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[ - ] Thoughts on the name "Brandon"? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.23.13, 08:11 PM Flag
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It's catchy and different! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:18 PM Flag
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Different??? I love it, but in the south it is EVERYWHERE. Between Brandons and Brendans there's hardly room for a Zachary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:22 PM Flag
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Different from what...the 10 zillion other Brandons out there? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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Arguably attractive transplanted twin from Minnesota. Drives an old Mustang. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:18 PM Flag
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LOL I get the reference! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:14 PM Flag
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;) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:21 PM Flag
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Awesome! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:16 PM Flag
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HAHA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:27 PM Flag
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Nope - second youngest of five, crippled when he caught the queen committing incest with her brother, learns to love the taste of frog. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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I know lots of them, works for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:19 PM Flag
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no. just no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:22 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 09:12 PM Flag
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sounds like a little punk [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:18 PM Flag
[ - ] Any moms on who have a short cervix? I am 24 weeks pregnant with DC #2. Jut flew back to nyc from California for for work with no issues. Supposed to go to a wedding in southern California when I will be 28 weeks and OB wants me to come in for a cervical exam the week before we're supposed to go. Am also flying to Florida later this week--reason to be concerned? Fwiw with first pregnancy I was not allowed to fly btw weeks 20 and 30 due to low lying placenta but short cervix was regularly checked and flew to and from Chicago at 34 weeks for work. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.23.13, 01:02 AM Flag
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Really, the only person that can answer this is your OB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:03 AM Flag
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I have a call in to my OB but just curious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:05 AM Flag
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PLEASE stay on bedrest and stop trying to do it all [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:04 AM Flag
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Who said I'm on bed rest? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:05 AM Flag
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I meant go on bed rest [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:06 AM Flag
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People put themselves on bed rest? My OB did not order this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:01 AM Flag
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If you go on bedrest without a doctors orders, it's just called a nap [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:12 AM Flag
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My friend tried to fly when she should not have. Because of her inconsideration the plane had to be landed in Kansas. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:01 AM Flag
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Sorry to hear that but my dr gave me clearance to fly this past week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:08 AM Flag
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Ok then listen to your doc. Why are you asking? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:11 AM Flag
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I'm just wondering as I wait to hear back from him. He wasn't worried about my Long flight earlier this week but I forgot to mention trip to Florida later this week. Will obviously follow his guidance for trip back to CA next month. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Any suggestions for where to find nice sun dresses (particularly empire waist)- both casual and work-friendly (semi-casual office)? I am pregnant with DC#2 and due in the very late summer. FWIW I am tall very busty so I need either short sleeves or a tank-style (spaghetti straps are not flattering on me). Thank you! 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.22.13, 06:38 PM Flag
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OP I meant casual dresses, and some that are work-friendly. All do not need to be work-friendly! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:38 PM Flag
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I just three at Marshall's. They're nice-ish quality too, but not terribly trendy. Two were Max Studio and the other CK. All under $40/ea. I'm pregnant and working too, so I believe we must be shopping for the exact same thing. :-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:43 PM Flag
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Are you in the city or suburbs? I live in Brooklyn and work in Manhattan. Just looked and saw there's a location near 14th St. Will have to check it out. Hope you're feeling well and good luck to you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:45 PM Flag
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There is a Marshall's on Atlantic terminal next to Target. Just make sure you go early during a week day if possible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:51 PM Flag
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I'm in Queens, but now that I think about it, I have seen a bunch at C21 as well. Good luck!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:58 PM Flag
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I scored at Marshall's as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:01 PM Flag
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I was due in August and lived in dresses from H & M. I'm not sure if they have anything work appropriate, but they has a lot of casual dresses. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:44 PM Flag
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*had* [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:45 PM Flag
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Motherhood Maternity has stuff that would fit the bill. You could look at Boden if you want something that's not actually maternity and you could wear later. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:51 PM Flag
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Despite the hate for it on this board Lands End might have this. If you comb through the frump some of the stuff is nice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:53 PM Flag
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There is a hate on this board for land ends? This board just earned some points in my eyes. Frumpy hideous clothes with pretension to some, I don't know, comfort? Quality? But in reality just clothes made with ugly people in mind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:38 PM Flag
