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[ - ] How many miles on a car is safe? Mine has 200k and I want to turn it in, but my boyfriend has driven his up to 265 and says I might as well just keep it until it gives out. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:10 AM Flag
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IDK, we had our volvo station wagon for more than 500 growing up. But my dad was also good with repairs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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it's totally safe as long as you do the maintenace on it. i'd do as bf does but i don't care about status. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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ITA. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:45 AM Flag
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Cars built in the last couple of decades can run hundreds of thousands of miles as long as they are maintained. The idea of cars "dying" at 100K or so is from the 70s and early 80s [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:44 AM Flag
[ - ] hung jury on jodi arias sentencing 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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I vote for death penalty. She's a savage. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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i don't believe in dp but she does sound really sociopathic [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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Hang her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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Fry her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:28 AM Flag
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Don't. Care. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:43 AM Flag
[ - ] When I married DW she had dark brown shiny hair. Now she dies it with henna streaks and it is getting frizzy and dowdy. I want her to dye it dark brown and shiny again, with no loose ends. For her it's a measure of her independence and sense of identity to self-dye it red-yellow. Am I within my contractual rights to demand a return to the original color? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:57 PM Flag
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Only if you live in a Muslim state. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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Idiot [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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fAAAAAAAke [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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the frizzy/dowdy might be age. you can't dye things shiny or you'd never see bad hair. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:00 AM Flag
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Dye things shiny... Lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:02 AM Flag
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Yep. That should work out well. Demand it then please post an update, telling us how it went. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:02 AM Flag
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Ummm. I think if she is deliberately dyeing her hair a color you hate, then the hair is a symptom of a bigger problem in your marriage. Therapy, perhaps? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Depends on what your contract says. Mine didn't mention hair color [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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How old is she? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:58 PM Flag
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Buy her Morrocan Oil deep conditioning treatment and the daily hair oil. That will help a lot. Does she know you hate her hair? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Maybe it's bc of the cost of upkeep? Buy her a package at a local/decent salon for a cut, color and glaze/deep conditioning treatment... Maybe a keratin treatment to smooth her hair, too! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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PS there is upkeep to color- she may need to go every 3-5 weeks for root touch-ups, and will need trims a couple times per year. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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No, but why don't you give her a spa day gift which includes an appointment to have her hair done. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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I actually disagree with everyone else. You owe it to your significant other to, at the very least, look as good as you did when you started dating as much as possible. Sure people age but there's no need to just not take care of yourself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:11 AM Flag
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But to DEMAND??? To a woman who changed her hair to gain independence and sense of self? That just does not seem like a logical way for DH to get what he wants. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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What about the DH?? What does his hair look like, LOL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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OR men are not exempt!! I would be kind of annoyed if the man I married just stopped giving a shit, too... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:26 AM Flag
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Have you ever thought about the following: 1) your wife is getting older and hair texture does change with age, especially when gray hair is added to the mix. 2) Perhaps instead of the big coverup being with the red/yellow hair NOW, it seems like perhaps your DW was coloring her hair and doing a great bit of upkeep when she was younger and it was "dark brown and shiny". No one purposefully chooses dowdy frizzy hair, it is more likely that she chooses to no longer keep up the lengthy treatments that allowed her to make her naturally "dowdy" frizzy mousy brown hair into the dark shiny hair that attracted you. I wouldn't take it personally. Perhaps instead of wanting her past look, you should instead gift her a day of pampering with a stylist that you've conferenced with prior to help her find a NEW look that works for her AND embraces her natural assets. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:32 AM Flag
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What about treating her to a full day at a spa that includes haircut and color? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:13 AM Flag
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Depends on your prenup. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:29 AM Flag
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This is a question only in Manhattan. Learn to love. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:01 AM Flag
[ - ] Being a SAHD is weird to me. Women should be the primary ones raising the children. I'm not misogynistic, I believe in maternal instincts/god-given parenting capacities. No, I'm not a bible-thumper. 38 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:55 PM Flag
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I think so too, except if the mother is dead [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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DH is SAHD. I'm jealous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:02 AM Flag
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I'm not attracted to men who want to quit their jobs and stay home with kids all day, so this won't be a problem for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:10 AM Flag
