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[ - ] Dh wants to watch star wars with 5 year old. What age is appropriate for that movie? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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6, I'd say [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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That's fine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:30 AM Flag
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I was 5 when it was released, and I saw at at that time. FWIW, I was fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:38 AM Flag
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8 years old in my book- I guess my kids are abnormally sensitive? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:49 AM Flag
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No, I don't think so. My dd wouldn't have been able to watch it at 5 either, but every kid is different. I just meant that if a 5 or 6 yo kid isn't scared, I think it's fine--I don't think there's anything inappropriate there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:03 AM Flag
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Depends on the kid....my kids weren't scared easily and saw it at five [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:03 AM Flag
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too young imo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:52 AM Flag
[ - ] Interviewing for teaching positions. Any tips on what to wear for an interview? Pictures welcome. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:20 AM Flag
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Teacher here. I wore a suit (skirt) with heels to my last interview which resulted in the job I now have. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:35 AM Flag
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Don't you think that is too formal? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:45 AM Flag
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I don't think it's too formal for an interview. What would you wear or what did you have in mind instead? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:03 AM Flag
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A dress. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:06 AM Flag
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A dark, simple dress is okay. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:11 AM Flag
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NP I think it's perfect. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:19 AM Flag
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Teacher here too-- I wore a dark gray skirt suit with low heels and bright pastel yellow button up shirt. Think the suit was Banana Republic and shirt J Crew. Low heels. Simple necklace no other jewelery. In the past few years I've interviewed/hired a bunch of teachers do you have any other questions about the interview? Don't leave your hair down and play with it all the time, don't show cleavage (you'd be surprised), sound like you are very interested in professional development and come prepared to answer where you have the more room to grow and where you are the most confident. Don't say bad things about test prep, even if we all think them. Be able to articulate a classroom management philosophy that is strict but kind and responsive to student needs and say NOTHING about appealing to administration or parents to solve the problems. Be able to give detailed examples of differentiation you have done. Be humble about your first year of teaching (if that is the case). Every interview committee I've sit on cares less about portfolios and such (though it makes you look organized) and more just sizing up if you look like you can hack it, because it's a much harder job than anyone ever realizes! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:20 AM Flag
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Thanks for the tips. I guess I need to buy a suit. I have been wearing sheath dresses. Still over dressed compared to other candidates I've seen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:27 AM Flag
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A sheath dress with a nice good fitting blazer is fine too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:32 AM Flag
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Op here: I am applying to mostly public high need schools but my student teaching was at schools like nest, stuyvesant and Bronx science. How should I discuss classroom discipline when I really have no experience. :( this is probably my biggest obstacle. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:45 AM Flag
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High needs schools honestly will hire smart well dressed professional looking teachers. I've had that job for many years and it is grueling work. And yes, classroom management will be by far your biggest challenge. Is the hiring freeze over or are you in an exempted field? The first year will make you want to quit and if you are serious about teaching you have to push past that. I cried literally every day my first year. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Flame away, but I will say it. I feel bad for Nessie Krim. I read the original blog in entirety and she is definitely the middle child short end of the stick in terms of doting attention devoted. Now with the new beginning baby due in September and the 2 dead siblings, she is in the middle again. Marina Krim just posted from Paris. They went there in honor of Lulu's birthday. The parents must be doing their best, coping the best they can. I just get a sense from the tones of their posts that Nessie is not getting fully attended to. 68 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:20 AM Flag
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Nessie is fine, I'm sure. Don't you dare sit in judgment of those people. Don't you dare. Asshole. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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The fact that you follow their site only to criticize them on Urban Baby makes you the biggest POS around here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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this. how evil. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:35 AM Flag
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Strong language. You sound unstable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:53 AM Flag
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Actually I had forgotten about UB until the murders when the posters on this site made news for vile comments. I did not participate in those but it's likely some of you did. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:30 AM Flag
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np Link? I remember that day because I was in the hospital myself and UBers were NOT making "vile comments". This site can be mean, but where kids are concerned (especially murdered kids!) it's not. Never. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:38 AM Flag
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Immediately and for months afterward there were discussions about their income, quality of household contents, what was in the original blogs how Marina treated the nanny, you can google it yourself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:35 AM Flag
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The income's probably average here, OP. The blog got people going. Not my cup of tea, but who cares? I wish Marina and Kevin and Nessie and the new baby peace and love forever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:47 AM Flag
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I wish them the same. I don't understand the income part of your comment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:49 AM Flag
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Poster brought it up. Just pointing out it's average here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:09 AM Flag
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I am OP. I have been interacting with you. Are you disclosing yours or guessing this groups? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:10 AM Flag
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Why don't you sit and play with your own kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:25 AM Flag
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My kids are sleeping. Why did they drag Nessie to Paris? I hope she isn't being forced to participate in this and just thinks they are on a vacation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:27 AM Flag
