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[ - ] Are there wait lists this year at 199 and 87? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.19.13, 01:34 PM Flag
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yes for 87 but not as long as past years, supposedly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:38 PM Flag
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No because apparently any dc who doesn't get into a g&t program moves out to the suburbs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:31 PM Flag
[ - ] What is the point of Field Day at school? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:24 PM Flag
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Teamwork. And so even the I athletic kids can participate in Organized competition but in a fun way. The best basketball player is not likely to be the winner of the 3-legged race. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:31 PM Flag
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Fun end of the year tradition at most schools. Not much academic stuff goes on the last wk or two of school. Where's the problem? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:31 PM Flag
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I was never fond of it nor are my kids - at least it's no super hot today [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:32 PM Flag
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My kids complained about it as they got older. I always made them go and they always came back having had a fun day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Gifted Program's Slots for Siblings Rise Again -- Wall Street Journal http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424127887324520904578554053244352418.html?mod=WSJ_NY_LEFTTopStories 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.19.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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"Nearly one in four kindergarten spots in New York City's most competitive gifted-and-talented programs have been set aside this fall for siblings of current students, almost twice the rate from two years ago, the city said Tuesday."-- Wall Street Journal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:37 PM Flag
[ - ] I need an individual therapist (for myself) who takes United Healthcare in Manhattan. Preferably female. Thanks... I really need help. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:12 PM Flag
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we have not had good luck with their providers - can you go out of network? they will still pay 70-80% after your deductible. I'm not sure how good they are with it we're waiting to find out. GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:30 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm 51 and I have 2dc aged 3&4. Any questions? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:11 PM Flag
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said for them . . . no questions - [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:12 PM Flag
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IVF or adoption? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:06 PM Flag
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IVF [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:38 PM Flag
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they will keep you young! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:11 PM Flag
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not your eggs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:35 PM Flag
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my eggs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:38 PM Flag
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ugh why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:29 PM Flag
[ - ] What SPECIFIC things did STEM parents want to do for the program but were denied or not supported in their efforts by the administration or PA? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.19.13, 01:09 PM Flag
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Last year when we toured, they wanted to add middle school grades to their program, not sure of the status of that. Only K-5, at least as of last year. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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They're adding middle school seats in PS126 building, but I was asking more about why so many STEM are complaining. All you ever hear about are some vague comments about how the administration/PA doesn't "support" them or won't "push" the kids. Trying to get to the bottom of all this - what are the SPECIFIC initiatives [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:31 PM Flag
[ - ] How do you videochat on a computer? My ds will miss a meeting this summer but may be able to participate on computer while I drive. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:04 PM Flag
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Need a good wifi connection [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:05 PM Flag
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OP- and then what? I'm sorry, I'm clueless on these things. I have an ipad and an iphone and a MacBool Pro. I think I can have any of them charging in my car. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:08 PM Flag
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Iphone face time. I do this with my company all the time. They prop up an Ipad and I can see what is going on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:15 PM Flag
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So all i would need is a iphone and they can prop-up an ipad at the meeting? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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This is what I do. An Ipad may be better if you have one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:20 PM Flag
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He should know how to do this... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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Do you have to be driving while he does it? It'd be better to pull over and get a strong connection. You may go in and out of good facetime zones. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Dilemma here! I'm pregnant with our 3rd baby. We have a preschooler and toddler. It's very early. I'm only 7 weeks, but I have had insane nausea already. Vomiting at least once a day. My husband keeps pressuring me to visit his family, which is a 5/6 hr drive away. We're not telling family just yet that we're expecting. I really don't want to be in a car for that long while being crazy nauseous, plus trying to keep our 2 little ones happy. His family is expecting us to come because he won't give them a definite answer. He'll ask me and I say it's going to be difficult for me and maybe we can wait till August. But then he gives me a guilt trip saying his sister will be visiting too and he wants to see her. I'm going to be miserable and living in the bathroom the whole time. Any advice? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:58 PM Flag
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give him a bj and ask to skip [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:58 PM Flag
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you are a very fertile (& definitely crazy) lady. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:07 PM Flag
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Ahahaha... I know. We always wanted 3 kids and wanted to have them before age 35. It's nuts that it's really working out that way. I'm surprised and really tried. But I know the early years will be tough. We're hoping its worth it in the end. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:04 PM Flag
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Can he take the kids and you stay home and rest? With his sister there and his parents, he should have plenty of help with the kids. He can just say you came down with a stomach bug! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:04 PM Flag
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This could work... But they'll think something is up, which is fine I guess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:05 PM Flag
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NP I didn't want people to know too early either but honestly, it would be preferable than you suffering in the car for 6 hours throwing up. Have him go with the kids and that's that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:14 PM Flag
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Ask him to go with the kids, and that you'll take a trip all together to see his parents in August (when you might be ready to announce or feeling better). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:05 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:23 PM Flag