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What if they don't choose it readily? mom makes more money when DC is born, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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as long as someone's bringing home the bacon [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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this! a SAHD is better than a nanny any day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:56 AM Flag
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BIG generalization here! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:29 AM Flag
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I disagree. You cannot compare a loving parent to a nanny. No matter how great your nanny is - she is not a parent [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:34 AM Flag
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not a problem for me either - you won't be hitting on my dh (as so many do!) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:56 AM Flag
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Did you see blue valentine? Wife feels nausea and revulsion towards husband who makes less money than her. she cheats with higher earning man [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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SAHD revolts many women. But not ALL WOMEN. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:19 AM Flag
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it depends on how much hhi all-in. this also applies with men and sahm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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Just, oh, about 95%. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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my friend is very driven, serious career in finance, her dh has same education and career but loves kids. She was glad for him to be a SAHD as they both wanted a parent at home and it freed her up to go for it. Key is that she WANTED to work that way, she is self-motivated and hungry, so no resentment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:24 AM Flag
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Freeloading is repugnant, regardless of genitalia. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:19 AM Flag
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OK so SAH parents are freeloaders? You disgust me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:19 AM Flag
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Sure, what do you do when they are in school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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They're not. Haha. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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they take them and pick them up, they care for them on holidays, during the summer and when they are sick. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:57 AM Flag
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Whatever. Lots of adult children freeload off of parents, others off of spouses. Just don't ask for severance when you get fired. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:52 AM Flag
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I can't even imagine what you are like in real life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:06 AM Flag
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I'm great. You lack imagination. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:33 AM Flag
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So SAHMs are freeloaders? I'm ok with that, but just say it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:05 AM Flag
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SAHD is fine with adopted baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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Ugh you guys are so backward and sexist. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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Well, I do not retch when I meet a SAHD. But most of the moms at my DD's school do. They are catty and merciless! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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the cool thing is, dads don't really care what a bunch of bitchy women think or say. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:57 AM Flag
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And no one cares. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:06 AM Flag
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It makes you feel special to think you are the only one who can raise the kids, but it is complete nonsense. women will never have equality in the work place till men are treated as equals as parents. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:49 AM Flag
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THIIIIIIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:15 AM Flag
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"god-given parenting capacities" - I think that makes you a bible-thumper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:52 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:58 AM Flag
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thanks for sharing! My dh and ds have the most awesome relationship. We must not fit into your beliefs because he is the much better stay at home parent and I earn a fine living and am thrilled to do so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:55 AM Flag
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You are very small-minded. How sad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:31 AM Flag
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God doesn't exist, so there are no god-given capacities. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:32 AM Flag
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God does exist. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:58 AM Flag
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Well that settles it, then. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:04 AM Flag
[ - ] Just started tracking my calories. I felt like I ate so healthfully today, but the app said I am 75g over on sugar. Other than the spoon of sugar in my coffee, and spoon of honey in my yogurt, the only sugar I've eaten has been fruit. Is this unhealthy? Or more likely is My Fitness Pal a crappy app? Can anyone recommend a better one? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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Did you eat any carbs? Carbs are sugar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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I had some nuts. I haven't even had dinner yet I have 500+ calories left. This is really frustrating. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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Nuts are not carbs. 500 calories for dinner is a bit light unless you don't work out at all. Have some salad and a good size portion of protein to curb hunger. Some yogurt and fruit for dessert. Screw that app, sounds like junk. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:07 AM Flag
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I only got up to 500 calories after running for half an hour. I've had coffee with milk and sugar, a banana, a yogurt with nuts and honey, and an apple. I'm STARVING, this sucks I'm going to try another another calculator. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:12 AM Flag
