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[ - ] I am just about 8 weeks pregnant with my second DC, and am currently 34. Do you feel this is a logical plan? 1) usual genetic screening & Nuchal 2) If either come out bad - CVS? The first time around, I just did the blood screening and nothing more, but I'm more cautious this time because I am older. 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 03.13.13, 05:26 PM Flag
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This is what I did. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:27 PM Flag
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This is what I did. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:28 PM Flag
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get the MaterniT21 test and skip the "usual genetic screening" tests. MaterniT21 should be the new gold standard [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:28 PM Flag
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yes +1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:27 PM Flag
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OP: I had never heard of that - thank you! Although, I see it is only available to high risk people? I'm not sure I'd qualify? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:32 PM Flag
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it's not only for high risk. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:38 PM Flag
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It's available to you if your advanced maternal age, so depends on when you're going to turn 35. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:34 PM Flag
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OP: I'll turn 35 at the end of January - baby is due at the end of October...so I say pretty close! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:42 PM Flag
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I got it at 30 yo with low risk - speak to materniti21 directly, they limit your expenses to $350 or therabouts even if insurance doesn't cover [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:40 PM Flag
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Op: Awesome - thank you so much for this information! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:46 PM Flag
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MaterniT21 is not definitive, it is still just a screening. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:30 PM Flag
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right, it's only 99 percent accurate for down syndrome, so adjust your expectations accordingly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:38 PM Flag
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But panorama is 100% accurate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:36 PM Flag
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no, it's greater than 99 percent -- same as materniT21 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:04 PM Flag
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^^^ something like 99.4 vs 99.92 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:09 PM Flag
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officially screening, but it looks pretty good when you check the stats on it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:34 PM Flag
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I think that is a good plan. I am older and that's exactly what I did. NT scan then depending on results CVS or Amnio. You are young so odds are on your side but I know I would need the diagnostic test to rule anything out. NT is just a screening. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:29 PM Flag
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OP: Yes, I'm hoping is the tests come back like they did with my DS, then a CVS would be pointless. Just tossing the Nuchal in there because I know I'll need to decide soon and figured it made more sense this time around. I'd hate to get the CVS unless there was a real reason. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:30 PM Flag
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I had amnio after a very good NT scan, which basically said it's extremely unlikely to have problems. But I still chose to do amnio to be 100% sure, my OB also recommended it, because nuchal is not 100% guaranteed, while amnio is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:40 PM Flag
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i went straight to amnio but i dont think cvs was in wide use yet (9 yrs ago) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:27 PM Flag
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i went straight to amnio last summer (age 35). I wanted to KNOW, so screening would have been a waste. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:49 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:35 PM Flag
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Will you be 35 at the birth? If so, you'll be offered a lot more testing than you would be if you'll only be 34. I just turned 35 and am 10 weeks pregnant with our fourth. Never had much testing before. But I've been offered Panorama (same as Materni21 but apparently 100% accurate as opposed to 99% accurate), and I'll do that at 11 weeks. I don't plan to do CVS or amnio. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:33 PM Flag
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OP: I'll be shy of 35 by less than 3 months. I wonder if I can make a case...Thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:35 PM Flag
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I did amnio both times but I really am a worrier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:36 PM Flag
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you can do CVS as early as nuchal so if you're going to do cvs, then just do it. otherwise, you can do nuchal and then if results are borderline, amnio. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:42 PM Flag
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OP: So, it wouldn't be possible to do Nuchal, then if the results aren't great, the CVS? I'm honestly trying to avoid anything invasive...within reason. I was hoping there would be enough time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:44 PM Flag
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You can do CVS up to 13.5 weeks, so it depends when your nuchal is scheduled for. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:52 PM Flag
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np - i think with amnio there's almost no rusk of loss that would not have happened anyway, but some small risk truly exists with cvs. check with doc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:50 PM Flag
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OP: I know it's just....I'd want to have the information before things go any farther, if that makes sense? So, I'd only do the CVS is there is true reason. But it sounds like I could get one of the newer blood screens and that may even be enough. I see my OB tomorrow so hopefully there is enough time for everything. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:56 PM Flag
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My understanding is the blood tests only test for DS, trisomy, 13, and trisomy 18. CVS tests for much more. There are thousands of potential chromosonal issues. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:09 PM Flag
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I think amnio tests for even more. I would just do nuchal and then amnio and skip CVS. Then at 20 weeks you also do anatomical scan for any organ abnormalities that cannot be captured with genetic test. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:47 PM Flag
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I would do cvs. I am planning on it for my third. Not sure why (DH will try to talk me out of it) but that's just me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 05:49 PM Flag
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i was u. i turned 35 during my pregnancy. i did the quad screen and had great odds so i did not do cvs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:00 PM Flag
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I didn't do anything more than normal US with both of my DC. My DH and I were willing to accept whatever God gave us, and love the baby just the same. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:03 PM Flag
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I think it's a fair question to OP. If she is firm about terminating in case of any abnormalities, then testing is very important for her, but if she will carry to term no matter what, then regular screening like nuchal will be more than enough, no need for any invasive tests and no need to spend extra money for any fancy blood tests either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:47 PM Flag
