, other gatherings) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:18 AM Flag
»
op: If never, why not? Just no desire, or too busy/tired with the kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:20 AM Flag
»
Every other week or so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:30 AM Flag
»
Here's another perspective: when DCs were little I went out all the time- maybe 2-3 times/week. I had a a rota of babysitters + a nanny happy to stay for extra cash. Now my kids are older teens 15 and 17, it is impossible to go out during the school year. I never go out. And I mean never, unless there is a school break. They need a lot of interaction from me in the evenings when they get home- not help per se- but just someone to vent to if they need it, or someone to give them advice, or they're not sure how to proceed on something, or they need someone to quiz them for an upcoming test. The list goes on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:30 AM Flag
»
Ok I'll confess (for everyone): no friends to drink with. Work circle has collapsed and have apparently not infiltrated the moms-who-drink league . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:32 AM Flag
»
All the time, but not as often as when i was pg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:34 AM Flag
»
Every few months. I'd rather be at home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:43 AM Flag
»
Once every couple weeks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:26 AM Flag
»
1-2 times per week [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:52 AM Flag
»
A few times a year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:08 AM Flag
[ - ] Who here has the shittiest life? I will start: borderline, hate myself, everything hurts. You? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:51 AM Flag
»
D.I.D. same [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:55 AM Flag
»
Tell me more, please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:59 AM Flag
»
I'm not a circus act. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 05:19 AM Flag
»
My husband sucks. We have little $ and live in crappy one bedroom. Don't like my job. But these are all minor problems in overall scheme [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:56 AM Flag
»
Why does your husband suck? Do you have kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:02 AM Flag
»
God made him that way? Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:12 AM Flag
»
Np. A classic narcissist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:44 AM Flag
»
Are you diagnosed as BPD, that's a tough one to overcome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:56 AM Flag
»
Yes diagnosed and trying to find the right meds so if anyone has please tell me what they are!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:28 AM Flag
»
I highly doubt UB is the place to find shitty lives. People with actual shitty lives don't have computers, internet access, or sufficient literacy to respond. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:57 AM Flag
»
But they might be happy if they don't know the difference! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:07 AM Flag
»
Not having a computer doesn't mean shitty life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:28 AM Flag
»
Poor. No skills. No retirement. Have been suicidal throughout my life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:08 AM Flag
»
:( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:41 AM Flag
»
Here is a story. My sister in law is drop dead gorgeous, has a rich husband, and amazing kids. She is funny, the life of the party, and just an amazing woman. She is everything I want EXCEPT she has a hangnail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:28 AM Flag
»
So? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:46 AM Flag
»
That's me, except the hangnail part. Gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:00 AM Flag
»
^^np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:00 AM Flag
»
I'm 100lbs overweight, dh is wonderful but we are brokeish and live in a crappy 2br. Have a sweet dog and love dh though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:38 AM Flag
»
Eh, doesn't sound too bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:28 AM Flag
»
Look, unless you are some 12-year-old in a slave warehouse in ISIS, you're doing OK. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone who has used one of the online house painting tools/visualizers? how accurate are they? Picked out a bunch of paint swatches and the ones I thought I'd like don't look right but all these others (from the tool look far better). FWIW, painting a front door 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:50 AM Flag
»
I've done it twice and it's never worked out. I just always buy the actual samples, paint them on, and then live with them for a few days. Check them out in all different lights. It's the only way that's ever worked for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:20 AM Flag
»
Thanks...Had a feeling this was the case, trying to narrow the field down [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:26 AM Flag
[ - ] $1375 For these Laurence Dacade boots. Worth it? Will they last multiple seasons? Link below. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 12:47 AM Flag
»
»
I feel like the studs are too trendy to last through multiple seasons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:12 AM Flag
»
so awful, too trendy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 01:43 AM Flag
»
I don't like them AND I would never spend that much on a boot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 02:28 AM Flag
»
Yuck [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 03:31 AM Flag
»
They look diseased. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.15, 11:43 AM Flag
Refresh » New Post »
close [X]

close [X]

Select a Category (only 1)

category
Stages
Regions