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[ - ] Why so many people hate on nannies ? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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Because they're insecure about their nanny being prettier/younger/a better caregiver, etc. etc. etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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I don't think many people do. I think some moms feel threatened/ambivalent about having a nanny in the first place, though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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I think some moms have a weird guilt complex about leaving their kids so they take it out on the nanny. It's really stupid and counter productive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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I do, too. Healthy moms are glad for the help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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I agree with this. The women I know who badmouth their nannies or nannies in general are miserable in most aspects of their life. I think some people also hire the cheapest they can get and get what they pay for. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:59 PM Flag
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Because it is easy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:47 PM Flag
[ - ] The murderer in the Hofstra University home invasion killing was black. No surprise. We all knew it wasn't going to be a Chinese exchange student, a Jewish member of Alpha Epsilon Pi, or a white rugby player, didn't we? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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Actually we did not - I thought it would have been a lacrosse player from the brother fraternity of the sorority house it happened at [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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We thought it would be someone vile, such as yourself [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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Yes we all know that black and hispanic men commit 90 percent of the rapes. But it is unspeakable for you to point this out. You are clearly a nokd low class white mom for pointing this out [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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Only poor low class whites talk about black crime. Which are you... Poor or low class? Lol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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Wonderful response. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:49 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:52 PM Flag
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I'm going with both. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:52 PM Flag
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Good god, look at the perp. He looks like such a thug: http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2013/05/19/nyregion/19-HOFSTRA/19-HOFSTRA-articleInline.jpg [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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You know if the police hadn't come he would have been raping all those girls. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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Yes you know that. ALL of them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:52 PM Flag
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That is why wealthy whites buy apartments for daughters in white neighborhoods. Do the math it is low class whites that are raped by blacks, not wealthy whites. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:58 PM Flag
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OMG! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:58 PM Flag
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I know right? Crazy pants. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:00 PM Flag
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Lol. It is just like high school, social competition. Rich liberal moms take the side of the black rapists when blacks rape low class whites. The blacks are just pawns in the status competition among different white moms. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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Do you smoke crack? What the fuck are you talking about? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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Why do you think it is that wealthy liberal moms want forced busing so low class white moms have to send their daughters to school with boys from the housing projects? Look at the motivation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:08 PM Flag
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Look it up. The white victims of black crime are overwhelmingly low class whites. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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You're back,huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:04 PM Flag
[ - ] DS is switching to boarding school (rising sophomore). He made this decision because he didn't really like his NY private. But he suddenly loves school and told me he is sad to be leaving, though he still wants to go to boarding. For some reason this is unsettling to me. But this is normal right? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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Yes- normal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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Yep. I hated my high school, too, but I was holding back tears the day I graduated. And when I transferred my sophomore year of college I was sad to leave. I doubt he's having regrets, just nervous for what the future holds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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It's normal and it's about the friendships. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:59 PM Flag
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Obviously, you think it is the best option, or he would not be doing it. Just keep reinforcing all the positive reasons why the decision was made. It will all work out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:56 PM Flag
[ - ] I just had the oddest thought. That I think I will be depressed when I hear that those Lori/Dori/Reba/George twins pass away. They are just such a symbol of what the heck life is - life is life and it all has intrinsic value. I will be bummed out the day the news comes out that they are no more. I probably deserve to go before they do. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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Who? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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I don't know who you are talking about. is this something in the news? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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Double who? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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You've lost me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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Who? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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No one else knows who they are? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7pR2uWhAkaQ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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I do. I now want to get the link to that video when the one decided she wanted to change her name to Reba and become a country singer. I was watching that Matt Damon/Greg Kinnear movie stuck on you when the credits rolled, and I was like where have I heard that song?? It was Reba's song! Or whichever one decided to call herself Reba. It's all so mixed up to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Here you go .... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xRLGUMArxnY [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:05 PM Flag