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I was 35 when I was pg with #1 and I had nuchal and amnio. I also did genetic screening for DH, because I am a carrier of a recessive genetic disease. The basic genetic testing was done for me as a default. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 06:42 PM Flag
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Did amnio the first time when I was 38. The second time (40) the blood test result put the possibility of down at the lowest possible. So I didn't do any further test. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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OB here: seriously op, there is some much bad information on this thread I don't know where to start. But, it sounds like you've done your homework. At this point, ask your ob. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.13.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks - I certainly will be. But as I suspected, there are new tests out there since 2009, and I am more concerned. I basically want to know if the odds are (largely) in my favor for a healthy child as early as possible without invasive tests unless warranted. I'm not interested in CVS if I have results that say 1000:1 chance or whatever, you know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.14.13, 01:16 PM Flag
[ - ] 14 weeks pregnant and DH and I have not told anyone yet. Feels weird since people with later due dates are now announcing. Not getting an amnio but I feel like because DH wants to remain quiet about this for a few weeks, we can't share our (cautious) optimism. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 03.10.13, 09:29 PM Flag
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congrats! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:32 PM Flag
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Thank you... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:41 PM Flag
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I started showing at 14 - I bet people have an idea [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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it's the boobs! they all know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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OP but I am a busty girl...however, my SIL just posted a pic of us on Facebook and I definitely look pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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congrats. I didn't tell anyone until around that time as well and am 26 weeks now. We just wanted to wait. That ho Kim K and Princess Kate both announced around the same time as I did... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:35 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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Just take your time. You will have less annoying WHENS THE BABY HERE questions because it will go by faster LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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Oh I know, I've had a loss in the past (which hardly anyone knows about) and 1 healthy DC. I have some friends who announced VERY early and it seemed like they were pregnant forever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 09:43 PM Flag
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Better to wait. Friends of ours told everyone at 12 weeks and ended up losing the baby. Felt so bad for them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.10.13, 11:01 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone had a false positive using the ClearBlue Easy Plus pregnancy test. I am 40, have been on Micronor bcp for 8 months. Sometimes I get my period on the pill sometimes I dont. Took a test and got a faint positive. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 03.06.13, 11:31 PM Flag
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Unless you are on HcG, there is no false positives in pregnancy tests. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:38 PM Flag
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Could be a chemical pregnancy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:40 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:44 PM Flag
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That's progestin only. Have you been taking it at the same time every day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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Progestin only pills really need to be taken at the same time every day, there's no wiggle room like with estrogen bcps [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:34 PM Flag
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99% of the time I take it at the same time. Maybe an hour or 2 later MAX [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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you're pregnant! congratulations! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:33 PM Flag
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the digital ones are the most accurate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:39 PM Flag
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This is actually not true. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:40 PM Flag
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Why did you test btw? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:40 PM Flag
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Sorry if you don't want to be pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:42 PM Flag
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Already have a 3 year old - wasnt ready yet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.07.13, 12:56 AM Flag
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preggo! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.06.13, 11:48 PM Flag
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Congratulations? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.07.13, 12:43 AM Flag
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I guess I am happy. I wanted to try in 6 months. I just cant believe at my age and being on the pill that this happened. I've read a lot online that this particular test has a lot of false positives. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.07.13, 03:07 PM Flag
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I guess I am happy. I wanted to try in 6 months. I just cant believe at my age and being on the pill that this happened. I've read a lot online that this particular test has a lot of false positives. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.07.13, 03:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Went home from work sick today, 34 weeks pg. First time this has happened while pg and I got evil, evil looks from my boss. Trying to listen to my body which was telling me to lay down and rest (very loudly). Hoping my boss doesn't now hold this over me, he is a not nice, very out of touch, man. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 03.04.13, 11:11 PM Flag
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one of the reasons women have a harder time getting ahead. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.04.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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You've never seen a guy go home sick? Or worse, come in sick, accomplish nothing but spreading germs all over the place. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.04.13, 11:21 PM Flag
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but he knows it's because she's pregnant or he perceives it so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.04.13, 11:22 PM Flag
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OP - he asked me if it was being pregnant or another illness. I basically said I had no idea, other than I didn't feel well. I don't think it should matter why I was feeling sick. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.04.13, 11:40 PM Flag
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who cares - you know what is most important - live your life, do the best you can for you and your family - hope you feel better soon! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.04.13, 11:15 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.04.13, 11:23 PM Flag
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OP, thank you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.04.13, 11:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Needing some baby boy name suggestions for our final baby. We have two already--Heidi and Rhys-- and feel very uninspired by most boy names we're coming across. Anders and Milo have been keepers thus far. Any suggestions? 41 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 03.02.13, 01:53 AM Flag
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Frederick, Malcolm, Wesley, Douglas [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 01:51 AM Flag
