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[ - ] How many IUIs do we do until we move to IVF? 33 y/o now, TTC for about 10 months, unexplained infertility. One Clomid IUI cycle under our belts so far. Only got one follicle but doc said that was fine. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 05.15.13, 02:02 AM Flag
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ugh, that totally sucks. Have you done all the other crap like taking synthroid, acupuncture, chinese herbs, the other fertility med (not clomid, which thins your lining) that increases your lining, estrogen? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:04 AM Flag
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Yes to all except synthroid. Lining was good with Clomid this time around so hopefully will continue to be ok. I don't think I would do more than one more round of Clomid anyway, though, before moving to injectables. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:07 AM Flag
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well, my thyroid levels tested within the normal range, but RE still put me on them because one test came back with a spike that he said could be because my body wasn't producing enough and so my body compensating by overproducing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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NP - Clomid thins what lining?? Just finishing my second IUI cycle on clomid and had never heard of this... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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Yep, talk to your RE. It's only an issue if your lining isn't thick enough to support an embryo. That was my deal (thin lining), so I did the other med (forgot what it was called) plus estrogen pills. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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It can thin the lining of your uterus, which can negatively affect implantation. But as long as you are being monitored then I'm sure it's ok-- it's one of the things they look for when they do your ultrasound starting on day 12 (or around then). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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Good to know. They never mentioned this but I will ask to make sure I'm not hurting my chances. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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We did 6 IUIs (3 Clomid and 3 with injectables) before IVF. First IVF worked and I now have twin 10 year olds. In hindsight all those IUIs were a waste of time (for me).. but I do know women who got pregnant with IUI. I was 33/34 when going through IUIs and also unexplained infertility. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:03 AM Flag
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random question from a mom of baby twins - did you have more kids after the twins? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:15 AM Flag
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No, 2 was enough for us! :) GL deciding. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:30 PM Flag
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HOnestly, if it's unexplained I would just go to IVF. Because who knows even if an IUI is solving the problem (it's just getting the sperm closer to the goal) You have to do the injections either way, and with IVF they have much more control over the process. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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(and I did both IUI and IVF - 2 failed IUIs before a sucessful IVF. I knew my problem though - no ovulation. IVF actually started as IUI cycle and they overshot with the drugs and too many follicles so my dr converted me to IVF) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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Yeah... it's just such a toss-up, part of me hates all these drugs/hormones/etc. and thinks I should stick to the more minimally invasive stuff (such as the IUI) and just be patient, but the other part of me just wants to go right to what I know will have a much better shot of working-- the IVF. It's a tough decision, as I'm sure you know! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:15 AM Flag
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Got my 1 year old twins from it so I have been happy from it! But it is an overwhelming process.. sorry you are dealing with it. GOod luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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Thank you! Appreciate hearing about your experience. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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no problem (I am 33 now, btw, did IVF at 31 and had them at 32) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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We got lucky with the second IUI without Clomid, I was 41. I don't know but 10 months at your age could still be normal? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:15 AM Flag
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It's on the cusp... family history of endo, though, which at this point doc does not want to explore so we figured trying the IUI couldn't hurt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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Our doc wanted us to go straight to IVF, we had been trying for 1 year. I'm glad we tried IUI first. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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I went straight to IVF and got preggers first try. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 02:16 AM Flag
[ - ] The darkness of the line on the HPTs I've done is the same today (18dpo) as it was when I got my first positive (12dpo). Should I be worried? The line is definitely there, but faint. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 05.12.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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A line is a line is a line. Every test has varying amounts of dye in it, so each test has a varying degree of "darkness" that it will achieve to indicate a positive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.12.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Ask your dr to do a blood test- it's the only way you will know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.12.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.12.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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18 DPO is still pretty early. It will probably darken over the next several weeks. Also, every brand of pregnancy test is different. I had the cheap ones from Amazon. The line did darken, but it never got super dark or as dark as the test line. I was worried at the time, but it all turned out to be fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.12.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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get one of the pregnancy tests that say "pregnant" or "not pregnant" in the little window. No line interpretation needed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.12.13, 11:27 PM Flag
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The first weeks of pregnancy are very scary because you have no idea what's going on in there. All you can do is wait and see at this point. Probably best to stop testing. Remember there is no reason to think there is a problem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 12:31 AM Flag
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thank you! this is my first + ever and I keep forgetting to remember that there is more likely not a problem than a problem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:31 AM Flag
[ - ] Did anyone feel like crap about 4 days post-ovulation? I feel a bit like I'm coming down with the flu (exhausted, woozy) but I'm also irritable, emotional and my boobs are bigger. Anyone else get symptoms like this this early in your pregnancy? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.29.13, 01:33 AM Flag
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I feel that way every month :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 01:35 AM Flag
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Me too and I'm not preggers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 01:42 AM Flag
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+1, ever since first db I feel like I'm pg every cycle [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 02:14 AM Flag
