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[ - ] First baby on the way. Budget will be limited so I can stay home. Are we better off in a 1-bedroom with a washer & dryer or a 2-bedroom without? Tips for living with an infant in a 1-bedroom (plus 2 cats)? TIA 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.27.12, 10:46 AM Flag
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2BR. Assuming you mean washer & dryer in the apartment itself? Or do you mean just having one in the building vs. having to travel to a laundromat? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 10:50 AM Flag
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In the apartment itself. It seems like the price difference between a 1BR with W/D and a 1BR without W/D is about $100/month in my area. I figure I will spend at least that much on laundry anyway. In California so we don't have "buildings" but sprawled out complexes where the W/D could be far away. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:00 AM Flag
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2BR without (if it's in the building) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 10:56 AM Flag
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What if it's not in the building and we had to go to a laundromat? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:01 AM Flag
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cleaning lady [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 12:08 PM Flag
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2BR and sign up for a laundry delivery service. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 10:58 AM Flag
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Can't afford this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:00 AM Flag
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it's not expensive relative to what you'd get for a 2 BR. Have you done the math? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:14 AM Flag
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I live in California, not NYC. I can probably get an older 2BR without W/D for $1300/month. Diaper service is $80/month - just diapers. For $1350 I can get a nice, new 1BR with W/C. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:33 AM Flag
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I'd still do the 2BR I think and I'd have a fair amount of clothes for DB so only have to wash 1x/wk max. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 12:27 PM Flag
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Depends how long you plan to stay. In the short-term, washer and dryer; baby will probably sleep in your room anyway. But eventually that second bedroom will be crucial to your sanity. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:00 AM Flag
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I think we would stay 1-3 years. Then DB would be in preschool part time and I would work more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:01 AM Flag
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I wouldn't want to do it for more than a year, but it would depend on the apartment layout. For instance, maybe you can transform the dining room into a makeshift nursery? If you don't have a W/D, just make sure you buy a lot of extra onesies, sheets and blankets so you don't need to do so much laundry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 01:24 PM Flag
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Definitely 2 BR. Even if you plan to move to the burbs in a couple of years -- you never know and it's a pain to be in a 1 BR with kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:15 AM Flag
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2BR definitely. If anyone visits you after the baby is born, where will they sleep? It will drive you crazy if they sleep on your couch with a baby in your room. And of course you want the baby out of your room eventually, right? Laundry is once a week (maybe twice)- but sleeping arrangements are every night! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:26 AM Flag
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we managed with going to the laundromat for the first 3 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 11:42 AM Flag
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While I live in NYC, I live in a one bedroom with a toddler. I would kill for a two bedroom, laundry or no laundry. This is a no brainier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 12:07 PM Flag
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I would go for extra bedroom if there's even a chance you might be there more than 2 years. Look for a laundromat that does laundry by the pound/drop off and splurge on that for first 4 mos or so of db's life. Or see if you can find 1 bdrm plus den and w/d. We found a (seattle apt) that was listed as 1 bdrm, but had an office with a stacked w/d. So, a bit more $ than regular 1bdrm, but less than 2 bdrm. My sis had her db in an alcove off her kitchen (e.coast), but that was not great b/c they couldn't even get stuff out of fridge w/o waking him. And couldn't watch tv in adjacent living room, etc. If you find a 1 bdrm with an alcove off of liv/din room, another idea is YOU and DH take alcove (use curtains if you want privacy) and put db in bedrm with door. Add a bed in there and visiting grandmas can bunk w/db. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.12, 06:10 PM Flag
[ - ] MD moms- help! just started my third year of med school, and found out that I am pregnant!! THE TIMING IS OFF OFF OFF. this was NOT supposed to happen!!! I want to be excited (we wanted a baby for a while, but decided to wait a year - til MS4, because third year would be too tough for me). - but I am freaking out about how this will ruin my residency plans and screw up my entire career. can someone please help me get my head on straight? due in February. right in the middle of my neuro rotation. I cant take the year off because frankly we cant afford it, it would make life too complicated. I just need to PASS neurology, its an area i scratched off my potential residency list before starting med school...I just need to pass, no honors or high pass. Someone please tell me this is going to be ok. how do I organize myself? how do I manage? who do I talk to? I dont want to get screwed over. who do i discreetly ask about school policies? I am soo lost. and scared. I have one kid already, was back on my feet 2 weeks later. but 2 weeks is too much time to take off from a rotation! how am I going to do this. ack. so terrified. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.26.12, 01:15 AM Flag
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You'll be okay. You'll get it done eventually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 02:47 AM Flag
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Even if it's a a tear or so off schedule, you'll be a doctor someday. It's not the end of life. Think of it this way: there are some women who ache so badly for a child, undergoing fertility treatment after treatment and you get to escape all of that. Secondly, there are people who become doctors in their 40s and 50s so you have an incredible leg up on them. What's a year or two to lose? You won't fall so much behind that you can never go back. You can always find a way to go back. Talk to your advisor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 02:52 AM Flag
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Don't panic. SIL did this, her ds is five now, and she's successfully practicing. Recruit as much help as you can from friends and family to help ease the crush. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 03:56 AM Flag
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Hey you have options. Seriously. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 03:57 AM Flag
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thanks lol, its in the back of my head, but I think I'd regret it forever. to me, abortion = you do a 12 wk scan, find something suspicious, and say Im not dealing with this. not, i cant find the time to take off to have a baby, so therefore ill just erase whats going on. It goes thru my head, but I think Id feel really guilty. I just want to find confirmation that its possible to handle it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 05:50 AM Flag
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I don't understand your distinction. I'm opposed to both, though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 05:57 AM Flag
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I would seriously consider taking a semester or year off. Review your finances, maybe you can get some help. Delaying graduation is not the end ofnthe world.mi [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 04:08 AM Flag
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You will be a young mom by NYC standards. That's great! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 04:31 AM Flag