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No advice. He's a douche. I have 3, too, and it is only BECAUSE my DH is sweet, considerate, compassionate and empathetic. Hard to do with someone clueless. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:19 PM Flag
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He's actually not a douche. He just feels guilty about not seeing his family. And then makes me feel guilty. But I keep telling him, no one packs-up and flys to see us! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:32 PM Flag
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Why not tell them? I never understand this. They are your family. If you did experience a loss, wouldn't they want to support you through that? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:14 PM Flag
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Yes. I don't know why. It seems people are shocked when you announce before 12 weeks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:26 PM Flag
[ - ] Did we already discuss the Voice last night? I wanted Michelle to win - Danielle can sing but she is just so damn boring! I think Swon Brothers will be the most commercially successful. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:52 PM Flag
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I think Danielle is going to be break out country star and the most commercially successful [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:58 PM Flag
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Meh. Like watching paint dry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:02 PM Flag
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promise to come back in two years OK? I will :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:56 PM Flag
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You assume I'll be leaving lol. I still say Swon - we'll revisit in 2 years! :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:05 PM Flag
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cool! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:07 PM Flag
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I agree (although I think Danielle will probably be the most successful). She only has one style, and hasn't shown any range. But she has done that style exceedingly well, and obviously people love pretty young blondes and country. But Blake never let her stretch. It would have been interesting to see Danielle on American Idol, where they had to do different genres. People compare her to Carrie Underwood, but I remember Carrie had to do a rock number (Alone) and completely blew it out of the water -- probably why she won. Danielle did a series of country classics one after another. She did them perfectly, but that was it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:58 PM Flag
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agree, all she can do is country - BUT that is what country fans want - they don't like stretch - and she is spot on - will do very well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:06 PM Flag
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and she is only 16. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:06 PM Flag
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They won in the order I thought they should have. Hard to believe that Danielle is only 16! She looked so calm and poised like an old pro who had been on stage thousands of times. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:05 PM Flag
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true dat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:07 PM Flag
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Danielle had one expression and every song sounded the same (and I love country music). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:31 PM Flag
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Can we also discuss Blake's creepy duet with Danielle the night before. Both dh and I were saying "wth"!! Blake is putting some feeling into it, but it's weird that he's singing "I'm falling in love" with feeling to a 16 year old. And meanwhile, Danielle looks a bit uncomfortable, and sings with no feeling. I cannot believe that out of all the country classics, they could not find even one good duet song that wasn't about love! Come on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:28 PM Flag
[ - ] We have a 3 year old and 17 month old. A close friend wants all of us to visit her and her husband in Long Island, over a 2 hr drive. They don't have kids. Obviously, we would have to bring all the gear, figure out where they would nap/sleep, and bring certain foods, etc. They have a beautiful house with lots of stairs, tile and hardwood floors, a pool, and expensive furniture. Ahhh, I would love to see them and she keeps asking me to come out. But she also has no idea what a preschooler and toddler are like. I honestly think it would be a very torturous weekend. What would you do? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:50 PM Flag
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Have you asked her if she has ever had any toddlers out there? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:01 PM Flag
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No, she has a 4 yr old nephew. But when he visits, her whole family is usually there. It's like 7 adults to one kid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:01 PM Flag
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Ask her to babysit your kids for a weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:02 PM Flag
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That would be a sight! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:00 PM Flag
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I would tell them how challenging it might be to host a family with two little kids. Give them an out. Unless they're infertile and then you might want to say it very diplomatically. But if they're childless by choice, tell them kids can be hard to handle in someone else's house and you don't know that it would be as peaceful a weekend as they might hope. If the issue is that you're afraid it'll be too much for you to handle (with the hard floors, food issues, etc.) then be honest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:03 PM Flag
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Thank you. She never wants children and is childless by choice. But I can be honest with her. She really has no clue about kids. It's sort of hilarious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:00 PM Flag
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I'm sure there are things in her life about which you are clueless. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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Yes, that is definitely true. It's just funny how she thinks it would be a "relaxing" weekend! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:27 PM Flag
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go! but warn her in advance that the kids are at a "tough age" and let her know you might leave right after brunch on Sunday. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:09 PM Flag
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Can you leave the kids with family for the weekend and make it an adults-only trip? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:12 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:21 PM Flag
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It would be excruciating for everyone. Really. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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Just go. She is your friend. She will deal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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It is very nice of your friend to invite you, and I don't see why she is "clueless" about kids just b/c she has a nice home and is inviting your children into it. If you are concerned, book a hotel room! Or go without them and have the grandparents babysit. I agree it sounds like it would not be a relaxing trip but I don't find traveling with young kids relaxing anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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I don't get your hesitation. Just because you have young kids doesn't mean you can't visit friends with nice homes. Just watch them incessantly which it sounds like you do anyway. I would welcome a weekend away at a friends gorgeous home with a pool. Especially after the kids are asleep! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Can you open a bottle of champagne and just have some and save the rest? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:46 PM Flag