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Early pg symptoms are sadly exactly the same as pre-menstrual symptoms. It's a waiting game. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 01:40 AM Flag
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Sometimes I have diaherra for days post-ovulation. One time, DH and I were sleeping and it was five days post-ovulation. Needless to say, he woke up with a few streaky streaks on his light blue boxer briefs... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 01:48 AM Flag
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You shit on your dh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 01:50 AM Flag
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I know an 8 yo you should hang out with.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 01:50 AM Flag
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lol and ewww [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 01:59 AM Flag
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I didn't mean to. We were asleep and my body decided to do its own thing. He laughed. I used to period on him all of the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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I didn't mean to. We were asleep and my body decided to do its own thing. He laughed. I used to period on him all of the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.29.13, 02:13 AM Flag
[ - ] What was the earliest/very first sign you had that you were pregnant? 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.26.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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Cramps [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:33 PM Flag
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+100000 FB felt like she was digging a hole through my uterus [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:47 PM Flag
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body/uterus feels strangely rumbly - like there is activity in there - almost immediately. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 04:10 PM Flag
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Cervix closed and was hard and 'pointy' [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:33 PM Flag
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How in the hell did you know the condition of your cervix??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:52 PM Flag
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What, you don't check the shape and texture of your cervix every day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:55 PM Flag
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op here - checking the cervix position is one of the main parts of charting when ttc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:58 PM Flag
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Oh, I got pregnant without a chart. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:56 PM Flag
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Food aversion [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:40 PM Flag
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Dry mouth/thirst [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:40 PM Flag
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Tiny pimples on my forehead, almost like a rash. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:40 PM Flag
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Sore breasts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:35 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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+2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:48 PM Flag
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+3 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 04:19 PM Flag
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the worst [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 04:31 PM Flag
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a positive hpt, 10 days after ovulation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:43 PM Flag
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Nips got darker and bigger. Towel on them after shower felt like broken glass. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:38 PM Flag
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faint pink line on pregnancy test at 10 days post ovulation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:44 PM Flag
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no other physical symptoms until more like 14-16 dpo. really, not everyone has physical symptoms -- take an early response test! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:45 PM Flag
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OP - wish I could! I'm only two days post ovulation. I suck at being patient. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:56 PM Flag
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Crazy heightened sense of smell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:43 PM Flag
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^^^ and a weird feeling in my stomach that was sort of like period cramps but not, hard to describe. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:44 PM Flag
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implantation pain [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:48 PM Flag
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extremely horny [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:43 PM Flag
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I could smell every molecule of a mixed salad someone was eating 7 feet away. Felt like my face was IN the salad bowl. Bionic sense of smell from that day on thru whole preg [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:48 PM Flag
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Four shots of Cuervo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:54 PM Flag
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with both pregnancies a week before the pregnancy test showed positive I came down with a really bad cold. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:55 PM Flag
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super sense of smell 9 days dpo. It was bizarre. next day a positive on ept 10 days dpo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:58 PM Flag
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Light-headed and exhaustion [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:58 PM Flag
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thought i had the flu [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 04:08 PM Flag
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strangely tired. and some round ligament pain [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 04:17 PM Flag
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NOT hungry AT ALL. i didn't want to eat ever. it's how i knew something was wrong lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 04:18 PM Flag
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Increased sense of smell (and I have a good sniffer) and aversion to certain smells. Also aversion to coffee. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 04:41 PM Flag
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Nausea in the AM. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 05:15 PM Flag
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For me: boobs. For dh: bit@h [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 05:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone remember experiencing lower abdominal cramping that feels like period cramps around the time of conception of db? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.26.13, 02:19 PM Flag
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I had terrible cramping right after I'd missed my period and found out I was pregnant. Couldn't have been more than a few weeks preg then (if not less). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 02:35 PM Flag
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Yes. Implantation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 02:59 PM Flag
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Yes. With one of my DC. The day after. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:03 PM Flag
