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[ - ] I seriously think the SAHM hater and the Anti-Black tourettes syndrome person are the same poster. They do the SAHM stuff during the day, then at night, witching hour, and they start the N word. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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Agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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It's safer to stick to the SAHM stuff during the day when the moderator is around. (presumably). Then at night it's just non-stop N words. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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Funny, I think the aspiring sahm / grad student is the same as the anti-black tourettes poster, and have wondered whether she posts the anti-sahm stuff to ignite flames from the other side (she self-describes as adopting different personas and wanting to spark debate, so...). I think when she doesn't get enough attention (as shown through most popular box) during the day, she punishes ub with her filthy racist spam. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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I totally disagree. "She" is a recent appearance. The Tourettes poster has been around too long. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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S/he's been around a long time too - she just adopts different personas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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I reject that poster is a woman. Her idea of motherhood is just too flat to be female. "She" answers every question with a question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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I've wondered, but I think she's just really damaged and divorced from reality. Also ocd and a ton of other things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:32 AM Flag
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I think the nazi anti-aa tourette poster is a teenage boy from NJ. He always posts when school is out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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NIGGERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:33 AM Flag
[ - ] After nearly two difficult years of struggle, stress, etc I finally overcame a big issue in our lives and with a great outcome. So now, instead of being grateful for all the free time I suddenly have, I'm convinced I have cancer of several organs/body parts and that my DH is going to die and leave me broke and alone in raising willful DC. On that note, goodnight ladies!!! 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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Why would your dh die if you're the one with cancer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:06 AM Flag
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This is like a riddle [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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a father and son are in a horrible car crash that kills the dad. The son is rushed to the hospital; just as he’s about to go under the knife, the surgeon says, “I can’t operate—that boy is my son!” Explain. (Cue the final Jeopardy! music.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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Dr is the mother [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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boy has 2 mommies and the "dad" was actually the femme surgeon's butch wife. car crash mangled the lower body so they mistook her for a man [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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Ily [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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Doesn't really work anymore now that gay marriage and adoption are more and more common. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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Hi me! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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oo boy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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OMG. You are so me. After I get a clean mammogram and breathe a sigh of relief, exactly 5 minutes later I tell myself to stop being to relieved, I probably have ovarian cancer or some rare cancer they can't screen for [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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Congrats!!! Yeah adrenalin hangover is a bitch... 3+ months before your life will feel normal again [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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this. you can finally "relax" and let yourself worry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:32 AM Flag
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PTSD [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:41 AM Flag
[ - ] My f/t nanny got called in for Jury Duty. What are my options? Can I ask her to request a postponement or be excused (given she's a primary caregiver to my child?) It's my understanding that if you're the primary caretaker of a child/minor, that's a valid reason to be excused/postponed. I want to be fair and not penalize her for jury duty but how do you handle things if she has to attend for say... 2 weeks? That's going to be very costly for me if I have to pay two wks salary for both her and the replacement who would fill in. 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 04.01.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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It's her civic duty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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I think the postponement is granted when she is the primary caregiver for her own kids not yours, but I'm not sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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Lol! I'm so going to watch this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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you don't have to pay her if she can't come to work. she would lose her job, so doing jury duty would be an economic hardship for her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:06 AM Flag
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The court will give her some very small daily compensation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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I can't stop laughing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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Truly amazing. Isn't it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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LOL, they mean parents or guardians, not their employees [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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Yes, she should be able to get off as a caregiver for children. She doesn't need to identify herself as a nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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You guys are unbelievable. Op. You take a week of, then dh take a week off. Call family to help [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:14 AM Flag
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A whole week off? Some of us have jobs that are not fake jobs, you know [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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You don't get VACATION TIME? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:33 AM Flag
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WHo wants to use their vacation time for that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 03:03 AM Flag