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OP here, thank you! I didn't pop until late fall with DC#1 so I was not huge in the summer. Will look into all of your suggestions which are much appreciated! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:08 PM Flag
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I am busty and detest empire waist, they make me look fat, but I guess when pregnant it doesn't matter! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:11 PM Flag
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Target. Cheap, inoffensive, simple maternity dresses. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:15 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of the name Luisa? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.22.13, 05:17 PM Flag
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16 going on 17. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:20 PM Flag
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That's Liesel [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:21 PM Flag
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Correct - which is short for Elizabeth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:51 PM Flag
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Oh right. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:20 PM Flag
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The Fantasticks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:22 PM Flag
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Not a bad character, just very self involved and naive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:23 PM Flag
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Love it, and I prefer that spelling to Louisa, though I guess some people might find it odd if you're Anglo and use the Luisa spelling. Plus, Lulu is an adorable nickname for a little girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:37 PM Flag
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If you're Latina, yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:32 PM Flag
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OP here. For an Anglo looking kid with Italian surname. I'm in love with it but wondering if it seems pretentious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:42 PM Flag
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In that case, I think it's pretty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:50 PM Flag
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It's the Italian spelling for Louise. Since you have the right surname, it works! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:23 PM Flag
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Or Italian! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:52 PM Flag
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Lotte and Luisa! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:47 PM Flag
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Nice though I prefer Louisa or Louise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:51 PM Flag
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+1. Why not Louisa, OP? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:16 PM Flag
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Never really thought of it, I guess. Also, DH's gandfather is Luis, so it was supposed to be after him. But Louisa is very pretty too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:34 PM Flag
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My dd's middle name is Louise, and I like Luisa even better. But my dd hates it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 08:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Really not excited about being pregnant. 10 weeks along now, very happily married & 33 yrs old. I did it b/c hubby wants kids and we figured before 35 was best (Downs, etc etc) but I really love the life & career I have now, and just not sure that I want to change it. I think about spending a future of spending Saturdays at the park with screaming kids and just get depressed. 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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Abort now. It only gets worse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:16 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Yes. The upside here is....this is as good as it gets. In 4 years you'll want to kill yourself, DC, and dh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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Good point! Double murder-homicide for the win! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 03:06 AM Flag
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So long as you have good, trusted childcare the change is still profound but in a different way than you are expecting. I find that career is a bigger threat to balance than DC. They are in bed so early and sleep so much you still live your life--romantic dinners, concerts. At least while they are small [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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what about still traveling just the two of us? how long does that get put on pause? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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stop whining. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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Or--that has been hard. We used to travel far, and well. We now only do shorter flights to on the beaten path locales in the Caribbean Mexico etc. we find it to be tiring and have a hard time trusting hotel staff to watch dd at such a young age. But I have friends who travel a lot with dcs--Europe, Hawaii from the east coast. I can do concerts and diners but long trips with a 2-year-old just aren't worth it. We will ramp back up later. We go on tons of local trips to see friends and family within a six hour drive lots of trips to Florida as well [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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WTF are you talking about? did a nanny raise your kids? did you forget about kids getting sick and getting up 10 times to hold the trash can while they vomit in it? changing diapers and going out the door and realizing hte new diaper has already leaked through? Running around in the park all day and coming home exhausted and kids asking what are we doing now? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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you ahouldn't have been a mother either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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calm down [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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Or--why so dramatic? Yes dcs get sick but not every single time you have plans. Have had to cancel one trip for DC illness and a couple of nights out. Nothing to chain me to her so that I can't ever have a break. The change is big--yes you will spend mornings at the playground--but it's not like you'll never see a movie or dine out again. By nanny raising if you mean after she is asleep so be it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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OR:I had 4 so I went through this 4 times. I guess one is not that bad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:35 PM Flag
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This is awful advice. OP doesn't want children, period. Good childcare isn't going to change that. 24-hour childcare won't change that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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oh shutup. you sound insufferable. your poor child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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and you sound like a babyworshipper. YOUR poor child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 11:44 PM Flag