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Yes, I had this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 03:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Going for IVF but can't decide whether to implant 1 or 2 embryos. The idea of twins terrifies me but then again a greater chance of success is tempting....so torn! 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.23.13, 06:34 PM Flag
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See how good the quality is first. You won't find out until transfer day. Also, what is your age, reproductive hx or dx? Makes a difference [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:35 PM Flag
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37 otherwise healthy, first IVF cycle, money is not a factor [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:42 PM Flag
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Twin mom who posted below. At 37 I think you're right to be wary of twin pregnancy. Transfer 1 if embryo quality is good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:43 PM Flag
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Another twin mom who asked the initial question. Wait until transfer day. Often people who wind up with twins transfer more than 2. I would probably transfer 2, unless they were both perfect quality. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:46 PM Flag
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Btw, I transferred 3 at 37yo and got pregnant with twins [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:47 PM Flag
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I did two and it worked but don't yet know if it's one or two (just got my +++). I was the same and didn't want to regret just doing one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:35 PM Flag
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do you have enough money to try again if first attempt isn't successful? How old? Can you doctor help you decide based on your financial circumstances and age because twins really is high risk. I know you think only about the hassle of twice as many diapers, feedings, etc, but I'm talking about gestation and birth. I've seen too many bad outcomes to ever chance twins. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:37 PM Flag
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Op: I'm in medicine and know the risk of twins but my TTC instincts seem to be overriding logic right now... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:38 PM Flag
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then I guess ask yourself, how important is it for you to try to get pregnant *this* month as opposed to next? You already know that the odds are only increased because there are two embryos of varying quality. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:00 PM Flag
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^^^ to get pregnant, not to try [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:00 PM Flag
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I love being a twin. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:35 PM Flag
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How old are you? I have IVF twins and had an easy pregnancy but I was young at the time (age 32 when they were born). You can wait and see how the embryo quality looks before deciding. Express your concern about twins to your RE, but (like everything with kids) it comes down to luck... so good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:41 PM Flag
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Op: I'm 37. thanks! We are incredibly nervous [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:42 PM Flag
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I had twins at 35 and it has been great. If you want a sibling, this may be your best route. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:35 PM Flag
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We transferred 2 but they were very high quality blastocysts (and I had 8 other high quality blastocysts to freeze, so they knew that the cycle had produced strong embryos). The embryologist who showed me the blastocyst images on the screen basically said, "Tell them you'll be seeing them again in 9 months time!" I thought that was so cute but also sort of weird/overconfident, but she was right! I think that the embryologists and REs have gotten pretty good at "knowing" the embryo odds and advising you how many to try. I had not said, "No twins!" I think if I had they would have told me one would do it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:51 PM Flag
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So you have twins? How is it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:49 PM Flag
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Pregnancy was a bit rough but I made it fullterm (38 weeks). I was on hospital bedrest for the last 3 weeks though (blood pressure issues). My body will never be the same (weight gain, twin skin). They were born very healthy (big, both over 7 lbs) and are thriving. I exclusively breastfed them. They just celebrated their 2nd birthday in February. It is crazy and chaotic and exhausting but also pretty darn amazing. I've got 2 boys so they are very high-energy, active, all over the place, barrel of monkeys. Good Luck OP, I hope you're in my shoes in 3 years time! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:05 PM Flag
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OP: good for you! That sounds exhausting but wonderful. Do you work and did you have to take an extended maternity leave? Also if you don't mind my asking did you have a c-section or a vag birth ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:08 PM Flag
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transfer both. i was 37, transferred 3 - had twins, and lost one (vanishing twin) - ds is 5yo and perfect. Regardless of $$$ why go through IVF again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:00 PM Flag
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My doc told us the quality of the eggs on transfer day. You can't decide until then. He said "would you rather have twins or none?" For us it was definitely twins. We put in 3, and now have twins. If we had said none, he would have put in one (the strongest egg) and we would likely have one today. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 06:57 PM Flag
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OP: yeah, we know that we will not know for sure until transfer day but I wanted to at least have some idea of what to do when the time came. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:00 PM Flag
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There's no way to really "compare notes" on this with other couples though. Everyone has such different situations... everything from age to embryo quality to uterine lining, hormone levels etc. Listen to and trust your RE OP! GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:09 PM Flag
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Best of luck to you, whatever you decide! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:12 PM Flag
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OP: thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:14 PM Flag
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We threw in a 3rd on 4th IVF that Dr described as "very poor quality" -- we have amazingly healthy triplets (thankfully all the same gender so I don't know who was poor quality). Beware of the "poor quality" argument. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:16 PM Flag
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Woah [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 08:21 PM Flag
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I also found this to be a torturous decision. At 39yo I was exactly the sme, terrified of twins. I transferred 2 in 1st cycle, didnt get pg and had 0 embryos to freeze (despite getting many eggs and over a dozen fertilized). Second round, got lots of eggs and embryos. Transferred 2 again. For a while it wasn't clear if it was twins or singleton. And at that point i had warmed up to the idea of twins, i was thrilled to be pg. Ended up being a vanishing twin and now I have one beautiful baby girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 07:46 PM Flag
[ - ] Are OBs ever that concerned when they discover a woman had alcoholic drinks before she found out she was pregnant? I'm TTC but about to go on a romantic getaway (post ovulation/potential conception) and would love to be able to enjoy the vacation to the fullest, but am feeling conflicted about whether a few drinks are ok or not? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.17.13, 02:47 AM Flag