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But she will figure it out and may get even more upset later in life when she reads the FB record. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:51 AM Flag
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Is there actually a blog or are you making this up? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:25 AM Flag
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OR It's on Facebook. It makes them feel better. They are fucking entitled to that--and much, much more. OP is beyond assholic. Beyond. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:20 AM Flag
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Of course - they are entitled to anything. I'm just shocked they are so public with their lives. But if it's cathartic or helpful in anyway then that's great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:39 AM Flag
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If they post about it on FB my observation on an anonomoys forum for mom's is fair game. I see comments about parenting here all the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:39 AM Flag
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You seem to be mentally infirm, so I'm sure the Krims will forgive you for your heartlessness. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:37 AM Flag
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I am far from heartless. They may be blinded by grief and not realizing how all this affects Nessie. How will she feel about this when she is older and able to scroll back? Why continue with the publicity [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:42 AM Flag
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Agree. If it works for them, that's great but I don't understand doing things so publicly. But then again, I have no idea how they feel so to each their own. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:46 AM Flag
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They should forgive themselves for this public display which will affect their living children forever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:58 AM Flag
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OK, the Cerberi have spoken. Anyone else wants to take this on? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:29 AM Flag
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I would hope there is only one piece of scum on UB tonight, OP! That being you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:31 AM Flag
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x2. The rest of us are bitchy, but this is bottom-feeder/scum/slime shit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:34 AM Flag
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The sad thing is that she must have liked their FB page or checks it on a daily basis to get the updates, only to come here and criticize. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:31 AM Flag
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Why? It's a valid observation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:31 AM Flag
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Yes. And we are feeding a troll. Bye. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:41 AM Flag
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Chump, chump, shchloosh...burp. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:52 AM Flag
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Hi, OP. And I know you've replied above. Decent moms: Weigh in. This isn't right. It's not. Most of us are pretty close to the Krims in terms of lifestyle: It could have been me or you. OP is heartless and evil. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:42 AM Flag
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I am close in lifestyle too. I am a decent mom. They are posting their entrails publicly for everyone to see. I am expressing a concern for Nessie based on what they posted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:39 AM Flag
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Why are you expressing your concern here and not comment on their FB page? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:48 AM Flag
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Because I don't wish to engage them directly. They have not asked for my opinion and did not publicly call for advice. I am exchanging views in the correct forum. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:45 AM Flag
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The correct forum for what? For passing judgment? The only thing you have accomplished is help UB reach a new low, and I must hand it to you - that's something. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:55 AM Flag
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Are you the outraged responder who keeps calling me scum. Please explain why? My concerns are as valid as yours, no? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:59 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:00 AM Flag
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Yes, and stupid and she's replied a few times to her post to make it look like there was more than one sharing her view. The problem is - there will always be bottom-feeders and they are entitled to an opinion, so let's hope this stupid post doesn't make it past UB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:45 AM Flag
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You are the UB police patrol. Come up with a coherent statement instead of your emotional reactions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:48 AM Flag
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You're an asshole. Goodnight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:35 AM Flag
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Good Riddance! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:48 AM Flag
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If you are really concerned, just send them good, kind thoughts of strength, ok? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:32 AM Flag
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Or lasagne. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:33 AM Flag
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seriously. it's like they are such attention whores they are glad their children were slaughtered so they get more readers and voyeurs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:34 AM Flag
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You are a disgusting, vile human being. I know you are just doing this for attention but I can not help commenting. I hope to god you kiss your children extra hard tonight and be glad they are alive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:46 AM Flag
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FYI the response you just answered is not mine, OP. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:47 AM Flag
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stfu. it is disgusting to be blogging and announcing to the media that you are now going to have replacement children. mourning is a private matter. they need to shut up and keep private things priavte and so do you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:48 AM Flag
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You've obviously never gone through something horrible like this before. Everyone goes through it in different ways. Some find it helpful and cathartic to talk openly about it while others handle it more privately [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:54 AM Flag
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yeah, it's called being an attention whore. we don't have dignified people anymore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:56 AM Flag
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What exactly are you trying to accomplish with your post, OP? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:59 AM Flag
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This part of it is not mine. Ask OR. As for my original post, I am posting an observation and engaging in discussion as people do on UB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:06 AM Flag
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You're a retarded CUNT. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:12 AM Flag
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oooh. you hurt my feeligs? :P [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:12 AM Flag
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MYOB. I am sure I cannot stand you IRL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:29 AM Flag
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Probably most of us wouldn't stand each other IRL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:49 AM Flag
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you sound weird [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:39 AM Flag
