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[ - ] What is the best NYC hospital for a 1st time Mom (or any expectant Mom)? Thoughts on Weill Cornell? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.17.13, 12:54 PM Flag
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I had a great experience as a first time mom at Weill Cornell. Very helpful and attentive staff. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 01:01 PM Flag
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+1 staff was amazing. loved my experience there - wouldnt deliver anywhere else in the city [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 01:57 PM Flag
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I love Cornell. I personally think it's the best hospital in the city. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 01:16 PM Flag
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Agree. Although there are not many private rooms. I wasn't able to get one till the second night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 01:23 PM Flag
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Me too. I chose my OBGYN specifically because her practice delivered out of Cornell/NYP. Very happy with my experience there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 01:41 PM Flag
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I was very happy with NYU-Langone. Nurses were great - in labor rm and post-partum. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 01:24 PM Flag
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I drove to jersey to give birth. NYC hospitals are too dirty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 01:43 PM Flag
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nah, don't like the jersey birth certificate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 01:41 PM Flag
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Oh right you want it to say Lenox hill. Deep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 02:01 PM Flag
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Nurses at NYU-Langone are amazing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 03:29 PM Flag
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Interesting: my experience with the NYU nursing staff was pretty awful. But it was about a decade ago, so maybe things have changed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 05:35 PM Flag
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St Lukes/Roosevelt [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.13, 05:32 PM Flag
[ - ] New to NY from LDN, due to have 4th csec in Dec. can anyone recommend a skillfull surgeon? Was looking at Pres or Lennox hospitals. As this will be my last baby would ideally love to have my abdominal muscles mended and a tummy tuck done . Any advice? Many thanks. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.15.13, 01:59 PM Flag
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I didn't know any doctor recommended a 4th c-section. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.13, 02:03 PM Flag
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Thank you. Yes I know it's a bit of a stretch (no pun intended). Was hoping for a recommendation of experienced surgeons. Maybe someone else will come on this thread who can share some tipps. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.13, 02:12 PM Flag
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No idea. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.13, 02:10 PM Flag
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GL. Sounds high-risk and not sure any doctor will take you on this late in the game. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.13, 04:00 PM Flag
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Robin Kalish at Cornell (NY Pres) does high risk. Not a big hand holder IME but great dr. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.13, 04:54 PM Flag
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Sorry meant to say my EDD is January 13th but this being my 4th csec it will be a week 37 delivery, hence the Dec date estimation. I am currently 10 weeks. Thank you so much, I will google Dr. Khalish. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.13, 06:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have any solid recommendations for a nice trip to someplace out of NYC but not too far a distance? Was hoping for a beach but don't know how possible that would be. We could go for up to 7 days, but it can't be much more than an hour out for medical reasons. TIA 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.12.13, 06:17 PM Flag
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What kind of medical reasons ?can you flight instead ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:11 PM Flag
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north fork-Peonic bay medical center is there as is eastern long island hospital. the hamptons have southampton hospital. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:17 PM Flag
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Is mystic CT too far? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:18 PM Flag
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Fire island, cape cod, Rhode Island? We do live on the coast. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:12 PM Flag
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OP: I'm the lady with placenta previa and will have to cancel the lovely vacation we had planned. Probably should avoid flying, unless it was only an hour or so. Trying to figure out if we have any options or if I'll be spending my only vacation for a while well...working. It would be for the first week of July, so not much advance warning... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:22 PM Flag
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So sorry you are dealing with this! Please take a "vacation at home." Drive out to Rockway Beaches during the day, go for a walk in the Botanic Gardens, visit MoMA or the Met, go out for some really nice lunches... remember, people spend a gazillion dollars to stay in NYC and do what we take for granted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:19 PM Flag
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This! Be a tourist in NY for the week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:26 PM Flag
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Good point. Check out city island, Riis beach... Google hidden spots in NYC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:21 PM Flag
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What week in your pregnancy will the trip be? I wouldn't do an island with a ferry with no easy hospital access. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:39 PM Flag
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Op: It will be week 24. I'm looking at places more on a main land with hospitals nearby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 07:26 PM Flag
