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[ - ] i am a newly expectant mom. i am trying to figure out the best places (besides urbanbaby)to get good information about where to take classes and how to meet other new moms. i also want to stay away from the website "what to expect when expecting" because it stresses me out. where else should i look? any suggestions? thank you in advance!! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 06.03.12, 05:44 PM Flag

What part of the country? In many places, not so much Manhattan, there are very active online local moms groups. Otherwise, truly just hanging out at the park will be a great way to meet moms with similar schedules. Does Meetup have an option for this? I know it is great for other things. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:47 PM Flag

New York City. Meetup is a good idea. thanks! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:54 PM Flag

I am only a small sample - but FWIW I liked babycenter with my first baby for the updates on development each week, and comparing development notes online with people due around your time is great (if you are well off though, I would leave that out... def attracts LMC/WC crowd). However, I made a mistake in meeting up with someone from my birth club (month/year you're due) IRL to try to make friends. It was odd,was a little sad we didn't meet again - but then I read later that she flunked the postpartum psych exam done in NJ. Thought I dodged a bullet. Takeaway is it's like internet dating... never know what you'll get IRL. All that being said - start taking classes ASAP on how to care for baby at the hospital where you'll deliver; ask the pediatrician you'll choose; take prenatal yoga or whatever. Everyone is in your boat the first time around, so most people will be friendly because they want to make that new mom connection, too. GL! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:48 PM Flag

Join a new moms group a couple months after the baby is born. Great way to get out of the house and meet other new moms. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:49 PM Flag

+1, take db to the playground even if too young to do anything to meet people and get recs [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:52 PM Flag

look on meetup.com for expectant and new mom groups. If you don't find anything close to you, look for a Lactation class, new baby massage class, etc in your neighborhood - you will meet many new moms at the same stage as you. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.03.12, 05:51 PM Flag

go to your local Gymboree or other infant playgroups, you'll meet neighborhood moms there. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.03.12, 06:10 PM Flag

In what neighborhood do you live? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.03.12, 06:45 PM Flag

Tribeca Parenting (formerly RealBirth before they merged with Tribeca Pediatrics) has amazing birthing classes and other classes and seminars related to birthing, newborn care and parenting. Couldn't recommend highly enough. They were also just ranked one of the best birthing classes in the city: http://newyork.cbslocal.com/top-lists/best-childbirth-classes-in-new-york/ [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.04.12, 08:04 AM Flag

[ - ] First time mom here, 12 weeks along. We have just picked out a doula. How can I make the most of her? I have 2 prenatal and 2 post-partum appointments. 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.29.12, 08:51 AM Flag

I didn't have a doula so this is just a random musing ... I'd try to figure out how she and DH are going to share roles (or have separate roles?) during the birth. My DH is very hands on, so she would have more of a supporting role to him - but if your DH wants to be less involved, then she would be more active. Or maybe you're not sure yet and you want her to play it by ear, etc. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 08:57 AM Flag

OP: DH will be very involved, but we have a lot of family that he may need to referee. Or maybe she can do that. I am just concerned that DH will be so anxious that he will not be able to think straight. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:04 AM Flag

OR: Personally, if my family needed to be refereed, I would probably NOT tell them I was in labor until it was over. I can't imagine having either DH or a doula run interference during labor instead of helping me. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:07 AM Flag

OP: Believe me, I have considered this. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:13 AM Flag

OR: Have you told them your due date yet? If not, add seven days to your actual due date and tell everyone that's your due date. Then just call them after the birth. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:14 AM Flag

Have her prepare a recipe for when you eat the placenta and make sure she weaves you a dreamcatcher. Hippie. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 08:59 AM Flag

OP: Ha! We did talk about the placenta thing. I figure, if it can't hurt, why not? Then again, I'm not sure it can't hurt. Seems like the jury is out. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:03 AM Flag

Gross. I'm sorry,I judge. That is NASTY. once you see placenta in person you may agree. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:06 AM Flag

I'm the first OR. I would never want to eat my placenta but I think they are really cool. I don't think they look nastier than any other organ. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:09 AM Flag

I guess. I am very squeamish. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:10 AM Flag

Lady, you made that placenta with your body to feed your fetus. At the risk of being called a hippie, that is freaking cool. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:12 AM Flag

I also make boogers,doesn't mean I should eat them. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:14 AM Flag

I don't want you to eat your placenta. I don't want to eat my own placenta. I want you to acknowledge its awesomeness. :) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:28 AM Flag

We can agree that it is awesome and not delicious. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:30 AM Flag

OP: It is dried, crushed, and encapsulated. It's not like you are making a placenta sandwich or something. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:12 AM Flag