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It doesn't get less mixed up when the one in the chair who decided she wanted to have a singing career and changed her name to Reba (and had people backing that video linked above) then later also decided she wanted to live "as a man." Also, the one who pushes around her sister/brother's chair has also said she's not a virgin. Your mind can go for days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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Huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Vineyard Vines or Crew Cuts? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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Target. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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Agreed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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They have plenty of cute stuff and it is pretty easy to put it together to look any way you want. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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WALMART [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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Haven't been in one of those for at least a decade. Own the stock though! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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pardon me, Muffy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:46 PM Flag
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Vineyard Vines. Crew Cuts sucks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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Neither [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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Neither. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:00 PM Flag
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crew cuts. vineyard vines is too fuddy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:01 PM Flag
[ - ] Had lunch with four friends today, one of whom's DD is about to graduation. They all started talking about how much they miss high school and how sad her DD is to be leaving. I wasn't bullied, I had friends, I went to a good school, but I still hated high school. Am I the only one? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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I liked High School and College it was a great experience and I miss those days, careless and free! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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I loved highschool. Great memories, great experience. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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No. High school is the worst. You live with your parents at night and your days are filled with algebra. Who would want that? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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nope, you could not pay me to relive high school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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I hated it too. I wasn't depressed, but I felt like everyone else was pretending to be happier than they were, and that annoyed me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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OP: I felt the exact same way! Like everyone was so concerned with how others were perceiving them, they always had to put on a show to make people think they were always having fun and super happy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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No. I didn't hate it, but I wouldn't go back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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Loved HS, hated college, loved business school. Everyone has different experiences. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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Where did you go to college? Why did you hate it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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Huge state school. Fantastic education, but little interaction with profs -- football and binge-drinking atmosphere. Graduated with zero debt though, and was well-positioned to get into "the best" business school :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Well that's great! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Hated HS! Loved college, once I found my way to the right one for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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Loved high school! I'd go back in a heartbeat! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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Were you popular? Maybe it's only fun for the really popular kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Me, too. Couldn't wait to get out & go to college! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone successfully get off SSRIs? How long did it take to stop feeling the effects of withdrawal? I'm having a hard time telling if this anxiety is just how I am and I really need the meds, or if it's withdrawal. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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You're asking the wrong crowd. These women love their drugs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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I did. Lexapro. I had side effects tapering off, but increased anxiety (above my usual fairly high levels) was not one of them. My suggestion would be to give it 6 months. If you still feel heightened anxiety, and were less anxious on the SSRI, go back on it. Good luck to you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:47 PM Flag
[ - ] All you uber-moms, feel superior: my six-year-old is microwaving one of those kids' meals with tons of sugar and additives. At least she can read the directions herself! Does this count as teaching her how to cook? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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Sure, just be sure she doesn't burn herself on the container when she takes it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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Apply to the CIA for early acceptance [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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Great idea! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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Microwaving is not cooking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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I feel sad for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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I made my own scrambles eggs at that age. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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But don't you feel better about yourself now? Looking down on others is so satisfying. . . . [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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I know. I was joking. We do cook together, but not tonight. Moderation in all things, including junk food. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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Obviously she's joking you stupid cow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you correct your toddlers grammar? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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I repeat with the correct conjugation, but I don't say, "That's wrong." She's bilingual and she makes conjugation mistakes in the minority language. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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no, but when I repeat what she says I use correct grammar ie "Can we go see she?" No, not today, we can't go see her. I correct like this unless its super adorable and I just want to listen to it for a while, like ungrella, gisdusting, department building etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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Of course. What planet do you live on? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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It's a simple question, no need to be a cunt. :-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:08 PM Flag
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No, I only correct the grammar of posters here on UB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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Yes I do. Always. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:56 PM Flag
[ - ] My sister posts video to Facebook every time her kids perform. They do lots of things very well (dance, piano, singing the National Anthem at basketball games, etc.). None of my friend's other "mom friends" ever "like"s these posts. Should I advise my sister to knock off on these postings? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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myob [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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Why should your friend's "mom friends" like your sister's videos? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:11 PM Flag