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If that's all you've had all day, then that app is worthless. You will fail if you are hungry. You need to eat high protein, high veggies (leafy greens, broccolli, asparagus, brussel sprouts, salads, avoid carrots they have tons of sugar, some green/red peppers are okay, onions are great for flavor, same for garlic), SOME fruit - like 1-2 servings a day, then a good amount of dairy (the protein will satiate you.) Lots of water, low alcohol. Do this with regular working out, allow yourself a treat 1x/week (chocolate cake, ice cream, whatever) but DO NOT CHEAT other than that treat. You will get in shape fast, I promise. Other than the treat, NO CARBS: no rice, paste, bread, crackers. Those are what are making you fat. Nuts in small amounts are okay, good snack is raw almonds. Cut out all white sugar, use raw honey or just regular honey (raw is much better, and tastes great and is totally safe.) GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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*no potatoes either [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:23 AM Flag
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Thats crazy. I'd eat all of that before lunch and I'm not overweight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:23 AM Flag
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Replace the fruit with vegetables. Skip the honey. Get rid of sugar in coffee; if you buy nice quality coffee, you can really appreciate its taste without sugar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:20 AM Flag
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Tell me everything you ate today I am an expert on hidden sugar [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:11 AM Flag
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See above [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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OR oh my god your diet has been almost completely sugar: milk has some if it was skinny, honey, fruit, yogurt, apple, sugar. I'm sorry to be brutal but you've had an unhealthy day and I can see why you're hungry. You need protein for breakfast, way more vegetables, no sugar, no honey, one-two pieces of fruit max. Protein and vegetables for dinner.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:25 AM Flag
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Did you drink milk? Although it's a different type of sugar, it completely screws my sugar intake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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*Do you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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I really, really, really wouldn't worry about it, b/c milk is really good for you and especially important for women. however pp is right, the milk and yogurt contain natural sugars. All that really matters for weight loss is the calorie count though. both fruit and dairy are healthy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:26 AM Flag
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Fruit is sugar. Natural candy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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Not really. Fruit is high fiber, which slows sugar absorptiom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:27 AM Flag
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Not really. It is pure sugar without a drop of protein. Oranges etc are not absorbed all that slowly and whenever they get absorbed, it's sugar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:23 AM Flag
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My fitness pal is the best app [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:26 AM Flag
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It sounds like you have a lot of sugar in your diet. Replace the fruit with veggies like celery, green beans or sugar snap peas. Yes, these have a little sugar, but they will not make you hungrier. Dip them in some salad dressing with decent fat like olive or canola oil. It will help with the hunger. I find yogurt, especially nonfat yogurt makes me extra hungry so I avoid it. Get more protein from eggs, lowfat cheese, seafood or meat. Always make sure you have some fat in your meals. I use MyFitnessPal too, and I disregard the goal numbers except for the calories. I tend to eat way less carbs, more protein and more fat than they recommend and it keeps me full. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:47 AM Flag
[ - ] really truly need a great dermatologist that takes insurance. anyone? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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Just go to regular doctor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:50 PM Flag
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uh. regular doc doesn't do derm exams. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:05 AM Flag
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Mine does. Only thing they won't do is accutane. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:10 AM Flag
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^^I used to go to Gold or Goldman on Broadway (150). I think my insurance covered some of it, but not all. It was still fairly expensive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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Advanced Dermatology [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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For medical dermatology? Leon De Mar - 5th & 79th. I know he takes United. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:19 AM Flag
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Dr Vine...she's wonderful. West 12st [ Reply | More
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Dr. Zizmor doesn't take insurance? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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Tribeca Dermatology - I forget what its called google it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:38 AM Flag
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Laser & Skin Surgery Center on East 34th--see anyone there *EXCEPT* Robert Anolik, who is completely unprofessional and inappropriate. He is disgusting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:38 AM Flag
[ - ] DH tells his family far too much about our personal finances and as much as I tell him how much this bothers me, he doesn't stop. FIL has a huge mouth too! So annoyed! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:50 PM Flag
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are you guys poor/rich or why is this a prob? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:57 PM Flag
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First, I don't think it's their business. Secondly, they seem to think we have far more than we do, and it's ok to ask us for money. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:05 AM Flag
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that sucks. just say no, i guess. after a couple times, they stop. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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Going out for a huge family dinner, DH will pay and feel/be expected to then complain to me that our CC bill is too high next month. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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Mention this likelihood BEFORE the dinner. Put it in post-it form on BR mirror. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:32 AM Flag
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Sounds like he brags. Unseemly, IMO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:31 AM Flag
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Are you jewish [ Reply | More
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why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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Same here. NOSY SILS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:20 AM Flag
[ - ] I think something is wrong with my boss' newborn baby. Should I contact him to ask how things are going and what I can do to help him at work? He was supposed to return Wednesday (I was out, planned) and today I found out he didn't come back due to complications and will return next week. I hope he is just enjoying an extra long weekend, but I am worried too. :( 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:49 PM Flag