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You have to show a copy of the birth certificate [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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Jury duty is for fools. Or not fools who feel like getting out of work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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+1 never served more than 1 day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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Haha just wait til the Grand Jury gets you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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Setting everything else aside, I don't understand how people don't have back-up plans? Back-up daycare, work from home, family, etc? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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Work from home? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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Doesn't work for everyone. What if OP is a doctor? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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Then she's smart enough to have had emergency back up. Do you guys not understand that your nannies a're human? They get sick, have doctors appointment, and have jury duty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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It is not so easy to get back up. Most other nannies or caregivers are not sitting around waiting for an emergency to happen so they can work one day every few months. Also, I have no family nearby and I have a difficult commute to work and 9mo old twins which I would not bring all the way downtown on subway just to go to bright horizons. More difficult than it seems [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:35 AM Flag
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Where's your dh in all of this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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We both WOH full time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:43 AM Flag
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OK, and? Perhaps for 2 weeks the two of you could navigate the extremely difficult subway commute downtown together? Or take turns WAH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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Not so say to WAH with 9mo twins [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:51 AM Flag
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So what are you going to do when your nanny is sick? Or quits? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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One of us will stay home if she is sick [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:44 AM Flag
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Well there you go. I guess you'll have to stay home if the nanny has jury duty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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then give her instructions that she knows 5-10 police officers, thinks all accused are guilty and deserve the firing squad, etc, etc., so she only has to serve the 2 days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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This is the problem with hiring on the books! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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It seems that OP considers her nanny to be more of a primary caregiver than she is to her own kids... OP, please tell me that your just trying a novel approach to starting a SAHM / WOHM argument! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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Typically you can get a postponement once, but then you have to do it the second time they call you, no matter how inconvenient, so you better think twice before you ask her to postpone. There is absolutely no way a nanny will be excused, unless she is not a U.S. citizen, in which case she will get immediately dismissed. Signed, lawyer mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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Np not true. My nanny said she would lose her job (untrue and I never told her to!) and they let her leave [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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But they will call her again [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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It is illegal to fire somebody for doing jury duty, so I suspect something else was going on as to why they did not want her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:37 AM Flag
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NP: they will sometimes let you schedule it when you postpone. OP, if there's a specific time when it would be easier for you to do backup care you could ask her to try to postpone to that date but (1) do not make her use vacation time and (2) realize all she can do is request. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:34 AM Flag
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Your option: Check DC into your employer's backup daycare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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My nanny was the foreperson on a murder trial last year. Out for 3 weeks. I had to get a temp from an agency. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:37 AM Flag
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wow [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I moved to Chicago from Manhattan 4 years ago... still don't like this place and miss NYC. But one of the things that really drives me nuts (even more than the constant winter) is that I have not been able to find one good hair stylist to give me a good cut. And I have tried 8 different ones... bad experiences, so much so that once a year I have made the trip back to get a cut with my old hairstylist in NYC. Is there no talent in Chicago when it comes to hair?? If anyone knows a truly top stylist who can give a good haircut, please tell me. Thanks. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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Have you been to Paul Rehder? My stylist just moved, but I'm going to check our Frankie, whom he recommended. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:00 AM Flag
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No, I have never tried this salon. Thanks for the tip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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If that salon doesn't work out. Save us the grief and go to super cuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:34 AM Flag
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Move back NY. Bye! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:00 AM Flag
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Oh believe me, if I could I would. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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Someone posted on here recently that she had a great cut at the Trump and wondered whether it would be unreasonable to have a hairdresser in Chicago vs NYC. But I think she traveled to Chicago frequently for work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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No. No one in Chicago can cut hair. Shoudnt you have made a friend by now to ask? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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Would you be her friend? She sucks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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Good point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:06 AM Flag
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It's you, not them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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Oh I see all the nice ones are out here tonight... no worries, I realized I would get flamed for saying what is really true... I have tried not 1, 8 places. Left the last one (nine months ago) crying because the cut was so bad... that's why I decided to just let my hair grow and when I will be able to afford it, I'll travel to NYC again where there are pros, everywhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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It's you, not them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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You're not going to like any hairstylist inn Chicago because you don't want to be there. With you move back to NY or embrace your new home. My biracial, Floridian, sil had no problems finding a hairstylist her first year in Chicago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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Constant winter here in NYC too :-( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:28 AM Flag