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You should never have a child for someone else, against your own wishes. It isn't good for your or the kid - kids feel that resentment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:23 PM Flag
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Get over it today or you can add divorced to the list of things you'll be depressed about [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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unlikely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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let's hope your husband is a little more maternal - but don't worry you'll find your home/work/family balance, might take a while but you will [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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Or--why is this crowd so tough? Wondering if your life will change doesn't make you in-maternal. Sheesh. Btw what I said above applies less to two--which we are gearing up for. It's going to get tougher to balance. Friends with 1 DC can have lots of balance from what I see [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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i actually though i was being supportive...oh well, fail on my part again - i am not the best writer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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I'm hoping DH is paternal and not maternal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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You won't always feel like this. I had the se type of feelings when I found I was pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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I had those feelings too. Was so focused on career and freedom. Now I have DD and couldn't be happier, I know how cheesy that sounds.. I turned down career opportunities and enjoy spending time with DD and other moms even though I used to say all those moms are crazy. It's hard to explain, but trust me, you won't regret it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:51 PM Flag
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Lots of ambivalent feeling while pregnant. Normal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:29 PM Flag
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What out for karma [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:29 PM Flag
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Hang in there. As it closer to your due and you feel the little one kicking, you'll get excited. Life does change but you'll find new happiness that you didn't know was possible. You'll have to compromise on some things but your life isn't ending. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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I felt the same way when I was preg. The plan was that my mom would take care of ds and I would carry on with my career etc. THEN ds was born and something magical happened! I can not even explain the love I suddenly had for this little guy. I didn't even let my mom hold him!! Lol! To this day, I know ds is th best thing that ever happened to me! He s 6 yo now. Hang in there. When you see the baby and hold it your priorities will suddenly change. You will feel emotions ou have never felt before! Career is far less important to me now. DS is a blessing, I absolutely love spending time with him in the park even on his cranky days! GL, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:53 PM Flag
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WHY DID YOU GET PREGNANT ON THE FIRST PLACE IF IT IS OBVIOUS YOU DO NOT LIKE KIDS. WTF ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:59 PM Flag
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Stop screaming, she never said she doesn't like kids, just having some normal panic reaction. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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AMEN!!!! These are the people who SHOULDN'T HAVE KIDS!!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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disagree. this woman is actually right! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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*IN* the first place. If you're going to yell and be a b*tch, at least do it with proper English. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.20.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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My, my what a narcissist you are! Yikes it sounds like you'll be a bad mom if you keep up with this attitude. I'd hate to be your kid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.20.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Expecting 05.17.13, 09:08 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:09 PM Flag
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? how come? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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this is not an advertising space. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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Yeah, let us go back to racist comments and weight-baiting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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Just wanted to make people aware of the resource. Apologies if I have misused the space - honest mistake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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Oh for god sake, this is a useful resource for lots of women on this board. (and if you'll look to your right you'll see a whole bunch of ads) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:23 PM Flag
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Nope, have you ever heard of adblocker? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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Wow you must be in a dark place to flag a post like this. There's plenty to flag on this board, go do your worthy flaggin work on another thread. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:21 PM Flag
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my god, you have very little to do with your time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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You have to take the time to create a fake post, then slip the link in as a fake responder like everyone else does. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:31 PM Flag
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I don't spend much time on these boards. Sorry for any confusion. I am a beginner. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have any recent experience with Dr. Melissa Waterstone? I am 6 weeks pregnant and looking for a great OB for baby #2. I've read that she's not a hand holder, which is fine, but want to make sure she's a competent and caring doctor. Thanks! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.14.13, 07:01 PM Flag
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That is a perfect description of her. She was my OB and delivered DS in 2010 - LOVED her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:03 PM Flag
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^i.e. not a handholder, but competent and caring. I had a scary complication after an otherwise normal delivery and she took charge immediately. She was great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:06 PM Flag
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np: ita. she was my OB for dc born in 2008 and that's exactly how i'd describer her: competent and caring and definitely friendly, but not super warm and fuzzy. she's not the OB for the patient who's the type who wants to call 5x a week with 10 questions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:24 PM Flag