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I missed any other threads but PP is normal at this early stage. Do you have a history of PP? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 07:28 PM Flag
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OP: No. This is my second DS. I never had a CS either, so I've been told it isn't *that* big of a deal at this point...more of an incidental finding I should be careful of. If it stays past week 28 obviously it's a bigger issue to worry about. But it is my understanding that since I have this now - while it is unlikely anything will happen in the next few weeks - if it did, it would be much worse than of I didn't have it. That said, neither my OB or the MFM doctor were concerned and I don't technically have travel restrictions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 07:47 PM Flag
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OP: Thank you ladies, kindly. I really am desperate to get out of NYC in the worst way for a little bit. I know I have to just suck it up and deal, but we've had a rough year so this is just the cherry on top for me right now! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:39 PM Flag
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OR... how about this: http://www.buttermilkfallsinn.com/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 07:01 PM Flag
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Op: Never heard of this place and it looks lovely...but they don't have any availability...which I fear will be an issue in many places. Argh. Thank you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 07:00 PM Flag
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np: I understand. I would pick a high end hotel in the city with an outdoor pool and have a staycation. Go out to great restaurants, use the spa, pretend you're not in NYC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 07:07 PM Flag
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Get ILs or sitter to watch DC, treat yourselves to a night or two at The Mark or any posh hotel in Manhattan. Best of luck to you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:40 PM Flag
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Mohonk Mountain House? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:48 PM Flag
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OP: I was thinking maybe this would work. It's 40 minutes form the nearest hospital, but said hospital has a decent neonatal unit, etc so it could work. Thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:59 PM Flag
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Cape May? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 06:52 PM Flag
[ - ] I am 21 weeks pregnant and just diagnosed with complete placenta previa. I am well aware that it shouldn't be a long term issue, but for now I am on pelvic rest. The issue is that we are supposed to go to St Lucia in a few weeks and will be about 40 minutes from the nearest hospital with any intensive care (to what degree, who knows). My OB says I am at no more risk with previa than I would be just normally pregnant, however at 24 weeks, the fetus is considered viable so it would be a life and death situation if something were to happen. If you were in my shoes, would you go or cancel? 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.12.13, 02:51 PM Flag
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cancel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:52 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:46 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:47 PM Flag
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I wouldn't go if I were in your shoes. Not worth the risk and I wouldn't be able to relax. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:46 PM Flag
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I would cancel. It's not worth the risk--St. Lucia will still be there in a few months and you can enjoy it with your baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:46 PM Flag
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Go to Miami instead. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:47 PM Flag
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Yes. Or anywhere you will be close to a hospital. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:58 PM Flag
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Cancel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:49 PM Flag
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Cancel 100% [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:52 PM Flag
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OP: Ok! So it seems like everyone seems to agree. Any suggestions on where my DH, 3yo DS, and I can go - beach vacation - that is also near a major hospital? :p Probably East coast preferred. I'm really bummed by this because I don't see us bring able to attempt this again for a few years. Our budget was pretty large (had a private villa at Sugar Beach) so give me your best shot, please... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:54 PM Flag
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Hamptons? Cape cod? I know I know, not St Lucia :( Could you do west coast? LA, Santa Barbara? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 02:56 PM Flag
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go some where close, low stress - lots of places up the coast of CT, RI and MA - just do something scaled down and save the money for after baby is born and go on a nicer vacation then [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:09 PM Flag
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Cancel [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:01 PM Flag
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Are you allowed to fly? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:05 PM Flag
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OP: Yes, however my OB strongly suggests we be close to a hospital with an intensive care unit...even though I'm technically not at any more risk now to go into pre-term labor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:09 PM Flag
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I would absolutely cancel. Have you ever been to St. Lucia? The roads are winding mountain roads with hair-pin curves. Really difficult driving. Or you have to take a boat to get to another part of the island and then get in a car. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:05 PM Flag
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OP: I have not, but have been to the other islands. I know the roads might be bad, which is why I'm willing to give up on this...but we were supposed to leave in a few weeks so now I either find a decent alternative fast or we scrap the last vacation we'll have in a while (and we haven't been anywhere in a long time either so this extra hurts!) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:07 PM Flag
