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[ - ] How do you carry a bugaboo or uppababy vista up and down subway stairs or onto bus? Do you just avoid it and walk the sidewalks? These don't really fold up 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:49 PM Flag
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Public transportation?? How plebby. I don't want anyone touching my baby's bug. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:50 PM Flag
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can't use them for bus or subway, really. buy a cheap umbrella stroller to use on public transportation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:56 PM Flag
[ - ] s/o 36 years old, married no kids. $300K HHI. $700K Mutual Funds. $200K 401K. $50K Savings. Rent. No debt. How am I doing financially? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:47 PM Flag
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VBA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:55 PM Flag
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Very Below Average? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:49 PM Flag
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Ha! Just googled that. NO, it wasn't at all but glad to hear it. Given I live in NYC and a meager $300K is far below my peers income. It's actually quite stressful, but much of the reason we will be moving. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:51 PM Flag
[ - ] S/0 student loans. How much did you start with ? Are they paid off? If not , balance? I started with 22k, now at 2,900. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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None, fortunately [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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Nice! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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I think I had 40k. Maybe a bit more... From law school. I'm in the teens now! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:47 PM Flag
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Together, we had around 100k, due to med school for me and phd for DH. Paid it off the first yr after I started working. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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Started with 20k, added 10k for masters. paid off 4k so far. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:52 PM Flag
[ - ] 26 years old. 26K in student loans. 10k in retirement. Almost 10k in savings. How am I doing financially? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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Not too bad, what is your HHI? Can you pay down some of that loan? Living at home? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:42 PM Flag
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Live in the city. I had about 20k in loans undergrad (paid off 4k, I guess?) And took out 10 for my masters. Just graduated. Make 33k part-time. Will make 50k base with some overtime at new job. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:49 PM Flag
[ - ] I am a moderate drinker (2-3 glasses of wine per day.) If I stop completely (except 2-3 on weekends) will I lose much weight? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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Everyday ? You area heavy drinker dear [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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This [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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Hello this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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BS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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I drink the same. When I stop drinking, every once in a while for detox purposes, my weight doesn't change. I would suggest it's not the wine that causes any weight issues. My two cents... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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NP-I would suggest you're in denial... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:44 PM Flag
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Nope. I'm the same. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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Thanks for the suggestion. I guess I'll just have to suffer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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Depends in how big your pour, but I'd say you'd lose a little less than a pound a week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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A lot of wine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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You are an alcoholic. :( Get some help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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Oh please. Only in America. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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This is not moderate IMO. fwiw. But to answer your question, yes. Also you will get better sleep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:44 PM Flag
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are you a woman or a man? If a woman, that's not moderate drinking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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you're on the verge of alcoholism. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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I am not a drinker but in Europe, this is not considered heavy drinking. Is this considered heavy here? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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Ask your doctor. You're killing your liver. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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probably. and you'll save money. that's a lot of wine per week! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Moving to Chicago... DH and I are both early 30's want children but not for any other few years. Rent in the city and buy in the burbs later? Or buy in the burbs now? Or buy something cheap in the city we can unload easily? HHI is 200+ no debt. What neighborhood/suburbs? DH works in the loop. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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^^Should say not for another few years [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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I wouldn't buy any RE in the next few years that you think you can 'easily unload'. Too unpredictable still. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:42 PM Flag
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Op: this was my thought too... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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Don't move to the suburbs until you have school-age children. Look in Old Town, Lincoln Park, Bucktown and Roscoe Village. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:44 PM Flag
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+1. Live in the city if you are young and childless! Those hoods are all good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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NP: agree, definitely live in the city. Make sure you're in a good school district like Burley, Blaine, or Bell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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Totally live in the city. Never understand why people without kids move to the burbs... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:48 PM Flag
[ - ] How did Karp's mother know it was ok to let him be on the computer all the time to "pursue his passion?" That it was ok for him not to finish hs? Obviously she did know but how, wouldn't the "responsible" thing be to say, at least finish hs, then you'll see? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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It's not like he quit altogether. He was home schooled. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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IQ is what matters. She knew he had high IQ and had confidence. Same with Bill Gates and Zuck [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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but still if your kid was on the computer all day and night wouldn't you say, go out and get some fresh air (like the Times reports she did not say). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:50 PM Flag