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What you don't know, won't hurt you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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OMG HAVE A FLIPPING COCKTAIL OR TWO OR THREE [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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I wouldn't worry at all. Enjoy yourself and good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.13, 02:50 AM Flag
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Dont worry. have fun [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.13, 02:45 AM Flag
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Do you know how many women have gotten pregnant while drunk? Not at all the end of the world. Just don't keep getting drunk if you are pregnant. And drink some orange juice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.13, 03:01 AM Flag
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No. She said that in the first couple weeks there is no sharing of blood anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.13, 03:37 AM Flag
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Don't even think about ttc. That's the way that usually works best [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.13, 06:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Did you have a DB in your mid-20s, and if so, how long were you TTC before you got pregnant? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.15.13, 01:39 PM Flag
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Yes, had my dc at 28. Had a miscarriage at 27. Both pregnancies happened in the first month of trying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:47 PM Flag
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not mid-20s [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:42 PM Flag
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op here - 28 counts as pretty much mid-20s to me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 03:24 PM Flag
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Ok mid 20's police. Thank you for patrolling the board and making sure your opinion of mid-20's is shared! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 06:31 PM Flag
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1st go [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:48 PM Flag
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I can only think of one friend who had a kid in her mid 20s. Pretty rare among UMC women, imo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:00 PM Flag
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Well I had my first at 42 and it took 3 months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:10 PM Flag
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First month at 33 and 36. Second month at 41 (but dh was traveling a lot--surprised it happened that easily). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:09 PM Flag
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Mid 30's. First try both times. It is so individual so this random poll won't be helpful to you. Also as above poster said babies in mid-30s are extremely rare in urban umc communities. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:15 PM Flag
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28 and 29 - both times got PG on first try. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:24 PM Flag
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not mid 20s [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:42 PM Flag
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yes had db in mid 20s; not TTC; db was an oops. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Any tips on conceiving a girl? I have one DS who I LOVE but want one of each. Will be happy with either but just wondering if anyone has BTDT 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.09.13, 01:28 PM Flag
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Have sex. It's a toss up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:35 PM Flag
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Have sex in the Eloise tea room at the Plaza [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:35 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:35 PM Flag
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Gross [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:36 PM Flag
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Have sex with someone who has many sisters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:31 PM Flag
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This hardly works. My DH has no brothers and six sisters. We have three boys. I know plenty of people similar to me. Having many sisters doesn't tell you much about your odds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:07 PM Flag
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There used to be a MD in White Plains who could help. He takes sperm, puts in centrafuge, and only takes out from one end. High success rate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:32 PM Flag
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Gross [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:38 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:39 PM Flag
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they do this but i dispute the high success rate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:37 PM Flag
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I have an MD friend who wanted a boy after two girls and did just that. They have three lovely girls. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:15 PM Flag
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Sex before you ovulate not after [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:37 PM Flag
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after is already too late. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:42 PM Flag
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Yes. This is how we got our girl. Not intentionally but happy with the result! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:44 PM Flag
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well i do not know if you can actually control this, but i have heard that the closer to ovulation you have sex the more likely it is to be a boy. so if you know when you ovulate, have sex 3 days before, as female sperm survive longer, so by the time the egg is released it is more likely that female sperm will fertilize the egg. conversly, i think you can time sex 3-5 days after ovulation and it is said to more likely be a girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:33 PM Flag
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bad advice. eggs only live 12 - 24 hours so waiting 3 - 5 days after you ovulate is too late. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:57 PM Flag
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OP: thanks to all of the helpful responders [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:39 PM Flag
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^^^ oh, and Eloise for the laugh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:40 PM Flag
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Have sex a few days BEFORE you ovulate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:41 PM Flag
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Reverse cowgirl. Totally! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:42 PM Flag
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Try the website ingender.com. They give a list of methods to try to get the sex you want. They believe altering the vaginal ph to be more acidic favor X sperm. I did it and got my girl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:46 PM Flag
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this i believe about ph [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:55 PM Flag
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Np. Interesting website. Thanks for posting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:21 PM Flag
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Figure out when you're most likely to ovulate. Then have sex a few days before. Don't have sex the day before or day of, that will supposedly lead to another boy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 01:58 PM Flag