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Every island is different. I used to work in the Caribbean and I have been to virtually every Caribbean island. St. Lucia was by far the most difficult place to drive! Verrrrry slow going because of the mountains and the curves. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:18 PM Flag
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OP: Is there another island you'd recommend, with good hospitals in mind? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:14 PM Flag
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Grand Cayman. It does not remotely compare to the beauty of St. Lucia (it's a very developed, flat island with no lush vegetation), but the hospital is good and fairly close to the tourist part of the island. I used to live there, so I have first-hand experience with the hospital. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:26 PM Flag
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OP: Thank you - I've been to GC so I know what you're talking about...but your insight into the hospital helps. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:30 PM Flag
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NP - don't rely on the intensive care at ANY hospital in the Caribbean, OP. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:30 PM Flag
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no kidding. nuts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:06 PM Flag
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NFW would I go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:26 PM Flag
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NFW would I go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:26 PM Flag
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Cancel. No question. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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Oh honey no. Cancel. I hope it resolves for you but I was hospitalized with PP at 27 weeks, and 28, and again from 30-35 when DB was born. This is life threatening to you and DB if you start to bleed. Your OB needs to get serious with you on this, get a second opinion from MFM specialist. Not worth traveling. I totally get it because my older DC was 3 too and not too psyched that summer vacation was visiting mommy in the hospial every day. Go next winter, little babies are easier to travel with than toddlers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:55 PM Flag
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Voice of sanity [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:58 PM Flag
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OR above: Even the completely lame MFM team at my first hospital told me no travel, not even on JetBlue to see my mom 1 hour away. I did not take it seriously enough until one of the high risk guys at the practice I switched to told me "women die from this." So grateful he was that blunt with me, I needed to hear it. OP, please don't take chances. If you are lucky it will move but you have another DC to think about too, please don't risk your life for vacation, even sitting in stupid traffic on I-95 to the Cape. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:04 PM Flag
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OP: I was told my risk was no more than anyone else's. I wasn't given any travel restrictions. Yes, I know this is serious - however I have been told it is serious if it doesn't move and quite frankly, at 21 weeks it is unlikely a problem. If it were, my OB would say no, right? I get it - I won't to St Lucia but I do not plan to sit at home all summer doing nothing because something *might* happen. More than likely, nothing will happen. I get that the risk is my own, but not a single doctor (inc the MFM team) has said my exact case all that serious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:10 PM Flag
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So what I was told at 21 weeks was no travel, take it easy, pelvic rest, no exercise, no heavy lifting. And everything was okay for another few weeks. It's true that it becomes more dangerous right around beginning of 3d tri - hence my first hospitalization a mere week after the second scan. You said your trip was in "a few weeks" - f you can wait to cancel w/o penalty, then wait, but don't plan on being able to go. If you want to go somewhere now, don't go by plane, there is no ER on a plane. I'm sorry about your vacation and hope everyhting works out well for you. ". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:26 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks. I wasn't given any travel restrictions and my travel is for the first week of July. Sadly, we will cancel it now because I think there are penalties. I know I have to do what has to be done, but as I've been told not to worry about it at all I feel like there are some mixed messages. This placenta had *better* move to make this whole cancelled vacation worthwhile :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 05:36 PM Flag
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OP: Thank you for weighing in. My OB has been serious with me and is almost certain the placenta will move since I'm only 21 weeks. She has not restricted travel, however I get that I shouldn't to any place more adventurous now. I will get another scan at 28 weeks to see if things have resolved, so it isn't an issue we are taking lightly. It's just hard to let go of a dream vacation when we won't be traveling (for several reasons) for several years after this (so no winter vacation possible). I get that we shouldn't go to St Lucia...but would love suggestions on where people *would* deem possible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:07 PM Flag
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Ok, I'm just the mom who spent 6 weeks in and out of 2 hospitals and had a (thank god, healthy) preemie but I think your OB is downplaying it. I was diagnosed at the 20 week scan (actually dr could see it at 11 during CVS) and re-scanned at 26, still there. If it is posterior it may move; if anterior less likely. Please see about an MFM consult especially if you had previous C/S. The thing is that given its placement it can be irritated, which can cause bleeding. If you bleed heavily, they can't stop it. They have to deliver you. Get a re-scan in 4-5 weeks and if it's good news, rent a nice house on Kiawah or Sea Island or something. If you are in NYC call Carnegie Imaging for a second opinion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:18 PM Flag
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OP: I'm glad your baby is ok. I have had no previous CS. I was told it was too soon to see exactly where it was (posterior or anterior). I have another scan scheduled for when I am 28/29 weeks. Literature I've read said PP, if it's going to shift, will do so around that time so any earlier isn't beneficial to check. Sadly, we can *only* travel for the first week of July for other reasons. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:26 PM Flag
