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05.25.13, 11:54 PM
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That's freaky
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05.26.13, 12:03 AM
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Umm? All I saw was a dude filming a mermaid. Not ancient.
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05.25.13, 11:58 PM
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oh, there were other videos from the animal planet website. i thought it was linking the webpage. look at the other videos -- some of the evidence was pretty cool!
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05.26.13, 12:28 AM
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The mermaids are so creepy!!!!!
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05.26.13, 12:50 AM
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np. Plaase tell me you realize that program is a mockumentary. It's not real. The people are all actors. THERE ARE NO MERMAIDS AND NEVER HAVE BEEN.
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05.26.13, 01:00 AM
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It is fact. That's why it is called evidence.
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05.26.13, 01:03 AM
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OMG.
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05.26.13, 01:11 AM
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wait, what? but it's animal planet -- thought that was science channel.
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05.26.13, 03:11 AM
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JHC. Are you 4 years old, or what?
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05.26.13, 12:55 AM
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05.25.13, 11:49 PM
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I love it!
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05.25.13, 11:50 PM
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OP: I think they should have placed them out of the way...maybe in more open areas only
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05.25.13, 11:55 PM
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Or conveniently one block from an apt so they can be used.
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05.26.13, 12:04 AM
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Yes true but not directly in front of residential buildings
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05.26.13, 12:21 AM
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np. Out of the way? Only in open areas? Why alternate-universe version of NYC do you live in, lady?
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05.26.13, 12:22 AM
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Put them along on the wider side walks or along the city parks. Those wider sidewalks street do exist but putting them in front of these residential buildings is ridiculous esp.the high rises
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05.26.13, 12:29 AM
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That might work out if they wanted to have like 1/10 of the number of bikes, maybe. You realize this is still considere the pilot phase, and in Manhattan ALL of the bike stations are south of Central Park? The placement restrictions you're describing aren't feasible.
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05.26.13, 12:37 AM
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I did not know that all of the bike stations were south of CP. they need to redistribute and start placing them uptown
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05.26.13, 12:42 AM
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Are you always this dense?
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05.26.13, 12:44 AM
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Put them in the street in place of parking places. Those ones are fine.
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05.26.13, 01:29 AM
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Two wheels good, Four wheels bad
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05.26.13, 01:21 AM
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Meh. In a little while you won't even notice them. And they get put away c thanksgiving anyway. Still--eyesore is a little strong, no? We're not talking about graffiti or piles of trash.
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05.26.13, 01:21 AM
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I think it will be modestly successful, but this is a pilot, if the location bothers you let them know. I bike all the time with my bike and the biggest hassle is finding a place where my bike will not be stolen - I will give these bikes a try for errands - but they are heavy - 45 lbs
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05.26.13, 01:21 AM
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LOL--my regular bike weighs that much. You wouldn't want to ride the Paris-Roubaix on one but for short hops and errands they're surprisingly manageable and easy to ride.
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05.26.13, 01:44 AM
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Each station has two long racks. They should have left some space between the racks for people to get through. Sanitation workers, people with walkers getting off at the curb, people unloading from taxis/cars, people with strollers, etc. are going to have a problem. All they needed to do was leave 6 feet of space between the racks, but the way they are set up, they are like walls. The ones that are in parking places are not a problem. They also drove our food truck row out of the neighborhood. Oh well.
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05.26.13, 01:28 AM
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I live downtown and our nearest one is in a wide alley. I don't think it blocks any building entrances.
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05.26.13, 01:29 AM
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We have two near us taking up parking places, and they seem fine. There is one the sidewalk in front of Whole Foods that could really use a gap. Loading groceries is going to be difficult for those people with cars. There are some in front of residential buildings where you wonder how the garbage men are going to get all those bags through and around the racks. And you wonder about cabs and such dropping people off who have to unload or use walkers or wheelchairs. My mother would not be able to navigate between those bikes with her walker and going the whole way around the racks would take a lot of energy for her. Luckily, my building entrance was spared, and it is just the service entrance that is blocked.
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05.26.13, 01:41 AM
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05.25.13, 11:45 PM
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Masturbate
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05.25.13, 11:40 PM
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+1. Always on my menu when dh leaves the house :-)
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05.26.13, 03:29 AM
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Doesn't let you? What the fuck kind of fascist regime do you live in?