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I mean her own friends. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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np Who cares? She's probably just using fb as an online scrapbook to which others have access. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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np Who cares? She's probably just using fb as an online scrapbook to which others have access. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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How do you know she hasn't set these posts to be viewed by family only? I don't know how to do it, but I do know it's an option. . . . [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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MYOB [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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Who cares. MYOB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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OP: I care because I'm afraid she's alienating her friends. Also her feelings are getting hurt. She has said to me, "I wonder why none of my friends 'liked' DD's choral solo, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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Trust me, people don't watch every single video on Facebook, I do not do it myself, it is boring. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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I want to friend her - love those videos! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:40 PM Flag
[ - ] I have a nanny and I like her but yesterday when I came home , she was using my bathroom rather than the guest bath. I am not a snob but even my kids don't use the master bath. WWYD? 126 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Nothing. Get some perspective. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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no something must be done or said [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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I hope you don't use public restrooms. Because if you do, your nanny pooping in your toilet is the last thing you should be concerned about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:54 PM Flag
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I would never use a public toilet ever! This is part of the reason, I am so upset by my nanny using mine! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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You need to ease up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:59 PM Flag
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No I don't! We all have our pet peeves and I am the one paying her $19/hr [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:07 PM Flag
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Fine, don't ease up. You're going to be upset a lot. It's your life [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:09 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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Oh you're nothing like Fiji mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:13 PM Flag
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Actually, Fiji mom had a point. The nanny was drinking like four bottles a day. I am raid the fridge nanny mom and I remember. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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Get therapy for your OCD. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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I would slap her 20 times until she understands she should crap outside in the woods. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:55 PM Flag
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OP-- I never said woods. I have a lovely guest bath [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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I feel bad for you nanny. You seem like a crazy boss. Signed nanny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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You sound crazy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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Nanny here: Did she have a reason? I used to use the master bath when DB napped because the guest bath was next to baby's room and would wake her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:57 PM Flag
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there is no reason to use my bathroom ever. The guest bath is further away from db's room [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:05 PM Flag
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NP- know your place nanny [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:09 PM Flag
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Other nanny here: Agree with this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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op- Thank you nanny. Even nannies agree with me about this! so WWYD? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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Was she drinking Fiji water and wearing your sweater too? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:01 PM Flag
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op- shut up and don't lump me with those crazy women [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:02 PM Flag
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Then don't act like one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:03 PM Flag
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Ha ha from your responses, you sound right at home with those crazy women. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:06 PM Flag
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np No way should a sitter/nanny be using the fucking master bath! Shouldn't be in the room at all. If the main bath is near kid's room and he's napping, flush later (if that's the concern). Highly intrusive to be in employer's bedroom using their ensuite, imo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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OP- THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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Agree [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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Are you fucking kidding me ? Flush later ? Op said she has to go to their master to CLEAN. So she has access to that area of the house. You are crazy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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CLEAN IS THE WORD! NOT USE [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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this. +100 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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Well, you ARE one of them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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But you seem so similar. Never use public bathrooms? Do you have an in-dwelling catheter? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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i think it is a little strange - she really has no reason to be in the master bedroom area at all, does she? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:02 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:09 PM Flag
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op- right... right??????????? She cleans up but I don't see why she would ever use the master bath [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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np Don't listen to the hags saying you're wrong--you're not. I'd be pissed if my sitter used my master bath. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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+2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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NP - I agree and that would really irritate me too, OP. but realistically speaking - what can you say to her without sounding crazy? Maybe keep the doors closed (To both the master bathroom and bedroom) and hope she gets the hint? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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hi op [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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no, not op just someone that finds it strange that nanny was in master bedroom bath [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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I saw the beginning of this movie called The Help, and they had this great idea to build a separate bathroom just for nannies or housekeepers! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:06 PM Flag