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Don't panic. You can do it. The timing is not bad actually to have a baby "elective" during your fourth year. What about taking a year off between medical school and residency? Try to interview for residency early before you show, or consider taking a year off after med school and interview during 4th year instead (talk to some GOOD advisors before looking into this). Figure out what you want to do quickly. Figuring it out while pg will help you factor in family issues. I waited until all my training was done and then some to have babies, but I know people got through it. Mine wasn't really a choice, it just took me 20 years to find a guy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 04:58 AM Flag
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hey- so maybe you misread- im due during THIRD not fourth year. things didnt go according to plan. we tried for 2 yrs, I didnt get pg, went back on the pill and said well try again so that I can be pregnant DURING THIRD YEAR and give birth during 4th yr when I have lots of free time, gap months, thesis month, interview months, etc. but third yr, is back to back rotations, i dont know how I am going to miss and make this work! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 05:47 AM Flag
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doctors take short maternity leaves. it's life. find other docs who have been through it. but honestly, don't slack. seriously. you'll regret it later. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 05:19 AM Flag
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I know. to me taking a year off *IS* slacking. I dont WANT to take a year off. Ill be miserable all year. I dont want a gap year, or a research year, or anything. but I think I will PHYSICALLY need time off before I can be walking around a hospital again? assuming an uncomplicated pregnancy/delivery- hypothetically, is it possible to be back in a week? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 05:48 AM Flag
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For your first, no. Sorry. Relax. You are not the first and you won't be the last. Congratulations. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 08:06 AM Flag
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its my second. with my first, I was back at work 2 weeks later. but work was benchwork in a lab, so i wasnt on my feet all day.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 08:18 AM Flag
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np: if you have a really easy delivery anything is possible. but think of it this way - god forbid you got seriously ill or were in an accident, what would you do? curve balls get thrown at you totally out of your control, so you just have to figure it out. a baby is a positive thing but you need to work your life around it sometimes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 08:24 AM Flag
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attending mom here: just tell your dean, it's really NOT a big deal. Why can't you just push a rotation into your 4th year when you'll have more free time? Take 6 weeks off during your 3rd year when the baby comes. Don't try to be crazy and do a 1 week maternity leave or something. What if you have a c section? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 06:35 AM Flag
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CAN I do that? (I know you have no clue where I go to school and I have no idea where you work)- but in general- are they understanding of such things? I was under the impression that successful completion of third year = passing all rotations. and I wouldnt be able to do Sub-I's and electives unless I finish. when DO I discuss this with my dean? now? or in 3 months from now? I feel like the sooner the better, but OTOH, I havent even told my parents. Thank you for saying its really not a big deal. I think i need to hear that over and over, from other moms-- I just need some reassurance :(.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 07:00 AM Flag
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attending mom: don't sweat it. Life happens. You're not the first 3rd year student nor are you the last who will be pregnant. You need to finish the required courses before graduation, pretty much as far as any med school is concerned. Tell them as early as know for sure that it's a viable pregnancy, and work with your dean's office on moving your electives around so you can finish on time. Plenty of girls had babies when I was in med school. I waited till residency, but there is no perfect time. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.12, 01:59 PM Flag
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bump?? anyone else? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.28.12, 12:59 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone successfully had their pre pg jeans turned into maternity jeans by having their tailor put elastic inserts in? If so, can you give me a tailor recommendation, preferably UWS or UES? Would like to get a little life out of trendy Current/Elliott jeans i bought before i knew I was pregnant! TIA!!! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.24.12, 10:13 AM Flag
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leave pants unbuttoned and put a belly band over it. think thats what is was called. sell it at maternity stores and looks like a white tshirt handing out from under your real shirt [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.12, 10:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Today an ultrasound tech told me I have a subchorionic hematoma. Anyone BTDT in the late first trimester? I'm 13 weeks today and had a big bleed over the weekend. Spotting now. Tech said it was 'large' and Dr Google is terrifying me. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.21.12, 05:07 PM Flag
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the tech should not be telling you anything. Your doctor is the only one who should be discussing your health and your baby with you. Call now and demand a call back tonight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.21.12, 05:09 PM Flag
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Yes, I had one at 12 weeks - bright red bleeding, almost like a period that lasted for several hours. It bled out and I didn't have any further problems. Did they give you a prognosis? I think more often than not, they resolve themselves. GL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.21.12, 05:12 PM Flag
[ - ] 31 weeks pg, nauseous, no appetite. Tums not helping. Any advice? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.19.12, 11:17 PM Flag
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Sip bubbly water, eat popsicles [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.12, 11:42 PM Flag
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Are you still taking prenatal vitamins? My prenatals made me feel nauseous, so I stopped taking them after the first trimester and just made sure I had a very healthy diet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.12, 03:37 AM Flag
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Granted, nausea typically goes away after the first tri, anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.12, 05:03 AM Flag
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jello [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.12, 04:34 AM Flag
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Even when I was really nauseated, I still almost enjoyed pasta with salt and a little butter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.12, 04:37 AM Flag
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Saltines, ginger snaps, ginger ale, sparkling water with lemon [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.12, 05:44 AM Flag
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OP: Sometimes the vitamins do make me feel sick but usually it goes away when I eat something. This is pretty much 24/7, though--I kept waking up feeling like I was going to be sick last night (and it had been almost 24 hours since I'd taken vitamins). I had morning sickness in the 1st trimester w/both pregnancies (this is my 2nd) but this third trimester business is killing me. Thanks for the suggestions- guess I just have to ride it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.12, 09:21 AM Flag
[ - ] What are the best strollers, car seats on the market right now? Want something light and easy to use. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.15.12, 03:45 PM Flag
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dude. go to Babble. there's too many options. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.12, 04:11 PM Flag
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for a newborn or toddler? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.12, 04:43 PM Flag
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newborn [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.12, 05:19 PM Flag
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Google is your friend [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.12, 06:27 PM Flag