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Jim Bob [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 01:54 AM Flag
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Heinous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:00 AM Flag
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No Anders, no. I like Rocco. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 01:58 AM Flag
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Why the Anders hatred? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:04 AM Flag
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Because it's awful. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:09 AM Flag
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And Rocco's not? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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Anders is a traditional Scandinavian name. Rocco signals Italy, and reminds me of Rocky, I.e.Sylvester Stallone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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Rocco's pretty bad. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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Calvin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 01:58 AM Flag
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Jax, Dane, Wyllie, Owen [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 01:59 AM Flag
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Sullivan [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:00 AM Flag
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August or Axel [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 01:57 AM Flag
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axel is a badass name and not only because of axel rose [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:03 AM Flag
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hans? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:01 AM Flag
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If you're gonna go for Hans, it has to be Han Solo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:07 AM Flag
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I like Anders. DS has one in his class, cute kid and cute name. :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:12 AM Flag
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Is Rhys a boy or girl? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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Rhys is a boy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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Jackson? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:15 AM Flag
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Way too popular, I think. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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Way too popular, I think. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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Way too popular, I think. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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Milo and Otis were famous barnyard animals; remember the film? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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I do. I don't know if it would be pertinent to our kids' generation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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It was a cat and a dog. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 01:16 PM Flag
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I don't like Rhys. I always think Rhys monkeys. If you like the name, perhaps Reese. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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He's already 3 years old. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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What is your family's ethnicity? So far, you've chosen a Germanic nn for Adelheid (Heidi) and a Welsh name (Rhys). Anders is Scandinavian. Are you Jewish? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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My husband's family is English, and mine is Welsh/Austrian. We're not Jewish in the least. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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What does being Jewish have to do with it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 03:08 AM Flag
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Was wondering the same thing myself.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 03:50 AM Flag
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Adal, Bing, Clovis, Darek, Ely, Fritz, Gottfried, Henry, Ingel, Jay, Koen, Lewy, Markos, Neff, Otis, Pepin, Quincy, Rollan, Sigfrid, Tedrick, Uli, Von, Wilbur, Xiomar, Yabel, Zelig [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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BING. Or Gethin. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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Alphabet Mom does it again! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 03:43 AM Flag
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really don't understand the love for Milo on this board. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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+1. It reminds me of a sketchy guy named Miles that everyone calls Milo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 03:07 AM Flag
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I like it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 03:43 AM Flag
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piers, Camilla, Stephan, liesl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 03:42 AM Flag
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Eh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 03:50 AM Flag
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Love Anders. Great name! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 03.02.13, 05:14 AM Flag
[ - ] Having an extremely hard time figuring out if I should be a SAHM or working mom. I am due in May. DH supportive either way. I would probably work part time if anything. Any advice would be helpful. TIA! 48 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 02.24.13, 08:42 PM Flag
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And here we go! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:42 PM Flag
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if you can afford it stay home. i never regretted it. Best memories of my life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:44 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:45 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:09 PM Flag
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I've been both, would just advise waiting until you have DB to decide. Congrats! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:40 PM Flag
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Stay at home and parent your child. Go to work only if you have to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:40 PM Flag
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Uch, seriously? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:41 PM Flag
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Yes seriously! Why have kids & let undocumented worker raise them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:47 PM Flag
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Oh shut up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:48 PM Flag
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Not everyone has an undocumented nanny. Working parents are still parenting their children. Would you say your DH doesn't parent your DC because he works? Stop with this, it's so foolish and antiquated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:49 PM Flag
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^ That was not me, but I did write the first comment. I am a nanny for a family who have no choice but to work and while they spend as much time with DC as they can at the weekend - I am that child's primary carer and I am the person dc called mama as a toddler. DC knows now that I am not mom, but make no mistake that DC punishes mom for not being there. I don't say this to be judgmental - plenty of women on here have to work. I'm saying nothing will compare to mom to your db & if you don't have to work - I would not. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:51 PM Flag
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Oh please. My DCs have always known who mama is. You can't paint all working moms with the same brush based on your experience with one family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:53 PM Flag
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+1. Also, yes you do sound super judgmental. Do you have DCs of your own? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:58 PM Flag