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05.25.13, 11:48 PM
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THIS
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05.26.13, 12:22 AM
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Mine doesn't either. He's a health nut. It's not like he'd divorce me if he saw me eating it, he'd just give me a hard time. But it makes me healthier, so I'm thankful. And I still sneak it sometimes.
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05.26.13, 01:20 AM
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He doesn't LET you?
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05.25.13, 11:42 PM
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He thinks it is bad for the baby. I'm pregnant. I guess I didn't mention in original post.
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05.25.13, 11:50 PM
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Oh screw that!! He's insane. Go have some ice cream, I'll pay for it.
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05.25.13, 11:45 PM
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When I was pregnant I had GD and I was actually allowed even recommended to have 1 scoop before bed, so my fasting sugar would be level in the morning.
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05.25.13, 11:45 PM
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It's only bad for baby when it pops out in humanoid form! No unpasteurized milk under 1yo.
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05.25.13, 11:46 PM
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Um, he's silly. Tell him to show you the research that ice cream is bad for a growing baby.
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05.25.13, 11:47 PM
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He is against all processed foods for me.
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05.25.13, 11:52 PM
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So, don't eat processed ice cream.
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05.26.13, 12:22 AM
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Isn't all ice cream processed?
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05.26.13, 12:26 AM
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NP--I avoided high fructose corn syrup during my pregnancy which ruled out MOST ice cream, but you can find some made with natural ingredients. Haagen Daz vanilla and some of their basic flavors are natural, as is Oberweiss (They might be local to our Chicago area). Just look at the ingredient list. Some are made with real cream, milk, sugar
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05.26.13, 12:38 AM
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Dh probably still won't approve it because of fat content.
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05.26.13, 12:41 AM
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Ugh. Hope this relationship is working for you. Actually, I hope this post is fake.
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05.26.13, 01:25 AM
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Your body, your choice on what goes in.
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05.25.13, 11:53 PM
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Tell him that the next time he's feeling randy.
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05.25.13, 11:48 PM
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Touché
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05.25.13, 11:56 PM
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That is horseshit.
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05.25.13, 11:54 PM
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He needs to STFU and then go bring you a pint of Haagen Dazs and a pickle to dip in it. Tell him when he pushes life through his nether regions, then he can decide whether or not to eat ice cream.
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05.26.13, 12:23 AM
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I love you
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05.26.13, 06:25 AM
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Bad for the baby? Crack and whiskey are bad for the baby. Babies love ice cream ; )
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05.26.13, 03:44 AM
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Tell us: what else are you not allowed to do?
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05.25.13, 11:51 PM
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He has me on a very strict diet and exercise regimen.
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05.25.13, 11:54 PM
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Ok, now I'm calling fake.
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05.25.13, 11:56 PM
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Channeling Rosemary's Baby??
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05.25.13, 11:54 PM
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Where do you live, Saudi Arabia?
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05.26.13, 12:05 AM
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New York City, but he is not American and a doctor.
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05.26.13, 12:09 AM
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From Saudi Arabia?
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05.26.13, 12:16 AM
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No
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05.26.13, 12:19 AM
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Pakistan?
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05.26.13, 12:31 AM
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That general area.
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05.26.13, 12:41 AM
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Yeah, your post makes sense now.
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05.26.13, 12:44 AM
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Search divorce lawyers tonight. Who does not "let" a grown ass woman eat ice cream, and what grown women says ok I won't dear?
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05.25.13, 11:52 PM
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Has he just expressed his disapproval of you eating ice cream, or has he said point blank that he forbids you?
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05.25.13, 11:55 PM
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He told me that as a new mom, my job is to take care of the baby. I left my job when I found out I was pregnant and have been focusing on my health and nutrition at his request.
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05.25.13, 11:54 PM
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Jesus Christ, your DH is a controlling asshole. Seriously. Fuck him
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05.25.13, 11:55 PM
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this, just wait til the baby's here, you ain't seen nothin' yet!! RUN WHILE YOU CAN LADY!!!
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05.26.13, 02:18 AM
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He sounds like a controlling freak.
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05.25.13, 11:56 PM
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And this is ok with you? Really? You are not his child.
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05.25.13, 11:59 PM
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It's the deal I had to agree to to stay at home with the baby. Lots of prenatal yoga, training sessions, running.
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05.26.13, 12:01 AM
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Eek.
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05.26.13, 12:09 AM
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That is psycho. Seriously.
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05.26.13, 12:03 AM
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I'm still thinking fake. What dh would want their pg wife RUNNING, for fox's sake?
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05.26.13, 12:14 AM
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Lol, god's...