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why can't you take a vacation next year? what's happening in your life that it will be several years before you can go on vacation again? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:19 PM Flag
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Let's just say DH has a very demanding career and it isn't as easy as it should be to get away, all of us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:27 PM Flag
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yea well - i woudl probably guilt him in to making it happen; at least a nice long weekend somewhere and drop the need to travel now when yours and babys health is at stake [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:28 PM Flag
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you insane? cancel it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 03:50 PM Flag
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it goes either way. 1. you lose out on the trip now, and have a healthy baby, take the trip later. 2. you take the trip now and risk you and db's health [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 04:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone done a microarray test? My OB suggested it due to our ages and I'm awaiting the results (four weeks!) Just wondering if anyone had BTDT and had any interesting or unexpected results. TIA. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.11.13, 07:04 PM Flag
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We did it. I wavered a little but decided to go ahead and do it. We were having a CVS for a single gene disorder and so we added that on as well. Our results came back normal but I was concerned we might find out something that we didn't really want to know (if that makes sense). But the chances of finding out something useful far surpassed any worries. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.13, 07:22 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks. We also did CVS but OB suggested microarray because dh and I are much older and have a family history of all sorts of crazy stuff. And yes, your comment makes sense. Apparently with microarray there are often results that could be either here or there, and people do realize they just were/are better off not knowing. But I know for us that if the slightest thing shows up, we'll terminate. We're just not at a place age-wise or financially to handle it. Glad everything came back normal for you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.13, 05:45 PM Flag
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What is this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.13, 07:45 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm 20weeks pregnant and was just told I have a low laying placenta. This is my second child, and my first was not a CS. I've been told 90% of the time this resolves itself (ie, it never turns into placenta previa) and I was just curious if anyone on here faced the same thing and what the outcome was? I'm not terribly concerned...yet. Will get checked out again in 2 months. TIA! 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.10.13, 04:26 PM Flag
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I had it, nothing happened. Everything was fine. 90% is good odds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:24 PM Flag
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OP: Did you have any restrictions? I agree 90% is good odds, but I like to know what I'm dealing with from real people! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:35 PM Flag
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OR: of course, I totally understand (I was trying to be nice)! :) Didn't really have any restrictions - OB was not concerned in the slightest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:37 PM Flag
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Op: Thank you - I promise I read your response as nice! :p I'm glad your OB wasn't concerned. I haven't heard from mine yet, but assume I would if she was very worried. The doctor that reviewed the anatomical didn't even mention it - I had to ask her because only the tech said something about it...hoping that is a good sign! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:47 PM Flag
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Absolutely - it was a few years ago, but I seem to remember OB saying she only really got concerned when the placenta was actually low enough to be blocking the cervix (like all the way down at the bottom of the uterus), not just low-lying. GL - I hope it all works out! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:42 PM Flag
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OP: Your OB sounds a lot like how mine would react. I just really would rather avoid the whole situation :p [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 05:00 PM Flag
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Obviously - might be the same one (I had Waterstone)! But from what I gathered, if you're going to have an issue, this is a "good" one to have. :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 05:01 PM Flag
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OP: Oh that's a nice way to look at it! I do admit I like the odds, but my DH is freaking out because *I* could be hurt...no matter how many times I tell him it is worst case. my OB is Bradley - but same mentality! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 05:40 PM Flag
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I had that with my first pregnancy and was diagnosed at 20 weeks. Had to abstain from sex, exercise, and airplane flying. It resolved itself by 30 weeks and I resumed traveling by plane up until 34 weeks. Not a big deal at all, just take it easy and best of luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:24 PM Flag
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OP: Wow - you had restrictions? I was just told they would monitor it...no one told me not to travel or have sex! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:34 PM Flag
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OR, yes. My doctor did not want me flying or exercising vigorously (was not doing that, anyway). Maybe mine was in a worse position than yours? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:53 PM Flag