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there is so much out there, just curious if anyone has one they really like and can recommend? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.12, 05:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Stroller recommendations?? I'm a new mom-to-be, looking for advice. I loved the Stokke xplory and Bugaboo cameleon on a recent shopping trip to buy buy baby. Any thoughts on these or others I should consider? Thanks in advance! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.14.12, 02:25 PM Flag
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Uppa Baby or a Baby jogger. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 02:27 PM Flag
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City Select or Uppa Baby [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 02:29 PM Flag
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read Babble.com's stroller reviews. we have no idea what your needs are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 02:32 PM Flag
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Very happy with cybex callisto. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 03:54 PM Flag
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Vista if you want a big stroller. Skip it altogether & do ergo carrier (after newborn stage) & maclaren if you use public transport. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 03:55 PM Flag
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if you live in the city the bugaboo is a life saver as you can snap on a car seat so when you need to jump in a cab...you just snap it off and put the seat belt thru the car seat loops -- fold us the base and toss it in the trunk and off you go with your child secured. BTW...I went to a stroller seminar and after my head was spinning...I went up to the guy doing it and I said "just tell me the best one...the one you would buy knowing all this crap and he said the bugaboo... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 08:33 PM Flag
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Bugaboo Bee has been our favorite overall. Has everything and is pretty light/small. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 08:49 PM Flag
[ - ] Did you have an amnio? I'm 9w pregnant, 30 years old, and the doc doesn't recommend a amnio if everything looks ok in the NT scan in a couple of weeks. However, I really would like to rule out disorders if the procedure is safe, but of course, wouldn't want to risk anything. Wwyd? or wdyd? 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.13.12, 02:49 PM Flag
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Didn't at 32 (wasn't even offered a nuchal for that pregnancy, let alone amnio), 36 or 41. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 02:53 PM Flag
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I posted this below under the CVS question. I had an amnio for my first. I was 37. Pregnant now with my 2nd at 40. I was very stressed about the amnio. I took a new test this time called maternit21. It's a blood test, so non-invasive. It has a 99% accuracy. Got my test results today and the results were negative! My insurance covered some. I paid $230. You can take it as early as 10 weeks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 02:54 PM Flag
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op: thanks - didn't know about maternit21 - congrats on your results - i'll look into whether i can get this too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:07 PM Flag
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this test does not test for everything that amnio can. ask your doctor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:17 PM Flag
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There is a paper coming out in the NewEngland Journal of Medicine in a few months. From what I heard at a national genetics meeting earlier this year the data suggests that ALL women, regardless of age, should be offered an amnio or CVS in order to have microarray testing done. Microarry testing will pick up many, many abnormalities that standard chromosome analysis would not. I have not been able to read the paper yet as it is not published yet so do not know if any comparision were made to include women who had "good" results from the 1st trimester quad screen ad what the recommendations are for those that are screen negative. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 02:56 PM Flag
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It will be interesting to see how the right to lifers respond. "Hey, here's this test we recommend you get, but if your doctor thinks you might abort your fetus because of the results he can lie to you about them!" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 02:59 PM Flag
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huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:02 PM Flag
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Guess you're not up on developments in reproductive rights. KS and AZ are at least considering and I think did pass laws that doctors can withhold information from their pregnant patients if they think it might lead to an abortion. http://www.aclu.org/blog/reproductive-freedom/kansas-pregnant-women-little-lie-your-doctor-wont-hurt-you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:07 PM Flag
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Personally, I would. But, then again I found out through completely random testing that I carry a genetic issue that would NOT have been tested routinely on amnio or cvs without knowing ahead of time I was a carrier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 02:59 PM Flag
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What would you use the information for? just to prepare yourself? to line up medical specialty care? to terminate? -- think about that stuff and then you might have a better idea of what you'd be comfortable with. also, the textbook explanations of risk of miscarriage for amnio or cvs are overstated - those figures are decades old and do not reflect the experience of MDs who do lots of amnios each year. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:01 PM Flag
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op: reasons are a mix of all of the above - I guess more than anything, it is just that it would be nice to know that we've ruled all this stuff out for the major part of pregnancy. what I'm wondering now is whether i should insist on getting one (don't even know if I can), or if the NT is normal, go with the doc's recommendation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:05 PM Flag
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That's personal. For me, I prefer diagnostic to screening. NT is a screening test, so it gives you odds. I know nothing is 100% and you can't test for everything, but for me, I would prefer to know diagnostically as much as we can. Skipping NT and going straight to CVS for me (I also know I carry a genetic issue). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:07 PM Flag
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If you would terminate for the major things amnio tests for, or would specifically request testing for SMA, CF, FX, etc, etc, then maybe go from there? If you wouldn't, it's really a matter of whether it's worth it to you to go thru a test to get the info sooner than after birht. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:08 PM Flag
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Do it. The risk is very very small and peace of mind invaluable. IMHO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:09 PM Flag
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thanks everyone. your comments have been very helpful. Are there MDs that you can recommend that are experts at doing this? Can you actually pick who you go to for an amnio? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:11 PM Flag
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I would guess this depends on your insurance provider, where you are, and what your doc does. In my case, my genetic counselor recommended a doc in NYC who does only cvs and amnio really. My obgyn said, "Ok, that's fine. We also have docs who are experts, but either is a good choice." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:18 PM Flag
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And if you are in NYC: Ronald Wapner (Columbia), Marc Evans, Joanne Stone (Sinai), Eddelman (Sinai), Saltzman (affiliated with Sinai) are the names I hear mentioned most frequently. Usually will be part of a MFM practice. Wapner was recommended to me, and the genetic counselor and his whole office have been great so far. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:20 PM Flag
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yes, in nyc. i go to the drosinos / marin / jasper / randolph practice, they are affiliated with columbia. thanks for your recs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:24 PM Flag
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fwiw. i had my cvs today with Wapner and his whole office - receptionists, genetic counselors, nurses, ultrasound tech -- all wonderful, very easy to work with, reassuring, explained everything carefully, and he was wonderful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 01:18 PM Flag