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Most people in the end will be happy either way. But if you're really hung up on having a certain sex, I would deal with that before getting pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:05 PM Flag
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Are you talking psychology or IVF? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:16 PM Flag
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Psych. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:37 PM Flag
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(Or IVF, I suppose. Personally I wouldn't go the IVF route for gender. But if you're okay with that that is one way to address this.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:37 PM Flag
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OP: I would 100% be happy with another boy. I see the advantages there too. I just always wanted a brother growing up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:22 PM Flag
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Well if you'd be 100% happy either way, go for it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:38 PM Flag
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Google it or look at books on this. I think you're supposed to aim for beginning of fertile cycle?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.09.13, 02:27 PM Flag
[ - ] Is 9 mos of TTC with no luck (timed intercourse, OPKs, etc.) too soon to start thinking about doing an IUI? I'm almost 34, husband is 36; already had slew of bloodwork, HSG, sperm analysis, etc., all came back normal other than slightly low progesterone which doc said is not a big deal. Mother has history of severe endometriosis but no major signs of it for me yet. RE suggested Clomid or injectables plus IUI but wondering if it's too soon or not...? Thoughts/experiences? Would like to have more than one child and would like to get going sooner rather than later... 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.03.13, 06:59 PM Flag
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Well, I have no real experience in this area but if you want to get going soon you should probably listen to your RE's advice. I have heard good things about IUI. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.03.13, 07:12 PM Flag
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Not too soon at all! Beware Clomid. I'd go straight to injectables and IUI. BTDT, just my 2 cents. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.03.13, 07:35 PM Flag
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Femara and a trigger shot before IUI. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.03.13, 07:56 PM Flag
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not too soon at all. Especially given age is a factor, I'd listen to your RE. We did a few clomid + injectibles + IUI cycles, and am pregnant now. Clomid on it's own was useless, but it's quite common now to do a mixed protocol to avoid hyperstimulation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.03.13, 08:10 PM Flag
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I am leaning towards injectables and IUI at this point... thanks for all the opinions. -OP [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.03.13, 09:06 PM Flag
[ - ] S/O of another post - what are the benefits/disadvantages of having just one dc? people who have btdt? curious as we try to decide what to do. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 04.01.13, 11:00 PM Flag
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Not worth thinking about until you already have one dc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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I know many w just one. Seems fine, but those kids need to be around lots of people. More effort than built in sibs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:10 PM Flag
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You are able to provide financially for just one. You also are able to provide more time and attention to just one DC. The disadvantages are they are often lonely, spoiled, and a bit entitled. They also tend to be more mature, which is both good and bad. I am speaking from experience. DH and I waited too long to have DCs only able to conceive one DD. She is now in late twenties. She has issues with behavior, DUI, public intox, she is very spoiled and depended on us financially for far too long. Would act inappropriate when things were not going her way. She really did not stop all this behavior until about age 25. She ended up graduating top of her class at Ivy League here in NYC. Is engaged to be married to a man who comes from a large family (he is one of 8 DCs) and I honestly believe this is what made her finally grow up. She used to be very selfish and since getting in relationship with this man she has straightened up. I'm sure majority of the cons could have been prevented had we change our parenting style. We just adored her so and spoiled her to the point of enabling. I know a few other couples of only children and they too had similar cons as their only DC aged. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:18 PM Flag
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Single child here, you basically just described me in a nutshell! Damn I need to call my mom and tell her I am sorry for everything I put her through! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:30 PM Flag
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Mom of a single. The pros are you can give more attention and resources and have a close relationship. This can make the child happier and more successful. Also no horrible sibling rivalry or bad blood between siblings (happens so much). The cons are that an only, unless he/she is naturally social, can be lonely and thin-skinned because deprived of the rough give and take of a sibling relationship. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:57 PM Flag
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We have three but I always think that one seems very sweet. Ours have to share too much, we can't afford certain things. they all speak at once so we don't really hear anyone etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:27 PM Flag
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We chose to have one child and have no regrets. Pros: Quality of time and care she receives from each of us; we are very close (I honestly believe that it's a different kind of relationship than multi-child families, not that you can't be close to more than one kid); we have time for ourselves, our marriage and other interests (exercise, hobbies, etc.); we can comfortably afford private school, travel, extracurriculars, etc. Cons: The dynamic is more intense (smaller family means we are all very tuned in to each other); Hard not to helicopter since you are so invested in one child; Small family means fewer relationships (if she has no kids, I won't have grandchildren). In our case, our dd hasn't pined for a sibling, she makes friends easily and doesn't have an issue with sharing or teamwork. We don't feel like we need to "try harder" with playdates, we follow her lead in terms of interest/frequency. We feel like it's a very cozy and complete family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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This is really nice to hear. We have one and are starting to realize he may be it - for a lot of the reasons you stated above. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.02.13, 12:00 AM Flag
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We have one as well, and just decided this is it for many of the reasons you stated. Also, I feel we are "complete" as a family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.02.13, 12:05 AM Flag
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I was an only and though I wish I had siblings, I understand that being an only child benefited me in so many ways. My parents focused everything they could on me and saved so that I could graduate wih no debt, have opportunities to travel, help me buy my first apt. I don't think they could've handled two, and so for our family it was perfect. For me, my 3 dcs fit the magic number :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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OP: thanks for all your replies. to be honest, we're not sure yet about kids and for financial reasons just one sounds right. i want to have the money to send our dc to college, etc. thanks for giving me things to think about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:47 PM Flag