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People share personal information when they want to. Fine to send a note of congrats and ask how everyone is doing - nothing more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:57 PM Flag
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depends on your relationship with him. If I were in your shoes, yes, I would reach out and ask how things are going. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:57 PM Flag
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I report to him...very very odd he didn't touch base with me and let me know he wasn't in on Wednesday AND Thursday. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:06 AM Flag
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stop spazzing out. could be as simple as jaundice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:57 PM Flag
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I hope it as simple as Spring fever, but he hasn't left me any directions, and there isn't much I can do! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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IMHO, one should never ask if problems. Sit tight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Can I text him and say I heard he would be out until Friday and I will see him on Tuesday? Really no point in me going in if he isn't there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:12 AM Flag
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you only work if your boss is there? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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He has been out for a long time, and I have finished the last project today. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:19 AM Flag
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That is a very selfish priority. I get that you want to know if you should go to work, but if there IS something wrong with his kid and you bother him to find out if you should go to work, then you will be on his shit list FOREVER. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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But if he has the time/energy to have a 5 minute conversation with me, he can give me something to do... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:19 AM Flag
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NO. DO NOT DO THIS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:26 AM Flag
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Don't bother him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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I'm a fan of letting people know that you are thinking of them and hope that all is well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:56 AM Flag
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Why don't you wait until Tuesday and then check in if he still has not returned? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Mom if three here - 5, 3, and 6 months. Third kid really threw me off and I feel like I'm spinning out of control. How should I handle bedtime? Neglecting reading to my oldest dd because the baby is crying and three year old is climbing everywhere. Do moms of three stagger bedtimes from youngest to oldest? Should I have alone time with each or just my oldest? Really need help, feeling like I really bit off more than Icould chew. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:49 PM Flag
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is it possible to hire a babysitter around bedtime to help you out a bit? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:54 PM Flag
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I don't know if that's possible. I can afford it, but I don't know how I would find someone who is available just for an hour or two each night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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I live near Columbia University, so there are many young girls who are looking to earn a little extra money and willing to take on babysitting jobs. Good luck to you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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Where do you find them? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:01 AM Flag
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OP, where do you live? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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http://barnardbabysitting.com/parents/frequently-asked-questions/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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This is common and you'll feel like this a lot. Many, many people stagger their kids at 2-3 years. You just soldier through. If they're all alive and unharmed, you're doing OK. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:50 PM Flag
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Stagger! Can you do the youngest first, say 7pm? 7.30pm for 3 year old & 8pm for 5 year old? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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Read all together - each of the older kids picks one book. Put DB in a carrier or sling and rock while you read if they're fussy - or nurse during the story. Both 3 and 5Yo should be adept at turning pages. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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this is a good idea. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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it's going to be impossible to have alone time with the 5 yo unless they go to bed very late! here's what i did: put 6 mo to bed first (they should be going to sleep around 7 or so anyway), then read to the 5yo and 3yo at the same time. Once they get into the routine, it will be easy! good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:58 PM Flag
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Can DH help? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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My #1 is older so it's a bit easier for me. I stagger all 3 but in your case I would put db down first and then the 2 older dcs together. Mine are 9mo, 2 yo, and 8 yo. Db eats at 6:30 down no later than 7pm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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Try Care.com There are a lot of good candidates on there. Be very specific in your ad about what you need. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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I had a similar spread. If baby was not sleeping, I would wear baby in a sling. Bathe 3 yo first while 5 yo would watch a short video and put 5 yo in tub while quickly putting 3 yo to bed, then put 5 yo to bed. This only works if you have a VERY solid bedtime routine. It was actually easier when DH was not around to stir them up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:30 AM Flag
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This is going to sound complicated, but bare with me. I Agree with having a group reading time. Put Baby in sling or nurse and have 5 year old "read" a book to the younger ones, even if he is just making it up. Then read a younger level book for the 3 year old and let the 5 year old page through any other book or kid magazine if he wants. Read about 4 books this way and then have the 5 year old have their own time, meaning that he can do whatever he wants, read, play on ipad, play with quiet toys, listen to book on tape whatever, as long as he stays in his bed and calm. Take baby with you to put 3 year old to bed. If the baby will stay in bouncy chair, then great. Read just one quick book to 3 year old and then say night night you'll check on him in a few minutes. At this point, put Baby down. Take the time to rock, do whatever routine you need and put baby down. (Let baby cry if he does not fall asleep, sometimes you need to give time to the older and let the little one fuss, the odds are by the third night he will fall right to sleep and if he doesn't your only going to be 15 min at the most) Check on 3 year old, head to 5 year old, read 2 books, night night I'll check on you in a few. Then back to baby if crying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:04 AM Flag