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Does not compute. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:54 PM Flag
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op: lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:49 PM Flag
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About as easily as opening a can of coke, having some and saving the rest, I suppose. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:56 PM Flag
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op: sounds like thats a no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:50 PM Flag
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Wash your hair or DD's hair with it, or take a bath or give DD a bath in it. Post about it, and wait for the uproar. FUN! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:57 PM Flag
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op: ok, that sounds do-able! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:58 PM Flag
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op: or I let her have a glass- at a playdate w. some pals. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:52 PM Flag
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not really, no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:52 PM Flag
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If you put a spoon/fork in the top of the bottle and let the handle hang down, it slows the gas release and let it keep for a few hours, but that is it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:52 PM Flag
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Yes. Get a champagne stopper. You twist it and it fills the gap very tightly. It will keep the bubbles in there for a few days. It's never as good as the first time, but it will do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:05 PM Flag
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^^This is the kind I have. Works well. You can find them for about $5. http://www.amazon.com/Velvet-Wine-Champagne-Sealer-Metrokane/dp/B000QICZHW/ref=sr_1_9?ie=UTF8&qid=1371647367&sr=8-9&keywords=champagne+stopper [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:07 PM Flag
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there are vacuum sealers you can buy that help keep the bubbles longer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:12 PM Flag
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Love mine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Any 163 parents on? Are you happy? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.19.13, 12:34 PM Flag
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I know people who say great things about that program. I will say the love diminishes after 2nd but that is true of public in general. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:53 PM Flag
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Yes. Very happy. Are you considering G&T ? DL? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:08 PM Flag
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Oh yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:13 PM Flag
[ - ] He said I love you last night! phew and it took long enough!! It's a great day! 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:26 PM Flag
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that's a great feeling. yay you! did you say it back? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:26 PM Flag
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yes m'am. first I said- took u long enough. he replied: you knew this already. I said: not a contract til the words get spoekn! and then we laughed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:35 PM Flag
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hate lawyers [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:53 PM Flag
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lol- howd you guess!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:54 PM Flag
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^ you must really know one! I just hope he doesnt hate it too- after a while. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:55 PM Flag
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ha . . . he's a banker i guess . . . [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:56 PM Flag
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nope [ Reply | More
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what does he do . . .another lawyer? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:03 PM Flag
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heat of the moment, if he loved you he would put a ring on it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:34 PM Flag
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he will! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:31 PM Flag
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Lot of time from saying I love you to a ring [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:38 PM Flag
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time I dont care about. passion and zeal when the moment comes- I do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:39 PM Flag
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You better have passion and zeal before or there won't be any I do's a- coming [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:44 PM Flag
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There is now. The amount has to maintain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:45 PM Flag
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It's not supposed to feel like pulling teeth [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:35 PM Flag
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It didnt! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:29 PM Flag
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np - Someone peed on your Cheerios this morning, bitter person? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:39 PM Flag
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It's ok. I like to joke around. The way I posted MAY have sounded like it was laborious but it wasn't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:36 PM Flag
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Geez Debs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:38 PM Flag
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Great, isn't it? Congrats! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:39 PM Flag
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TXS! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:41 PM Flag
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aww, I remember when DH said to me for the first time. Such a nice feeling. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:37 PM Flag
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it is! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:46 PM Flag
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I said to DH first . .. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:53 PM Flag
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That works too! you have to know the guy. Some are too scared to say it first. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:47 PM Flag
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More sure you pick up a copy of Brides at the newsstand! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:32 PM Flag
[ - ] I am moving to the city during the summer from suburban CT. DCs love the private schools they'll be going to, and I know that this is, in the long-term, a good decision for them, for me, and for our family. But today is their last day of school, and I feel so awful taking this safe, predictable (if mundane) world away from them. God I hope I'm doing the right thing... 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:22 PM Flag
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change is difficult, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:35 PM Flag
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why the move? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:37 PM Flag
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Eliminates my 2 hour a day commute, got engaged to a man who lives in the city (dcs love him and he them), not happy with the hs dcs eventually would be attending... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:36 PM Flag
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so its all good, embrace it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:43 PM Flag
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I grew up in the safe suburbs and now can't shine raising kids anywhere BUT the City. Enjoy! [ Reply | More
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^ imagine, not shine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:25 PM Flag