Omg. Like on a nice crusty baguette? You hippies and your placenta sandwiches!! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:15 AM Flag

np: I found passing the placenta the worst part of labor. It's slimy and squishy and blobby and just disgusting. I had no problem with my dh seeing all of labor and me at my finest animal moment, but the fact that he saw my placenta makes me weirdly upset. It's just so utterly disgusting. It's an organ you expel from your body when you're done with it! Amazing, but just not something I want any part of after expulsion. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 10:20 AM Flag

np; this may be a naive question (I most definitely did NOT eat my placenta!) but doesn't the placenta filter out a lot of toxins, and wouldn't it therefore contain those toxins? Seems like a bad idea not to mention kind of gross (even dried). [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:17 AM Flag

OP: Don't know. I keep hearing it's "traditional Chinese medicine", but I have no idea if that is true. I thought the placenta was to nourish the baby, not filter toxins. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:33 AM Flag

Isn't the whole point of hiring a doula is for her to be with you as a birth coach? I'm a few weeks ahead of you, and my DH wants to be there and involved, but honestly neither of us has seen anyone give birth before. We have no idea what to do! Yes, yes, do what is natural, but experienced doulas have been to hundreds of births and are trained in tricks to assist a woman in labor, such as positions to rotate into, etc. We also wanted her to basically translate what the medical staff is saying, and give us advice, in her opinion, as to whether the doctors and nurses are doing something that is to help them only or to help me (i.e. lay flat, take pitocin, have epidural, etc.). I wouldn't send a doula out of the room to deal with my family. That is not her role. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:24 AM Flag

OP: You're right. I guess I am wondering more about what to do with here now and after the baby comes than during the birth. Obviously she will be occupied then. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:29 AM Flag

Who are you using? You didn't talk to her about this stuff when you interviewed her before hiring? Most doulas are also lactation consultants and the post-partum visits are to check on you and the baby, to see if you need any help breastfeeding or with the latch or have any questions about the baby and breastfeeding(I'm sure I will). One post-partum visit will be right after you get home from the hospital, and the second will be about a week later. The two pre-natal visits are prep work for the delivery, where she is going to discuss with you options and what goes on from her point of view, suggest positions for labor and delivery, talk about laboring at your home (mine wants me to labor at home with her for at least 4 to 5 hours before the three of us go to the hospital together (me, DH, her), talk about your birth plan, your willingess or ability to take a variety of pain meds, explain her role, etc. Your pre-natal visits probably won't start until 30-32 weeks for the first and the second at 36 weeks or so. You are overthinking this--you don't need to "make work" for her. She's paid for a very specific, short-time period task. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 09:48 AM Flag

Have your doula offer advice to DH on how to be an effective coach. You (and he) will want the support that he can give if he is confident. Little things go a long way: do not offer a pregnant women a choice ("Do you want some water?") - give them the water straw. Women in labor can't make decisions from a rational place and when they are asked to decide something like do I want some water? it is sometimes a hard choice. So the coach shoves the straw in their face and if no water is needed a simple head shake is an answer. DH and the doula should decide who will be playing gatekeeper and keeping the right amount of visitors that you are comfortable with in or out. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 10:17 AM Flag

^^^Think of the doula as you rational voice because you will go into the zone and not really have access to your rational brain. She is someone who is working for you and your interests. Lean on her as much as you want, both figuratively and literally. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.29.12, 10:23 AM Flag

[ - ] I'm looking for a high risk OBGYN in NYC. Does anyone have one whom they love and would recommend for high risk pregnancy. I'm looking for a truly competent doctor who won't shy away from pregnancy challenges. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.28.12, 01:52 PM Flag

No recommendations, but from the peanut gallery, you sound like kind of a high-maintenance patient, which is different from a high-risk pregnancy. Drs may shy away from you if you come on this strong when you interview them. You should cultivate a more grateful tone for your consult if you'd like them to take you on. If you are high risk, they are doing you the courtesy of adding you to their patient roster. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.28.12, 02:57 PM Flag

LOVE Dr. Cleary at Columbia. I think she's the best and she's also really nice and patient with my endless questions. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.28.12, 03:15 PM Flag

Had two horrendous pregnancies and Dr. Brustman at Roosevelt was my saviour. She is AWESOME. Unlike any MD I have ever met. Go to her. She's no joke. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.28.12, 05:03 PM Flag

[ - ] Ok..I just don't have the patience to go online and read product reviews for newborn baby gear (strollers, car seats, etc). My husband just wants to buy the best of the best. Is there some list I can access online of the best stuff? I know, 'm lazy 43 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.22.12, 07:45 PM Flag

Give us a category and we'll tell you the best. Stroller: Bugaboo. Umbrella: MacLaren Volo. Carseat : Chicco Keyfit 30. Baby carrier: Ergo (bjorn will break your back). Diaper disposal: Diaper Genie. Bouncy seat: Mamaroo and a Bjorn baby sitter. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:47 PM Flag

np I bought Mamaroo for #3. He HATED it. Ended up using the cheapie FP portable swing I got when I had #1 9 years earlier. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:49 PM Flag

OR - that's funny, that's what we used. But I've heard from everyone else how Mamaroo is the best. There is some element of preference in these choices - in some cases you won't know what you like (or what your baby likes) until you try it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:50 PM Flag