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I know you're struggling but fake it till you make it- don't poison ds against your new life [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:58 AM Flag
[ - ] S/O: what are the three books in each category that you think everyone should read? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:55 AM Flag
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Classics [ Reply | More ]
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Madame Bovary, Anna Karenina, Pride and Prejudice [ Reply | More ]
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The Illiad, Hamlet, Pride and Prejudice. [ Reply | More ]
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War and Peace, A Tale of Two Cities, To Kill a Mockingbird [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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Great choices, but Mockingbird fits the second category, published in 1960. [ Reply | More ]
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Crime and Punishment, Great Expectations, Jane Eyre [ Reply | More ]
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Jane eyre, catcher in the rye, the stranger [ Reply | More ]
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King James Bible (I'm not Christian, but it's the foundation of a lot of western literature), Romeo and Juliet, The Odyssey [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:38 AM Flag
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From c.1950-2000 [ Reply | More ]
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Tin Drum, Slaughter House Five, and the Bell Jar. [ Reply | More ]
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To Kill a Mockingbird, Infinite Jest, As I Lay Dying [ Reply | More ]
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Catcher in the Rye, The Bell Jar, Mrs Bridge [ Reply | More ]
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Last 15 years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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Random Family by Adrian Nicole LeBlanc [ Reply | More ]
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The Road, Atonement, A Thousand Splendid Suns [ Reply | More ]
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The Corrections, Atonement, hmm…. [ Reply | More ]
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Only three? That's rough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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OP: you can do it! (do two alternates if you must) [ Reply | More ]
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I should say, the first two categories were hard to pick just three, but the last was hard to come up with three. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: well, to be fair, it's 15 yrs vs 50 year vs millennia [ Reply | More ]
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It has made me realize I'm deficient in modern literature. I admit to being a classics snob. [ Reply | More ]
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1000 Autumns of Jacob de Zoet was amazing, but it's 2010. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Are divorced women who get child support and ex takes kids on weekends considered single moms? I don't get it 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:52 AM Flag
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Who cares what the label is? They are moms, and if they're not married, they're single, so there you go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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So what do you call those moms who actually have no one else to help with kids or any financial support? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:55 AM Flag
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Whatever they want to be called. What do I care? There are married moms with engaged spouses and lots of help and married moms who are pretty much alone. Isn't same true for single moms? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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I get the equivalent of CS, but ex rarely takes DC. Not uncommon. [ Reply | More ]
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Labels are imprecise. Get over it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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I thought its called divorced not single. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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Single includes never married, divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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Are men who troll all day men, or boys? I don't get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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I am not a man. I have 3 friends: 1 became widow when dc was 3 mo and all money is locked out in some estate for dc, 2 single moms because their long term boyfriends dumped them at 37/38 so they felt having dc was their best chance at a family. They have to truly rely solely on themselves and the 1 divorced friend I have has it much much easier. I never thought of her as single mom since she has more child free time than I do and I am married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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You are a loser to compare yourself to other people this way. You sound worse than the SAHM haters. I this what white women do all day? Walk around comparing themselves to others? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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I am not comparing myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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You are. You've defeated yourself with these thoughts. Just read what you wrote. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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So, pray, which of these ladies is interested in your opinion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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Who give a shit what you "get". I get you don't get plenty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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I get that maximizing your pity party is important to you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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I don't bother labeling myself to twats, but then, I've never much given a shit what the Cupcake Brigade thinks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:08 AM Flag
[ - ] How do people in Chicago justify or explain the Robert "Yummy" Sandifer case? This is some truly third-world horrific stuff, and yet Chicago let it happen! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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Why don't you move here and change it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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Chicago is lame... (former NYer who had to move here for work and after 5 years still can't get this place) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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Leave, bitch! Bye, we won't miss you at all. [ Reply | More ]
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Do you really think Chicago is the only place where something like that could happen? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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It's not a matter of this happening once - Chicago loses DOZENS of kids EVERY SINGLE YEAR to violence! Why is that considered acceptable over there? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My box smells like lox :( 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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BV = Flagyl. Easy peasy lemon squeezy. [ Reply | More ]
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Did you leave a tampon in it for 3 days? [ Reply | More ]