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05.26.13, 12:14 AM
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It is safe to run up to a certain point. I just do 5k runs 3x a week.
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05.26.13, 12:10 AM
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right but ice cream is bad. Face it, you got a bad egg.
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05.26.13, 12:17 AM
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And you're ok with this arrangement?
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05.26.13, 12:07 AM
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My job was stressful and required long. Hours. And I wanted to stay home with the baby anyway. It was the best decision. But dh doesn't want me sitting around eating Bon bons by the pool all summer
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05.26.13, 12:11 AM
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fake, fake, fake!
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05.26.13, 12:29 AM
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Oh, honey. What a scary, lonely place you must be in.
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05.26.13, 12:07 AM
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I feel so bad for her.
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05.26.13, 12:04 AM
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+1. Op, I am sorry that this is your life. Please understand this is not normal.
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05.26.13, 12:18 AM
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If this isn't fake you're fucked.
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05.26.13, 03:21 AM
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Fake
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05.25.13, 11:49 PM
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Do you realize what a fucked up situation you're in? Like, do you know his behavior is not normal or ok???
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05.26.13, 12:15 AM
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Of course she does, that's why she's writing this fake post
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05.26.13, 12:20 AM
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Nothing I do is unhealthy. It is a lot of work to make green juices and buy fresh food every day, but it is all i have to do.
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05.26.13, 12:26 AM
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Not what you eat, the way your husband treats you! So controlling that you can't eat ice cream? And controls your exercise? It's not ok.
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05.26.13, 12:30 AM
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He is paying all of our bills. I have to do whatever he asks of me.
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05.26.13, 12:26 AM
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He doesn't own you. You are partners and should be able to make decisions together or by yourself. You don't "have" to do anything. Do you ever stand up to him or say no?
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05.26.13, 12:35 AM
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No. I never really say no to him. He is smarter and knows more about a healthy lifestyle than I do.
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05.26.13, 12:43 AM
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Just because you don't work out of the home doesn't mean you don't have a say in anything! How old ate you guys?
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05.26.13, 12:32 AM
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I am 29. He is 39.
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05.26.13, 12:42 AM
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If this is real, this is a cry for help. You obviously want to eat the ice cream!
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05.26.13, 12:33 AM
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I had the ice cream. Had it delivered. I ordered by phone and paid cash so he won't find out. It was sooo good.
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05.26.13, 12:48 AM
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fake!
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05.26.13, 12:51 AM
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Order pizza and get some good ice cream and watch your fav videos! Live!!!!
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05.26.13, 01:06 AM
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What?! Eating ice cream was one of the best things about being pregnant. And no, I didn't get too fat. I gained 25 lbs.
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05.26.13, 01:17 AM
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05.25.13, 11:31 PM
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What was her reason?
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05.25.13, 11:33 PM
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Because her breathing is heavy. I'm the mom and if I thought she needed a doctor I would take her to one. I don't need medical opinions from a babysitter.
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05.25.13, 11:35 PM
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You should be happy to have a sitter who sees a different breathing pattern and alerts you to it. Your child is her responsibility when you're out and she's just doing her job. Chill out.
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05.25.13, 11:32 PM
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I've been up with my sick kid every night this week. I know if she needs to go to the doctor or not. I just want to go to dinner for two hours.
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05.25.13, 11:39 PM
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What mother leaves her sick kid?
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05.25.13, 11:36 PM
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She's not that sick. She is actually getting better, not worse.
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05.25.13, 11:43 PM
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+1. I'd be reassured that my child was in good hands if my babysitter picked up on things like this.
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05.25.13, 11:42 PM
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you're an asshole.
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05.25.13, 11:38 PM
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Way to put your child first! Did you ever think that maybe she has experience and if your child is breathing heavier than normal, there may be an issue. I really hope this is fake.
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05.25.13, 11:33 PM
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She's a babysitter. Not a nurse.
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05.25.13, 11:41 PM
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And you are an asshole.
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05.25.13, 11:49 PM
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But she has been around children, no? She knows what symptoms are serious and what are not. Are you really that insecure as a mother that this bothers you? Because this is a caring babysitter, nothing more.
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05.25.13, 11:44 PM
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Fake
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05.25.13, 11:27 PM
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Troll
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05.25.13, 11:34 PM
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Wow, what a bitch. How dare she be concerned about your child.
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05.25.13, 11:40 PM
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I'd rather my babysitter overreact towards a cold than ignore meningitis.