Mamaroo is very gimmicky. It looked OK in the living room, though. I paid around $200 for the thing, as I recall. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:53 PM Flag

Mamaroo didn't work for me either. So pretty. So ignored. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:51 PM Flag

Diaper disposal: Fairway grocery bag [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:50 PM Flag

Np: seriously. Encased diapers are absurd anywhere but can't imagine any market for this in NYC. I get not everyone has a chute but isn't trash picked up every day? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:14 PM Flag

Diaper bin: [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:51 PM Flag

No diaper disposal - gross. Bouncy seat: Fisher Price rainforest (blue light is like baby crack). Don't get a carrier if you're not a carrier person. Bjorn is really bad for their hips after like 2/3 months. Stroller: test drive - don't spend a ton until you figure out what you need. Bugaboo is a huge waste of money because there are better ones for much less. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:09 PM Flag

Swing: [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:48 PM Flag

Fisher Price Little Lamb (you NEED this. it saved my life.) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:48 PM Flag

agree! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:55 PM Flag

Umbrella Stroller: [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:48 PM Flag

UppaBaby G Luxe [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:49 PM Flag

Maclaren Techno [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:49 PM Flag

Regular Stroller: [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:49 PM Flag

Citi Mini. Collapses in one pull. Great for NYC hopping in and out of cabs. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:50 PM Flag

+1 [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:05 PM Flag

Bugaboo Cameleon [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:50 PM Flag

I like the Peg Perego [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:13 PM Flag

No!!!! (It has been a few years but the PP sucks for city living.) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.12, 07:10 AM Flag

np- we were big fans, but I understand your point. we are now in suburbs, but our city life was primarily focused on walking distance to our apartment, so we appreciated that peg had extra plush lining, etc, which our son seemed to like (somewhat particular even then). but folding it and getting it in and out of cabs or buses was a bit tricky for me (I am petite and admittedly weak), although my dh had literally no problem with it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.25.12, 03:01 AM Flag

If you walk around the neighborhood a lot, Vista. Otherwise, City Mini. Mac Triumph or Uppa Baby GLuxe for umbrella stroller. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:55 AM Flag

I think Babble does a best of list [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:51 PM Flag

Pacifier: [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:52 PM Flag

Wubbanub. They have stuffed animals sown on so when you give them to infants, they fall out less because they're weighted a bit. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:53 PM Flag

Playtex [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:05 PM Flag

Giggle is awesome for this. They screen everything and then only sell a few of each kind of item. It's stupid expensive, but so easy. CHeck out a store or go to giggle.com if you're not in NYC. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:59 PM Flag

Are you in NYC - I'm mad that I got the Bugaboo. It was too big to take on the subway and I couldn't put it in the taxi. I basically couldn't leave the neighborhood with it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:59 PM Flag

I know a lot of moms who ran into this. They were stranded. Get something that is easy to collapse. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:03 PM Flag

The big strollers are only for walking, but you need them because the park and the uneven sidewalks suck for umbrella strollers and snap n go's. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:04 PM Flag

That's why I love the Uppa Baby Vista. It's still a size monster, but it can be folded with seat attached. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:54 AM Flag

Op here: how many strollers do I need? The have umbrella, full, etc. Can I get away with just one!? I am in NYC. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:12 PM Flag

No. We have 4. UWS [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:18 PM Flag

We used pouch & then ergo for public transport, bug for walks. Intended to get umbrella but db was small and didnt need it. You can't put a newborn in an umbrella anyway, so, even if you're sure you won't use a carrier, there's no rush to buy one. You'll have an idea whether you'll want super light or one that's got more going on--like a basket--after db arrives. Plus, there's always new gear. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:24 PM Flag

You just need 1 to start. You don't need a snap n go. Just get a nice stroller (citi mini, bugaboo, etc), but make sure it has car seat attachment. Then much later (10 months), you'll need an umbrella stroller. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:24 PM Flag

yes. ultimately you'll need two, but not until your child is a year old. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:38 AM Flag

I used the city mini and attached a maxi cosi car seat using the car seat adapter. Once db outgrew the car seat I removed it and used it until he was three. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:42 AM Flag

You only need one. Don't get a newborn one - it's MUCH easier to carry a little baby than push him in a stroller. Just get one foldable stroller for when the DB is big enough to sit up. I like the Maclaren techno because you can recline it (so the DB can take naps in it while you're out). [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.12, 07:02 AM Flag

Bathtub: eurotub by primo [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 08:24 PM Flag

yes, there is a book called 'baby bargains'. they rate everything for you, from high end to low end and tell you when they think high end is not better [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.12, 03:06 AM Flag

Pick up Baby Bargains. They rate all the baby products AND give you recommendations based on your lifestyle (strollers for urban living vs suburbs, etc) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.12, 06:43 AM Flag

Sippy Finder is great for not wasting time searching for lost sippy cups all day [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.24.12, 06:49 PM Flag