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How old are your dcs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:17 AM Flag
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wow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:58 AM Flag
[ - ] I posted last week about finally admitting that I have an alcohol problem and that I was going to seek rehab. Anyway, just came out of the hospital from a two day detox (which went well because I didn't have acute withdrawal), and will now start out-patient rehab tomorrow in a program set up for professionals who wish to continue to work during rehabilitation. Thanks to all the posters who offered me support in my prior post. Right now I'm feeling a bit under the weather but I'm so grateful to be this far. Being in a detox unit, however, was a huge eye opener. I knew that people had problems, but there's nothing like seeing it first hand. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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Good luck! You can do it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:47 PM Flag
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your post makes me want a drink right now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:55 PM Flag
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OP: that's mild compared to the chick who complained to the nurse that I was an FBI agent and was sneaking around looking for people to arrest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:54 PM Flag
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you mean they are not only drunks, but cuckoo in the dry tank? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:06 AM Flag
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Yes! Just like on UB! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:23 AM Flag
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Stay strong. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:55 PM Flag
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You should be proud of the steps you have taken. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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Good for you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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I'm the one whose dad was an alcoholic lawyer. crazy as it sounds, your post makes me feel really proud of you. Hang in there, we're rooting for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:28 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:37 AM Flag
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OP: thanks, I remember your post and I really appreciated it. People can snark and be judgmental, but frankly, that doesn't bother me anymore. Too much to lose, too many people to hurt, too much time and contribution already lost. No one in my life knew except my immediate family, and now all these people are coming out of the woodwork (people that I admire and even envy) and are telling me: I've been there...I understand. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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The first step is the hardest - you are doing great!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:36 AM Flag
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So happy for OP. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:07 AM Flag
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Good for you! You can do this. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:44 AM Flag
[ - ] Any dentists on? My 3 year old fell into the door 3 weeks ago and hit his upper gum just above his teeth. A lot of blood, but it healed and he is fine, eating normal, etc. Urgent care doctor that saw him the day after the accident gave his teeth a tug and said he will be ok. However, I recently noticed that the one tooth seems slightly grey. What is going on? Should I worry or leave it be? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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it's "bruising." very likely will disappear on its own. my ds's did. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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go see park ave pediatric dentistry in the am. they are the only people i trust. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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she doesn't need to do this. she already went to a dentist and anyway, nothing she can do at this point unless she wants a root canal which isn't recommended for baby teeth. it is very likely just bruising. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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trust? you should check your bills every once in a while - they overbill for everything and bill for services that they should not have. ask for your credit card without showing you an itemized bill - when I ask for it is when I see billing errors and the look on the girl at the desks face seems shocked that anyone would want to dare see a bill before paying. sorry unimpressed and switched and am so much happier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:56 AM Flag
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tooth root might have died. Watch in case he seems in pain for an abscess, in which case you need to get it pulled. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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This happened to my dd. Dentist said it could either stay gray until it falls out or turn back to white. It turned back to white after a few months. Do watch for swelling, bleeding or pain. Abcess could develop. But as long as gum looks healthy he is fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Op: Thank you everyone [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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the tooth is probably dead. Its a baby tooth so not a big deal, but you should see a dentist [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:54 AM Flag
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the tooth is probably dead. Its a baby tooth so not a big deal, but you should see a dentist [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone (or any CPA's) get this letter from IRS? Our acct says not to worry, but it sure feels worrisome! Dear Taxpayer - We have received your income tax return and are in the process of conducting a thorough review of your return information. This review is part of an ongoing program the IRS conducts to ensure the accuracy of return information. Your return was selected bec we are reviewing one or more of the following - income you reported, income tax withholding amts you reported claims for tax credits, business income you reported 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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HHi ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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Are you a republican? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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Are you a Tea partier? If so, you can start worrying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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So fucked up but so true v [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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Yeah? And how would the IRS know she was a Tea Partier? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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What fucking planet are you on? The Cincinnati IRS Office demanded names of donors to Tea Party groups. They SAY now they have destroyed that information. They haven't said they didn't do anything with names. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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You are quite confused over the scandal. You are talking about groups looking for tax exempt status, not individuals as in the case of this woman. What planet are you on that you don't know the difference? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:53 AM Flag