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If you read it you will get a similiar sense. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:37 AM Flag
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but why would you care so much about them? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:52 AM Flag
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They struck a nerve and are very public and on my radar. Had this died with last years news cycle they wouldn't be. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:49 AM Flag
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don't you think them having a baby, moving on and giving her a new sibling might be exactly the normalcy she might need? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:59 AM Flag
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They are in Paris right now for Lulu's birthday. Yes I think it's wonderful they're having a baby. I don't think they are helping Nessie with normalcy. For one, they are constantly reaching a new groups of followers who will hear about the horrific crime and have their reactions to it. It makes Nessie very public and scrutinized. It decreases the potential pool of people she can interact with who don't immediately know the back story and that cannot be good for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:03 AM Flag
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So what are you going to do about it? Clearly you have serious concerns. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:06 AM Flag
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Say it here because no one gives a shit IRL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:08 AM Flag
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I think that going to Paris is a little weird but I really don't understand why you say this bad for Nessie? Obviously things are not great for her but why is going to Paris making things worse? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:14 AM Flag
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Because instead of focusing on Nessie and quietly remembering Lulu while doing something Nessie centered they made the whole trip to Paris to honor Lulu. It's not healthy for Nessie. She is alive and needs her parent's energy and mind and I can't imagine she's getting as much as she needs with all this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:23 AM Flag
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blah blah blah... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:14 AM Flag
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Oh go back to their FB page and get your fix. You must be one of their creepy devotees. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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Psycho! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:09 AM Flag
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The Krims? ITA. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:06 AM Flag
[ - ] I need a reality check so flame away. I'm sitting in bed crying because I have to stay home with db. All my friends are out and my husband is about to go out too. I'm just being a giant hormonal mess. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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Where is your DH going? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:26 AM Flag
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He's going to see some friends. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:27 AM Flag
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Why is he going by himself? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:32 AM Flag
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Awww. I'm sorry. Ask DH to stay home with you. :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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He usually does so this is kind of a rarity. Still sucks though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:28 AM Flag
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Ask him to stay in. When I'm hormonal mess, DH hangs out with me and then goes out with friends. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:44 AM Flag
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Did you read my post? My friend invited me out this week and tonight confirmed and then five min later said someone else took my seat and I am no longer invited but I could come after for drinks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:27 AM Flag
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Dump your friend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:36 AM Flag
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I read that -- your friend is horrible. Go make new mom friends and forget about that friend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:15 AM Flag
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Db too young for a babysitter? If not, make plans for next weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:34 AM Flag
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Being out is not that fun. You have to trudge through the rain and wear uncomfortable shoes. Put DB to bed, get a blanket and some hot chocolate or wine, watch a movie or read a book. sounds like a perfect night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:38 AM Flag
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This. Enjoy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:18 AM Flag
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Do you get any "you" time? Even if you're nursing it's entirely possible. We have a pretty even system if he gets to go out alone then I do. Though I usually go get a pedicure during the day rather than go out at night when I'd rather have wine at home and watch Real housewives of NJ marathon. (hint hint) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:24 AM Flag
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So, to add, go get a pedicure tomorrow. Right at baby's fussiest time. I LOVE that my pilates class is at the same time of night during the bath-bed routine hours for my 2. It's so nice to duck out 2 nights a week and let dad handle baby and kid. :-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:25 AM Flag
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i didn't go anywhere for the first year baby was born. get over yourself and grow up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Any psychic or tarot cards moms on? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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tarot. :-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:25 AM Flag
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How will this new house work out for S? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:41 AM Flag
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Magician-- leaping off a cliff. Takes balls to make the choice with no way of knowing the outcome. This was the major card so didn't give a future. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:01 AM Flag
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Sorry I am not experienced in tarot meanings. Magician means he can make anything positive or does it mean undecided about outcome? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:09 AM Flag
[ - ] How would you feel about a man casually mentioning that he was just on a date before your first date with him? Assume he was just calling to say hello as he has been doing for about a week. Daily. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:11 AM Flag
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OP: he did not exactly volunteer. He was telling me about his evening, and how much he enjoyed a certain restaurant. I then asked - date night? And he said - yes, a very nice date. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:12 AM Flag
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I don't know. You asked. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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Hell no! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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Hell no! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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HUGE turnoff. Run. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:10 AM Flag
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Ok, yeah, you conveniently didn't mention this in your original post. This is ALL on you. Sorry. Do not ever ask a guy that, especially a new date. I feel fine about this guy and you shouldn't have asked him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:08 AM Flag