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Dr. Lynn Simpson is great -- she is division chief of maternal fetal medicine at Columbia. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.12, 06:00 PM Flag
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Would recommend Dr. Lynn Simpson at Columbia at the Center for Prenatal Pediatrics. Terrific team there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.12, 05:59 PM Flag
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In case you're checking in - the age 35 is completely arbitrary and meaningless. It's when the odds of a miscarriage from the amnio (according to standardized data, not necessarily NY doctors who do the procedure a ton) are equal to the odds of a baby with Down's. But it's very unlikely your personal value system places exactly equal weight on them. If for example, it was really hard for you to get pregnant, you may be unwilling to risk a miscarriage. OTOH, you may know that you would terminate if you had a baby with Down's. Those would lead to totally different choices. So think about which outcome would be worse for you personally and make your decision that way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:56 PM Flag
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^^ It's basically which are you more willing to accept as a possibility - a miscarriage or a Down's baby. And that's really a choice for you and your dh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 03:58 PM Flag
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Amnio has a .5% miscarriage risk. Downs has for a normal person, a risk of .25%. Do that Math [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 04:15 PM Flag
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Didn't at 36 or 39. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 04:23 PM Flag
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I had a cvs b/c I didn't want to wait for the amnio. But I was 42. At 30 I would probably skip unless I was a risk for something due to family history, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 04:28 PM Flag
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Didn't and wasn't offered at 29 and 32. Am now 35 and plan to insist upon it, even though I've been told about the MaterniT21 test. It's great, but there are more than three things that can go horribly wrong. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 04:29 PM Flag
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if you are worried about things other than Downs make sure to insist onthe microarray test. Just google Anglemans, DiGeorge, SMithMagenis, Prader Willi, Miller Dieker and the lists goes on and on. These are all pickedup by microarray but not by standard chromosome analysis. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 05:09 PM Flag
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I agree, wouldn't even consider this blood test for those reasons. Doesn't test for X & Y chromosome issues, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.12, 06:24 AM Flag
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Didn't even do an NT at 30 after paying $350 for it at 29 w. #1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.12, 07:49 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm pregnant and I have had a dull headache for 3 days. Trying not to take meds. I have to stare at a computer all day for work. Any ideas? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.11.12, 03:24 PM Flag
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Check with MD but mine said tylenol was ok. But MD should know if you are having a headache for 3+days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 03:46 PM Flag
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at week 8 my obgyn told me to try eating my meals spread out all day rather than 3, break it into 6, or take plain tylenol if it's bad. both seemed to work (no aleve, no advil, no aspirin, JUST tylenol) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 03:48 PM Flag
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How pregnant are you? Headaches could signal preeclampsia. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 03:58 PM Flag
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OP: 14 weeks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 04:46 PM Flag
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I think too early in your pregnancy for preeclampsia. Not sure. But definitely raise it with your OB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 04:49 PM Flag
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Talk to OB. Are you drinking enough water? I would be cautious about taking Tylenol as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 04:26 PM Flag
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Talk to your doctor but in the meantime drink a lot of water. Are you newly pregnant and did you cut out cafeeine? Could be that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 04:45 PM Flag
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Tylonol is absolutely fine after 12 weeks, don't suffer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 04:54 PM Flag
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Check the Refresh rate of the screen under settings. Under 75 gives me a headache all the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.12, 05:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Just found out we are having a boy. Any thoughts on Issac, Oscar, Felix, Angus, Henry or Max? Two syllable ethnic last name. TIA! 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.07.12, 10:56 AM Flag
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Oscar and Felix are great [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 10:57 AM Flag
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I'm liking the Odd Couple vibe you've got going! [ Reply | More
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Isaac, Maxis my dog's name [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 10:58 AM Flag
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Angus ftw [ Reply | More
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i love the name Issac, though I like the spelling Isaac better. Angus is very AC/DC, Oscar and Max and Henry are very popular these days, and I have never been a fan of the name Felix. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:01 AM Flag
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Second the traditional spelling of Isaac. Issac looks like "ISS-eck." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:06 AM Flag
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Though I love Isaac pronounced in Spanish the most: ee-SAHK. Sounds so sexy. [ Reply | More
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Agree - Spanish is sexy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:12 AM Flag
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I also like Daniel: dahn-YELL. Oooohhh. And Alejandro. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:16 AM Flag
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Felix or Oscar. Isn't Angus a steak? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:02 AM Flag
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NP. Yes, Angus is a steak - but also a Scottish name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:05 AM Flag
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Which ethnicity? I prefer Felix to Oscar. Angus is good. Henry, very common. What about Enrico? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:07 AM Flag
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Kid will be 1/2 Irish, but his last name will be Greek. Thanks for all the feedback ladies! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:12 AM Flag
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^^This was OP! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:14 AM Flag
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Cormac, nn Mac or Corey. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:17 AM Flag
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Any other names? These are very generic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:18 AM Flag
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Angus is generic? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:33 AM Flag
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If a name's popularity is important to you check the social security popularity lists, you can get it laid out as a graph or in lists on behindthename.com or you can try that name voyager map application which tells you how popular a name is, by region. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:24 AM Flag
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Malcolm! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:26 AM Flag
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Henry and Max are too common these days. Oscar=The Grouch. Like all the rest. Isaac is growing a bit in popularity. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:27 AM Flag
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Just imagine the horrible nicknames "Anus Angus" shudder [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:31 AM Flag