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Where is your rock located? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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LOL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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donor list is public [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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501(c)(4) donor lists are not supposed to be public, but IRS demanded names. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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You are paranoid if you think they are cross referencing this. But, I expect no less from the stupid American public. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:54 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:49 PM Flag
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yeah. it's completely illegal now to disagree with the president. so you can always expect payback. so sad. but true. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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+1000, very disappointed in this presidency, and I voted for him twice :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:30 AM Flag
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God I hope he starts locking up the baggers. Sooner the better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:45 AM Flag
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We got something like that a few years ago. Accountant said it was random and not to worry. I was worried because at the time we were both self-employed. Acct. sent them what they wanted and it was fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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p.s we had low HHI [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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Are you self - employed ? HHI ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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I didn't get that letter this year, but I have in the past. You'll probably get a thick envelope and you'll have to submit all kinds of additional info to them by a certain date. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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Don't panic. I have always found the IRS is very reasonable. This sounds random. They may ask for more info. Just send it to them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:44 PM Flag
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We had one last year. They said we had taken a deduction that was undocumented - our mortgage interest deduction - stupid because it is just such an obvious deduction that we can prove. It was for $25K. Accountant said not to worry, he handled it, a few months later we received a notice saying the issue had been resolved. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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OP here -Thanks..HHI about 1.3.. also filing jointly for first time this year so maybe something to do with that? Both work for large corps and fairly straightforward income, stocks, mutual funds etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:02 AM Flag
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The IRS has said they are stepping up enforcement wrt households with over 1M income, although this seems like a matching issue to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:01 AM Flag
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They want more from you one percenters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:08 AM Flag
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I don't thing you meant that for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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If it is all straightforward, and your only income is W2 and investments, they will get everything they need from the other parties and just compare it to what you entered on your returns. Shouldn't be a big deal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:35 AM Flag
[ - ] How do I tell a guy I want him to ask me out on a date without scaring him off? Been chatting to him online for a week, I'm super interested, he is too I think (he pinged me first!) He said either the weekend or next week bec of work but I can't wait. My curiosity IS getting the better of me. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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Don't ask him to ask you. Just ask him out for something specific and time-bound. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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I asked him to brunch this weekend, he said yes but is being coy. This game playing is annoying. He was all up on me for the whole week but wasn't making a plan. I have plans for most of the weekend and don't want to not meet him, hence my question, so I ask him to go out now he's being aloof! I hate dating! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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Next time, don't ask guys out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 03:15 AM Flag
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Stay calm. Act like you have a full, busy life with lots of other plans and are not sitting around waiting for him to get in touch. Read the rules until they become second nature. Relax. If he's interested, he will orchestrate a meeting eventually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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do nothing. maybe not answer him back rigt away the next few times if you want to play games. but he doesnt sund interested so if i were you, i'd just leave it alone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Ink isn't even dry on BIL's job offer, and SIL is already bragging to me about buying 7 bedroom houses, a second vacation home, and a boat. I'm serious - she isn't even talking in hypotheticals, she's actually itching to start buying stuff. Kicker - they're going to be living with and mooching off of my in-laws for a while yet. Anyone want to trade families? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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Bankruptcy in 5.4.3.2.1... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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My SIL is the same. Bragging about a new house and we just found out my FIL is helping them out with the mortgage payments. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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It's the nice, hardworking parents who get taken advantage of. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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I won't trade, but my SIL is weird in the other direction. BIL got a great new job, hey had to relocate but SIL insisted on a teeny house, insists that they don't have $$$ for classes for Dcs and only 1 vacation every 5 years("they can go on their own dime!"). It's like she is getting off on acting poor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:47 PM Flag
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NP She may have grown up without a lot of money, or had parents who didn't model good financial habits. I kind of would prefer someone be more frugal and careful than overspend. (Although it sounds like she might be making herself miserable!) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:23 AM Flag