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Neexxxt. What a tool. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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yep [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:36 AM Flag
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Insensitive. I'm just another number. NEXT! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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Two guesses. 1) He's a bit of a douche and it's his attempt at making you somehow worried or jealous from the get go. 2) He's clueless as to the basic rules of polite courtship (sorry for old school term). I would still go on the date to see which of the two he is. But this would definitely go in my 'things to watch' column. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:20 AM Flag
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Honestly, you're an idiot for asking. He's a creep for answering. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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she wanted to know b/c he seemed like that's what he was saying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:30 AM Flag
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np: ITA He baited her. And it's a good thing she bit because now she knows what a douchebucket he is and can move on. [ Reply | More
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i agrees. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:35 AM Flag
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Giant red flag, in my book. I would absolutely cancel the date. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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I'd go just to get a free meal out of it. The guy is a jerk. Eat well! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:34 AM Flag
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Huge discount. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:36 AM Flag
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Sounds insecure. Trying to impress you. I'd still go on the date with him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:26 AM Flag
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How did you meet him? If online, NO WAY. If friend of a friend or something... may I'd give him a chance if he came with shining recommendations. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:27 AM Flag
[ - ] Magic Mike on HBO now :-) 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:10 AM Flag
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Is it good? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:11 AM Flag
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Cute. Channing Tatum is adorable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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Matthew McConahy or whatever looks like a sweaty freak in that movie! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:47 AM Flag
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Yes, that's the character he plays. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Moving. To an apt with a fireplace. Mirror or painting above it? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:07 AM Flag
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Depends...if the place is small, a mirror will help open it up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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Painting definitely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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Painting definitely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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How about a really cool antique style wall clock? [ Reply | More
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proportion all wrong [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:36 AM Flag
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A mantle to hang stockings on, duh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:33 AM Flag
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mantle usually comes free. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:45 AM Flag
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Mirror [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:36 AM Flag
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Tv. Signed dh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:47 AM Flag
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hate craning neck to watch tv high on the wall [ Reply | More
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:11 AM Flag
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How good looking are you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:32 AM Flag
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Mirror with a modern decorative frame. My mom made this amazing mirror with a black glass kinda mosaic (hard to describe, but black caulk too) thick frame for above her fireplace and I always want it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Any MD moms on? I need help choosing a specialty. Married and want a DC within the next 2 years. Board scores not high enough for derm, radiology, etc. Also open to skipping residency and finding non-clinical work. Any ideas? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Internal medicine or peds? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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ER [ Reply | More
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I think residency shifts are usually 20 9hr shifts/month, which sounds great, but worried they would be completely exhausting 9 hours and I'd be dead afterwards. Wondering how this compares to IM, with call q4 and 24 hour shifts... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:13 AM Flag
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Endo? [ Reply | More
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Not me mom but how about family medicine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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Anesthesiology, PM & R, Psych, Path [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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don't know much about PM&R... can you tell me about it? can't handle psych or path. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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They basically (being very general here) handle the rehab of for example, stroke patients in-patient, etc. Very cush residency. Look it up. Obviously there's more to the job description as well... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:25 AM Flag
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Anesthesia. Internal medicine is also good because you have the option to specialize at the end of 3 years if you want to [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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I got into Radiology with mediocre board scores. I targeted the smaller community residencies. Then went Ivy for sub specialty fellowship training. Living a good life now... 4 day work Week no call $350k + [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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^^^ I have always been a horrendous multiple choice test taker. I aced all my rotations and radiology oral boards ;) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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do you mind my asking what your board scores are. my step one is m from a top med school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:23 AM Flag
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*sorry. my step one is less than 210 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:23 AM Flag
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Failed step one by one point the first time. Second attempt was probably around 220 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:25 AM Flag
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wow... that is so nice for me to hear. I've been beating myself up about my boards...glad it is surpassable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:29 AM Flag
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Isn't the market much tougher, now, though? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:38 AM Flag
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Peds, then fellowship in Endo? You can specialize in obesity and diabetes in children. Booming market [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:26 AM Flag
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Surgical subspecialty mom: Do a residency. The only thing sadder than being a poor resident is being one when you're older. And I graduated from Stanford in the early 2000s, it was amazing how many start up classmates came right back to clinical medicine after the crash. You may do better outside of clinical medicine but most do not, particularly if you want to work part time. I'm in a specialty and daily feel so lucky to be able to work part time compared to my MBA old roommates, who are every bit as smart but in a different field. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:34 AM Flag