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My dc was more attached to his caregiver :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:10 PM Flag
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Most little kids are, IMO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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ITD. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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You don't sound qualified to be a nanny and you're certainly not a parent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:31 PM Flag
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What do you have against undocumented workers? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:31 PM Flag
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they are criminals [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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don't finalize anything before DC is born. leave as many options as you can open. try working part time and then see how it goes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:45 PM Flag
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+10000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:54 PM Flag
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I decided to sah as childcare would have taken most of my salary and I wanted to be home for the first yr or so. A great part-time gig fell into my lap when db was 8 mons and I've been part-time ever since - 12 yrs. Best of both worlds. DH has health insur. I get a higher consulting rate. Perfect. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:42 PM Flag
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Part-time is best. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:48 PM Flag
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SAH now, go PT later. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:45 PM Flag
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Easier said than done. Just know if you decide to SAH you are very unlikely to re-enter the workforce when you want to at the level and pay at which you left. No, nothing is impossible, but just know someone at your job right now is waiting for your maternity leave so they can take your job. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:50 PM Flag
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ITA. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:56 PM Flag
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Work will always be around, babies grow so fast! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:11 PM Flag
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Says the SAHM [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:13 PM Flag
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Of course I'm a SAHM. I was a WOHM and now I am home. Like I said a job will always be there. My "baby" is now 5 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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^^ have younger dc's as well [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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This is the biggest UB myth going. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:33 PM Flag
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I think both are hard in different ways. WOHM is more work overall, but SAHM is hard in the sense that it's isolating and draining. I chose to SAH and don't regret it, but I didn't love my job, so it wasn't hard to quit [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:49 PM Flag
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It depends on your personality. I have friends who practically are ADD. They can't stay at home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:51 PM Flag
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I did both. Stayed home 6 months, went back to work for 7 months more (part time), then was home for another year after that. You won't really know until you try it. Working part time can be really hard depending on your job. I found that it was as much stress as full time with less money much more to juggle. Ultimately I started my own business and that has been working for me. Gives me flexibility while getting me some $ and time with the kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:50 PM Flag
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Is part-time a feasible option in your field? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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So many factors are involved: your temperament, savings goals, mortgage, loans, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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Curious as to where all of these part-time gigs are to be found? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:58 PM Flag
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LOL right? Let me know when you find the secret stash! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:59 PM Flag
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It's easier to transition to PT if you already have a FT job. I rarely hear anyone got a PT job after being unemployed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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It doesn't sound like your career is your calling. Just give it up and SAH, it might be more fun for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:55 PM Flag
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How much does DH earn? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 08:59 PM Flag
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If you can stay home financially do it. I worked for 1 year, I'm now home. PT jobs are not very easy to come by. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:09 PM Flag
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^^ pt is also not worth giving up all free time for little $$ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:12 PM Flag
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I went back to work full time 4 days a week, BUT ...I already was firmly in a great job of many years under my belt, and successful. Cannot imagine trying to start a new job. No way. It all depends on your hood...if you have lots of great mom friends with babies same age to hang with, you will be happy as a clam. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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It all depends on your personality, finances, and preference. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:26 PM Flag
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I never thought I could stay home. I am entering the fifth year (two DC) and enjoying it. It is isolating initially, partly because we moved to NYC from other places before first DC. Now I can't image working and coming home to take care of two children. I took up some new hobbies too. If financially you can afford it, I would say you at least can try. Of course, you have to be willing to give up your career, at least for a while. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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Did part time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:31 PM Flag
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Can you take the first year off and then return to work if you so desire? If so, I think this is the best option. No matter how supportive a husband is, that first year is completely draining if you return to work just a couple months after giving birth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.24.13, 09:39 PM Flag
[ - ] This is a pretty pointless post by I just need to say it somewhere - this morning I found out I'm pregnant with DC#2! I'm a bit freaked out (did not expect it to happen so fast) and nervous as anything.....but what a Valentine's day! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 02.14.13, 05:27 PM Flag
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congrats [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.14.13, 05:33 PM Flag
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Congratulations! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.14.13, 05:31 PM Flag
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yay! 1st? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.14.13, 05:38 PM Flag
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oh 2nd. how fast? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.14.13, 05:38 PM Flag
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OP: As in, probably our first attempt. Clearly my husband and I would have been the Duggars if we hadn't been careful... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.14.13, 06:21 PM Flag
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nice way to remember this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.14.13, 05:36 PM Flag