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I love lox [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Please state your IQ before I engage you further. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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What % of people actually take an IQ test? [ Reply | More ]
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My grandma did when she applied to the army in WWII. She did very well, later got accepted to med school, turned it down to get married. [ Reply | More ]
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Do you think it made its way over to you? [ Reply | More ]
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lolz [ Reply | More ]
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Profile of an SAHM hater, right there. [ Reply | More ]
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stfu [ Reply | More ]
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*smooches!* [ Reply | More ]
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You sound fat [ Reply | More ]
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149. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. Better people should realize this before rather than after DC. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You seem dumb. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not. Nice the though [ Reply | More ]
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hahahah [ Reply | More ]
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Deep [ Reply | More ]
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ok [ Reply | More ]
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ok [ Reply | More ]
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I am not cut out for it. My life is far harder since dc. I've almost left several times because I could not take the anxiety. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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I can manage to parent adequately with 1 dc (not just now but projecting into the future). But I recognize that I couldn't do nearly the job my children would deserve with two. DH agrees. Yet everyone gives me endless grief about stopping at 1. Bottom line, I know my own limitations. What I don't get is how people end up with 3 or 4 before they realize they are not really up for the task. Don't get me wrong in the good moments, I wish I could manage another. But I just can't. [ Reply | More ]
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true [ Reply | More ]
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Agree. The SAHM haters should not have children under any circumstances. [ Reply | More ]
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ITA. [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I am a single mom, and I feel like crying almost every day. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Suck it up. Your dc need you. Its fine. [ Reply | More ]
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thank you; you're so compassionate. [ Reply | More ]
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I was a single mom for years. Be grateful for what you have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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go to hell [ Reply | More ]
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You sound well adjusted. Your lucky kids...where is their dad? [ Reply | More ]
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I am too but its better than dealing with an asshole in the house every day. [ Reply | More ]
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
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it's just so very exhausting. i have like a half hour to myself [ Reply | More ]
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Single by choice? How old are the kids? [ Reply | More ]
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I can only imagine! Bless you! [ Reply | More ]
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thank you [ Reply | More ]
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Single mom as in divorced? [ Reply | More ]
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hugs [ Reply | More ]
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I feel for you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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I'm so sorry. DH and I have one and we feel exhausted, cannot imagine doing it alone. Do you have friends you can lean on for some time alone? Can you find another mom in a similar situation to couple with (platonically - or not)? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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Hi, other single (divorced) mom here... I am you. It's not easy and other people rarely understand. I have no family or close friends and have been taking care of dc basically alone since she was 2 (now 11) and it just seems to get more difficult. Hang in there. I just hope our children will appreciate us when they're older and can understand more. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh please. They owe you nothing. God, you self-absorbed martyred females. You're not splitting the atom, you're raising your own children. Stop looking for applause. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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I'm sorry, but I have no idea who you are. All I know is that you must be one unhappy person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:08 AM Flag
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I'm not the one whimpering over caring for my family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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sorry oh brave warrior mama! kudos to you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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I can see why you don't have a lot of friends and depend on a chatboard! YOWZA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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you have zero empathy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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jesus [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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a fact: not all people who are self-absorbed want to be self-absorbed. in fact, many would do anything to be rid of self. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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Widowed at 35. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:06 AM Flag
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I feel for you. I really do. And there have been times that my Dh has had to deal with major projects at work and he was basically gone for 3 months at a time -- it was beyond exhausting. I would do whatever I could to save up for a babysitter and get yourself 2 hrs alone on the weekend or whenever it fit your schedule best. Hang in there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm working on a project w a female coworker (same level as me) who I find bossy, aggressive and argumentative (pretty much her company wide rep). Today she asked me to do small task that is her responsibility - i was put on the spot and said yes - the entire thing will take me 15 mins and really not a big deal. However i am now so mad at myself that i agreed! I hate the type of person at work that wont help (in moderation) as needed on stuff slightly outside their job description (hello millenials) but i hate feeling like i let this woman boss me around. How to combat an overasker without seeming petty?! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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"I'm pretty backed up today, so sorry" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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You now report to her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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Don't worry, OP. You can reel it in. Now you're on guard, so it won't happen again. Eff that B. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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This is when I envy my eastern euro colleagues. I can hear them saying No. Or Why don't you do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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Yup. They have a way. Practice saying no in the most neutral time possible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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Tone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:08 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone here use H and R Block? How are they? or does anyone do their taxes alone? My accountant charges like $700 and I am too cheap this year. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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H & R Block is okay for a simple return. My grandmother uses them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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I have mortgage, property tax and a little capital gains tax on a 200K income. Is that simple or no? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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Yes, but I would go with turbotax [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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That is very simple. Turbotax. It's free if you have a certain type of Fidelity Investments account. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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Turbotax is great [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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always did it myself and on spreadsheet before the year was out so I could direct the numbers with corrective action while there was still time. but that said, most people aren't programmed like excel, so just do turbotax [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:00 AM Flag
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H&R Block employees are bunch of hacks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone take the BCP Microgestin? Have been taking it for about a year and hate it. Spot all month and always have cramps. Think it gives me headaches too. Anyone else have issues with it? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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I was a nauseas psychopath on microgestion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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If you Google it, you'll other people hate it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Do you take something else now you think is better? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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I quit taking BC after that. I couldn't anymore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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I loved tri levlin. Loved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:44 AM Flag
[ - ] My future dream DIL: tall, fair, sweet, loving, not at all ambitious, crafty, kindergarten teacher type with tons of family money. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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Hi that's me! Wish dh's family appreciated all or any of those things! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:54 AM Flag
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I wish you could be my DIL! I'm going to be the nicest MIL ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:55 AM Flag
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Odd, why fair, and why no ambition? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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Because I want our family blue eyes to continue, thus fair. No ambition because I want her in a supportive family role, not a ballbuster go getter (like me) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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np Wow, micromanage much? This is a little creepy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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Fair? Really? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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Buy DS a designer egg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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Not unless the egg comes with its own trust. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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Fake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Sounds like my future dream dildo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:33 AM Flag
[ - ] I love Brandy Glanville. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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She can't stand Kyle and digs at her every chance she gets. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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Hi Brandy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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I'm the wrong race to be Brandy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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She is pure trash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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I love her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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I detest her. They need to get rid of her. She is a vile human being. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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You guys are upright and think that's the issue with her and that group. They're to uptight for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:55 AM Flag
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*Too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:55 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Brandi is so low class [ Reply | More ]
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Caustic [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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Talk about a wt name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:50 AM Flag
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I love Yolo! I want her to buy all my clothes and style me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:50 AM Flag
[ - ] Is it true that niggers = garbage? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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I would argue that that is not true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
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OR: Well, at least garbage was once something useful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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OR: Well, at least garbage was once something useful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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That wasnt funny the first 30 times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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Is it true that honkys smell like wet dog? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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General Topics 04.01.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Didn't like that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:55 AM Flag
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+1 Was that dog remark a bit too much? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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niggre [ Reply | More ]
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niggre [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is a "Piddlesnout?" 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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You can probably Google it, and then hit the "I'm feeling lucky" function. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:34 AM Flag
[ - ] I overheard DS telling his friend, "I love the smell of your black dick straight out of my ass." they are both 12. Should I be concerned? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:30 AM Flag
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you posted this earlier [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.01.15, 01:30 AM Flag
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Only for yourself since you're trolling a mommy board. [ Reply | More ]
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