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OP: good advice, I know. Right now the thought of going back to 80-hour weeks sounds awful. Esp with a DB in the mix. A few months of that during clerkship was miserable, and I imagine it'll be even worse as a resident. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:31 AM Flag
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Did you not know about doing a residency when you went into medical school? All residencies suck until you're out in private practice. EM in a teaching hospital is a good job after residency, Anesthesia is good, but many jobs still have call. What did you think you'd do when you started medical school? Most people in my class knew what they wanted to do by the time they were finishing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:22 AM Flag
[ - ] OMG im so sick. I have the chills and coughing. Wtf! Ugh.... 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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You are me. I am so lucky. It was an excuse to leave SILs house though. And then I hired a girl from SitterCity to come take care of my whiney ass, run some errands, and she is doing the laundry!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:02 AM Flag
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I feel terrible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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no fever tho. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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You can hire a babysitter for yourself on Sittercity?! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:20 AM Flag
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Yes lol it is awesome. She brings me water and crackers and takes the plate away when I finish. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:25 AM Flag
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Awesome! I want a sitter! np [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:57 AM Flag
[ - ] ugh - so going for job interviews again after 5 years, and my old suits don't fit me - the jacket fits the sides and back perfectly, but I've gained weight in the belly and there's about 8 inches of space in the front such that the jacket doesn't button up. I wear a white collar shirt underneath - ok or should I just get a new suit? basically I would be wearing the jacket in an open style with a white shirt underneath..fat looking? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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In my book, anything that fits is better than everything that doesn't. You can get a nice jacket at C21 for pretty cheap. Sounds like your wardrobe could use an update anyway, right?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:01 AM Flag
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I would get one new interview suit that fits comfortably. I had to interview post partum and I did that and also had to get a new winter coat [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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New suit! Its worth the investment. Nothing worse than an ill fitted suit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:19 AM Flag
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Definitely get a new one. You want to feel confident and not be tugging at your jacket the whole time. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:59 AM Flag
[ - ] People whose parents were really strict about food, what is your diet and weight like now? And people whose parents were easygoing, indulged your pickiness etc, what is your diet and weight like? My mother served a varied diet but never believed in bullying kids about food and I am naturally thin. I also let my kids eat whatever and they are thin. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:59 PM Flag
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My mother had a raging Ed and restricted everything. I am basically obsessed with food. I am always trying to lose weight, but really don't want to live the way I grew up. It was miserable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:02 AM Flag
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My mom made balanced meals, limited junk food in house, rarely said no to ice cream for dessert... I think it's about creating healthy habits, being consistent and not being extreme in any direction. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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Forgot to mention- we always played sports and/or dance. Activities are just as important. My sibling and I are both thin and healthy adults. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:11 AM Flag
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i was super crazy picky, my sibs weren't much better. My mom short order cooked for the three of us. I now eat everything, esp spicy, ethnic cuisine, very thin and fit. Ditto my youngest sister. My middle sib, the least picky as a kid, is a bit overweight and doesn't have a great diet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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Interestingly, my DH's parents were extremely strict with food - they ALWAYS had to eat what was served. DH is one of the worst eaters I've ever met as an adult & struggles with weight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:11 AM Flag
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OP this is my theory [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:35 AM Flag
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I ate whatever. was not monitored at all. Came home alone after school and had cookies and ice cream for snack. I am very thin and have a pretty healthy relationship with food - although still have a big sweet tooth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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+1, but minus the sweet tooth. I think I ate enough gummy bears during my formative years to permanently satisfy my sugar craving. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:12 AM Flag
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Mine (momwas driving the bus, really) were extremely easygoing about food. Partly because my grandmother (on my mother's side) was strict. I guess my mom wanted to be the opposite. I'm thin and stayed thin after having kids. My siblings are portly. I'm easygoing about my DCs' eating habits. Just presenting the facts... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:12 AM Flag
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I believe it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:37 AM Flag
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My mother was obsessed with her weight and my weigh yet let me drink apple juice as water. I'm fat. My kids are slightly under 50th percentile for weight and 60+ for height. Percentiles are probably skewed by how fat kids are these days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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my parents were pretty laid back. I'm thin and always have been, but my sister is overweight. We both eat whatever we want but I'm active and play sports, she does not [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:35 AM Flag
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A lot is genetic - my mom was laid back but I'm naturally thin - I would be laid back but dd has propensity to balloon so I'm laid back with boundaries - junk not unlimited , fruit instead of cookies sometimes etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:47 AM Flag
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But how do you know that? Maybe it would resolve if you waited it out [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:57 AM Flag
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Agree [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:02 AM Flag
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My mom was extremely strict. I was put on diets as a child and dragged to weight watchers at 12. My whole youth was lose/gain, bc I binge ate the second I got away from my mother. I became obsese in college. After college, I lost 100lbs and got intense therapy. I'm now 40 and kept that weight off, even after ds. I won't ever restrict my my children eat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:54 AM Flag
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That's what I've seen [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:03 AM Flag