[ - ] i am pregnant. and very dramatic and a martyr. probably have some sort of mental illness, but not sure which one. how can i not have an awful delivery where i am angry and upset at dh, the dr, nurses? how can i feel strong, mature, loved and in control? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:13 PM Flag
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ha ha not going to happen - just hope dh is a good guy and lets it go [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:15 PM Flag
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Do you only feel this way while pg? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:08 PM Flag
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no, all the time. its worse now though, and the idea of giving birth makes me realize what a mess/b!tch i will be [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:17 PM Flag
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I don't know in general but I would hire help pp [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:11 PM Flag
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Grow up. You're going to be a parent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:09 PM Flag
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oh thanks - really great advice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:17 PM Flag
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sorry you are having problems, OP. suggest you go to see a perinatal psychiatrist or if just a regular psychiatrist that you can speak with and help you manage your emotions. GL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:16 PM Flag
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Therapy. Asap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:18 PM Flag
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I think OP was half joking with her post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:32 PM Flag
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scheduled c-section. I'm a control freak and c-section was great. Very quick, painless, safe [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:17 PM Flag
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Ha, I was uncharacteristically quiet and not angry during my 12 hour labor followed by emergency C-Section. I found the whole thing to be scary and humbling and was just happy my DC was healthy and I survived. You will surprise yourself. I got angry weeks later when the sleep deprivation set in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:22 PM Flag
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First congratulate yourself for having this incredible insight into yourself and seeking to change - many of us dramatic martyrs ;) never realize that we alone are the source of much of much of our misery. Next, take a look at the Five Agreements (easily found on the internet), which I have found to be a very helpful guide to keeping my own emotions and reactions under control. I am indifferent to much of the new age spiritualism that accompanies the Five Agreement, but find the actual advice to be incredibly helpful. [ Reply | More
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First Agreement: Be Impeccable With Your Word – Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid speaking against yourself or gossiping about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love. [ Reply | More
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Second Agreement: Don’t Take Anything Personally – Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. [ Reply | More
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Third Agreement: Don’t Make Assumptions – Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. [ Reply | More
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Fourth Agreement: Always Do Your Best – Your best is going to change from moment to moment. It will be different when you are healthy as opposed to when you are sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret. [ Reply | More
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Fifth Agreement: Be Skeptical, But Learn to Listen – Don’t blindly believe yourself or anybody else. Use the power of doubt to question everything you hear: Is it really the truth? [ Reply | More
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Try hypnobabies! Even if you disregard the natural childbirth part, it makes you feel strong and in control and at one with the childbirth process. The daily affirmations just make you feel good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone on that knows about Wagner middle school? I know two people going there and they put it first - I thought it was a zoned school and no big deal...? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:11 PM Flag
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It is a zoned school, but like Baruch, they have a special program (i.e. advanced, honors, Upper Middle class, or whatever you want to call it) that is very good and many smart dcs choose. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:59 PM Flag
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^^^you have to apply to the special program as a ranked school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Piano instructor is after me to increase length of dd's piano lesson. likes it ok but not a great passion of dds. is this just a way to generate more income or legit? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:01 PM Flag
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what is it currently? increase to what? how old is dd? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:03 PM Flag
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you know the answer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:05 PM Flag
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It was very lagit in our case but only you know [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:07 PM Flag
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yes, if you don't want to - just tell her no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:17 PM Flag
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It should be 1/2 hour unless dc is passionate or over age 14. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:23 PM Flag
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agree - 1 hour for a kid who is not passionate is too much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:34 PM Flag
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my kid's had 45 minute lessons since he was 10; not super passionate. works for him and his teacher. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:36 PM Flag
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^^inclides some theory and also they work on performance issues [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:37 PM Flag
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Depends. Our riding trainer wanted to increase dd's lessons to 3x a week at 60 each for a private and 45 for a group. However, dd 11 is passionate. On days she does not have lessons she still makes me drive her straight from school so she can hack around the ring, on Saturdays and Sundays she goes for 6 hours and brings a lunch. If the barn were not closed Mondays, she would go 7 days a week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:41 PM Flag
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op--sorry- stepped away, up to mins to 40 --3rd grader. instructor said she has some kids that age who do 50 mins w her but that my dd "does not need that yet" and i am thinking WHEN is she ever going to NEED it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 12:44 PM Flag
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I had 15 minute lessons until I was 9, then upped to 30. 30 is plenty - the true learning will come from dds own practice. If she's not into it, making her sit with an instructor for even longer won't make her a better musician. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:01 PM Flag
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We upped DD's lesson from 30 to 60 minutes when she was 11 and had been playing for three years. Often during the lesson DD and her teacher will talk about music. They may talk about music theory or about a composer or about the teacher's other life as a performer. So the extra time in the lesson meant that these conversations could take place and the teacher wasn't using the time to just march her through her playing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:31 PM Flag
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this sounds good if you're ok with it and feel it's worth it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.13, 01:34 PM Flag
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