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ILY [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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They could put it in the hallway and all the nannies and housekeepers could use it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:08 PM Flag
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This would be handy when workmen have to use the bathroom too. I cringe when one asks to use mine and don't say you don't [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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Um, my super could use my bathroom if he wants and my husband fixes most things in our apartment or we have relatives who can. Being blue collar has perks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:13 PM Flag
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NO ONE WANTS A WORKER IN THEIR BATHROOM [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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honestly this! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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I don't care. They aren't sleeping in my bed. If I was that skeeved out I would break out the Clorox wipes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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people I pay should not make more work for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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You sound nuts. I would never be so ungracious as to tell someone they couldn't use my bathroom. My mother raised me better than that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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Seriously. I can't believe some of the posters here. I can't imagine how they were raised. I bet she'd also prefer the nanny use different plates and silverware, if only she could figure out any polite way of asking it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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If you were employed in someone's home or office, you would think it was ok to go into their private quarters where you had no business? Your mother failed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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I wouldn't do it, but I also wouldn't flip out. Next time lock your bathroom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:46 PM Flag
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No one recommended flipping out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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Oh God, if you feel gross out by your nanny, a stupid toilet should be the less of your concerns, she touches your kids on everyday basis, prepare their meals, bath them, etc. Acting like a psycho-maniac about a toilet is not helping. Fire her then and send your kids to a day care if this is such a drama. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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Oh grow up bitch! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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Yes, they should just piss themselves. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:10 PM Flag
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What would the nanny do with DC when she went to the hallway bathroom? Leave them alone or take them with her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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She can pee before she starts her shift or after she leaves. Maybe a wee wee pad on the terrace? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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Hmmmmmm ............. yes she will need to clean the terrace every day right before she goes or I would be skeeved [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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THIS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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Not sure if this is fake or not but personally I would not go into someone's bedroom and use their private bathroom. Has nothing to do with being a nanny or just a guest. Just seems pretty nervy to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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OP- right!!!!!!!!!!!! and I am so offended by the utter lack of respect [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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ita. My KIDS have never used my master bath. Nor have any guests. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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That is so weird. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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This. I work in a private home and even if you have reason to be in the master bathroom - no need to use it. It is private space and when there are guest baths available or bathrooms in public areas of the home, those are the ones to use [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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OP- thank you I am not crazy. You all obviously agree it is a severe boundary violation. WWYD? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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Fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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Not fake it is my PERSONAL bathroom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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LOCK THE BATHROOM DOOR THEN, OR SEND YOUR KIDS TO A DAY CARE. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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If it really bothers you, you will have to say something. but if you think it was a one time thing - like she was putting towels away and realized she had to go. I know I am trying to make excuses but I am having a hard time believing someone would do this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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Severe? at the very worst it was thoughtless. If it bothers you that much tell her it may sound crazy but you don't like anyone in your bathroom, even your kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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She thinks her shit doesn't smell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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I posted before that I thought it was "nervy" but I wouldn't exactly call it a severe boundary violation - you are going overboard. Just tell her you would prefer she not go into your bedroom - that you consider that your private space. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:49 PM Flag
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I sort of agree. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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Fire her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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I can understand why you do not want your nanny in your bedroom, I get that, but getting crazy because she was using your bathroom is borderline crazy on my book. If you do not want her to use it, you will have to be direct with her, of course you are going to sound crazy, because, it is a crazy thing. Signed nanny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Crazy too that she'd never use a public restroom. Really?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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FIRE HER! NO SEVERANCE! GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Nanny cam at least your room. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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THIS! WHAT IS THIS NANNY UP TO? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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Yes Nanny cam in your bathroom so you can make sure she doesn't use it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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I said bedroom, nanny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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Well nanny must be using her tooth brush as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:46 PM Flag
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I hope she is, to clean her crap after she uses OP's toilet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:46 PM Flag