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Just a note that my parents weren't even around. And I tried to make sandwiches out of butter and syrup on white bread, with peanut butter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:51 AM Flag
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i rejected my parents eating disorders as a teenager. even then i could see what a mess they were and how dysfunctional that was. as an adult i was always thinner and fitter than my mom, and i'm built just like her. just don't believe in diets. that's all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:38 AM Flag
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Parents very easygoing; home cooked meals and plenty of ice cream and homemade desserts. We were all picky and more or less indulged. Now, we all eat everything and have healthy food relationships. I am thin, my brother is thin, and my sister is a little heavier (within normal BMI) but her DH is always cooking these decadent meals and she can't give up nightly wine and not interested in exercising. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Trying to psych myself up for sex tonight....I know once we get into it I'll be glad we did...it's just getting to that point that is hard for me sometimes. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:59 PM Flag
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same here.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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OMG I am sitting here doing the same thing! I'm about to take a shower and groom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:02 AM Flag
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Me too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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Sometimes I read something spicy. I am a slow starter, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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Are you me? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Looks like many of us have a big Saturday night ahead! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Our poor DHs! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:05 AM Flag
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Imagine if they saw this thread....would not be a boost to their male egos! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:08 AM Flag
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I know. My DH has a nasty habit of checking this site when he thinks I'm up to something. I know he would know this was me! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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Op: I swear it's just like working out. I can think of a million excuses not to, but will ultimately feel much better afterwards! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:05 AM Flag
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You're really on to something with that analogy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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I am the same way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:12 AM Flag
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Did you guys read the article in the T magazine (NY Times)? About female lack of sex drive and potential drugs? OMG - I could relate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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lol u not alone [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:41 AM Flag
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Melissa. Is that you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:43 AM Flag
[ - ] Is it tacky to put baby bump photos on Facebook? Not the bare belly, just the torso in profile. I have a dozen aunts/gmas/girlfriends asking to see, but it just seems weird! I live far from my family. While I do see people post pic of their bump from time to time, and it doesn't bug me, I'm kind of afraid it's an over share. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:59 PM Flag
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Why not make a category of people who want to see pregnancy pics and post it just for them? All of my friends just post them. Many of them are obnoxious but I just ignore. It isn't a daily thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Thanks good idea. I can also alert them when disgusting stuff happens (like losing the music plug), rather than posting in the main feed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:06 AM Flag
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Yep. Especially if they are all already on Facebook. Otherwise a password protected blog or email updates every few weeks are other options [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:13 AM Flag
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I don't think so. My cousin is pg and loves in another country. I love seeing her growing belly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:20 AM Flag
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well yeah for someone who you're close to this is different. which is why personalized updates make more sense. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:40 AM Flag
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for eg, I loved seeing my cousin's progress through pregnancy, but couldn't care less about that woman I worked with once who kept posting a zillion pregnancy pics. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:41 AM Flag
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OP: ITA, thanks. I'm gonna make an special group that I publish them to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:52 AM Flag
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i even find snug clothing on pregnant women ridiculous. it's like attention whoring. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:31 AM Flag
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Oh that's ridiculous...so you want women to wear moo-moos? Look how that style of dressing has made Kardashian look...ridiculous [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:29 AM Flag
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loose shirts are ok. you don't need to whore out your pregnancy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:32 AM Flag
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I think the pregnant body is beautiful. I wore fitted tops under a jacket or sweater but never a top that was like a blanket thrown on me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:41 AM Flag
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you are an attention whore [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:46 AM Flag
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My belly was there ad no way I was trying to hide that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:30 AM Flag
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OP: thanks for the input. Can I ask whether you feel that way about a lot of things? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:47 AM Flag
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Why not email them a picture? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:30 AM Flag
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OP mostly because fb is the main way I communicate with these people. Grandma is good at fb, likes leaving comments, uses it on her iPhone, etc. She shares with her friends on there as well. I'm not opposed to email, fb just seems easier I guess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Did anyone see this - http://animal.discovery.com/tv-shows/mermaids/videos/mermaids.htm? Evidence of ancient mermaids...whoa! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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That's freaky [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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Umm? All I saw was a dude filming a mermaid. Not ancient. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:58 PM Flag
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oh, there were other videos from the animal planet website. i thought it was linking the webpage. look at the other videos -- some of the evidence was pretty cool! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:28 AM Flag
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The mermaids are so creepy!!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:50 AM Flag
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np. Plaase tell me you realize that program is a mockumentary. It's not real. The people are all actors. THERE ARE NO MERMAIDS AND NEVER HAVE BEEN. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:00 AM Flag
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It is fact. That's why it is called evidence. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:03 AM Flag