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05.25.13, 11:39 PM
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Why so defensive?
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05.25.13, 11:52 PM
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So wait. The babysitter came over for you to go to dinner, looked at your child and said DC should go to urgent care? And you just want to go out to dinner? Why the hell would you have children if a dinner is more important than making sure your child is ok? I am a nanny and I have never ever suggested a child go to the urgent care; if I did, it would be because I believed the child was very sick and needed medication or IV's and monitoring. How cold you are.
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05.25.13, 11:46 PM
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This.
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05.25.13, 11:55 PM
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Uh, my baby is fine. She was sick and is getting better. She is not in need of urgent care. Her symptoms have been improving over the last few days. Now I am going to enjoy my dinner and relax.
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05.25.13, 11:55 PM
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Either fake or the worst mother in the entire world. I do not know one mother who would enjoy their dinner if the babysitter said that. If you can honestly sit through a nice dinner after hearing that, I pity your child.
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05.26.13, 12:08 AM
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Because my baby doesn't need to go to urgent care!!!!! I am fine because I know db will be fine.
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05.26.13, 12:12 AM
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Fake!
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05.26.13, 12:30 AM
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But your sitter didnt know all that.
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05.26.13, 02:04 AM
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Because the babysitter must be right.
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05.26.13, 01:42 AM
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You missed the boat, your baby probably has RSV and needs nebs. But urgent care sucks. Should have gone to pedi earlier.
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05.25.13, 11:53 PM
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05.25.13, 11:14 PM
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anthropomorphic
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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Zugzwang. Transmogrified.
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05.25.13, 11:17 PM
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it is "ectomorph"
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05.25.13, 11:25 PM
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That was supposed to be a joke n
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05.25.13, 11:19 PM
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Lots, but not many of them are useful in daily life. Occupational hazard.
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05.25.13, 11:20 PM
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What's your job?
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05.25.13, 11:33 PM
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Professor.
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05.25.13, 11:38 PM
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Serotinous--I learned that word last week from the forest ranger at Mesa Verde, CO. It's a tree that spreads its seeds as a response to fire (I was discussing the trees in Yellowstone which need fire in order to reproduce and he said the trees in Mesa Verde were not serotinous.
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05.25.13, 11:47 PM
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05.25.13, 11:13 PM
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Abortion.
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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05.25.13, 11:11 PM
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+ infinity. We're done.
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05.25.13, 11:13 PM
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Yep this for me too.
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05.25.13, 11:39 PM
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Shit.
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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05.25.13, 11:24 PM
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flabbergasted
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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Are you postmenopausal?
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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Yup. Early menopause due to chemo.
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05.25.13, 11:12 PM
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Sorry sister.
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05.25.13, 11:18 PM
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overjoyed!
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05.25.13, 11:15 PM
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Surprised. Super happy!
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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Excited.
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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not now.
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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I would be shocked since I have no uterus :). Immaculate conception
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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So you could be the one person who uses this word according to its original meaning: miracle.
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05.25.13, 11:11 PM
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Yup
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05.25.13, 11:20 PM
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I would be ok with it.
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05.25.13, 11:18 PM
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Conflicted.
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05.25.13, 11:20 PM
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Overwhelmed. I'd have Irish twins and a puppy.
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05.25.13, 11:15 PM
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I wouldn't want it & bf would.
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05.25.13, 11:22 PM
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Omg, double your birth control please
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05.25.13, 11:21 PM
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Why? We aren't in a place financially or in our relationship for a baby, even though I can't wait to have kids, if I were to fall pregnant I would terminate - bf probably wouldn't let me.
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05.25.13, 11:34 PM
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I just mean PLEASE be careful, it's especially important when you guys aren't on the same page on how you would handle it. And wtf, he wouldn't let you, it's YOUR body.
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05.25.13, 11:48 PM
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He's Catholic, he'll be an awesome dad one day but he'd go all out to try and make it work if I got pregnant now. I don't want that for us or our kid. We're very careful; bcp & condoms :)
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05.25.13, 11:44 PM
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What is one word that means: I didn't take a pregnancy test. The cup must have been mislabeled.
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05.25.13, 11:25 PM
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I'd be pretty shocked, I am already pregnant.
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05.25.13, 11:31 PM
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Actually can happen
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05.25.13, 11:39 PM
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Scared
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05.25.13, 11:31 PM
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so scared.