[ - ] OB recommendations please!! Deciding between Dr Alan Adler (sinai) vs Dr Robin Kalish (Cornell) vs Dr Sharon Patrick (Roosevelt). Twins expected!!! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.22.12, 11:33 AM Flag

Patrick covered my OB's practice when I had an emergency issue - liked her, wasn't overwhelmed w/her partners. Adler I have just recalled was my GYN about 10 years ago, before DCs, before I decided I wanted a woman who delivered at SLR...nice guy. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 12:43 PM Flag

adler delivered 1 of my dc's, and kassenoff delivered my newest. love all the docs in their group. mt sinai is great ob hosp. highly recommend! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.28.12, 09:39 AM Flag

Do NOT deliver at Roosevelt. I had the worst experience there, twice. They are teetering on the edge of bankruptcy. I don'r care who the doctor is, I would never go back. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 02:12 PM Flag

Loved Kalish. Delivered at Presbyterian. Great hospital. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.22.12, 07:19 PM Flag

adler delivered 1 of my dc's, and kassenoff delivered my newest. love all the docs in their group. mt sinai is great ob hosp. highly recommend [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.28.12, 09:40 AM Flag

[ - ] Does anyone have any thoughts on which Denny's is best for doing a layette? Also, I would potentially do it in NJ, any thoughts there? Thanks! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.21.12, 10:31 AM Flag

Yuck. I wouldnt lay down at any Denny's. Have you seen the floors there? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:34 AM Flag

My college friends and I used to go get cheese grits for our hangovers at Denny's. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:43 AM Flag

You mean Denny's the fast food chain? What does that have to do with a layette? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:35 AM Flag

It's a kids clothing store that they have in NJ, NY and PA I think...I'm new to the area but have heard of it and wanted to do a layette there [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:39 AM Flag

She means Denny's the clothing store in Queens (and apparently NJ now). [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:41 AM Flag

Is that some kind of pie? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.21.12, 10:37 AM Flag

[ - ] Certified Baby Nurse is currently taking bookings, I will provide love and nurture your infant in my care. I am a US citizen,CPR certified,drivers license,current with all vaccines including whooping cough,back ground check and current references available. Feel free to call to discuss your needs! 516 984-5808 Kris! 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.18.12, 04:43 AM Flag

[ - ] NYC expecting moms, who is your OB? Do you like them? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.17.12, 08:03 AM Flag

[ - ] Best cream/lotion to prevent stretch marks during pregnancy? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.15.12, 09:38 AM Flag

true believer [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 09:39 AM Flag

What are you saying? Save my money because nothing helps? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 09:41 AM Flag

yes [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 09:44 AM Flag

Tummy Rub by Mama Mio works great. I used it every day 2x a day and have no stretch marks. I was also told that if you mom had stretch marks you are more prone - not sure if this is true or not. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 09:44 AM Flag

I never used anything special and I don't have stretch marks. Save your money. And don't gain too much weight too quickly [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 09:46 AM Flag

it's called genetics [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 09:46 AM Flag

I used baby oil. two pg, no stretch marks. but also it's genetics [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 10:01 AM Flag

np. i would avoid any petroleum based products. mineral oil also clogs pores. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 10:42 AM Flag

Why? your body is not absorbing crude oil [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 10:45 AM Flag

Any petroleum products causes me to breakout. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 11:02 AM Flag

on your stomach? who has ever had zits on their stomach? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 11:12 AM Flag

i broke out in a rash. my derm told me to stop using baby oil. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 01:40 PM Flag

or anything with petroleum or mineral oil. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 01:41 PM Flag

its genes. i used vitamin E oil, no marks, but my mom used nothing and didn't get any either. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.15.12, 01:43 PM Flag

[ - ] Pregnant and my OB/all the baby books say not to eat soft cheeses. However, no one acknowledges that the majority of soft cheeses in the US are pasteurized! I'm sure this is a silly question, but I can eat brie, etc as long as it is pasteurized, correct? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.14.12, 10:40 AM Flag

yes [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.14.12, 10:40 AM Flag

I'm 18 weeks and have been eating soft cheeses all along. Most soft cheeses in the US are FINE. You just don't want to buy something from a sketchy little international market [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.14.12, 10:42 AM Flag

OP: thanks for your responses. that is what i assumed, but do find it strange that no one seems to mention that almost all cheeses in the US are pasteurized! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.14.12, 10:43 AM Flag

I've had food poisoning countless times from salad bars, and yet no one is telling us to stay away from those germ factories. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.14.12, 11:10 AM Flag

Yes, it's the pasteurization that you want. very very few cheese in the US is sold unpasteurized. though you can get some yummy ones at Citarella and Eli's [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.14.12, 10:48 AM Flag

yes, [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.14.12, 10:52 AM Flag

[ - ] Name Suggestions Needed: looking for a First for baby boy with the middle name Fay. TIA! 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.06.12, 02:39 PM Flag

Ah ... I sense a "but it's a family name" argument coming. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:41 PM Flag