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congratulations! hugs! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.14.13, 05:57 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks all! I'm really thankful I could at least write it here! :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.14.13, 06:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Pregnant with DB #2, due at very end of summer. Was wondering if any of the WOHMs on here were ever able to pool their PTO/vacation days to extend the 12 week maternity leave? Have not announced pregnancy yet, but ideally would like to have 12 weeks maternity leave plus my 3 weeks of vacation. When DB #1 was born was at another company and it was too early in year to have accrued PTO, so I took 12 weeks. TIA 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 02.06.13, 06:46 PM Flag
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Sorry for double post! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:47 PM Flag
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I tried to pitch that softly when I came back from my 12wks but it didn't go over terribly well. So I wound up taking random friday's off with vacation days so it made my weeks feel shorter. I think the longer you're fully gone out of the office the worse it looks. But really depends on how family friendly of an industry. For example I'm in finance and would not be pitching the extra 3 wks off if returning in November which is nearing bonus season. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:51 PM Flag
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How about requesting in advance? It's a busy next few months and I probably won't be able to use my PTO before the leave. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:55 PM Flag
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I also think that's hard in advance because they might be worrying you won't come back after the extended time. It shouldn't be this way but I think it is. Again, depends on how family friendly your co is and what your specific role is. What about planning 1wk off in Dec instead? And then take random days too? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:57 PM Flag
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Based on track record, I returned to former job after first DB was born! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:18 PM Flag
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According to another post, you are not worthy of working in your company. As you will be a mother now, everyone else will be doing your work, therefore do not expect to take more than 12 weeks. In fact, some women employers would prefer you not take ML at all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:55 PM Flag
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Who will do your work for you? If you expect others to do your work, how are you are not excess overhead? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:56 PM Flag
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np: In case you were not aware, by law she has 12 weeks- depending on company size. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:03 PM Flag
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She has 12 weeks UNPAID by law. Vacation etc is at discretion of managment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:14 PM Flag
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OP here, I will have unused vacation days. Not asking for anything extra, above or beyond! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:18 PM Flag
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yes, I saved all my vacation time when DB was born. Took 12 weeks, then 1 day a week to use up saved vacation for the next 2 months. Not sure how it works if you take it in weeks, but this enabled me to come back 4 days a week...boss approved [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:03 PM Flag
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FMLA is clear that employers dont have to accept that. You cant save vacation and attach it to FMLA 12 week leave. You are free to use it at scheduled intervals after. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:06 PM Flag
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Problem is maternity leave ends in December so not much time to use after. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:18 PM Flag
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you need to be back 1 day and then can take rest of vacation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 09:02 PM Flag
[ - ] Pregnant with DB #2, due at very end of summer. Was wondering if any of the WOHMs on here were ever able to pool their PTO/vacation days to extend the 12 week maternity leave? Have not announced pregnancy yet, but ideally would like to have 12 weeks maternity leave plus my 3 weeks of vacation. When DB #1 was born was at another company and it was too early in year to have accrued PTO, so I took 12 weeks. TIA 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 02.06.13, 06:46 PM Flag
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Yes, I did this. Took 6 weeks of disability, 4 weeks of unpaid FMLA, and 6 weeks of PTO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:52 PM Flag
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Who did your work for you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:57 PM Flag
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It was spread around people on my team. A 4-month leave is the norm at my company (Tech). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:01 PM Flag
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Maybe norm at YOUR company. If not at OPs, people will resent her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 07:14 PM Flag
[ - ] Name poll (and my first post, please be nice), all over the place with names, having a tough time deciding, 1st DB, not in NYC, current favorites: Elliot, Cameron, Hugo and Felix, middle name Thomas or Edward (family on DH side), last name rhymes with "Brian," but I am of Spanish descent and would love something Spanish-esque (hence Hugo and Felix, currently popular in Spain), however it's hard with such an Irish last name, so not totally tied to that. Suggestions also welcomed, thank you! 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 02.06.13, 02:46 AM Flag
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Hugo Edward Ryan or Hugo Thomas Ryan sounds nice. I like Felix as well, but don't think it works as well as Hugo with an Irish ln. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 02:50 AM Flag
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I agree. I personally like Hugo Thomas best (not crazy about the name Edward). Hugo is a great name - and not too popular here in the states. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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+1 for Hugo Thomas. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:17 AM Flag
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So, Mrs. Ryan, if it's your first post how did you know to ask preemptively for niceness? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 02:47 AM Flag
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ha!! i didn't do that till post #5 or so... learned the hard way!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 02:49 AM Flag
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OP - I figured it was better to start off that way :) And Mrs. Ryan, I do not know who you speak of... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 02:54 AM Flag
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of whom you speak. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:17 AM Flag
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OP - or that :) Pregnancy grammar brain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:25 AM Flag
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I would go with Thomas or Edward over any of those four to be honest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 02:52 AM Flag
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Tomas or Eduardo? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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OP - I live somewhere where Tomas would just become Tom and Eduardo would be Ed, don't want that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 02:58 AM Flag
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Fav Spanish name: Lorenzo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:01 AM Flag
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you sound like dickhead would fit nicely into your family [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:06 AM Flag
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Love Hugo. Cameron is used for girls too much now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:11 AM Flag
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Felix!!! like the others too except Cameron. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:14 AM Flag