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OMG. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:11 AM Flag
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JHC. Are you 4 years old, or what? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Strax? For ds. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Those CITI bikes are such an eyesore. They've placed them all over and it's not very smart to place them directly in front residential buildings. I hope this is a bust for them 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:49 PM Flag
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I love it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:50 PM Flag
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OP: I think they should have placed them out of the way...maybe in more open areas only [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:55 PM Flag
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Or conveniently one block from an apt so they can be used. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Yes true but not directly in front of residential buildings [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:21 AM Flag
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np. Out of the way? Only in open areas? Why alternate-universe version of NYC do you live in, lady? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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Put them along on the wider side walks or along the city parks. Those wider sidewalks street do exist but putting them in front of these residential buildings is ridiculous esp.the high rises [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:29 AM Flag
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That might work out if they wanted to have like 1/10 of the number of bikes, maybe. You realize this is still considere the pilot phase, and in Manhattan ALL of the bike stations are south of Central Park? The placement restrictions you're describing aren't feasible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:37 AM Flag
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I did not know that all of the bike stations were south of CP. they need to redistribute and start placing them uptown [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:42 AM Flag
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Are you always this dense? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:44 AM Flag
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Put them in the street in place of parking places. Those ones are fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:29 AM Flag
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Two wheels good, Four wheels bad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:21 AM Flag
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Meh. In a little while you won't even notice them. And they get put away c thanksgiving anyway. Still--eyesore is a little strong, no? We're not talking about graffiti or piles of trash. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:21 AM Flag
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I think it will be modestly successful, but this is a pilot, if the location bothers you let them know. I bike all the time with my bike and the biggest hassle is finding a place where my bike will not be stolen - I will give these bikes a try for errands - but they are heavy - 45 lbs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:21 AM Flag
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LOL--my regular bike weighs that much. You wouldn't want to ride the Paris-Roubaix on one but for short hops and errands they're surprisingly manageable and easy to ride. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:44 AM Flag
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Each station has two long racks. They should have left some space between the racks for people to get through. Sanitation workers, people with walkers getting off at the curb, people unloading from taxis/cars, people with strollers, etc. are going to have a problem. All they needed to do was leave 6 feet of space between the racks, but the way they are set up, they are like walls. The ones that are in parking places are not a problem. They also drove our food truck row out of the neighborhood. Oh well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:28 AM Flag
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I live downtown and our nearest one is in a wide alley. I don't think it blocks any building entrances. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:29 AM Flag
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We have two near us taking up parking places, and they seem fine. There is one the sidewalk in front of Whole Foods that could really use a gap. Loading groceries is going to be difficult for those people with cars. There are some in front of residential buildings where you wonder how the garbage men are going to get all those bags through and around the racks. And you wonder about cabs and such dropping people off who have to unload or use walkers or wheelchairs. My mother would not be able to navigate between those bikes with her walker and going the whole way around the racks would take a lot of energy for her. Luckily, my building entrance was spared, and it is just the service entrance that is blocked. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:41 AM Flag
[ - ] All alone tonight. What can I do? Ice cream and a movie? Dh doesn't let me eat ice cream, but he's out! 67 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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Masturbate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:40 PM Flag
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Doesn't let you? What the fuck kind of fascist regime do you live in? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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Mine doesn't either. He's a health nut. It's not like he'd divorce me if he saw me eating it, he'd just give me a hard time. But it makes me healthier, so I'm thankful. And I still sneak it sometimes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:20 AM Flag
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He doesn't LET you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:42 PM Flag
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He thinks it is bad for the baby. I'm pregnant. I guess I didn't mention in original post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:50 PM Flag
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Oh screw that!! He's insane. Go have some ice cream, I'll pay for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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When I was pregnant I had GD and I was actually allowed even recommended to have 1 scoop before bed, so my fasting sugar would be level in the morning. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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It's only bad for baby when it pops out in humanoid form! No unpasteurized milk under 1yo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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Um, he's silly. Tell him to show you the research that ice cream is bad for a growing baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:47 PM Flag
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He is against all processed foods for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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So, don't eat processed ice cream. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:22 AM Flag
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Isn't all ice cream processed? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:26 AM Flag
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NP--I avoided high fructose corn syrup during my pregnancy which ruled out MOST ice cream, but you can find some made with natural ingredients. Haagen Daz vanilla and some of their basic flavors are natural, as is Oberweiss (They might be local to our Chicago area). Just look at the ingredient list. Some are made with real cream, milk, sugar [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:38 AM Flag
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Dh probably still won't approve it because of fat content. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:41 AM Flag
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Ugh. Hope this relationship is working for you. Actually, I hope this post is fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:25 AM Flag
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Your body, your choice on what goes in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:53 PM Flag