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He looks (and sounds) like a fairly distinctive character. I am sure she wanted him to succeed, and realized he had the best chance to do this by focusing only on his strengths, as opposed to becoming well-rounded. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Depressd. I bought heels and i cant stand in them for long. I am 37 and i find it very hard to wear heels anymore 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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Depressed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:32 PM Flag
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why just shoes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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How high are the heels? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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4.5 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:41 PM Flag
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That's high, OP. I love high heels, wear high heels, but anything above 2" is a bit much. Love them, own them, but they are not meant for walking:) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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do you have high arches? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:30 PM Flag
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So buy Dr. Scholl's to get to and from events. I think moms who push strollers in heels are trying too hard. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/ivanka-trump-herly-sandal/3533728?origin=fashionresultspreview [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:32 PM Flag
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Shoe insets. I have them in all my shoes and I'm 26 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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someday, the inserts aren't going to cut it and you will have to wear sensible footwear. bwahahahaha. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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I rarely wear heels because they hurt too much. It's gotten worse as I've gotten older. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:41 PM Flag
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Same here. Vast majority of shoes are not wearable comfortable. Pretty heels are not worth the pain for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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Same here. Rarely wear heels. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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I get cramps in the front of my feet after wearing heels...I had to stop. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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Me too! Do you have flat feet? I think that's my problem. Now I wear flats to work, slip on the high heels while I am there, and slip them off as soon as the day is over. Wear non-cute shows when I go out. Sad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:49 PM Flag
[ - ] Worst date ever? My brother brings a girl (fairly new) to a family wedding. When they arrive her name card says Brian's Guest, although they do find one with her name eventually. Then there is not chair at her place setting, so brother sits down and makes her stand to wait (she should have sat while he waited). He then spilled his drink on her TWICE. He chatted with long distance cousin most of the night making girlfriend a little annoyed. Then he took her out to a bar with some cousins where he and one of the cousins cried for over an hour!!!!! 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:24 PM Flag
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Your brother doesn't sound like a good date. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:25 PM Flag
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Why were you on a date with your brother? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:25 PM Flag
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NP-read her post again, it was a wedding. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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Yes, we were seated at the same table at a family wedding. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:24 PM Flag
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Your brother is an asshole. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:27 PM Flag
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true. but the girl is a dummy b/c that prob wasn't the first time he was a prick to her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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op: I know. The last girl he dated clung to him for TEN years before I flat out told him he needed to put a ring on it or tell her he would never marry her so she had a chance to find someone else. He is a disaster. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:26 PM Flag
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How old is your brother? Is he open to get some dating advice/instruction from you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:25 PM Flag
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32...he listens when I yell. ;) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:27 PM Flag
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Please yell at him! He needs to get better at dating or you will never be an aunt! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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some woman wasted her entire 20's on him? some women need help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:30 PM Flag
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True, but he strung her along. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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Yeah, I mean she was totally at fault too for being an idiot, but I told him he had to end it with her, and he finally did. I hope she finds someone to make her happy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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What happened in his childhood that contributed to him being how he is? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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I'm not a shrink. Mom was overly religious. Dad was a follower. He's a schmoozer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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And a loser. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:42 PM Flag
[ - ] I want to lose 5 pounds. At 5'7", I feel most confident at 133. Is it diet or exercise to both lose and maintain? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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For me it's diet. Exercise makes me more hungry and crave carbs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:26 PM Flag
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Diet. I am 5'7 and 133 too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:21 PM Flag
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OP- thanks. Do you find this hard to maintain? What do you typically eat each day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:28 PM Flag