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Your child will be the male version of Soledad O'Brien. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:15 AM Flag
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OP - I know, I am hoping to avoid that, hence why I have eliminated many of the more traditional spanish names. But doesn't have to be spanish, would just prefer that if possible. Never thought this would be so hard! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:23 AM Flag
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OP - Any opinions on Elliot? Seems like Hugo is front runner on here so - this is very helpful! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:23 AM Flag
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just so you know, Hugo isn't actually a Spanish name. It is Germanic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:29 AM Flag
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OP - I know, same with Felix, but it works in Spanish as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:34 AM Flag
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Felix=latin word meaning happy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 06:17 AM Flag
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Cameron [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:40 AM Flag
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Definitely yes on Felix. A big no to Cameron. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.06.13, 03:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Thinking about Brooklyn Hospital (Cabbad) vs Mt Sinai (Callipari, tang, etc). We currently live in Brooklyn, but could move to Harlem or somewhere else before my due date. Any advice? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 01.30.13, 03:57 PM Flag
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I wouldn't want to have to go from Harlem to Brooklyn in labor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 03:59 PM Flag
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I agree! It will be scheduled, and we are unknown about moving, it really is just a thought, but Mt. Sinai is in the middle more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:01 PM Flag
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I would go to Mt Sinai - even if you're scheduled, you never know. Just my .02 FWIW. GL! :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:03 PM Flag
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Thank you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:04 PM Flag
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MT S is great --okay, the facilities need an update, but the staff and level of care is excellent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:48 PM Flag
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what facilities need an update, just curious? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 06:03 PM Flag
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Callipari is my OB. LOVE him! Tang delivered my first DC, Callipari my second DC. both excellent. Sinai private rooms are also nice, and they have highest level NICU, in case that is something you are thinking about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:00 PM Flag
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Thank you! I have been hearing so many good things about Callipari, and also Cabbad, but I had a myo with Ascher Walsch at Mt. Sinai already in Sept, and Callipari was recommended by their office. I don't think I can afford the private rooms :( I would have to have it for the entire time (3 nights-4 days b/c of c-section) and they don't let you do it for only 1-2 nights. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:00 PM Flag
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Never heard anything good about Brooklyn Hospital. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:02 PM Flag
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Me neither. It doesn't seem to compare, just heard good things about Cabbad, and if we do stay in brooklyn it is really conveniently close. But, if all goes well, it will just be a scheduled c-section [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:04 PM Flag
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Didnt they have a sexual assualt in the ER yesterday? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:11 PM Flag
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is that a joke? that is crazy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:15 PM Flag
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just found it on the news, that is not a good sign, thanks for the alert [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:17 PM Flag
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Mt Sinai isn't hard to get to from Brooklyn, it's a straight shot up the FDR. (Much easier than SLR, for example.) And if they put you on the unrenovated PP floor (5), the nurses are really sweet - that's also where they put antepartum patients on HBR so they seem to get an assortment of nurses who are a little extra caring/reassuring. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.30.13, 04:50 PM Flag
[ - ] I just found out I'm pregnant, am barely 4 weeks with third dc. I already feel queasy... I don't remember feeling it this early with the first two. Anyone else experience nausea so early on? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 01.28.13, 01:14 AM Flag
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yup [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:15 AM Flag
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Yes but that's usually the first sign I'm pregnant - even before I missed my period. Oh - and my nausea lasts the entire pregnancy. Hope I'm not cursing you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:18 AM Flag
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Your sense of smell causes morning sickness, so find a clip that doesn't hurt and put it on there. Stay away from strong odors and chemicals. Eating lemons worked for me. Stay away from toilets, and use the nose clip around pungent odors so you do not projectile vomit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:19 AM Flag
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I kept a ziplock bag of fresh cut lemons in my bag at all times so i could smell it instead of any other odor that would hit me on the train, walking to work, sitting at work. I had SERIOUS smell issues. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:24 AM Flag
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OP - thanks! This was a bit of a surprise and I'm paranoid i'm having twins [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:22 AM Flag
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It's normally not supposed to start until 9 weeks, but at a restaurant my friend couldn't stand the smell of bacon that no one else could smell at 4 weeks and that's how we found out she was pregnant. She had a single girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:38 AM Flag
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That is funny,I figured out I was pregnant because I could smell my neighbors smoking through my heater and my dh thought I was crazy. I'm having a girl too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:42 AM Flag
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How can you know at 4 weeks, OP? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:46 AM Flag
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This!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:50 AM Flag
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OP here, That wasn't me, different poster. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:52 AM Flag
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Yes,I am not op. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:56 AM Flag
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You really can't be "barely 4 weeks"....4 weeks would be the day when your period was due. You count your weeks by the first day of your last period....then go from there. You are obviously more than 4 weeks or a pregnancy test wouldn't even show a postitive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:46 AM Flag
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NP - you do realize that pregnancy tests can show a positive up to 5 days before a missed period, right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 01:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Looking for c-section experiences. Positive shared room experiences? Or places in NYC where a private room doesn't cost extra? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 01.26.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Bump [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.27.13, 01:13 AM Flag