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Isaac! No contest. Love it! But since you asked about the others, Henry and Max are ridiculously overdone (Max is overdone for both boys and dogs), Felix and Oscar are very trendy, and Angus is beef. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:35 AM Flag
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Oscar and Felix? What about Sheldn? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:37 AM Flag
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I suggest Johannes ("Hannes") after the legendary Horace Mann teacher and musical maestro. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:43 AM Flag
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Terrible idea. Better to name him JOHAN after Johan Santana, the first NY Met in history to throw a no-hitter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 11:51 AM Flag
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Henry and Max are really overused, you're going to hear. I have a friend whose kid's name is Isaac, and it's cute on him; contrast of cute little boy and old-fashioned name. Don't listen to what people say about nicknames--kids find nicknames for just about every name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.12, 12:02 PM Flag
[ - ] What would you tell a new mom to register for? What are your must-have baby items? Which items are not really necessary? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.05.12, 03:52 PM Flag
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If you do a search, this has been discussed alot before. It's funny what people strongly agree and disagree on. I'll tell you that people kept telling me a changing table or dresser was not necessary, but I found it completely necessary. They told me you could change the baby on the floor, or a bed, or where ever. We got a dresser and put a changing pad on top of it. Who wants to bend over every time you change a baby? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 04:11 PM Flag
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get the book 'baby bargains'. it gives good advice on what you need, and when you pay for functionality vs. styling. rates all the items from clothes to highchairs and carseats. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 04:13 PM Flag
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itzbeen timer. [ Reply | More
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Baby Bargains was just ok for me. I didn't agree with many of their recs (For example, Chicco Keyfit is so much better than Snugride). If you go to Amazon.com, lots of people have lists of baby items they really used or liked. I think that can give you a good idea. I also went to babystore websites and looked up random people's registries to get an idea of what other people were buying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 04:53 PM Flag
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Fisher price rock n play chair [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 06:19 PM Flag
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marpac sleepmate white noise machine, miracle blanket swaddling blankets--really really good for baby sleep [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 06:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Baby name opinions, pls: I've always planned to name a son after my deceased father, whom I am incredibly close to. My sister named her son that name (it's a classic name, e.g. Alexander), but told me I could always use it too if I had a son, knowing especially the bond I had with my dad. We are close, so now it seems weird for our kids to have the exact same name, so I was thinking of naming him "Alexander" James (after DH and DH's dad) but calling him AJ. Do you think that's tacky? (And the actual name doesn't have the nickname possibilities of Alexander, so I can't just choose an alternate nickname) 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.05.12, 10:45 AM Flag
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Of course it's not tacky. We call my daughter Dee Dee because that nickname just happened and it stuck. Is that tacky? I don't know and I don't care. Why don't you name him something different for his first name and Alexander as his middle name? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 10:48 AM Flag
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I guess tacky isn't the word, but I'm just wondering about the forced nickname thing. DH really wants the middle name to be after him and his dad. I was just curious about the insta-UB reaction - they find tackiness all over the place! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 10:51 AM Flag
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I don't think it's tacky at all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 10:52 AM Flag
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^^^Love DeeDee-a fun name!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:29 AM Flag
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She's a fun little girl. Her older brother gave her that name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:34 AM Flag
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Cousins can have the same name. Their last names will differ so why not? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 10:56 AM Flag
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I'm from a Greek family, tradition says firstborn sons should be named after their grandfather -- my dad shared a name with about 10 of his cousins. No biggie at all, however you decide to do it (middle name, nickname, etc.) Is the name one that offers a good nickname option that you can call your son? Or not so much? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:00 AM Flag
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No, there's no good nickname option, which is why I'd do call him by his initials. It may sound unprofessional in his future career, but by that point he can always choose whether to go by his first name or keep going by his initials. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:02 AM Flag
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No, I think that's cute. And being of greek descent, i can tell you that in that culture, since all kids are named after grandparents, cousins often have the same names. we actually considered something similar - were going to name a girl (if we had a girl) after a female relative and then use initals as nn. we ended up having a boy and used a different name w same initials and used same nn. So AJ for either say Amanda Jill or Alexander James. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:04 AM Flag
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It's not tacky, no, but I wouldn't do it. I would want my DS to feel like his name was his own, not his and his cousin's name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:09 AM Flag
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unless you're giving your child some really unusual one of a kind first name, his name won't be his own, bc hundreds if not thousands of other people will have it too. i get not wanting to name your kid the same thing as a cousin due to family concerns or practical reasons, but this just seems silly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:11 AM Flag
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Thanks for the responses. I don't know why I put this out there (since I'm 99% decided on the name) but he [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:09 AM Flag
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^ will have to live with his name forever! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:10 AM Flag
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If he doesn't like it or it doesn't fit with his professional aspirations, he can change it. But he probably won't and love his name! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:36 AM Flag
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There are worse things than this. If your sister really is ok with this, I say fine. So the cousins have the same first name. They will grow up knowing they were named for a much beloved grandfather. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:19 AM Flag
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+1 my cousin and i (6 months apart; our mothers are sisters) share the same first name and it was always fun-- something that bonded us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 11:21 AM Flag
[ - ] 13 weeks into first pregnancy and my back hurts every night. Anything I can do? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.05.12, 08:13 AM Flag
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Might yoga help? My hospital offers it once per week for us prenatal women! (st luke's) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 08:19 AM Flag
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acupunture [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 08:20 AM Flag
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Agree with yoga. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 08:47 AM Flag