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No but I am sure she opens the medicine cabinet and tries on the cosmetics. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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I hope you are just trolling. If you are not, you are either a major racist, or insane or both. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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A racist? WTF? nanny and I are SAME race! You sound crazy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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Put a nanny cam in your room, she is up to no good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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Ok, so you aren't a racist. Insane it is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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Why does a camera frighten you, nanny? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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Not really you would be probably get jealous after seeing my tight ass walking around your bedroom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:49 PM Flag
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No worries, I use them and love them. Op should too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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I bet you spend you lonely nights watching what nanny did and what nanny didn't. Well at least you distract yourself, it must be hard to be in a relationship when you significant other doesn't touch you, I bet he is gross out by your overall personality. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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First of all, your English is abhorrent. You would never be my nanny. Second of all, I have more than you ever will. And I like it that way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:00 PM Flag
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I know my English is not good, I am Easter European, and yes I would never be your nanny, that . . . would be gross. Lady, for God's sakes, do you feel more powerful because you have more money and you can buy anti-wrinkle and diet pills. Ok, if that makes you happy, good for you!. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:08 PM Flag
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Go back to Easter island. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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I would be annoyed, but bc I leave our master bath more messy than the others. I leave my make-up, prescriptions etc on the counter. I think it would be a bit odd, but not a firing offense. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:42 PM Flag
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I agree [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:49 PM Flag
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Talk to her about it. Make sure to be polite, and be clear it's not about HER using your bathroom, it's about ANYONE using your bathroom. Nannies are used to dealing with their employers quirks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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THIS X 1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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Op, install a waterproof cam inside your toilet so you can see if she uses the toilet or not, if she does, use the footage to incriminate her, blackmail her and do not pay her severance for breaching the contract. I bet you do not want to place your delicate and soft cheeks where the filthy nanny cheeks have been. Gross. Is like having sex with her pretty much! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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Look nanny, tell her why you're in her room. You're looking through her medicine cabinet, bedside table, trying on her cosmetics, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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I am using her tooth brush as my personal crap cleaner, I have peed on her shampoo bottle several times and fuck her DH in the afternoons. Why ? Do you have a problem with that, old, wrinkly and fatty Mom ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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That's the problem. I am none of those and I am sure op isn't either. Mildly jealous nannies love to try on your stuff, rifle through your belongings etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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Trust me Crazy Mom, I am at least younger and skinnier than you. *wink* *wink* And yes, I do try on your clothing but they are too big for me and I put on your fancy make up when I made up with your DH in your bed. He likes it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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Maybe younger but not thinner or more attractive. Otherwise you wouldn't be obsessed with using my thins. I hope everyone nanny cams their nannies. Best advice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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Crazy Mom, I am younger and more attractive, do you really believe that after those 3 pregnancies and c-sections you look the same or better than me ? Bad news, You don't. This is why your DH like to play around with me. *wink* Trust me I know all your insecurities because I have the advantage to snoop around your sad notes and medicine cabinet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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Who had three? I am not worried about you. I have live streaming nanny cam so you def don't do this to me. "wink" lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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You are worried about me, if you were not you wouldn't have a cam. *smile* [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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No dear, I worry about my things. You are very incidental to my life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:07 PM Flag
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*out, not up* [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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I have snooped in your medicine cabinet you have at least 50 different kinds of antidepressants and 10 bottles of diet pills. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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I have neither, but I do have leftover c section pain meds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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I bet that C-section looks pretty ! *yummy* [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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It's invisible and tum is flat if you're considering one [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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We are in an anonymous board, if it makes you happy to believe the scar is gone and your tum is flat, so be it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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I have proof, but if it makes you happy to believe it doesn't happen, so be it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 11:04 PM Flag
[ - ] "New urban sport ... Polar bear hunting" 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:55 PM Flag
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Thank god nypd keeps us safe on manhattan.. Not like the crappy chicago pd and new orleans pd [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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as if [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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Sorry, skank look it up. Polar bear hunting is more prevalent in philly and chicago than in manhattan [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:57 PM Flag
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I am not a skank, you idiot [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:06 PM Flag
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WTF are you talking about? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Is Joseph a Jewish name? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:51 PM Flag
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i dont think so [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:57 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:52 PM Flag
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Mohammed is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:53 PM Flag
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Oh god,,, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:55 PM Flag
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Yup. All those Italians named Joey are Jewish. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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No, but Yosef is (Anglicized to Joseph) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:03 PM Flag