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Not super warm and fuzzy, but caring, very competent, definitely not unpleasant, and more responsive than most doctors I see. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:02 PM Flag
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Love Dr Lee Ellen Morrone (UES) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:08 PM Flag
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She delivered my first. LOVED her!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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Had a great experience with her in 2011. I moved to westchester and had to commute an hour to the hospital in labor. She 'accidentally' broke my water for me so that I didn't have to leave and go home despite not being quite far enough yet. Also she stuck through with me when labor stalled, didn't force a cssection when I had been there too long. She was leaving for vacation at the end of her shift and stayed on two hours longer than she needed to to help me deliver. Not warm and fuzzy, but happy to answer all questions and very supportive when you need it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 10:12 PM Flag
[ - ] Going to a wedding in a few weeks at which time I'll be 28 weeks pregnant. I am tall and busty but belly is not yet huge (could pop within the next few weeks). How is this dress? (Link inside). It looks good on the skinny model who has a small chest, but wondering if it will look strange on someone with boobs. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.13.13, 01:18 AM Flag
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http://www.shopbop.com/maxi-halter-beaded-dress-tbags/vp/v=1/845524441950032.htm?folderID=2534374302063654&fm=other-shopbysize-viewall&colorId=12867#reviewsArea [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:18 AM Flag
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It will NOT look good on a busty woman - it is a gorgeous dress, but with just a bit of curve, it ends up looking like a muumuu (?). If you popped big time, you could get away with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:15 AM Flag
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Ha definitely don't want to look like I am wearing a muumuu. Figured that might be the case! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:21 AM Flag
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+1. I think your best bet is something with empire cut [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:22 AM Flag
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OR I agree with this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:16 AM Flag
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It will NOT look good on a busty woman - it is a gorgeous dress, but with just a bit of curve, it ends up looking like a muumuu (?). If you popped big time, you could get away with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:15 AM Flag
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As a busty girl, I'm sad to say it will probably hang funny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:21 AM Flag
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I think it will be fine, but people might not realize you are pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:22 AM Flag
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I have boobs and would never wear this. Can't wear normal bra with it, high neckline is not flattering, and dress has no structure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:23 AM Flag
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Actually probably not bad on a PG tall woman... Signed short & busty... Don't love the hemline - but that's just a matter of taste. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:17 AM Flag
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http://www1.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/aqua-maxi-dress-grecian?ID=690886&CategoryID=21683&LinkType=&color=Black#fn=COLOR%3DBlack%26LENGTH_M%3DLong%26spp%3D20%26ppp%3D96%26sp%3D1%26rid%3D61%26spc%3D84 Maybe something like this> [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:24 AM Flag
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http://www1.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/karen-kane-maxi-dress?ID=683106&CategoryID=21683&LinkType=#fn=COLOR%3DBlack%26LENGTH_M%3DLong%26spp%3D29%26ppp%3D96%26sp%3D1%26rid%3D61%26spc%3D84 or this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:28 AM Flag
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OP here, thank you! Definitely think empire waist is better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:36 AM Flag
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what size are your boobs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:28 AM Flag
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34F [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Just found out we're having a son. We already have one DS and like more traditional names. Any suggestions? First DS is Alexander. 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.10.13, 03:27 PM Flag
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Christopher? A classic you don't hear too often. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:28 PM Flag
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+1 Alex & Chris, really nice [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:27 PM Flag
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OP: These are some great suggestions - thank you! I'm torn between a few of these now and a fairly unpopular (these days) family name. Part of me wants to use it but I want to be 100% certain, you know? It's Fredrick, by the way. My father's name, who is by far the kindest person I have ever met (in fact, I've never met a Fred I didn't get along with). Thoughts? It was also my grandfather's name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 04:15 PM Flag
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Thought it was spelled "Frederick"? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 07:51 PM Flag
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OP: Correct - typo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 03:38 PM Flag
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If you like traditional I'd like to put in a plug for puritan virtue names. How about Steadfast? Or Zeal? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:24 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:29 PM Flag
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Richard isn't used very often today. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:32 PM Flag
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Dick.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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Rick... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:42 PM Flag
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Benjamin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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+1. This is our kid's name. Very traditional but there won't be four in the class. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:31 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:51 PM Flag
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Andrew, Michael [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:30 PM Flag
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Phillip and Gregory are horribly underused (but if you call DS Alex you may get Phil and Greg which are very 70s). If you like nicknames, Charles (Charlie), Theodore (Teddy) and Nicholas could work nicely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:36 PM Flag
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I have a Theodore, classic and lovely. We call him Theo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:31 PM Flag