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I had a pre-existing back problem with herniations in my lower back. AT 12-13 weeks, my back started to get bad (evidently from the increase in relaxin hormone) and I upped my attendance prenatal pilates and yoga classes. Bad move. The morning after one class I couldn't stand without a cane and back brace. My suggestions are get yourself a pregnancy back brace ASAP. Take it easy on the pilates and yoga, and instead go to see a physical therapist and chiropractor who specialize in prenatal care. I ended up having to be bed-rested for the best part of 10 days, and doing chiropratic 3x/week and PT 2x/week. by 18 weeks I was pretty must back to the way I was before--no cane, and no brace. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.12, 08:59 AM Flag
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General Topics 06.05.12, 09:06 AM Flag
[ - ] i am a newly expectant mom. i am trying to figure out the best places (besides urbanbaby)to get good information about where to take classes and how to meet other new moms. i also want to stay away from the website "what to expect when expecting" because it stresses me out. where else should i look? any suggestions? thank you in advance!! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.03.12, 05:44 PM Flag
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What part of the country? In many places, not so much Manhattan, there are very active online local moms groups. Otherwise, truly just hanging out at the park will be a great way to meet moms with similar schedules. Does Meetup have an option for this? I know it is great for other things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:47 PM Flag
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New York City. Meetup is a good idea. thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:54 PM Flag
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I am only a small sample - but FWIW I liked babycenter with my first baby for the updates on development each week, and comparing development notes online with people due around your time is great (if you are well off though, I would leave that out... def attracts LMC/WC crowd). However, I made a mistake in meeting up with someone from my birth club (month/year you're due) IRL to try to make friends. It was odd,was a little sad we didn't meet again - but then I read later that she flunked the postpartum psych exam done in NJ. Thought I dodged a bullet. Takeaway is it's like internet dating... never know what you'll get IRL. All that being said - start taking classes ASAP on how to care for baby at the hospital where you'll deliver; ask the pediatrician you'll choose; take prenatal yoga or whatever. Everyone is in your boat the first time around, so most people will be friendly because they want to make that new mom connection, too. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:48 PM Flag
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Join a new moms group a couple months after the baby is born. Great way to get out of the house and meet other new moms. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:49 PM Flag
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+1, take db to the playground even if too young to do anything to meet people and get recs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:52 PM Flag
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look on meetup.com for expectant and new mom groups. If you don't find anything close to you, look for a Lactation class, new baby massage class, etc in your neighborhood - you will meet many new moms at the same stage as you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:51 PM Flag
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go to your local Gymboree or other infant playgroups, you'll meet neighborhood moms there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.12, 06:10 PM Flag
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In what neighborhood do you live? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.12, 06:45 PM Flag
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Tribeca Parenting (formerly RealBirth before they merged with Tribeca Pediatrics) has amazing birthing classes and other classes and seminars related to birthing, newborn care and parenting. Couldn't recommend highly enough. They were also just ranked one of the best birthing classes in the city: http://newyork.cbslocal.com/top-lists/best-childbirth-classes-in-new-york/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.12, 08:04 AM Flag
[ - ] First time mom here, 12 weeks along. We have just picked out a doula. How can I make the most of her? I have 2 prenatal and 2 post-partum appointments. 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.29.12, 08:51 AM Flag
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I didn't have a doula so this is just a random musing ... I'd try to figure out how she and DH are going to share roles (or have separate roles?) during the birth. My DH is very hands on, so she would have more of a supporting role to him - but if your DH wants to be less involved, then she would be more active. Or maybe you're not sure yet and you want her to play it by ear, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 08:57 AM Flag
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OP: DH will be very involved, but we have a lot of family that he may need to referee. Or maybe she can do that. I am just concerned that DH will be so anxious that he will not be able to think straight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:04 AM Flag
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OR: Personally, if my family needed to be refereed, I would probably NOT tell them I was in labor until it was over. I can't imagine having either DH or a doula run interference during labor instead of helping me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:07 AM Flag
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OP: Believe me, I have considered this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:13 AM Flag
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OR: Have you told them your due date yet? If not, add seven days to your actual due date and tell everyone that's your due date. Then just call them after the birth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:14 AM Flag
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Have her prepare a recipe for when you eat the placenta and make sure she weaves you a dreamcatcher. Hippie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 08:59 AM Flag
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OP: Ha! We did talk about the placenta thing. I figure, if it can't hurt, why not? Then again, I'm not sure it can't hurt. Seems like the jury is out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:03 AM Flag
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Gross. I'm sorry,I judge. That is NASTY. once you see placenta in person you may agree. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:06 AM Flag
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I'm the first OR. I would never want to eat my placenta but I think they are really cool. I don't think they look nastier than any other organ. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:09 AM Flag
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I guess. I am very squeamish. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:10 AM Flag
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Lady, you made that placenta with your body to feed your fetus. At the risk of being called a hippie, that is freaking cool. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:12 AM Flag
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I also make boogers,doesn't mean I should eat them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:14 AM Flag
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I don't want you to eat your placenta. I don't want to eat my own placenta. I want you to acknowledge its awesomeness. :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:28 AM Flag
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We can agree that it is awesome and not delicious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:30 AM Flag
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OP: It is dried, crushed, and encapsulated. It's not like you are making a placenta sandwich or something. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:12 AM Flag
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Omg. Like on a nice crusty baguette? You hippies and your placenta sandwiches!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:15 AM Flag
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np: I found passing the placenta the worst part of labor. It's slimy and squishy and blobby and just disgusting. I had no problem with my dh seeing all of labor and me at my finest animal moment, but the fact that he saw my placenta makes me weirdly upset. It's just so utterly disgusting. It's an organ you expel from your body when you're done with it! Amazing, but just not something I want any part of after expulsion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 10:20 AM Flag