Ok I'll bite. Why the feminine middle name? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:45 PM Flag

Patrick or Oliver [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:42 PM Flag

Tina. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:47 PM Flag

Roland, Kenton, Wilson [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:48 PM Flag

I like Kenton and Wilson - a LOT !!! Those are great names. I love it when I see names that make me sorry I can't have any more kids ... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:55 PM Flag

Auto De [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:48 PM Flag

OP: family name. Noone pays attention to the second later... But I would like it to all sound good put-together. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:48 PM Flag

Raymond [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 02:49 PM Flag

Ray Fay... Sounds cute [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 04:00 PM Flag

Adam. Benedict, nn Ben, Ned, Diction. Christopher. Daniel. Everett. Finley. Gregory. Hugo. Idris. Judah,nn Jude. Keiran. Lester. Miles. Nathaniel. Oliver. Perregrin. Quentin. River. Silas. Trevor. Waylon. Zachary. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 03:24 PM Flag

Um. Diction??! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 03:55 PM Flag

[ - ] Has anyone been to an occasion, specifically a bris or baby naming, on the UES at a beautiful synagogue? Trying to find a place for a bris and any suggestions are welcome...Thanks! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.06.12, 02:33 PM Flag

sharay tefila [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 04:48 PM Flag

[ - ] Name Poll: Truman/True Graham/G Davy Warren Tait Dashiell/Dash Kyle Walt Winston/Winn 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.05.12, 08:51 PM Flag

Are included are some /nn if we think we would like both. On some names we'd use the full ie. Walter in their given name but would likely call them Ie. Walt. Are there one or two you think would make great first names? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 08:56 PM Flag

I like Graham and Walt [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 09:11 PM Flag

they all suck [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 04:43 AM Flag

I feel terrible for your kids [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 04:50 AM Flag

PLEASE not Dashiell [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.06.12, 08:14 AM Flag

[ - ] Name Poll (Select one): Charles Dylan, Kieran Charles, Luke Kieran, Mark Dillon, Mark Kieran, Dylan Chandler, Charles Lucas. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.05.12, 02:59 AM Flag

I don't like any of these combinations. I like Mark Charles. I also like Charles as a first name but I don't like the full "Charles" for little kids. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 03:19 AM Flag

Pls. assume built-in nickname. Ie. Charlie as a nn. Thanks for your reply. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 03:23 AM Flag

Charles Mark or Luke Charles. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 03:24 AM Flag

Just no Kieran. All the others are great. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 04:01 AM Flag

np: I love Kieran, Charles and Mark. I'd stay away from Dylan and Luke. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 04:15 AM Flag

Out of all your first names I like in decreasing order: Charles, Dylan, Kieran, Luke and Mark. The only name that doesn't sound great to me is Mark Kieran because of the repeating consonants. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 04:16 AM Flag

Love Charles and Mark, followed by Luke. Don't like repeating "k" sounds (Mark Kieran, Luke Kieran, etc). Kieran is not as classic as the others (and your taste seems to run to more classic names), and Dylan is a bit more trendy. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 05:28 AM Flag

OP: this is interesting.. b/c it's really my DH driving the names... opposed to names which are clearly out of the norm. Ie. I liked Django, Rio, Graham, Jacek. I find myself frustrated b/c the names on the list are all compromises on my part & therefore cannot make up my mind..... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 07:43 AM Flag

Also, Americans love to mispronounce "Keiran". It is not pronounces "Keer-in" but "Keer-ahn". [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 10:00 AM Flag

[ - ] Name Poll (please select one): Charles Dylan, kieran Charles, Luke Kieran, 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.05.12, 02:54 AM Flag

OP: please see complete polling list above, Thanks! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 03:01 AM Flag

[ - ] How did you figure out what skincare products, makeup, etc. were safe for pregnancy? I simply am too busy to research each and every one. Help? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.04.12, 03:20 PM Flag

Environmental working group website [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 03:39 PM Flag

just check the cosmetics database, i think the site is ewg.org/skindeep [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 03:39 PM Flag

I love the Belli line. Just google it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 03:40 PM Flag

Mychelle line [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 03:41 PM Flag

I tend to trust burt's bees, but have never checked it out on ewg's site. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 03:45 PM Flag

OP: holy crap! I just looked up my shampoo and it is a 10 on the hazard scale. Anyone have a good, safe shampoo to recommend? Fine, straight, color treated (highlights) hair that needs volume but nothing too heavy / oily... Conditioner, too. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 04:17 PM Flag

I used baby shampoo from Burt's Bees when pregnant. Figured it would be safe. There are 2 kinds I think, I bought them at buy-buy baby on 7th/25th. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 04:23 PM Flag

Shampoo is something that rinses out of your hair, so I didn't worry about it too much. Stuff like lotion and face creams...etc that sit on your skin all day--that is more of an issue. As far as skin cremes go--no retinol and no salicylic acid [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 04:54 PM Flag