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^^ I also like Edward, Zachary, Thomas, Gregory and Benjamin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:31 PM Flag
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August [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:39 PM Flag
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Andrew, Henry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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George, Stephen, Peter, Henry, John [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:37 PM Flag
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You hit 3 of my 4 sons'. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:55 PM Flag
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James, William, David [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 04:31 PM Flag
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Julian, I would love to use it but we decided to stick to family names. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:51 PM Flag
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Peter [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:59 PM Flag
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Maverick is becoming a popular name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 05:04 PM Flag
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Get a grip! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 07:51 PM Flag
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Gabriel [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 08:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Name poll: Cary for a boy (I.e. Cary Grant). 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.10.13, 01:35 AM Flag
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Honestly? I love it. You could also do "Carey" for the Joni Mitchell song. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:38 AM Flag
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Anglo Irish. Only. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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Love [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:44 AM Flag
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Bit wussy sounding for a boy. Sorry no love from me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:53 AM Flag
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Just do a very strong and undoubtedly masculine middle name [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:54 AM Flag
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groomed to be gay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:54 AM Flag
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Love the name but I did know a kid by this name who was obviously gay and went to one of those "pray away the gay" churches to be "cured" and he's still married to a woman (that he met there and God "told" him to marry) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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I went to business school with one and he was wonderful, so I vote yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:01 AM Flag
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No. I recently met a Cary(Carey), my friend's brother. It's really odd. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:16 AM Flag
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Awful.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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What's with the gay comments? Are you rednecks or WT? Is this Alabama hour on UB? Cary is a very posh name. Love! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Love [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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People will always assume a girl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 04:46 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:14 PM Flag
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Cary Grant was a stage name for Archie Leach. It's unusual and somewhat effete, IMO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 11:28 AM Flag
[ - ] After 10 years of caring for our daughters, we are in search of the perfect family for our AMAZING nanny. She has been with us since our first daughter was born and is truly a member of our family. She would prefer a family with a newborn and honestly is the "baby whisperer". Without her, my kids would not be such well rounded adjusted beautiful young ladies. As an added bonus, she cooks, cleans, run errands and makes sure our house runs smoothly. She is honest, legal, and requires payment on the books. If you are interested, please email at melisagoldie@me.com. Thank you! 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.01.13, 02:16 AM Flag
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She sounds wonderful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:14 AM Flag
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They all sound wonderful until they get past the trial period. Then it all starts to go south. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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OMG. It's a nanny who pays taxes! That's one for the record books. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:15 AM Flag
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There are many of us out there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:16 AM Flag
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+1. I always paid taxes when I worked as a nanny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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My nanny is on the books. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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mine is on the books too--and I've referred to her as the "baby whisperer." this is eerie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:43 AM Flag
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+1. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 03:08 AM Flag
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so you cared for the kids. what did the nanny do? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.01.13, 02:23 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm looking for a good pediatrician. First baby. Due in July. We live in Astoria and use the N/Q line. I'm willing to commute into the city for quality care but would prefer to stay on the east side. Any good peds around 59th and 5th or 59th and Lex? Our insurance is UHC. Also, I'm looking for a more holistic dr., one who does not prescribe antibiotics at every cough and who is open to alternative vaccination schedules. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. THANKS 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 04.22.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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I live on UWS so can't help you but I highly recommend a ped near you. I can not imagine dragging a newborn into the city so much - especially if you do alt vac which requires more visits. I just make sure I am really educated and an advocate for my child. I have a 4 and 2 year old who have never been on antibiotics because I would not take them for a visit unless I really felt it wasn't viral. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:32 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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ITA. I live in the city and prefer to have a ped within walking distance. Getting in/out of cabs/subway, etc is a pain with a baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:56 PM Flag
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Most doctors do not prescribe antibiotics at every cough unless the parents insist on them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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Good to know. I have friends who are being prescribed antibiotics at every ear infection, so I'm glad that that isn't necessarily the case here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 01:53 PM Flag