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Sure. He was Benjamin's son, wasn't he? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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It can be, but it isn't exclusively. It's in both the Old Testament and the new. Though, the Joseph in the new Testament (Jesus's step dad) was Jewish. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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The Old Testament one must have been too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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Yes, his father Jacob was the first Jew. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:01 PM Flag
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My point was everyone in the Old Testament was Jewish. It was before Jesus. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:02 PM Flag
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Jacob was the founder of a whole new nation/thanks to the number of children he had/he was also known a Israel/but most of the time/his sons and his wives used to call him/DAD! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:08 PM Flag
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Not in my family. My ds is named after his great grandfather. We are catholic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:59 PM Flag
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I know several Jewish Josephs. It's like Matthew or Michael - can go both ways. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:38 PM Flag
[ - ] I am a crystal ball mom, can I answer your questions? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:50 PM Flag
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My DH has crystal balls [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:47 PM Flag
[ - ] Came home very intoxicated the other night. Apparently i was falling on floor. DH put his hands on me and now i have all these bruises and my body is sore. He said he is tired of me and my drinking. 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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he never put his hand on his ex wife. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:33 PM Flag
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What do you mean? did he hit you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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He hit you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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yes and no its not fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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Why do you women have such little self respect? LEAVE HIM. If my husband ever laid a finger on me, I would be out the door before he could say a word. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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ITA. Take pics of the bruises and get a divorce lawyer. See a doctor to document the bruises. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:46 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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We have DC i feel bad. I feel like my drinking caused all of this but yet if he truly loved me he would have not hit me or took out anger on me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:48 PM Flag
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Look. You need to understand this: NOTHING makes hitting/kicking acceptable. Nothing! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:44 PM Flag
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He said he was tired of my drinking and being woken up. I guess he has a point. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:52 PM Flag
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This is fake. No one is this stupid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:46 PM Flag
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no this is not fake. Thanks for being so supportive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:54 PM Flag
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It is NOT a reason to hit or kick you. And if you have a DC even more reason to leave. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:03 PM Flag
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fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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There is not excuse for him to hit you saying this, I don't think there is an excuse for you to arrive to your home completely intoxicated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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I agree. I just feel so alone embarassed and feel resentment toward him. My body is aching from being pushed and kicked [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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Kicked? You need to leave him NOW. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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Now, Are you sure he hit you ? Do you remember this ? Because if you were falling on floor you could easily had hit something a couple times. Has he hit you before ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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Yes he has hit me few times before when i was intoxicated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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Why do you drink ? This is crazy. Seek help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:53 PM Flag
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Do you remember him hitting you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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yes i remember hi saying your a whore no good..I peeded on our living room floor and that made him rage more [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:46 PM Flag
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peed) sorry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:41 PM Flag
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Oh God. Ok. you are out of control and so is he. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:49 PM Flag
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OH. MY. GOD. sorry, but if you are such an alcoholic that you are staggering home and pissing the floor, i can understand his anger. i wonder if he has put up with years of this from you. your poor kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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yes i do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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That's really scary. Do you not remember it happening? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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Yes I peed on the living room and that is when he smacked me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:49 PM Flag
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wow, marrying an alcoholic sucks, whether it's the female or the male [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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are you from a different country? why are you writing in broken english? fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:46 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:54 PM Flag
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No from the USA. Thought i could express what happened on here it has been bothering me and i dont want to tell anyone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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Maybe she is drunk right now. By the way the fact that she is ESL doesn't mean her posts are fake. I am a ESL Mom myself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:50 PM Flag
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No iam NOT drunk now. However iam in bed watching tv [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:57 PM Flag
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I am not proud i know my English is awful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Do you have family/friends nearby ? You need to leave asap. Your situation is out of control and so is your drinking. Seek help for your DC and for yourself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 09:52 PM Flag
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No family. I plan on going back to AA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:01 PM Flag
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Has he ever hit you before or is this the first time? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:04 PM Flag
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When alcoholics drink, they settle for less. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.18.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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I never thought i grow up and have alcohol problem. Makes very sad [ Reply | More
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