Wow. Am I a bad mom because I barely thought about it? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 05:53 PM Flag

yep, shame shame [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 08:24 PM Flag

I just used moisturizer with sunblock. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.05.12, 02:15 AM Flag

[ - ] I'm 7 weeks, 35years old, with first pregnancy. I'm looking for a new OBGYN b/c I've been really unhappy w/my current one for years, just too lazy to change. I'd like to deliver with no drugs, in a supportive environment, but am leaning towards having an OB & Doula vs. midwife because I'm concerned about making sure I have the best medical prenatal care before delivery, but want to have someone who supports natural birth for the actual event. I'm healthy, haven't had a 1st appointment so don't know if I'm high risk (other than being 35). Any thoughts on if OB/Doula vs. Midwife is better option? 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.04.12, 10:18 AM Flag

If you are in NY, I had a great experience using Sandy Woods, a midwife who delivers at Roosevelt in the birthing center. She works out of the same office as Dr Moritz, who does high risk, has a great ultrasound in his office etc, so you can see both of them at the same time. He is an absolute sweetheart -- funny, kind and a very good doctor. I saw him twice through my last pg when I had placenta previa that had to be monitored, but saw Sandy the rest of the time [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:21 AM Flag

Thank you for the reco. I've heard of Sandy & Dr. Moritz... I'm probably being a baby about this (no pun intended), but I'm not sure how I'll feel about delivering naturally with a male doctor. I kind of want someone who has been through the experience, but I'm probably being silly. Did you deliver in the Birthing Center? What was your experience? Also, I've read that there are no fetal monitors which freaks me out. I want to go drug-free, but not completely technology free. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:45 AM Flag

Dr. Moritz is absolutely wonderful. To be honest, it's with one of the midwives in his practice that I had a not so great experience. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:49 AM Flag

Really? Just curious...which midwife and what didn't you like about the experience? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 02:10 PM Flag

np: you can't labor in the way you'll want to with a fetal monitor strapped to your belly. They have a doppler to listen to the heartbeat. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:49 AM Flag

dr moritz does not deliver at the birth center-sandy and the 3 other midwives that work w/her deliver at the birth center-they consult w/dr moritz if needed during the pregnancy and transfer up to the l&d unit if needed during labor where there are lots of doctors/technology, etc on call if needed. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:52 AM Flag

Yes, this is correct. I figured this was the best of both worlds, because I already knew him if the worst happened, and I had to be transferred to L+D. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:55 AM Flag

No there are monitors, and you are prepped for a drip if needed etc. Do you feel uncomfortable about make doctors in general, and would prefer a woman? I delivered twice in the birthing center, but because there were no complications, Dr Moritiz did not deliver, Sandy Woods did. He just gave me a few sonograms, checked me out once or twice when I got bronchitis, things like that. It is great knowing that he is in the office next door if needed. If my placenta pre via had not cleared in the 7th month, then he would have been doing my c-section for example. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:52 AM Flag

One other question...since I am 35 (going 36) is it better to book an appointment w/Dr Moritz first, and tell them I'd like to use a midwife, or is it better to get an appointment w/the midwife? I haven't had my first appointment yet so haven't had any bloodwork etc done yet. Currently have an appointment set with my current OB who I am not a fan of, and would love to just start the process fresh w/whoever my new "team" is. :) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 02:15 PM Flag

pick a midwife or OB who delivers at SLR in the birthing center. however, assuming a normal pregnancy, a midwife can provide you with excellent prenatal care adn will refer you to an OB should you need something more. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:23 AM Flag

I'm in your shoes, but was not happy with midwifes. they are frequently dismissive of your concerns, and refused to give me an ultrasound after a miscarriage (turned out I still had fetal tissue). They take an "everything is normal" approach, when at 35+, a lot of times they aren't. you're at an increased risk for birth defects which may require a lot of testing, and you probably want someone to keep an eye out for a healthy baby, not just a drug-free delivery. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:27 AM Flag

Midwives generally do not like to do unnecessary tests or ultrasounds because no one knows the long term effects of all these tests. I had 2 ultrasounds (at 11 and 20 weeks) and a few of my friends thought I was insane. But my midwife was amazing and didn't need anything but her hands to tell how big the baby was or where the head was. If you're not into that, go with an OB. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:45 AM Flag

right, but at 35+ there's good reason for more ultrasounds. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:47 AM Flag

Yes, there is a reason why older pg. means more risk. it's not like the doctors like to do this just becasue [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 12:55 PM Flag

Thx for your feedback. I usually lean on the side of least invasive approach when it comes to my own health, and am generally not neurotic, but now that I'm pregnant (and it's my first) I'm feeling really torn. I almost want the best medicine has to offer up UNTIL the delivery, at which point I want to be able to control my own labor, go drug-free, but also know that the baby is being monitored closely in the event that something goes wrong that can't be easily detected. I know, I sound crazy and like I'm talking out both sides but I have to think I'm not alone feeling this way? :) That said, it sounds like a midwife who is partnered with a great OBGYN is prob the best bet for me? Does anyone have any other suggestions in addition to Sandy & Dr. Moritz? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 02:08 PM Flag