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I had 2 c-sections at Lenox Hill. The first night w/first DD I didn't get a private room and it was a nightmare. The mother and baby cried all night, and since I didn't get into the room til 1am it was pretty brutal. If you can swing a private room DO IT. I don't think there are private rooms in NYC where you don't need to pay more. CT, LI and NJ - privates are the norm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.27.13, 05:19 AM Flag
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Thank you. I am thinking more and more we should get a private room. At least for the first night. I hear lihc in Brooklyn they are only $200. But I think we should not have that be a factor in making our decision. It would only be a difference of 300-600. I am thinking we could have a private the first and maybe second night. Thinking of it as an insurance deductible or something. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.27.13, 12:26 PM Flag
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If you are still watching this - I used my HSA to fund private room. At Lenox Hill it was 750 a night or something. That was in May - up from 400 in 2010 when I had DD. The nurses said it was because of Beyonce factor! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 09:23 PM Flag
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Private room is nice. To put it in context, it's like the most worthwhile hotel room you'll ever pay for. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.28.13, 09:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Choosing OB/Hospital for my C-section (September). Anyone have experience with the following hospitals for C-section: Mt. Sinai, NYU, Lenox Hill, Brooklyn Hospital? I live in Brooklyn, but it will be scheduled, so don't see why going to Manhattan wouldn't be doable. Thanks! 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 01.25.13, 03:25 PM Flag
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sooooooooo many previous posts on this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:30 PM Flag
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I accidentally posted more than once, sorry about that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:28 PM Flag
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no, no...I mean, just do a search and you'll find a wealth of information already covered on this topic. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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of course given the poor search function, i think she is right to repost [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:38 PM Flag
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Yeah, I am searching but there are so many to weed through, thought this might be more efficient. But will keep looking on my own too! Thank you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:41 PM Flag
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Just please don't do SLR. Their recovery nurses are the worst. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:47 PM Flag
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ok, thanks for the tip! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 04:24 PM Flag
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I found the opposite there - loved the recovery nurses to death. They were awesome. However I had vaginal births so I'm talking about the post-partum floor, not recovery room after surgery. L&D nurses at SLR, on the other hand, were quite mean. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 04:33 PM Flag
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see, and i had fantastic nurses on regular L&D at SLR(I was there several times before i delivered) and found the post-partum ones to be OK, but not good. But i have yet to hear anyone sing the praises of PP nurses. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 07:07 PM Flag
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Had a c, not planned, at Mt. Sinai last September. Amazing experience. Used Chen/Morgan OB. Chen did the surgery. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:48 PM Flag
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Thanks, I feel good about Mt Sinai, I had my myomectomy there in Sept, so I feel fairly comfortable because I have been there before. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 04:25 PM Flag
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I had my C-section with Callipari at Mt Sinai and was up and walking the following morning! Small and very low scar. Definitely doable from Brooklyn, just remember that by the end of pregnancy you'll need to go more frequently for check-ups. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:58 PM Flag
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I have him down as one of my top possibilities! I scheduled a first appointment in two weeks, but he is too full to take me, so I have to see Dr. Tang. Do you have any experience with any of the other Dr's in that practice? Also, were you able to have your baby on your chest right away or did they take her/him away to do all the vitals and then you could have skin to skin/breastfeeding? Is your baby sleeping next to you or in a different room? Thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 04:23 PM Flag
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He's great! I met Tang only once, she seemed nice as well, I think they're all good. No, not able to hold baby on chest right away but it was all very pleasant. They quickly checked DB and then wrapped her and handed her to DH. They handed DB to me for BF once I was in the recovery room - it seemed rather quick, but I honestly don't remember how much time there was in between. They are pretty adamant about BF and will help you with that. You can choose whether to have DB next to you in the room or not. If not, they roll them in to your room whenever they need to BF. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 05:14 PM Flag
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Did you have a private or shared room? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.26.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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I don't think NYU has re-opened yet. I believe they are still sending all their OB patients to LH. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 04:01 PM Flag
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They opened Jan 14th! Just called... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 06:48 PM Flag
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I had one unplanned Emergency C and 2 planned C's at Cornell. 3 healthy babies and a really good experience. I would highly recommend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 04:07 PM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 04:25 PM Flag
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Choose based on OB practice, not the hospital. All hospitals in NYC are kind of meh, and the nurses are hit or miss. What you really want to know is who covers for your OB - I know it's scheduled, but things happen. My first C/S was at a hospital I won't name, dr. I had never met before from a different practice covering for my regular OB (whom I really like, btw.) Had complications in 2d pregnancy, went to hi-risk practice at a different hospital, where top MFM certified OB did my C/S and later asked "who did this to you?!?" in reference to the scarring from the first. I don't know if it's just one of those things or if 1st doc did a bad job, that's why I won't name, but ask all the OBs who takes call for them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 07:06 PM Flag
[ - ] I am looking for an amazing OB in NYC. (I am in first trimester, first time) I need to have a c-section and am 36, so I am looking for someone potentially High Risk. But, I am hoping for someone who is alternative minded. I have read some Dr's do c-sections differently and are more conscious of the mother wanting to hold the baby asap, and making it as close to a natural birth as possible given the circumstances. Thanks 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 01.25.13, 12:51 PM Flag
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Dr. Janice Marks East 79th St. High Risk ob gyn. She delivered my 3rd child and is amazing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 01:52 PM Flag
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and gl! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 01:52 PM Flag
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Thank you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:04 PM Flag
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Dr Geeta Sharma delivered my high risk baby. Loved her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 01:57 PM Flag
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Thanks, she isn't under my insurance either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:22 PM Flag