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I think you are talking about me. Everyone thinks we are teetering on the brink (thank you, gossips!), and we're doing great. Plus, it makes people feel good to think that someone is doing worse than they are, so why deprive them? I don't need to spend money until I'm ready, and certainly not to impress some housewives. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:41 AM Flag
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They are what we call nigger rich [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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who the hell is "we," your friends in the kkk? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:29 AM Flag
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Who is this "we", White Lady? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:28 AM Flag
[ - ] help me find a nice, light colored clutch for evening - something that will go with jeans and a dressy top, or dresses/skirts. Need to fit wallet, phone, keys, in it, and easy to carry (either with a strap or a hole through the bag that makes it easy to carry). I have looked online everywhere but can't find anything. Budget is $200. TIA! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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http://www.hobobags.com/Katrina___Sand_Croco/pd/c/24/np/24/p/2293.html [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:44 PM Flag
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Isn't this what department stores are made for? I like Lord and Taylor, go and they'll have a ton of different choices. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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Sadly, the only time I can look is in the evenings and everything is closed. :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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Where do you live? Macy's is open late. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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OP here - this is the one I found that I liked the shape and color, but it looks like plastic (probably because it is). I'd like something similar but that looks a little more adult. Oh, I just moved to burbs, so that causes some of the issues for me shopping now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=39245&vid=1&pid=410412032 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:02 AM Flag
[ - ] Most egregious or ridiculous brag you've heard lately? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:30 PM Flag
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A mom friend was "complaining" she couldn't get into her prepreg jeans. She has a 10mo and is a size 00 with what is becoming more and more obviously an eating disorder. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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Mom brags that her son is such a good walker. Child is 4, no physical issues. But he walks better than any other child [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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sounds harmless [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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There is more backstory but probably boring. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:43 AM Flag
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Ha ha, someone I know once posted on FB that she was "so proud" of her son when he started walking at 10 months or whatever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:54 AM Flag
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Someone told me that she was a star soccer player in HS. I asked if she played in college and she told me, no, she quit in HS because her coaches said she was so good that she was throwing off the entire league and making it unfair for all the other girls who weren't as good as she was. Did I mention this was my SIL? No? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:01 AM Flag
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har dee har har! carazzzzy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:08 AM Flag
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Yeah, she sounds unhinged. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 03:18 AM Flag
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My MIL took dc 5 to Barnes & Noble and came back claiming the people there thought she was dc's mom because she looks so young. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:02 AM Flag
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is she in her 40's or just crazy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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People are so scared of offending an "older" mother they'll suggest anyone is the mother. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 03:17 AM Flag
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lmao [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:35 AM Flag
[ - ] I can't wait for dc's preschool year to be over! Cliquish parents, spoiled kids, entitled families. DC made a list of kids she wanted to invite to her party this summer and out of 25 only 2 were from school. It was only one year, but it was one year too many there!. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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Oh go on tell us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:25 PM Flag
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Sorry you had a bad experience. I love our preschool, will be sad when ds leaves next year. UES TT? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:26 PM Flag
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Yes. Ours was two years, and it was the longest damned two years of my life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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This thread scares me. We start in sept and I'm hoping to meet nice people (though I know there is a lot of $$ at the school) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Where was is so I can avoid? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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UES TT [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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Nope UWS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:06 AM Flag
[ - ] The moms of the kids who seem the most "gifted" to me never brag about it, even when someone mentions something to them (I.e. Timmy did such a good job at X." 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:22 PM Flag
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They don't have to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:41 PM Flag
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This! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:07 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:31 AM Flag
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:55 AM Flag
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People often tell me how smart dcs are--I learned from experience that you sound like a bitch if you say anything other than switch the topic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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np. Ditto. I save all my bragging for the grandparents and, once in a while, UB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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I don't even do it on UB. He is what he is. No biggie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:00 AM Flag
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I guess there are women who feel compelled to brag and volunteer information about their brilliant children and those who just don't [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:47 PM Flag