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No I think this is my set weight. I try not to overdo it on carbs. Lots of veggies, fish, chicken as well as things like beans and lentils and eggs. I definitely will eat a slice or pizza or get ice cream if I want it though, just not every day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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^^ Like tonite for dinner we're having chicken and asparagus, no starch. I had a little mozzarella and tomato too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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Do you drink wine? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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I used to but mostly stopped because of TTC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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Did your weight drop when you stopped wine? And good luck TTC! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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Not as much as I thought it would! I think you make up the calories elsewhere or something [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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The more you exercise (cardio)the hungrier you get. 3,500 caloric deficit=1lb weight loss. Find out how much your body needs to maintain then create a 500calorie caloric daily deficit to lose a pound a week.Good luck [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:21 PM Flag
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OP - thanks for this. So, just burning 500 calories a day on the elliptical should take care of things, right, even if I don't change anything else? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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As long as you don't eat more to make it up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:38 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm making dinner for out of town friends. They are staying at a hotel. They're an hour late! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:21 PM Flag
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Rude [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:15 PM Flag
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Rude of them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:16 PM Flag
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What's their excuse? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:20 PM Flag
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Got caught up chatting with old friends... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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Not good enough. I'd start without them. Thoughtless tardiness gets you left overs! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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are they jet lagged? i was so jet lagged once, i actually slept through a meet-up with a friend. it was horrible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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Not really. They are from MidWest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Think I am over my narcissist!! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:15 PM Flag
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Good! The only way to deal "with" a narcissist (or sociopath) is to get as far away from the creature as possible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:13 PM Flag
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Ha! I read that as narcissism! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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It's much better than being under him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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run [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:31 PM Flag
[ - ] I need something fun for a small group of people in their 20s-30s on Friday night. Any ideas? A fun (but not pricey) restaurant? An event or cool bar/music/comedy venue? I'm still new to the city and drawing a blank. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:14 PM Flag
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Little Italt is fun if you haven't been there in awhile. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:17 PM Flag
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Go to a museum bar- the Met, MoMA, or Guggenheim - all have drinks and small plates offered. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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The Improv for comedy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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A friend organized bowling recently for a group of 30-something couples and we had more fun than I expected. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:47 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm not a bigot and I'm all for gay rights. In fact, I don't even see this as LGBT discrimination. An 18 yr old should not date a 14 yr old. Period. I could care less about sexual orientation. 52 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:14 PM Flag
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You could or you couldn't? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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Op: If you cannot understand my statement, just move on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:17 PM Flag
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You're funny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:18 PM Flag
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If you can't write in a coherent manner that shows intelligence on your part and respect for your readers, then go post on a toilet stall somewhere. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:19 PM Flag
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OP: You're a petty fool. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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You're a potty fool, which is where you belong. Swirlies for your entire toothless family! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:29 PM Flag
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For the record - this is not OR - but lady, whoever you are, I wish I had your wit :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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Really ? It's pretty clear her post [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:19 PM Flag
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OR here - it is. It is pretty clear, her post. Among other beliefs, OP "could care less" about sexual orientation. I was just having fun because it's hard to take anyone who says "I could care less" seriously. I'll leave you guys alone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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I agree, but they are using bigotry to make this point. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:16 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:17 PM Flag
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OP: Then give her a slap on the wrist and make it clear that from this point on, this kind of relationship (older/younger) will not be tolerated. I would forbid my 14 yr old from dating an 18yr old. And frankly, the 18 yr old should know better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:21 PM Flag
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What about your 15 year old? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:19 PM Flag
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OP: I would forbid 15 yr old as well. I think 16 is an appropriate age for dating an 18 yr old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:27 PM Flag
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yeah, good luck with your 'forbidding'. Which will turn into your daughter doing whatever the fuck she wants to spite you and simply hiding it from you!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:32 PM Flag
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Wouldn't 16 also be considered rape? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:49 PM Flag
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Happens all the time. Freshman in high school dates the senior... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:17 PM Flag
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There also now 19 years old in high school because they were red shirted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:18 PM Flag
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I don't think it's great for an 18 year old to date a 14 year old. I don't think it rises to criminal. It is not the same as a 30 year old dating a 14 year old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:18 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:15 PM Flag
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OP: I actually think it is close. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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Not even a little bit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:24 PM Flag