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I'm an only and couldn't be more different than previous poster's experience. I was always quick and happy to share with friends since I never had to at home. Not spoiled nor entitled. However, I was very lonely growing up and always pined for a sibling. However my parents were very hands off and basically took no interest, I was always left to fend for myself. Which was good in that I made friends easily but sometimes it was just really, really lonely. All that being said, looks like DS will be an only and I wish I could give him a sibling. ALthough his experience will be very different from mine. I really think a lot has to do with parenting style vs how many siblings you have. I knew plenty of people who were spoiled and entitled (and still are!) and they had siblings. If I had a choice and could financially provide, I would have more than one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.01.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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Disadvantage: you miss out, and they miss out, on the sibling relationship. It is wonderful o watch and the siblings love each other so much. They play itch each other, ate happier, and easier for you to entertain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.02.13, 12:41 AM Flag
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Yeesh: play with each other, are happier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.02.13, 12:42 AM Flag
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Not in my experience [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.02.13, 01:40 AM Flag
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I'm an only, and was painfully shy/introverted as a teen/young adult. But I also had a rough childhood--dad died early, mom depressed, etc. I grew out of it but it took a lot of conscious work. Looks like we will have an only too. For various reasons, but mostly age and finances. Not my ideal choice, but I also know that an only child just has a different kind of life--develops great inner resources of imagination and strength, and generally will be fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.02.13, 03:08 AM Flag
[ - ] We have been TTC for almost 8 mos and went to see dr lederman at St Luke's. I took all the tests with him, but was not a fan of Dr. Lederman and his office staff. I have heard Cornell and NYU are the best for fertility doctors? Can anyone recommend a doctor (that isnt too hard to get into)? Thank you!! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 03.25.13, 08:09 PM Flag
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I see Stein at the same office- his bedside manner leaves a lot to be desired but he got me pregnant with baby#1 so I trust him. Plus as a PCOS patient, he's the best in the city. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.25.13, 08:11 PM Flag
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I really liked Dr. Owen Davis at Cornell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.25.13, 08:16 PM Flag
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Thank you! Yes he seems to be the best, but is out of pocket in the beginning. No insurance. :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.25.13, 08:16 PM Flag
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Ah, I only went there for initial fertility tests. I didn't need to do IVF. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.25.13, 08:26 PM Flag
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The question isn't "does he take insurance" rather "what does my insurance cover me for out of network?". There is no reason on the earth why a good doctor needs to bother with filing your insurance paperwork... (though many do, as it helps to attract patients). If your practice is booming, its just not your problem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.25.13, 08:27 PM Flag
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Agree, I would not have DD without Cornell and Dr. D. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.25.13, 10:04 PM Flag
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Thank you. I found Dr. Licciardi (NYU), Dr. Grunfeld (RMA), and Dr. Klingman (Cornell). Trying to choose from those three, so if you have any suggestions on either one of these, that would be very helpful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.26.13, 01:24 PM Flag
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Dr. Linda Ellison here. I do fertility therapy. New to the City--just moved from Boston/Harvard. Have you considered working with some alternative modalities to compliment the IVF process? Stress is a major infertility factor for both men and women lots of research is showing. Many doctors won't tell you this or explain how stress hormones decrease your fertility capacity...but the endocrine system is all connected and you might just need a little more time doing yoga, building your core relationships, and focusing on creative projects as positive, stress reducing outlets. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.02.13, 08:21 PM Flag
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Thank you Dr. Ellison. I have been trying to do yoga as well as acupuncture. Fingers crossed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 05:48 PM Flag
[ - ] How long did you TTC before thinking there might be a problem or getting help? Was on the pill for 10 years, just stopped in November. So far only one period and no signs of ovulation since. I'm 30, DH 33. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 03.23.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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push the panic button now, seek help now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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I waited a year, wish I had gone sooner. One round of IVF did the trick. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.24.13, 12:37 AM Flag
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OP: I'm sitting here reading these posts by the 20-something moms and thinking they are quite smart. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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30 is not old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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See a doctor but don't panic, you have 10 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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I got pregnant on my first try, had a miscarriage and then went to an RE when I still wasn't pregnant 6 months after that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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^^age 30 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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My body didn't start ovulating again after years on the pill, so my OB gave me some Clomid to kick start everything. I didn't want multiples, so I took the Clomid for a few months, stopped and then conceived 3 months later. Sometimes, you just need a little help restarting things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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This is helpful - thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 11:29 PM Flag
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yes, it can actually take you several months for your cycle to return to normal after the pill, especially if you've been on it for that long. it will probably be fine in a few months, but if you're in a hurry, see your OB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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Before worrying, I'd try using a clear blue fertility monitor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.23.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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this. use a ovulation predictor kit. I was also on the pill for >10 years before trying to TTC. Took ~9 mo to get PG the first time then had an early m/c. after that, several months passed with no luck. eventually, started using the OPK daily. only ovulated once in 3 mo but that was enough, now have 9 mo old db. you have to stick with the opk. I always had very irregular periods before going on the pill. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.24.13, 12:36 AM Flag