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OP: Yeah, I get the feeling that since they feel like it *could* move it likely will. They said the cervix was good and strong. I wasn't given much more information, however! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.13, 04:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Expecting our first baby and my mom wants to throw us a baby shower. I know showers are the done thing in NY, but something feels awkward about it to me...a party for which the purpose is to be showered with gifts? I love other people's showers...the girliness, the adorable baby clothes, but something about it feels off or greedy to me to have one thrown on my behalf. Didn't have a bridal shower either for this reason. I know my female relatives would enjoy it so much...should I just try to get over this? Anyone else ever feel this way? 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.08.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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Jews don't do this nonsense. Bad luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:05 PM Flag
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yeah - get over it - Jewish peeps don't do it, but many other cultures do and it's a nice day you get to spend with family and friends and eat some good cake - yes, it's a huge plus to also get some awesome gifts - but don't feel greedy about it - everyone does it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:08 PM Flag
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Well, not everyone. See above. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:09 PM Flag
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OP: forgot about this. In England, where I lived for past decade, feeling was the same. People were superstitious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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ITA with you but in hindsight you should just let people do what they want to do for you. I felt the same way about a wedding shower that I didn't need. But for some reason it makes people so happy to do this stupid stuff. Just tell them you want something really simple and that spending time is more important than gifts. Make a registry but keep it short and sweet. Congrats! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:07 PM Flag
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OP: it does tend to make friends and family happy - and I'm sure I'll enjoy it once it's happening...think I just need to get over the conceptual resistance! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:16 PM Flag
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Yup, I know it's hard, but I think you will look back fondly on it, especially if you keep it simple. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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Yes, it's so hard to have your friends gather for some food and presents to celebrate having a baby. Hang on your cross. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:34 PM Flag
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Its fun to shop for baby clothes, and celebrating life changes. Allow the people who love you to celebrate this milestone in the way they know best. The shower is about you, but really its not and most of the day you will hear everyone telling their stories about their first DB. Congratulations! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:15 PM Flag
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Np you could even do a game where people write down advice or something similar. Makes it more like welcome-to-being-a-mother not like gift grab or all about you . And older people really really get a kick out of showers [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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Your Mom should not throw it - it should be done by one her friends or one of yours. Ask them to keep it small and intimate. It can be hard to be the center of attention and the object of generosity, but you should try to get over those feelings. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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I didn't even think of this. That is weird if I let my mom throw it, isn't it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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Not if she wants to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:34 PM Flag
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It is inappropriate for your Mom to throw your shower - goole some etiquette websites [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:36 PM Flag
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*google [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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Do the baby shower police come and arrest you? If it makes your mom happy then let her do it. No one cares about that stuff anymore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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except the people who are invited [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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Why would they care? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:35 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 10:03 PM Flag
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Bring a date! Even if a friend, it will change the dynamic from awkward to less awkward for you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:11 PM Flag
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Sorry wrong thread ^^^^ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:12 PM Flag
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But that does sound like a more fun way to go to a baby shower! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:23 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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Although bringing a date to your own baby shower would certainly change the dynamic. Might make it more, not less, awkward, but YMMV. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:23 PM Flag
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This made me laugh - thanks! (OP) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:32 PM Flag
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Get over this, your friends want to do nice things for you. Just accept it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 09:33 PM Flag
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Yup. It is a nice thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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Let others have fun. I hate parties for me more than anyone and gritted my teeth when a friend threw one for me. It was OK, but she felt the need to do it. I got a lot of nice presents. It felt fake. I think had I rebelled I never would have heard the end of it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.13, 10:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Pregnant WOHM due with DC#2 in the late summer. Looking for some cream-colored or white pants. Any suggestions of where to look? Looking for some pairs that are more casual and others that can be spruced up for work. Would hate to spend a fortune but willing to buy a nice pair or two. Thank you. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.06.13, 02:23 PM Flag