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Get a ped near you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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Do you mean within walking distance? I live on the 36th Ave stop, and there aren't really very many options AT ALL. We don't have a car, so I wonder if I wouldn't be using the subway or car service regardless. I guess the other big factor is commute time. That being said, does anyone have recommendations for pediatricians in Astoria? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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As close as possible. I take a train to my dcs' ped but in case we have to take care service it is an affordable distance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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dr M is on 30 ave and 37 street [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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Just curious, where are you getting your alternative vaccination schedule? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:35 PM Flag
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I don't have one. I just know that delayed rather than completely forgoing immunizations is the route I am interested in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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NP: Why would you want to do this? As a scientist, I am baffled. There isn't a speck of evidence that delaying vaccinations benefits children. There is lots of evidence that it puts them, and other children, at greater risk. Why would you want to put your child at greater risk of needlessly contracting a serious infection? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 12:01 AM Flag
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I want to delay vaccines for a month or more. And not give number of vaccines on the same day but spread them apart. There's certainly studies and research on both sides of the argument. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 01:44 PM Flag
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http://www.phcq.net/ love him. he is a great dr. my children have been seeing him since they were born [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:36 PM Flag
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also Dr M is not quick to rescribe antibiotics. my children have never taken them in 5yrs of life [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:37 PM Flag
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Dr Sandra Rolston at Long Island community clinic. The docs at this clinic are affiliated with Cornell at east 68street but the clinic is in astoria [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:50 PM Flag
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Love Dr. Kercher, York and 70th, not sure if that is too far for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:45 PM Flag
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Sorry, don't think they do alternative schedules for vaccines there ^ just realized you want that, She does not over prescribe describe antibiotics though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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The majority of peds do not hand out antibiotics easily, in fact it is the opposite. I had good friends who changed peds because they wanted meds for every cough and the ped refused. You need to vaccinate your baby, so I'm not going to offer any suggestions on that, but ITA with other posters that you should find someone who is fairly convenient. The first time you have a sick baby with a double ear infection that is vomiting all over you are not going to want to get on the Q. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 11:51 PM Flag
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Romanian doctors are very, very good [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 12:24 AM Flag
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most mds are VERY stingy with antibiotics these days, so you can rest easy. your very own vaccination schedule, on the other hand, is absurd and most peds will try to convince you not to. in fact now I have to log off UB -- anyone who doesn't believe vaccinations are one of the greatest public health triumphs of all time are infuriating. Gnite [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 12:43 AM Flag
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Thanks for everyone's feedback so far. This is my first time on Urban Baby. A taxi ride to the UES is about 15 minutes and a train into Manhattan is 3 subway stops, so I'm still considering a pediatrician around MidTown/ UES area. If you have more suggestions specific to those areas and also to Astoria, keep them coming. Thanks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.23.13, 01:46 PM Flag
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Expecting 04.22.13, 02:45 PM Flag
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Fail. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:46 PM Flag
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Why do you keep posting this spam lady? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:42 PM Flag
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not the correct way to do this. Just post a link to the site where all this info is located. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:50 PM Flag
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ITA. But the families' contact info shouldn't be posted online at all. Good way to lose those people as references. Also shows lack of common sense. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:52 PM Flag
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Again, Patsy? Can't believe you posted all these moms' phone numbers on UB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:50 PM Flag
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Anyone else noticing that the area codes for all these references are, literally, all over the map? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:47 PM Flag
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everyone uses cells phones now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:56 PM Flag
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wtf, why would you put tele phone numbers out on an public website - you are either a huge ass, or really stupid - either way not someone I would hire to be a baby nurse [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:52 PM Flag
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x2 I'd be PISSED if I googled myself (you should every now and then) and found this. Pissed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:54 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:49 PM Flag
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Bloody ridiculous! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:48 PM Flag
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Yes. It was on Saturday night, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:56 PM Flag
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i will never hire someone like the author of this post [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:51 PM Flag
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ita. It's actually sort of helpful. Lack of good judgment displayed before she's even contacted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 03:00 PM Flag
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Holy shit. Yes, this is the second time she posted this, but search (Google, actually, as search doesn't work), but she added phone numbers this time. The first time it was just the moms' names not their numbers! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:53 PM Flag