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05.25.13, 11:34 PM
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Shocked
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05.25.13, 11:44 PM
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Fertile. Took 8 rounds of ivf for dc
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05.25.13, 11:44 PM
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i'd feel sorry for my 3 month old
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05.25.13, 11:52 PM
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I have to do two words: Immaculate Conception
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05.25.13, 11:57 PM
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Thrilled
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05.26.13, 12:01 AM
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Glad, that would explain this tummy.
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05.26.13, 12:25 AM
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lol and +1
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05.26.13, 12:30 AM
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Okay. We're going to start TTC #2 in a little bit. So now would not be ideal timing, but wouldn't be horrible
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05.26.13, 12:51 AM
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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what can't you get out of your head: that your mom was a mature grown up and realized that whawt was btwn her and her sister was btwn her and her sister? You would confide in the 13 yr old that you were "mad" at her aunt!????
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05.25.13, 11:03 PM
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^ and in turn make you feel badly about what you had done, just by letting you know it didn't have her permission? Your mom handled it right.
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05.25.13, 11:04 PM
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np: lots of parents act this way, robbing joy by throwing hissy fits and wrecking the mood.
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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OP: I think my mom behaved wonderfully. She now rarely sees her sister and this story gave me some insight into their relationship.
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05.25.13, 11:27 PM
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You have a good mom. What's done is done. She saw no need to deny you the joy of the experience, even if she wasn't happy about it.
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05.25.13, 11:03 PM
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Great lady there.
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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I have a sister-in-law that crosses boundaries all the time. i never react as well as your mother did.
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05.26.13, 02:20 AM
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05.25.13, 11:05 PM
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Was he always ambivalent about it or is this new?
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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Always to a degree but more lately.
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05.25.13, 11:10 PM
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Any new changes/developments?
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05.25.13, 11:22 PM
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Just general work/life stress. Lost both of our pets within the last couple of months?
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05.25.13, 11:29 PM
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How old are your DC? Some dads don't seem to "get" children until they are old enough to teach them something: throw a ball, ride a bike, etc. Still doesn't get him of the hook for "chores."
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05.25.13, 11:27 PM
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I think that's it. DD is 1
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05.25.13, 11:30 PM
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But OP says her DH is getting worse. Her baby is getting older, so by your logic, DH should be getting more interested, not less.
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05.25.13, 11:39 PM
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Not really. Her DD is a still a baby. Can't play catch or shoot hoops. But the more time her DH sends with the DB, the sooner he will feel comfortable.
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05.25.13, 11:56 PM
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Do you work outside the home? This may have more to do with it ime.
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05.26.13, 12:07 AM
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No, I don't. That's where I think the resentment comes from, like if he does ANYTHING with the baby it's just to help me- the whole bonding with your child thing is not a factor to him. Plus he works all week and sees the weekend as his time to relax, I guess being a dad is not relaxing (or enjoyable) to him? Yet?
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05.26.13, 02:46 AM
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Same here. If it continues, as sad as it is, I won't see a future for my marriage. I want to raise my dcs with people who really enjoy them, it's so much fun and I can't have a dad around who is not into it. Was completely surprised that dh turned out to feel that way btw.
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05.26.13, 12:27 AM
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OP me too! He wanted to have a baby as badly as I did and was so excited to be a dad. Now... what?
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05.26.13, 02:44 AM
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05.25.13, 11:05 PM
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lol, i just smh when i heard her say that
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05.25.13, 11:15 PM
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Me too! Theresa is so dumb, I actually physically sometimes have to put my hands over my eyes. She has absolutely zero intelligent thoughts.
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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I don't get how she has fans. At all.
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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I don't get her at all...I don't mind that she doesn't know much, I hate that she pretends to be so smart
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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That's the hallmark of stupid people.
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05.25.13, 11:32 PM
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She grew up in a house where Italian was spoken primarily and broken English was secondary. No wonder she struggles. AND she's from Jersey. All factors for poor speaking skills.
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05.25.13, 11:37 PM
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NP. It surprises me that she doesn't even speak proper Italian now. It's not just that she speaks a dialect, her Italian is rudimentary.
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05.25.13, 11:46 PM
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Both of the above posts seem to explain it to me. She's either just uneducated or her schools didn't do the trick.
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05.26.13, 12:54 AM
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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My favorite foods are still ribs and McDonalds. Oh and pancakes. I think I became more picky as time went on. Sorry.
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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We didn't go out to eat that much when I was a kid.