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Dr. Linda Ellison here. I do fertility therapy and tell women to expect to be off any type of hormonal BC for a full 6 months before getting pregnant. It may happen before that, but it takes awhile for your body to reset after being on BC...especially for so many years. Give it another month, and in the meantime make sure you are eating fertility-friendly food and getting endorphine boosts from yoga, running, whatever you like to do to counter stress in your daily life. Stress is a major factor in infertility. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.02.13, 08:38 PM Flag
[ - ] 33 y/o, been TTC for 8 months with no success. Family history of endometriosis (mom, took her many years and two surgeries to conceive) but no diagnosis yet for me. OB recommended Dr. Licciardi at NYU. Anyone in a similar situation or know anything about Dr. L? Seeing positive things online so far about him as well as a few Columbia docs. Just wanted to hear what others think. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 03.11.13, 03:00 AM Flag
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Sorry meant Cornell not Columbia. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:01 AM Flag
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FWIW, I was 29 and it took me 8 months to conceive. It felt like forever but my doctor told me 6-8 months is average for late 20's/early 30's [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:03 AM Flag
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A woman in her early late 20s/early 30s only has a 10% chance of conceiving per cycle. This decline begins at age 25. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:05 AM Flag
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WHOMP WHOMP [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:10 AM Flag
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:10 AM Flag
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Hey I'm 32yo, also been TTC for a while and keep having early miscarriages. My sister has endo and I suspect I have it but when I suggested to Licciardi I don't remember him being too interested in exploring. I think he's more apt to just want to push IVF to speed things up. I see Mukherjee now at RMA as he has good reviews and specializes in Endometriosis. Schattman at Cornell is also supposed to be good. GL to you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:00 AM Flag
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Check out liccardis blog to learn a bit about him. Nyu is a good place, but Cornell is tops. However, you are young so nyu would be fine, most likely. Pick the place closer to home with the dr who you are comfortable [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:04 AM Flag
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Cornell and NYU. Either great [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:11 AM Flag
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Thanks all. OB being very evasive about the endo thing which is really pissing me off so hoping talking to an RE will at least get me more info. Not the type to freak out about this stuff but I know time is not on my side with this and is all just very tough/frustrating - want to be as informed as possible without going nuts. I know 8 months is not super long but with the endo history I think it's worth being more proactive. Will def meet with Licciardi and will probably also consult with someone at Cornell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.11.13, 03:22 AM Flag
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Not sure if you are watching this post but wanted to see where you netted out with Licciardi? I am PP who also has potentially endo and am TTC. Scheduled for my lap on 5/15! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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Not sure if you are watching this post but wanted to see where you netted out with Licciardi? I am PP who also has potentially endo and am TTC. Scheduled for my lap on 5/15! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.26.13, 02:49 AM Flag
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Hey sorry just looked at this thread after a long time. Currently with Licciardi now and just did my first IUI. I like him overall although to be honest you really see the nurses much more anyway! He was not big on exploring me having a lap though - didn't seem to think it was needed at this point. Nut I'm not sure if that's because he just wanted me as a patient? Can I ask what endo symptoms you have and if you had to push for the lap or if your doc recommended it? Other than family history (and the infertility of course...) I don't really have any other symptoms. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.15.13, 01:50 AM Flag
[ - ] Hello I was wondering if anyone ever been to cooper institute in NJ for reproduction. were you successfull with whatever treatment you received either ivf or iui? How much is the expenses for iui and ivf procedures? is there any particular doctor (s) to look for? I am 38yrs old and tried 2 iui at cornell but no success. Please will appreciate both negative and postive feedback. thanks 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 02.15.13, 04:35 PM Flag
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Heard dr check is the best [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.15.13, 04:37 PM Flag
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sorry, have not been to Cooper. 2 IUI is not very much, though. you only have a 20ish% chance of conceiving each time, right? why not keep going, while doing as much as you can naturally to augment it? sorry, you probably know all this, but i found things like cutting out coffee, switching to green tea, cutting flour/sugar, Vitex extract, and acupuncture helped me. did you do acupuncture before and after your IUI? supposedly with IVF it has increased chances up to 20-30% in clinical trials, not sure about the IUI numbers. it is probably just the relaxation and meditation/visualization aspects that helps, but who knows. i don't care cuz it worked for me. i was at Beth Israel infertility. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.15.13, 04:41 PM Flag
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Go straight to ivf, no more mucking around. 38! Signed, IVF at 39 success mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.15.13, 04:45 PM Flag
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RUN DON'T WALK TO IVF. IUI rarely works on the over 35 crowd. I went to cornell for IVF when I was 39 y.o. Dr.Spandorfer. Got pregnant on first round. BUT that was after three failed rounds of IUI at cornell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.15.13, 06:20 PM Flag
[ - ] 31yo, never been pregnant before. Got pregnant on 2nd month of trying (confirmed with blood test) and had a chemical pregnancy/super-early miscarriage week 5ish. No pain, no cramps, not even heavy bleeding, just regular-to-light period type bleeding though more extended. My OB told me to wait at least one cycle before TTC again, but didn't really explain why and I was at work and didn't press it. Is there a real problem with getting pregnant too soon after? Or is this like the "Best by" date on cereal boxes? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 02.10.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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no. it's to protect you emotionally and to know when you have your period for estimated due date purposes. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks and my OB said I could start trying immediately. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.10.13, 11:05 PM Flag
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Thanks! Do you know if your cycle calendar is supposed to remain in line with prior cycles, or if a miscarriage resets the clock somehow? Or is it different each time and hence the recommended wait? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.10.13, 11:17 PM Flag
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no, it's not just emotionally. Your body still needs time to recuperate. Everyone is different, so OR being able to try immediately is not advice for everyone. I would call your doctor again to clarify, she may have a physical reason for you to wait. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.10.13, 11:30 PM Flag