I will second that, the birth center is pretty great, and there are not maybe similar set-ups in NY nowadays. You even get a hot tub in your room ! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:29 AM Flag

I read that the birthing center doesn't take "high-risk" pregnancies. I'm healthy with no prior health issues but am 35, (will be 36 when baby comes) does anyone know if that automatically opts me out of being able to use the birthing center? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:48 AM Flag

no. there's a list that they use to determine high risk. check off enough boxes on that list, and you're out. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:52 AM Flag

no, i had db #1 at birth center, age 37 [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:53 AM Flag

I was 41 when i delivers my last baby at the birthing center, so I imagine, unless the rules have changed, you would be fine. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:53 AM Flag

Midwives are experts on prenatal care, childbirth and all of the reproductive organs. And the vast majority of midwives much prefer having their patients labor and deliver with no drugs. You really have to search for a doctor that is completely comfortable letting a woman labor without interventions and on her body's timetable. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:36 AM Flag

Try Dr. Shulina at Roosevelt hospitals. You need to call now to make sure you can get in the practice. http://www.yelp.com/biz/zhanna-rutstein-shulina-md-new-york [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:38 AM Flag

Thank you all for your wonderful replies so far! I am in NYC and have been leaning towards St. Luke's Roosevelt (if I went the midwife route), or Cornell for the OB/Doula route. However, I've heard that a lot of ppl "plan" to use the birthing center but many times don't get to use it for one reason or another (not enough staff, in labor too long etc). So I feel like if I'm just gonna end up in L&D anyway, I'd rather be someplace w/exceptional care. That said, I've heard Cornell no longer allows doulas, and I expect I would have no chance doing naturally w/o one there. Why do they make this so hard on us to figure out? :) The other caveat... I need an OB or DR that takes Aetna. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:42 AM Flag

I had 3 at Roosevelt birthing center, and never had any trouble getting a room --- they do tend to move you out pretty fast though if they are busy. But really, you just want to get home anyway afterwards. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:45 AM Flag

cornell is very medical, hi epidural and induction rate.... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:46 AM Flag

i am a health care person and have a lot of friends who are midwives and delivered both my kids at SLR w/midwives-first w/Sandy Woods, second w/Sylvie Blaustein. If you want natural childbirth-go w/midwives-you will get excellent prenatal care-midwives spend tons of time w/their patients and provide excellent care during the pregnancy-if something comes up-hi risk-they co-manage you w/a doctor-this happened to me when i had gest diabetes w/db #2-saw the hi risk docs at the hosp to manage the diabetes, saw midwives too for prenatal visits and still was able to deliver w/midwife on the regular l&d floor (had db #1 at birth center-awesome place). most ob's are geared towards using interventions and managing things medically which lowers the chances of having a natural birth w/o epidural. GL! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 10:44 AM Flag

I don't live in NYC, but I had a natural childbirth with a midwife in a hospital. I didn't at all feel that my prenatal care was compromised (although I saw an OBGYN until the third trimester). I didn't have a doula but DH was a very active birth partner. It might be hard to gauge now how your DH will be when the time comes, but if he's actively participating now and really into it, you might not need that extra person there. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 11:44 AM Flag

you saw an OBGYN for two thirds of your pregnancy. No wonder you didn't think your prenatal care was compromised by seeing a midwife to deliver. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 12:35 PM Flag

I wouldn't have minded seeing the midwife through the whole PG. That's just how they do it where I live. FWIW I wasn't examined by a doctor from the moment my water broke to 6 weeks after birth, and that was fine with me. If I had had complications, I would have been seen by a doctor. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.04.12, 12:39 PM Flag

Thanks again to everyone for their feedback. It helps to "talk things through" with others who have experience. I've decided to book consults with Dr. Moritz, and Dr. Amy Huang. I think with my first, I'm still a bit nervous about going with a midwife completely, but from what I've heard Dr. Moritz and Huang are both supportive of natural birth, as is SLR, so I feel like that is the best option for me at this time. Despite the fact that all of my friends have delivered at Cornell, NYU & Mt. Sinai...all amazing hospitals, with incredible doctors, I think I'm leaning towards SLR, OB & a doula. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.08.12, 10:27 AM Flag

Try Village OB Drs. Worth and Mussali. They're OBs and combine the natural with the best that modern medicine has to offer. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.16.12, 01:30 PM Flag

[ - ] About to give DS two first names, two middle names & two last names. First names will be DH first + DH pick, Middles are my pick + DD pick and Last is my maiden + DH last. DS will go by combination first names. Cool, or not? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.02.12, 09:38 PM Flag

what are the names? I'll wait while you type. I'm going to go make a pizza, so you have a few minutes. I'm sure it will actually take you that long. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 09:41 PM Flag

nope - too much. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 09:47 PM Flag

i can't even bother to answer this woman b/c the post is so ridiculous. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 09:49 PM Flag