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Tell him that the next time he's feeling randy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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Touché [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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That is horseshit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:54 PM Flag
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He needs to STFU and then go bring you a pint of Haagen Dazs and a pickle to dip in it. Tell him when he pushes life through his nether regions, then he can decide whether or not to eat ice cream. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:23 AM Flag
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Tell us: what else are you not allowed to do? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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He has me on a very strict diet and exercise regimen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:54 PM Flag
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Ok, now I'm calling fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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Channeling Rosemary's Baby?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:54 PM Flag
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Where do you live, Saudi Arabia? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:05 AM Flag
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New York City, but he is not American and a doctor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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From Saudi Arabia? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:16 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:19 AM Flag
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Pakistan? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:31 AM Flag
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That general area. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:41 AM Flag
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Yeah, your post makes sense now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:44 AM Flag
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Search divorce lawyers tonight. Who does not "let" a grown ass woman eat ice cream, and what grown women says ok I won't dear? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:52 PM Flag
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Has he just expressed his disapproval of you eating ice cream, or has he said point blank that he forbids you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:55 PM Flag
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He told me that as a new mom, my job is to take care of the baby. I left my job when I found out I was pregnant and have been focusing on my health and nutrition at his request. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:54 PM Flag
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Jesus Christ, your DH is a controlling asshole. Seriously. Fuck him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:55 PM Flag
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this, just wait til the baby's here, you ain't seen nothin' yet!! RUN WHILE YOU CAN LADY!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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He sounds like a controlling freak. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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And this is ok with you? Really? You are not his child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:59 PM Flag
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It's the deal I had to agree to to stay at home with the baby. Lots of prenatal yoga, training sessions, running. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:01 AM Flag
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Eek. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:09 AM Flag
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That is psycho. Seriously. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:03 AM Flag
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I'm still thinking fake. What dh would want their pg wife RUNNING, for fox's sake? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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Lol, god's... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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It is safe to run up to a certain point. I just do 5k runs 3x a week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:10 AM Flag
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right but ice cream is bad. Face it, you got a bad egg. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:17 AM Flag
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And you're ok with this arrangement? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:07 AM Flag
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My job was stressful and required long. Hours. And I wanted to stay home with the baby anyway. It was the best decision. But dh doesn't want me sitting around eating Bon bons by the pool all summer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:11 AM Flag
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fake, fake, fake! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:29 AM Flag
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Oh, honey. What a scary, lonely place you must be in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:07 AM Flag
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I feel so bad for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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+1. Op, I am sorry that this is your life. Please understand this is not normal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:18 AM Flag
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Fake [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:49 PM Flag
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Do you realize what a fucked up situation you're in? Like, do you know his behavior is not normal or ok??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:15 AM Flag
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Of course she does, that's why she's writing this fake post [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:20 AM Flag
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Nothing I do is unhealthy. It is a lot of work to make green juices and buy fresh food every day, but it is all i have to do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:26 AM Flag
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Not what you eat, the way your husband treats you! So controlling that you can't eat ice cream? And controls your exercise? It's not ok. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:30 AM Flag
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He is paying all of our bills. I have to do whatever he asks of me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:26 AM Flag
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He doesn't own you. You are partners and should be able to make decisions together or by yourself. You don't "have" to do anything. Do you ever stand up to him or say no? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:35 AM Flag
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No. I never really say no to him. He is smarter and knows more about a healthy lifestyle than I do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:43 AM Flag
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Just because you don't work out of the home doesn't mean you don't have a say in anything! How old ate you guys? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:32 AM Flag
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I am 29. He is 39. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:42 AM Flag
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If this is real, this is a cry for help. You obviously want to eat the ice cream! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:33 AM Flag
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I had the ice cream. Had it delivered. I ordered by phone and paid cash so he won't find out. It was sooo good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:48 AM Flag
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fake! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 12:51 AM Flag
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Order pizza and get some good ice cream and watch your fav videos! Live!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:06 AM Flag
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What?! Eating ice cream was one of the best things about being pregnant. And no, I didn't get too fat. I gained 25 lbs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.13, 01:17 AM Flag
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