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Thanks. They're making me do an additional blood test, so I will ask when I talk to them about that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.10.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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You're fine. I had a chemical pregnancy before getting PG w/ #2. By the time I went to the dr. I was PG again already. Dating was all off - but perfectly healthy DB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.11.13, 01:04 AM Flag
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Encouraging, thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.11.13, 02:04 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm on my first IVF cycle (Clomid + Menopur) and I've heard that Clomid compromises the quality of the uterine lining. So should I transfer my two fresh embryos this cycle on Day 5, or wait till next cycle to transfer to clear out the Clomid? They said my lining looked great (triple-line, nearly 12mm) when they retrieved my eggs earlier this week. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 02.01.13, 09:34 PM Flag
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That sounds like a great lining. I would go for it while embryos are still fresh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 09:35 PM Flag
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If lining is good transfer. Triple stripe is great! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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Your lining seems fine, I wouldn't worry. However, studies have shown you get a higher success rate with FET vs fresh. But go for it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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Np- I've read similar studies lately. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 10:01 PM Flag
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My dr will transfer at 7, 12 is great, clonus does not have the same effect on all people. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 09:55 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm 43, going through IVF with my own eggs, am only going to try getting pg for 3 more months. Do I bother with PGD testing of embryos? Is it worth the expense or should I just transfer whatever embryos I have? Right now there are two embies growing nicely and looks like they will make it to blastocyst. I don't know what to do. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 02.01.13, 03:54 PM Flag
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Inthinknit depends on how many miscarriages you had [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:13 PM Flag
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If you do PGD, I think they end up freezing the embryos. PGD has to be done on day 5 or 6 (after fertilization), then it takes some time for the results to come back. I could be wrong though. What does your RE say? Mine recommended not doing it because it would delay the transfer. My first IVF cycle ended up in a chemical pregnancy (technically a miscarriage), genetic testing on me showed no problems so we just went for round 2 and we were successful. I was 39 then, 40 now and expecting in April. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:18 PM Flag
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OP: In the last year I had one d&c at 8 wks conceived through IUI (blighted ovum), and one very early mc that I would have mistook as a heavy period had I not had a blood test (no pg symptoms at all). I love my doc and she says it's up to me, but advises PGD to avoid another mc. I'm just afraid of paying all this $$ and finding out no embies are viable. Plus I don't want to wait another 2 months to transfer (doc says I should do another round of meds/extraction to get more eggs, then test in Feb, then transfer in March). By then I'll be two months older which at my age is a lot! Plus it means I'd have only one shot at getting pg since we'd want the baby born this year (DS is 2.5 and we want the kids to be no more than 3 yrs apart in school). My lining and hormones look good this cycle. I'm tempted to just go for it with whatever I get this month. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:44 PM Flag
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She is upselling. Don't do it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:46 PM Flag
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PGD could damage the embryo. Just put any you get in and hope for the best. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:24 PM Flag
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:45 PM Flag
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:55 PM Flag
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This is not true anymore. If you culture on Day 5 you are now taking some of the outer cells at a time when there are hundreds. It used to be that PGD was done on Day 3 when you would take once cell from a 6-8 cell emby and that could damage. We did PGD on 5 frozen blasts and it turned out only 1 was normal. We then implanted that one and we now have DD. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 06:59 PM Flag
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Hi OP. I got pregnant with twins from IVF. I was younger than you (38) but still considered "advanced maternal age". What we did was transfer 2 embryos (no PGD) and then we did amnio. Normal amnio and we breathed easy. My boys are now 10. :) Best of luck to you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:33 PM Flag
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thanks for this, glad it worked out for you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:45 PM Flag
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I am 38 and going through ivf with PGD right now. I get the testing results on Tuesday. I too was concerned about the possible damage to embryos, but my RE says that is very rare these days. Their office does not recommend PGD testing for less than 3 embryos because its possible that the embryos are not of good quality. I would go ahead and just transfer both. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 04:55 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks, hope it works out for you! Just heard that my two embies are progressing normally and are grades B and C. Think I'm just going to transfer both and keep my fingers crossed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.01.13, 06:29 PM Flag
[ - ] hello, I am wondering if anyone ever been to acupuncturists like Dr.yan wu and Dr. joyce Anstasi for fertility treatment. was it successful? Does anyone know any good acupuncturist in NY for infertility care. or anyone ever had success with acupuncture to conceive?thanks for sharing. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 01.13.13, 11:32 AM Flag
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I didn't use them for fertility but you could call them and inquire if they do fertility too. Evelyn Li and Michelle Bombacie. Amazing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.13.13, 11:58 AM Flag
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Rong bau Lu. in Chinatown. Google mdinferttility. Canal and Baxter. The best, takes insurance. Ny times did an article a few years back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.13.13, 01:21 PM Flag
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I used Dr Wu. Really nice guy who really understands TTC. Went to him while going through IVF at Cornell so not sure what was more beneficial. Was successful and have a healthy 8yo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.13.13, 07:12 PM Flag
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Went to Dr. anastasinduring IVF. Loved her. Have two wonderful children through two successful pregnancies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.14.13, 01:55 AM Flag
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Thank you all for responding and congrat to all of you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.14.13, 03:11 PM Flag
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Hi, I just want to know if those pregnancies were with the acupuncture alone or with iui or ivf. I am almost 38yr old, never been pregant, i have two failed iui recently at cornell, and so now seeking for alternative tx,my issue is egg quality so they say. thanks for sharing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.14.13, 03:29 PM Flag
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