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np; this may be a naive question (I most definitely did NOT eat my placenta!) but doesn't the placenta filter out a lot of toxins, and wouldn't it therefore contain those toxins? Seems like a bad idea not to mention kind of gross (even dried). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:17 AM Flag
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OP: Don't know. I keep hearing it's "traditional Chinese medicine", but I have no idea if that is true. I thought the placenta was to nourish the baby, not filter toxins. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:33 AM Flag
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Isn't the whole point of hiring a doula is for her to be with you as a birth coach? I'm a few weeks ahead of you, and my DH wants to be there and involved, but honestly neither of us has seen anyone give birth before. We have no idea what to do! Yes, yes, do what is natural, but experienced doulas have been to hundreds of births and are trained in tricks to assist a woman in labor, such as positions to rotate into, etc. We also wanted her to basically translate what the medical staff is saying, and give us advice, in her opinion, as to whether the doctors and nurses are doing something that is to help them only or to help me (i.e. lay flat, take pitocin, have epidural, etc.). I wouldn't send a doula out of the room to deal with my family. That is not her role. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:24 AM Flag
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OP: You're right. I guess I am wondering more about what to do with here now and after the baby comes than during the birth. Obviously she will be occupied then. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:29 AM Flag
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Who are you using? You didn't talk to her about this stuff when you interviewed her before hiring? Most doulas are also lactation consultants and the post-partum visits are to check on you and the baby, to see if you need any help breastfeeding or with the latch or have any questions about the baby and breastfeeding(I'm sure I will). One post-partum visit will be right after you get home from the hospital, and the second will be about a week later. The two pre-natal visits are prep work for the delivery, where she is going to discuss with you options and what goes on from her point of view, suggest positions for labor and delivery, talk about laboring at your home (mine wants me to labor at home with her for at least 4 to 5 hours before the three of us go to the hospital together (me, DH, her), talk about your birth plan, your willingess or ability to take a variety of pain meds, explain her role, etc. Your pre-natal visits probably won't start until 30-32 weeks for the first and the second at 36 weeks or so. You are overthinking this--you don't need to "make work" for her. She's paid for a very specific, short-time period task. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:48 AM Flag
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Have your doula offer advice to DH on how to be an effective coach. You (and he) will want the support that he can give if he is confident. Little things go a long way: do not offer a pregnant women a choice ("Do you want some water?") - give them the water straw. Women in labor can't make decisions from a rational place and when they are asked to decide something like do I want some water? it is sometimes a hard choice. So the coach shoves the straw in their face and if no water is needed a simple head shake is an answer. DH and the doula should decide who will be playing gatekeeper and keeping the right amount of visitors that you are comfortable with in or out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 10:17 AM Flag
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^^^Think of the doula as you rational voice because you will go into the zone and not really have access to your rational brain. She is someone who is working for you and your interests. Lean on her as much as you want, both figuratively and literally. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.12, 10:23 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm looking for a high risk OBGYN in NYC. Does anyone have one whom they love and would recommend for high risk pregnancy. I'm looking for a truly competent doctor who won't shy away from pregnancy challenges. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.28.12, 01:52 PM Flag
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No recommendations, but from the peanut gallery, you sound like kind of a high-maintenance patient, which is different from a high-risk pregnancy. Drs may shy away from you if you come on this strong when you interview them. You should cultivate a more grateful tone for your consult if you'd like them to take you on. If you are high risk, they are doing you the courtesy of adding you to their patient roster. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.12, 02:57 PM Flag
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LOVE Dr. Cleary at Columbia. I think she's the best and she's also really nice and patient with my endless questions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.12, 03:15 PM Flag
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Had two horrendous pregnancies and Dr. Brustman at Roosevelt was my saviour. She is AWESOME. Unlike any MD I have ever met. Go to her. She's no joke. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.12, 05:03 PM Flag
[ - ] Ok..I just don't have the patience to go online and read product reviews for newborn baby gear (strollers, car seats, etc). My husband just wants to buy the best of the best. Is there some list I can access online of the best stuff? I know, 'm lazy 43 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.22.12, 07:45 PM Flag
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Give us a category and we'll tell you the best. Stroller: Bugaboo. Umbrella: MacLaren Volo. Carseat : Chicco Keyfit 30. Baby carrier: Ergo (bjorn will break your back). Diaper disposal: Diaper Genie. Bouncy seat: Mamaroo and a Bjorn baby sitter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:47 PM Flag
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np I bought Mamaroo for #3. He HATED it. Ended up using the cheapie FP portable swing I got when I had #1 9 years earlier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:49 PM Flag
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OR - that's funny, that's what we used. But I've heard from everyone else how Mamaroo is the best. There is some element of preference in these choices - in some cases you won't know what you like (or what your baby likes) until you try it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:50 PM Flag
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Mamaroo is very gimmicky. It looked OK in the living room, though. I paid around $200 for the thing, as I recall. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:53 PM Flag
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Mamaroo didn't work for me either. So pretty. So ignored. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:51 PM Flag
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Diaper disposal: Fairway grocery bag [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:50 PM Flag
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Np: seriously. Encased diapers are absurd anywhere but can't imagine any market for this in NYC. I get not everyone has a chute but isn't trash picked up every day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:14 PM Flag
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Diaper bin: [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:51 PM Flag
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No diaper disposal - gross. Bouncy seat: Fisher Price rainforest (blue light is like baby crack). Don't get a carrier if you're not a carrier person. Bjorn is really bad for their hips after like 2/3 months. Stroller: test drive - don't spend a ton until you figure out what you need. Bugaboo is a huge waste of money because there are better ones for much less. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:09 PM Flag
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Swing: [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:48 PM Flag
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Fisher Price Little Lamb (you NEED this. it saved my life.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:48 PM Flag
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agree! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:55 PM Flag
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Umbrella Stroller: [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:48 PM Flag
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UppaBaby G Luxe [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:49 PM Flag
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Maclaren Techno [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:49 PM Flag
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Regular Stroller: [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:49 PM Flag
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Citi Mini. Collapses in one pull. Great for NYC hopping in and out of cabs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:50 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:05 PM Flag