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Really? When they attend the same school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:26 PM Flag
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OP: Yes. There is a bigger difference emotionally and cognitively between a 1yr old and a 3yr old. Just as there would be between a 15 yr old and a n 18 yr old. There is practically no difference between a 47yr old and a 50 yr old. The older you get, the more minor the differences. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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^^^^^or less major^^^^^ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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I agree. However there isn't really the same power differential between a freshman and a senior,as there is between a 14 year old and an adult. There are also mature 14 year olds and immature 18 year olds. I personally think an adult dating a high school senior is worse than a senior dating a freshman. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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You could care less? What an uneducated moron you are. Learn how to express yourself or go back under your vermin-infested rock. I hope you don't have children. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:21 PM Flag
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+1 The next retard who says this will be shot at dawn. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:17 PM Flag
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The new regime is harsh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:25 PM Flag
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Harsh but fair. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:19 PM Flag
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OP: LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:24 PM Flag
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Dear go and take your meds [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:20 PM Flag
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I love you! Finally someone who will take on these illiterate idiots who have no regard for language, yet who probably whine about their FAS spawn not getting into some TT school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:24 PM Flag
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"Could care less" is the worst trailer park expression ever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:28 PM Flag
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Finally? A good 30% of posts on UB are correcting someones grammar [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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Agree - an 18 year old is worlds apart from a 14 year old [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:17 PM Flag
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Carpet munching should NOT be a crime [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:18 PM Flag
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Muff chomper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:20 PM Flag
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OP: It's not about orientation. 14 yr old is too young for an 18yr old. The 18 yr old will most likely have a lot power in this situation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:30 PM Flag
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^^^too much power^^^ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:30 PM Flag
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Oh, it will be over in a few months. High school relationships don't last. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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OP: Too many things can happen to a 14yr old girl within a few months. Too many things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:21 PM Flag
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The girls are 18 and 15 - a HS senior and sophomore. Of course that's OK - so many HS couples are in that age group. [ Reply | More
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what i miss? who what where [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:22 PM Flag
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In Florida, and 18 yr old senior girl and a 15 yr old sophomore girl were dating and the 18 yr old was arrested for statutory rape. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:30 PM Flag
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When I was 16 I dated a guy who was 24. Not in USA . I am fine. There are things I regret but not that. I would have being very upset if I was forbidden under the assumption I was not ready. I was. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:25 PM Flag
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An 18yo HS senior can't date a 14yo HS freshman or sophmore? DISAGREE a billion percent. I dated a senior when I was in HS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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Hijack. I wonder what the definition of rape is in Florida? In NYC I don't think a woman could rape another woman, it would be sexual assault or something else, but not rape. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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OP: I just thought about something. Technically can you charge a lesbian with "rape"? A woman does not have penis. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:40 PM Flag
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She used a strap on [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:47 PM Flag
[ - ] When we moved into our current apartment we gave DF a bunch of stuff that wouldn't work in our new place. Now we are moving out, coincidentally DF is moving in with her BF. She asked us if we wanted any of our stuff back. We do, she's happy to give us back almost everything we asked for except she wants to keep the air conditioner. DH is annoyed that she won't give it back. I think we gave them to her, she's not obligated to give any of it back. Even if she was, we can get another AC for $100 off craigslist. Should I ask for it back more strongly, or just let her keep it? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:14 PM Flag
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Of course not; you gave these things to her, and now they're hers to do with what she wants. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:11 PM Flag
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this - it was nice of her to even offer to give back any stuff [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:26 PM Flag
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I wouldn't ask again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:17 PM Flag
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You gave it to her. It's hers now. Awful to ask for it back IMO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:19 PM Flag
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If you want to keep the friend, spend the $100 to get a new AC. You did give them to her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:15 PM Flag
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OP: Thank you. I was begging to feel crazy. How do I get DH to see this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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you don't. just say shell out $100 unless he wants to deal with her himself while you tell her it isn't your idea and apologize in front of him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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No. Her apartment was not a free storage facility. You should be grateful for what she is giving back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:26 PM Flag
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Geez, really? How is your dh other than how cheap he is?! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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OP: he's pretty great. But he IS cheap, the other day he told me I bought the "fancy advil" because I bought store brand liquid gells. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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