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No offense, but you are going to look like a fat nurse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.13, 02:21 PM Flag
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Thanks! I am tall and not carrying huge (yet). I really need some lighter colored pants. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.13, 02:30 PM Flag
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Get some dresses. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.13, 02:25 PM Flag
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Ha will do! Trying to find some empire waist dresses. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.13, 02:34 PM Flag
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I disagree..white pants and a colorful top would look great. I'd look at Old Navy or Gap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.13, 02:35 PM Flag
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I got a cute pair of white maternity pants from the gap when I was pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.13, 02:42 PM Flag
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I am wearing gap white always skinny jeans today and love them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.13, 03:09 PM Flag
[ - ] Any former WOHMs who became SAHMs after the arrival of DC#2? I am expecting DC#2 in the late summer, am miserable at my job, and would love to take some time off beyond 12 weeks of maternity leave. I ought to work but need to find a new field. My job is beyond frustrating and although I do like to work, the hormones and frustration of my current position make me really sad to be away from home during the day. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.29.13, 12:02 PM Flag
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You don't have to decide right now. See how your leave goes, how you feel managing two, etc. you might be able to try to extend your leave at your current job. I think you should definitely make the change if you want to, but give yourself time to settle into your new life before making any decisions [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 12:35 PM Flag
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This is SO normal. I was you. I stuck it out and it was hard but am happy I stayed at work. I would be unemployable now if I had quit. Staying in the job allowed us to stay in the city. You might just ride it out, dial it in at work for a while, and later move to a better job. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 12:54 PM Flag
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this. during pregnancy it seems impossible, but once you go back after maternity leave you may be glad you kept your job. no need to make the decision today. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:21 PM Flag
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I mostly enjoyed it - but you never know what will happen with your DH's career, so it's better to have two incomes I guess. It could be very hard to reenter your career, depending on what you do, keep that in mind. I would try to negotiate a longer (unpaid) leave with your employer. I regret not having done that because I want/need to return to work and I just. can't. find. anything. I have excellent credentials and have been out only for 2 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:14 PM Flag
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Yes but I also knew I did not want to continue with that career (big law) with 2 kids. Still a SAHM right now and exploring new fields for when younger dc starts school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:16 PM Flag
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I stopped working after my 2nd. It was great until it wasn't. Getting back into work force is way harder than getting another job. All positions I was looking at were for a small fraction of what I made (I was a banker so hard to go back after a break). Finally found a job working for a family member that was starting something. I also found (for me not generalizing) that my the example of dad working and mom not working set a bad example for 3 dds. I am much, much happier working and so are my girls and my dh. But it's all individual no right or wrong answers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:19 PM Flag
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What do you do? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:25 PM Flag
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I'm on the account side at an ad agency. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:33 PM Flag
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my dc is 12 months - nurse in the AM & PM before bed, eats 3 full meals per day and at least 1 if not 2 snacks per day. you need to give DB more real food...at this age they should be eating more food then milk. cheerios are not filling or very nutritious. try supplementing his cheerio throughout the day with real food [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:58 PM Flag
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^meant to respond to the post below [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:58 PM Flag
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You missed raising your first kid anyway. Best to stick it out at work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.13, 01:52 PM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on the name "Brandon"? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.23.13, 08:11 PM Flag
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It's catchy and different! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:18 PM Flag
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Different??? I love it, but in the south it is EVERYWHERE. Between Brandons and Brendans there's hardly room for a Zachary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:22 PM Flag
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Different from what...the 10 zillion other Brandons out there? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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Arguably attractive transplanted twin from Minnesota. Drives an old Mustang. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:18 PM Flag
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LOL I get the reference! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:14 PM Flag
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;) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:21 PM Flag
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Awesome! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:16 PM Flag
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HAHA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:27 PM Flag