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Nah i saw it this weekend with the phone numbers [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 03:03 PM Flag
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Then she's posted it three times because the post from a day ago says PHONE and then there's a blank--like the numbers had been taken out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 03:06 PM Flag
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Where are the moderators when you need them? This needs to be removed asap! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:54 PM Flag
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x2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 03:03 PM Flag
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Who would hire anyone whose email address is princess-something? Ha ha. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:55 PM Flag
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lol. I remember a post similar to this from years ago and the email address was even worse. Something along the lines of lilhottie@whatever [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 03:03 PM Flag
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this lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 03:03 PM Flag
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and uses the word "whilst" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 04:26 PM Flag
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Patsy, patsy, Patsy. If only you came here to tell fortunes, we would all like you so much better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 04:20 PM Flag
[ - ] For my first pregnancy, at work I was able to pull off leggings and long sweaters/tunics as I did not see clients very frequency. Am pregnant with DC#2 and am at my clients' offices several days a week (very conservative setting). Any recommendations for comfortable pants? Got a pair of Joie linen pants that can be dressed up. Know anything about a maternity brand Slack & Co? TIA 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 04.22.13, 01:45 PM Flag
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Sorry for the double post. Not sure what that is about! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 01:45 PM Flag
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With my pregnancies, I bought a few nice pairs of black maternity pants and made them as dressy as I needed them to be with different tops/shoes. I got one comfy pair from Gap maternity and then some from A Pea In The Pod. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 01:43 PM Flag
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Get a blazer. Look at www.mymamanyc.com - the double breasted blazer will get you through meetings as it covers the bump (vs a single button). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 01:44 PM Flag
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Cool, thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 01:59 PM Flag
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OP again, that site has beautiful clothing. However, I cringe at spending $150 on a maternity blouse :/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:11 PM Flag
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NP: I did not wear blazers that covered the bump. I wore my normal blazers, unbuttoned, with a coordinating maternity top and neutral colored pants. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:02 PM Flag
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in some settings, this works - not all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:05 PM Flag
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Or just have a regular blazer and leave it open. Cute option too. Add a string of pearls or a gold necklace and you'll be ready for a conservative office - Morgan Stanley mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:03 PM Flag
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BTW - I stuck with dark colored tops and bottoms so my belly was de-emphasized [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:20 PM Flag
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OP "very frequently" - excuse my typos! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:07 PM Flag
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Black pants and black pure tank tops from Gap, the stretchy ones, (wait for 30% off sale) and regular non-maternity blazers in anything but black, with long necklaces or bright scarves. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.22.13, 02:59 PM Flag
[ - ] How did you survive having a job and having morning sickness? I am a college-level teacher and the summer semester is coming up and this looks like it is going to be tough, if not impossible. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 04.19.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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I'll never know how my sister did it with her class of second graders...she used to have to open door and throw up outside so they couldn't see. I was working from home or not working or else would have had to take leave of absence. You may find a really strange thing happened. I could throw up day and night, but could somehow get through major meetings/events when I had to. Following something like that, I'd throw up non-stop for days, but it was really odd. How many weeks are you? You may be lucky and feel better at 12, and much better at 16. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.19.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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some have morning sickness entire 9 mos [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.19.13, 02:57 AM Flag
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I teach at a university and had morning sickness for a full semester. I always had crackers and ginger ale at the podium. Do a lot of group work and student presentations if possible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.19.13, 03:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Due with DB#2 in late summer. Many people have not only asked if I am going back to work (have been a WOHM since 3-month maternity leave ended after DB#1) but also asked if we're keeping nanny on duty during my maternity leave. Wouldn't we need her most at that time? Are people expecting that we would give her 3 months of paid vacation - what a strange question? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 04.16.13, 08:31 PM Flag
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Definitely keep nanny on leave. In that position now, you will want her. People are just asking dumb questions, ignore. Or answer honestly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:27 PM Flag
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I never even considered giving nanny 3 months off. Of course she's staying on! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:33 PM Flag
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So many people opt out after number two. Maybe that's why people assume. Also I think there are all sorts of men who think maternity leave is some sort of vacation. Near from it, even with help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:30 PM Flag
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^^ far from it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:31 PM Flag
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I get both points, but these are women (many are SAHMs) asking me this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:36 PM Flag
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They can't fathom working, let alone with two kids at home [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:33 PM Flag
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Actually it's that many of them can't fathom having or needing help with only two DCs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:35 PM Flag