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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I don't know but lots of things I loved as a kid seem gross now - lunchables, cheap milk chocolate, american cheese!
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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My parents told me I was gumming lamb chops before I even had teeth. Loooove me some lamb chops!
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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It was a process throughout my 20's
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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05.25.13, 11:17 PM
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np. For me it was a process that happened during my teens. I was such a picky little kid, and my mother was determined not to cater to it, which just meant that I ended up underweight through most of my childhood. I barely ate at home and gorged on the stuff I liked every chance I had--at friends' houses, school, etc.
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05.26.13, 12:25 AM
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I was always fed the same as my parents. I didn't have a cheeseburger until college
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05.25.13, 11:10 PM
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You're parents didn't eat cheeseburgers?
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05.25.13, 11:50 PM
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^^your
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05.25.13, 11:56 PM
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When I went away to college.
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05.25.13, 11:06 PM
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sometime in my teens...started enjoying ethic food meals w. my parents.
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05.25.13, 11:14 PM
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I never eat chicken fingers. Cause my mom won't make it. I eat what they eat. so does my dc. What's so hard? If you're picky, you go to bed hungry.
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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My mom never gave into my picky eating habits. She cooked one meal and that's it. It didnt consist of chicken finger or boiled chicken. I ate what they ate.
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05.25.13, 11:20 PM
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05.25.13, 11:44 PM
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me too...hate chicken finger moms
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05.26.13, 12:02 AM
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Age 20
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05.25.13, 11:21 PM
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Be careful. We have a nation of adults who eat like children and are obese to prove it.
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05.25.13, 11:56 PM
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grew up in another country and always ate pretty much what the adults did. don't understand this concept of "kiddie food" that seems so prevalent in the US.
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05.26.13, 12:31 AM
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Chicken fingers and cheeseburgers were never my thing. Other childhood favorites that were typical kids food, like macaroni and cheese and hot dogs faded from my preferences around 7 or 8. I didn't start to eat a variety of foods like an adult until I was 12 or 13. I'm an only child and my parents always expected me to eat what they did. Shrimp cocktail, bleu cheese and liver and onions were favorites from the time I was a toddler.
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05.26.13, 01:13 AM
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Mid teens
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05.26.13, 01:57 AM
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My dh started eating real food when he started working as a lawyer and having to go on fancy lunches. He was about 26.
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05.26.13, 02:12 AM
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Never had chicken fingers as a kid. Always ate what my parents ate (which sometimes did include cheeseburgers)
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05.26.13, 02:51 AM
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05.25.13, 10:45 PM
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How long ago has it been?
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05.25.13, 10:52 PM
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around 5 years.
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05.25.13, 11:01 PM
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You should say, " Glad things are going well for you. Did you know I used to be so jealous of you."
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05.25.13, 10:48 PM
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05.25.13, 10:49 PM
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I like this.
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05.25.13, 11:01 PM
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Yes something like this!
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05.25.13, 10:56 PM
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This is the best way to go. Don't apologize for being a bitch because she might not have noticed, and/or you're putting her in an awkward situation by mentioning it. Just tell her that you used to be so jealous of her, and still admire her, or something like that. Then just move on to something else.
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05.25.13, 11:00 PM
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this sounds good and funny and a good way to start a friendship
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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this
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05.26.13, 03:57 AM
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No. Especially not in writing!
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05.25.13, 10:57 PM
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I don't think she'd use it against me. LOL.
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05.25.13, 11:01 PM
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No, but she could forward it to someone. I just wouldn't do it.
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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Oh, I never even thought of that.
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05.25.13, 10:57 PM
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NP. Don't let fear drive you. Apologize in writing if you want. No shame in voluntarily admitting a mistake and apologizing.
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05.26.13, 01:47 AM
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You could write her a message saying that you were awful, and that it was because you were jealous, and that you're sorry. I say just do it. You never know how the way you treated her may have actually hurt her at the time.
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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That's partly what I am thinking.
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05.25.13, 10:57 PM
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or: I went through some really brutal bullying in middle school and even now, if I were to get a message from one of those people saying that they were sorry, I would probably cry my heart out. It would still mean that much, even fifteen years later.
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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OMG, don't write the message!!! Just let it go
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05.25.13, 11:03 PM
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Please do this. Some of the less sensitive people will tell you not to bother, but you have no idea how this may have affected her. And even if not, the burden on your conscience will be lifted. This is one of those times doing a little more than necessary is doing the right thing, IMO.
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05.26.13, 03:52 AM
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