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Nope - second youngest of five, crippled when he caught the queen committing incest with her brother, learns to love the taste of frog. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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I know lots of them, works for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:19 PM Flag
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no. just no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:22 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 09:12 PM Flag
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sounds like a little punk [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 08:18 PM Flag
[ - ] Any moms on who have a short cervix? I am 24 weeks pregnant with DC #2. Jut flew back to nyc from California for for work with no issues. Supposed to go to a wedding in southern California when I will be 28 weeks and OB wants me to come in for a cervical exam the week before we're supposed to go. Am also flying to Florida later this week--reason to be concerned? Fwiw with first pregnancy I was not allowed to fly btw weeks 20 and 30 due to low lying placenta but short cervix was regularly checked and flew to and from Chicago at 34 weeks for work. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.23.13, 01:02 AM Flag
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Really, the only person that can answer this is your OB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:03 AM Flag
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I have a call in to my OB but just curious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:05 AM Flag
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PLEASE stay on bedrest and stop trying to do it all [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:04 AM Flag
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Who said I'm on bed rest? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:05 AM Flag
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I meant go on bed rest [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:06 AM Flag
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People put themselves on bed rest? My OB did not order this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:01 AM Flag
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If you go on bedrest without a doctors orders, it's just called a nap [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:12 AM Flag
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My friend tried to fly when she should not have. Because of her inconsideration the plane had to be landed in Kansas. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:01 AM Flag
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Sorry to hear that but my dr gave me clearance to fly this past week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:08 AM Flag
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Ok then listen to your doc. Why are you asking? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:11 AM Flag
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I'm just wondering as I wait to hear back from him. He wasn't worried about my Long flight earlier this week but I forgot to mention trip to Florida later this week. Will obviously follow his guidance for trip back to CA next month. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 01:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Any suggestions for where to find nice sun dresses (particularly empire waist)- both casual and work-friendly (semi-casual office)? I am pregnant with DC#2 and due in the very late summer. FWIW I am tall very busty so I need either short sleeves or a tank-style (spaghetti straps are not flattering on me). Thank you! 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.22.13, 06:38 PM Flag
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OP I meant casual dresses, and some that are work-friendly. All do not need to be work-friendly! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:38 PM Flag
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I just three at Marshall's. They're nice-ish quality too, but not terribly trendy. Two were Max Studio and the other CK. All under $40/ea. I'm pregnant and working too, so I believe we must be shopping for the exact same thing. :-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:43 PM Flag
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Are you in the city or suburbs? I live in Brooklyn and work in Manhattan. Just looked and saw there's a location near 14th St. Will have to check it out. Hope you're feeling well and good luck to you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:45 PM Flag
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There is a Marshall's on Atlantic terminal next to Target. Just make sure you go early during a week day if possible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:51 PM Flag
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I'm in Queens, but now that I think about it, I have seen a bunch at C21 as well. Good luck!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:58 PM Flag
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I scored at Marshall's as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:01 PM Flag
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I was due in August and lived in dresses from H & M. I'm not sure if they have anything work appropriate, but they has a lot of casual dresses. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:44 PM Flag
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*had* [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:45 PM Flag
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Motherhood Maternity has stuff that would fit the bill. You could look at Boden if you want something that's not actually maternity and you could wear later. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:51 PM Flag
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Despite the hate for it on this board Lands End might have this. If you comb through the frump some of the stuff is nice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:53 PM Flag
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There is a hate on this board for land ends? This board just earned some points in my eyes. Frumpy hideous clothes with pretension to some, I don't know, comfort? Quality? But in reality just clothes made with ugly people in mind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:38 PM Flag
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OP here, thank you! I didn't pop until late fall with DC#1 so I was not huge in the summer. Will look into all of your suggestions which are much appreciated! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:08 PM Flag
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I am busty and detest empire waist, they make me look fat, but I guess when pregnant it doesn't matter! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:11 PM Flag