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If your kids are smart, it will be obvious and people will figure it out. If its not, well.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:09 AM Flag
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Not so. Many exceedingly intelligent kids are put in special ed in public schools. It sounds strange, but anything deviating from the norm can throw off that system. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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You are confusing bright and capable with gifted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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I think that most parents usually only talk about it in the context of schools and opportunities for their children to learn. Right? Gifted kids need a certain education, that's really hard to find in public or private. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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So true. I always downplayed it when moms would say how smart my dd was, but I agree with you. I have had to become more vocal about it since trying to access the appropriate education for her. Not bragging at all, in fact, it would often be easier if we didn't have these issues, but finding the right school for a gifted child is tough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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Our school kept insisting that DS was struggling. The truth is they were just bad teachers. I had to go show them the IQ tests and examples of his work and some Moms thought I was demanding too much of the teachers time and didn't understand. Explaining that your kid is smart and needs help is weird and sounds like bragging, but it's not. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:54 AM Flag
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going through this now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:54 AM Flag
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some moms do even when their kids are really gifted. they are just really, really proud and wants the whole world to know. can't be helped -- in their personality. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:13 AM Flag
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I have only met one person who actually brags about their kids. For all the talk on UB, I don't see it in real life. People used to say my son was so smart and had an incredible amount of knowledge because he can recite statistics about all sorts of things. It always kind of embarrassed me because I didn't know what to say besides "thank you." Now, he's in a selective school and doing great, but at the time, in elementary, I had no idea how smart he was. How do these people know their kid is gifted at 3,4,5? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:40 AM Flag
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it's not that hard to spot a truly gifted child at 3, 4, 5. A psychiatrist suspected mine at an even earlier age. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:01 AM Flag
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Depends on the child. Lots of true "gifts" don't show themselves until much later. Which area is your child gifted in? Did the psychiatrist determine that at a very early age, or did you have to wait to find out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:59 AM Flag
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suspected - I refused to proceed with study/testing. DC is out of the ordinary. No big deal, extremely lucky the social parts are equally as good. I'm pretty sure dc won't cure cancer - but will live a fulfilling life and be a productive member of society. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:08 AM Flag
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This is just it. I don't think dc would have benefitted from a gifted elementary education in any major way, and would not have gotten him tested at 4. So much of those years are about socialization, and he doesn't need to learn Algebra in 4th grade to use his gift. KWIM? I just want him to have time to be a normal kid. He can develop his gifts in MS, HS, college or beyond. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:32 AM Flag
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agree [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:36 AM Flag
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they don't necessarily benefit from the academics in that setting, agreed. i don't know about your kid, but just because he's smart doesn't make him an angel. if he's bored, he's a total nightmare. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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only boring people are bored. intelligent people find a way to occupy their mind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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that's a fallacy for young gifted children in educational settings i'm afriad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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Cute little quote. Wholly inaccurate and not based in any fact though. http://www.davidsongifted.org/db/Articles_id_10361.aspx [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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best description ever: http://giftedkids.about.com/od/educationoptions/u/education.htm [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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disagree with "best ever" title. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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well, that's a helpful contribution. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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ITA. Nobody outside of close family members knows that DD tested at 8th grade reading level as a 4-year-old, that she's a Davidson scholar with a 99.9th percentile IQ, that her school is advocating another grade skip (she's already a year ahead). If somebody says she's smart, I reply that I'm happy she's starting to develop a good work ethic. On the other hand, a ridiculous "friend" recently bragged on Facebook that her kindergartner is reading at a 4th grade level and that his teacher thinks he may have a high IQ. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 12:52 AM Flag
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i find most parents of gifted children really struggle to find appropriate schools for their kids and have only heard them talk about their kids in passing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:06 AM Flag
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Many private schools dissuade children from reading at this age. These schools often do not want these kids in their classes. Not a bragging statement. Just fact. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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Totally. I never meet people as obnoxious about gifted this and TT that as they are on this board. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 01:25 AM Flag
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Most TT kids are not gifted. Just wealthy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:23 AM Flag
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We are the only family from our PreK not going to a private school, so I have to admit that when everyone kept needling me about where ours was headed next year, we spilled the beans that he tested 99 percentile and we are hoping for citywide. Normally I would never share that information, but the questions were getting tedious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 02:14 AM Flag
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What many families of gifted children are up against. http://www.sengifted.org/programs/seng-misdiagnosis-initiative [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:03 AM Flag
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