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Janice Marks is my OBGYN too. Delivered all three of my children. She is wonderful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:11 PM Flag
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She isn't in my insurance :( She looks great! (United Health Care) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:15 PM Flag
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Lawrence Cutler. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:15 PM Flag
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Thank you! Not covered under my insurance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:26 PM Flag
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Dr. Lee! Same practice as Sharma and Kalish but much better bedside manner and really an awesome doctor and person. Would completely recommend her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:25 PM Flag
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Thanks, what's Dr Lee's first name? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:26 PM Flag
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Dr. Buterman, upper east side. Not "alternative" minded, but the best bedside manner...and really will work with you in terms of what you want/expect. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:26 PM Flag
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Thank you! not covered... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:26 PM Flag
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Oh, that's too bad! What insurance do you have? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:34 PM Flag
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United Health Care (through NYSHIP) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:47 PM Flag
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I have UHC, just had db! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:51 PM Flag
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Ok, I will call the office :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:53 PM Flag
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Yes, he does take it, that's weird that he doesn't show up as covered, thanks for following up with me on that! You had c-section? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:01 PM Flag
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I had a c-sec because baby was in trouble. Baby was big to start with, was not descending well, but he let me keep trying until it actually just became unsafe. He is an excellent surgeon though! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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^^ and he's older, has been around for ages, the hospital staff love and know him well (which really helps IMO) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:35 PM Flag
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I seriously can't believe anyone could have had a good experience with him! I went on a recommendation once and was in complete shock he could have come recommended. It was a holiday and he was trying to cover for another doctor, but I was there for 3+ hours. After he had seen me and asked me to wait in his office, I did that for another half hour...when I heard him in the hall saying, who is [insert my name]....I ended up finding Dr. Matut whom I loved. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:33 PM Flag
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PP:Sorry you had a bad experience with him, but i wouldn't discourage others from using him. Honestly, he can be a little "cold" on the regular, routine visits, but when it comes down to the day of delivery he is VERY warm and paternal like. He held my hand with my head on his shoulder in the OR while I was waiting for the spinal and in pain. He gave me a huge hug when he found me crying in my room pp. He would come and sit with me and chat pp while he was waiting for other patients in labor. I couldn't ask for more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:39 PM Flag
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His office staff is not the best and it is true that he is a little detached during regular visits, but if you ask him questions he always answers in detail and does not rush you. And he is amazing during delivery, works to avoid c-sections, and has years and years of experience so he really knows what he is doing, which is all that matters when you want a good, safe delivery. I had my dd with him, he was at the hospital with me from 11 pm to 1 pm the next day and I felt like I was in good hands, I could trust him. So mine was a good xperience. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.20.13, 08:50 PM Flag
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NYU. Just deliver at NYU. I had 2 c/s at nyu and this is their default practice by rule. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:33 PM Flag
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Thanks. I started looking at the Dr's and the first one is covered. Dr Lerner...so that's a good sign. NYU Langone, right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 02:47 PM Flag
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Yes! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:42 PM Flag
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You can try Lee Ellen Morrone. UES [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:53 PM Flag
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she won't be on your insurance, but the office can call your plan and tell you how much you can expect to pay. Mt. S hospital will be on your plan. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.25.13, 03:54 PM Flag
[ - ] 1st DB is due tomorrow. On Thurs I had intense contractions for 2 hours, then they died down. On Fri I had lighter contractions for 3 hours. Last night nothing! We are so excited to meet the baby (don't know sex). What did you do to help your body go into labor naturally? Did it work? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 12.09.12, 03:46 PM Flag
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I walked and walked and walked. Everyday, anywhere from 3-6 miles, including on the treadmill. Who knows if it worked, but I did go into labor on my due date. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.09.12, 04:04 PM Flag
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I'm not sure anything works but patience. My dd came almost a week late. Tough at the end. You sort of feel like a ticking time bomb, but I really don't think there is much you can do. DB will be here soon! Congrats. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.09.12, 04:09 PM Flag
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spicy food [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.09.12, 04:33 PM Flag
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How exciting for you! I remember that feeling!! Keep walking--that works best. I have also heard one glass of wine advised to some women (I never did that) and the old standby (and joke in many TV shows) -- orgasm. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.09.12, 04:48 PM Flag
[ - ] 35 weeks pg. The knuckle on my left middle finger hurts, like I can't even make a fist. If it gets into a fist, it won't open up on it's own without pain. What the heck is going on? Right middle finger knuckle hurts in the morning, but wears off soon. Is this related to joints opening up during pregnancy or something else? I am 28 and worried I am getting arthritis or something. I know this is a weird question, but thanks anyway. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 11.08.12, 04:02 PM Flag
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my wrists were in severe pain when i was pregnant & my fingers would go numb. dr. said it was totally normal due to fluid retention. it should ease up after you have the baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 11.08.12, 04:04 PM Flag
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It can be due to the relaxin hormone but also nerve entrapment, like Carpal Tunnel is not uncommon in pregnancy due to fluids and relaxin. It should subside shortly after pregnancy, if that's what it is. If it doesn't you need further evaluation because it can be arthritis also. That's exactly where I DO have arthritis. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 11.08.12, 04:07 PM Flag
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it's the weather [ Reply | More
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General Topics 11.08.12, 04:27 PM Flag
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The weather wouldn't do that if you have normal, healthy joints though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 11.08.12, 04:33 PM Flag
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And I am in CA anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 11.08.12, 04:57 PM Flag
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