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Really? There are SAHMs who have help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:46 PM Flag
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Agreed. It also lets you sleep when the baby sleeps. That said, I did try to let her go / give her some mornings / evenings off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:36 PM Flag
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How? OP already has a kid she has to take care of, during the newborn stage she will be tied to her baby 24-7, she needs help. My nanny is definitely working full time, I can only handle one kid at a time, my first maternity leave was pure hell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 10:06 PM Flag
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Did you post before? People are just making conversation. Really. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:37 PM Flag
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Making conversation. They don't really care if you keep the nanny or go back to work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 08:40 PM Flag
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Nanny on leave was the best 4 months of my life!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 09:16 PM Flag
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People are annoying and need to shut up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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I get asked all the time if I'm hiring additional help besides nanny, #3 any time now. At work I get asked if I'm returning or staying home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 09:33 PM Flag
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Yes, you will need your nanny all the time, you have another kid, what a stupid question. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.16.13, 10:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a rec for a good body wash or soap without parabens/sulfates? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 04.15.13, 01:42 PM Flag
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you know you are mortal, right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:38 PM Flag
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np If she wasn't aware of that, she'd be fine with every chemical out there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:42 PM Flag
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ziiiing! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:48 PM Flag
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Love the great comeback and stupid people. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:57 PM Flag
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Just bought the Kirkland citrus body wash at Costco. Smells great and is paraben/sulfate free. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:39 PM Flag
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Butts bee's or Alba. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:39 PM Flag
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butt's bees? does that make you smell like butt? :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:37 PM Flag
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Dr. Bronners [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:45 PM Flag
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St. Ives [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:48 PM Flag
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Trader joe's. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:44 PM Flag
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dr. Haushka [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:50 PM Flag
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There are entire websites devoted to this. Any health food store will have what your'e looking for. The best thing you can use is tea tree oil soap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 01:58 PM Flag
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If you want to smell like a dirty hippie maybe. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:20 PM Flag
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And the stupidest comment of the morning award goes to..... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:21 PM Flag
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method brand. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:13 PM Flag
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Nature's Gate. Also love their shampoo / conditioner. Can buy it at whole foods [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:25 PM Flag
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Vanicream. Love it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:31 PM Flag
[ - ] Pregnant with second DC. Have been asked many times, "so, are you going back to work after the second baby comes along?" I am a WOHM (took 12 weeks maternity leave after first DC was born) and find this to be a strange question. Wouldn't most working moms continue to work, especially with additional DC? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 04.14.13, 04:21 PM Flag
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sorry for double post. not sure what's wrong here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.14.13, 04:21 PM Flag
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I've heard that delicate balance that permits working with one dc often falls apart with number 2. But this is just hearsay. I have one and have to work, so if I had a second I would still have to work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.14.13, 04:35 PM Flag
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People say strange things. A lot of times it is their own stuff. Ignore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.14.13, 04:47 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:25 PM Flag
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Who is asking? I actually think the vast majority of people would be just trying to make conversation and wouldn't mean anything by it. What you did in the past is only vaguely on radar. Same thing if they asked how long mat leave was going to be to woman who was going to SAH. It's not like they would be trying to send a message with that question that SAH would be inappropriate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.14.13, 05:06 PM Flag
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Friends, family, acquaintances, hairdresser, etc. Of course I am going back to work. Money does not grow on trees. I just answer, "yes" and leave it at that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.14.13, 05:09 PM Flag
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i got that question all the time as well. and a few people would say things like "oh, you won't come back... no one comes back after #2." strange. fwiw, i found it much easier to go back with #2 then it was with #1. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.14.13, 05:43 PM Flag
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it's b/c their wife didnt come back. and that's what the wife told the person who is speaking with you. so they assume that is what all women will do....until they dont. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:25 PM Flag
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it's a very loaded question for a lot of men. all along, they've thought, "she's just like my wife". if it turns out their wife decided to stay home, they assume you will. and any comment you make about your choices necessarily is a statement about their wife. just smile and nod and go about your business. actions speak louder than words. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.15.13, 02:25 PM Flag
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