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Bugaboo Cameleon [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:50 PM Flag
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I like the Peg Perego [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:13 PM Flag
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No!!!! (It has been a few years but the PP sucks for city living.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.12, 07:10 AM Flag
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np- we were big fans, but I understand your point. we are now in suburbs, but our city life was primarily focused on walking distance to our apartment, so we appreciated that peg had extra plush lining, etc, which our son seemed to like (somewhat particular even then). but folding it and getting it in and out of cabs or buses was a bit tricky for me (I am petite and admittedly weak), although my dh had literally no problem with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.12, 03:01 AM Flag
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If you walk around the neighborhood a lot, Vista. Otherwise, City Mini. Mac Triumph or Uppa Baby GLuxe for umbrella stroller. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:55 AM Flag
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I think Babble does a best of list [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:51 PM Flag
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Pacifier: [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:52 PM Flag
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Wubbanub. They have stuffed animals sown on so when you give them to infants, they fall out less because they're weighted a bit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:53 PM Flag
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Playtex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:05 PM Flag
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Giggle is awesome for this. They screen everything and then only sell a few of each kind of item. It's stupid expensive, but so easy. CHeck out a store or go to giggle.com if you're not in NYC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:59 PM Flag
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Are you in NYC - I'm mad that I got the Bugaboo. It was too big to take on the subway and I couldn't put it in the taxi. I basically couldn't leave the neighborhood with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:59 PM Flag
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I know a lot of moms who ran into this. They were stranded. Get something that is easy to collapse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:03 PM Flag
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The big strollers are only for walking, but you need them because the park and the uneven sidewalks suck for umbrella strollers and snap n go's. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:04 PM Flag
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That's why I love the Uppa Baby Vista. It's still a size monster, but it can be folded with seat attached. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:54 AM Flag
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Op here: how many strollers do I need? The have umbrella, full, etc. Can I get away with just one!? I am in NYC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:12 PM Flag
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No. We have 4. UWS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:18 PM Flag
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We used pouch & then ergo for public transport, bug for walks. Intended to get umbrella but db was small and didnt need it. You can't put a newborn in an umbrella anyway, so, even if you're sure you won't use a carrier, there's no rush to buy one. You'll have an idea whether you'll want super light or one that's got more going on--like a basket--after db arrives. Plus, there's always new gear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:24 PM Flag
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You just need 1 to start. You don't need a snap n go. Just get a nice stroller (citi mini, bugaboo, etc), but make sure it has car seat attachment. Then much later (10 months), you'll need an umbrella stroller. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:24 PM Flag
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yes. ultimately you'll need two, but not until your child is a year old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:38 AM Flag
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I used the city mini and attached a maxi cosi car seat using the car seat adapter. Once db outgrew the car seat I removed it and used it until he was three. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:42 AM Flag
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You only need one. Don't get a newborn one - it's MUCH easier to carry a little baby than push him in a stroller. Just get one foldable stroller for when the DB is big enough to sit up. I like the Maclaren techno because you can recline it (so the DB can take naps in it while you're out). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.12, 07:02 AM Flag
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Bathtub: eurotub by primo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:24 PM Flag
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yes, there is a book called 'baby bargains'. they rate everything for you, from high end to low end and tell you when they think high end is not better [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.12, 03:06 AM Flag
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Pick up Baby Bargains. They rate all the baby products AND give you recommendations based on your lifestyle (strollers for urban living vs suburbs, etc) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:43 AM Flag
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Sippy Finder is great for not wasting time searching for lost sippy cups all day [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.12, 06:49 PM Flag
[ - ] OB recommendations please!! Deciding between Dr Alan Adler (sinai) vs Dr Robin Kalish (Cornell) vs Dr Sharon Patrick (Roosevelt). Twins expected!!! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.22.12, 11:33 AM Flag
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Patrick covered my OB's practice when I had an emergency issue - liked her, wasn't overwhelmed w/her partners. Adler I have just recalled was my GYN about 10 years ago, before DCs, before I decided I wanted a woman who delivered at SLR...nice guy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 12:43 PM Flag
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adler delivered 1 of my dc's, and kassenoff delivered my newest. love all the docs in their group. mt sinai is great ob hosp. highly recommend! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.12, 09:39 AM Flag
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Do NOT deliver at Roosevelt. I had the worst experience there, twice. They are teetering on the edge of bankruptcy. I don'r care who the doctor is, I would never go back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 02:12 PM Flag
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Loved Kalish. Delivered at Presbyterian. Great hospital. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:19 PM Flag
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adler delivered 1 of my dc's, and kassenoff delivered my newest. love all the docs in their group. mt sinai is great ob hosp. highly recommend [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.12, 09:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have any thoughts on which Denny's is best for doing a layette? Also, I would potentially do it in NJ, any thoughts there? Thanks! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.21.12, 10:31 AM Flag
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Yuck. I wouldnt lay down at any Denny's. Have you seen the floors there? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:34 AM Flag
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My college friends and I used to go get cheese grits for our hangovers at Denny's. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:43 AM Flag
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You mean Denny's the fast food chain? What does that have to do with a layette? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:35 AM Flag
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It's a kids clothing store that they have in NJ, NY and PA I think...I'm new to the area but have heard of it and wanted to do a layette there [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:39 AM Flag
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She means Denny's the clothing store in Queens (and apparently NJ now). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:41 AM Flag
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Is that some kind of pie? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:37 AM Flag
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