Is in line for some obscure throne--like that "prince" who was on The Bachelor a few years ago? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 09:56 PM Flag

^^Is he... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 09:56 PM Flag

Get down w/ yo bad self. I mean Heidi Klum's kids have ridiculously long names and nobody says shi*t - and she ain't royalty just a broke Victoria's secret model. Do what works for you! Just don't come back with the name Max Jayden Jackson Liam Smith-Hunter or you'll never hear the end of it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 10:08 PM Flag

is she really broke? what's wrong with these people? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 10:09 PM Flag

Compared to me? NO. But come on she's got a handful (literally) of kids she's trying to raise in the celeb word. She's whoring herself out on every endorsement possible. Check it out for yourself and tell me if I'm wrong. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 10:12 PM Flag

i dunno. some people are just attention hogs. but a lot of celebrities are real stupid with their money, too. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 10:15 PM Flag

OP: back on subject.. I'm not sure why this is ridiculous. The first two together are 3 syllables, second two 3 syllables & last two 2 syllables. The only people to ever understand the kid has 6 names will be his family - otherwise people just hear the first + second -- actually being only the first (people call kids by 2 names regularly ie. Mary Jo) and then the Last, which is not unusual in this day (to have a compound last). [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 03:02 AM Flag

i think we need examples [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 03:24 AM Flag

I really dislike 2 last names. Which one is the last name. I have 2 middle names and it is always causing me bureaucratic paperwork problems when people get it wrong. I can't imagine what it would be like with 2 last names. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 03:51 AM Flag

Nothing if you hyphenate. Millions survive every day in 2 last name countries [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 04:03 AM Flag

The fact that it is the custom in a country would make it much less of a hassle. It is not the custom in the US. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 04:28 AM Flag

Yes, the kid will survive. But with a paining the ass name. And those that think that it's a winning compromise -- you are depriving your child of the compromise unless you want grandchildren with 4 last names. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 04:56 AM Flag

I think it's stupid...particularly the DD picking part. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 04:26 AM Flag

np Ditto. Don't understand this at all. I have a friend whose #1 named #2--and friend doesn't like the name! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 04:47 AM Flag

Sounds like an attention whoring move. You aren't doing it for the child, he will hate it. Not only is it a pain, but it will be embarrassing. And it kind og [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 04:50 AM Flag

Kind of makes it seem like you don't have your house in order. Like your family can't even agree or compromise on a name so you have to resort to John Jacob Jingleheimer Schmidt. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 04:52 AM Flag

Why stop at 6 names, I'm sure the grandparents would like to be remembered too. Why not put the whole family history, likes and dislikes in there? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 05:12 AM Flag

Sometimes I like this site - and Sometimes I don't. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.03.12, 07:33 PM Flag

[ - ] Ok I am 8 weeks pregnant and my husband and I live in a 1 bed/bath apt with barely enough space for us. Any advise on what gear we definitely need and what we can skip on until we have more space (5 months after baby due)? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.02.12, 06:19 AM Flag

Bouncy chair, bassinet, infant baby tub, playmat, diapers etc, some clothes... that's about it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 06:24 AM Flag

depending how small, I had a friend whose kid slept in the uppababy bassinet for the first few months. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 06:46 AM Flag

(I meant how small the apartment, not the baby, btw) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 06:46 AM Flag

OR - We had plenty of room, but DB also slept there about 2mos at least. I liked the portability of the UB bassinet, just rolled from room to room. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 06:49 AM Flag

i'd skip the infant tub and use the sink instead. they sell something that looks similar to a bouncie seat but much much smaller and mesh to use in the sink. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 06:32 AM Flag

I kept the infant tub in our tub when we weren't using it, so it didn't take up any real space. I liked having it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 06:45 AM Flag

[ - ] I always enjoyed being the only one with my name in school. Now expecting, we have names on our list which are in the top 25 of popularity & it seems this selection could mean more than one or even two children the same age/class/circle with my child's name. What is it like to have to share a name with peers? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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Expecting 05.01.12, 11:02 PM Flag

Speaking as a Jennifer from the 70s, it's not horrible. You learn to use your last name a lot and your nickname becomes your name. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 12:25 AM Flag

Well, you get used to being called "Lisa B" or "Lisa M" in some classes. I go by a nickname now. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 04:06 AM Flag

It's not the worst thing. I have one. But, having had one, I looked for a classic name that is not as currently popular. Especially if it is of the ilk of Madison or Tiffany, where it is also a trendy name. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 04:14 AM Flag

Take into consideration whether the surname is also common. I went to school with 3 Michael Cohens who were unrelated. It gets confusing. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 04:40 AM Flag

My dd has a very popular name ans usually she doesn't mind but sometimes it annoys her. She started going by a nn at camp last yr b/c there were too many. I wish I'd known how popular it was. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 06:42 AM Flag

stinks esp if you have a last name with a common letter [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.02.12, 06:44 AM Flag