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Target. Cheap, inoffensive, simple maternity dresses. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 07:15 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of the name Luisa? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.22.13, 05:17 PM Flag
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16 going on 17. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:20 PM Flag
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That's Liesel [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:21 PM Flag
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Correct - which is short for Elizabeth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:51 PM Flag
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Oh right. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:20 PM Flag
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The Fantasticks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:22 PM Flag
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Not a bad character, just very self involved and naive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:23 PM Flag
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Love it, and I prefer that spelling to Louisa, though I guess some people might find it odd if you're Anglo and use the Luisa spelling. Plus, Lulu is an adorable nickname for a little girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:37 PM Flag
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If you're Latina, yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:32 PM Flag
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OP here. For an Anglo looking kid with Italian surname. I'm in love with it but wondering if it seems pretentious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:42 PM Flag
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In that case, I think it's pretty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:50 PM Flag
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It's the Italian spelling for Louise. Since you have the right surname, it works! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:23 PM Flag
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Or Italian! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:52 PM Flag
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Lotte and Luisa! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:47 PM Flag
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Nice though I prefer Louisa or Louise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 05:51 PM Flag
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+1. Why not Louisa, OP? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:16 PM Flag
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Never really thought of it, I guess. Also, DH's gandfather is Luis, so it was supposed to be after him. But Louisa is very pretty too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 06:34 PM Flag
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My dd's middle name is Louise, and I like Luisa even better. But my dd hates it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 08:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Really not excited about being pregnant. 10 weeks along now, very happily married & 33 yrs old. I did it b/c hubby wants kids and we figured before 35 was best (Downs, etc etc) but I really love the life & career I have now, and just not sure that I want to change it. I think about spending a future of spending Saturdays at the park with screaming kids and just get depressed. 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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Abort now. It only gets worse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:16 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Yes. The upside here is....this is as good as it gets. In 4 years you'll want to kill yourself, DC, and dh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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Good point! Double murder-homicide for the win! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.13, 03:06 AM Flag
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So long as you have good, trusted childcare the change is still profound but in a different way than you are expecting. I find that career is a bigger threat to balance than DC. They are in bed so early and sleep so much you still live your life--romantic dinners, concerts. At least while they are small [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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what about still traveling just the two of us? how long does that get put on pause? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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stop whining. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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Or--that has been hard. We used to travel far, and well. We now only do shorter flights to on the beaten path locales in the Caribbean Mexico etc. we find it to be tiring and have a hard time trusting hotel staff to watch dd at such a young age. But I have friends who travel a lot with dcs--Europe, Hawaii from the east coast. I can do concerts and diners but long trips with a 2-year-old just aren't worth it. We will ramp back up later. We go on tons of local trips to see friends and family within a six hour drive lots of trips to Florida as well [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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WTF are you talking about? did a nanny raise your kids? did you forget about kids getting sick and getting up 10 times to hold the trash can while they vomit in it? changing diapers and going out the door and realizing hte new diaper has already leaked through? Running around in the park all day and coming home exhausted and kids asking what are we doing now? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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you ahouldn't have been a mother either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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calm down [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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Or--why so dramatic? Yes dcs get sick but not every single time you have plans. Have had to cancel one trip for DC illness and a couple of nights out. Nothing to chain me to her so that I can't ever have a break. The change is big--yes you will spend mornings at the playground--but it's not like you'll never see a movie or dine out again. By nanny raising if you mean after she is asleep so be it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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OR:I had 4 so I went through this 4 times. I guess one is not that bad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:35 PM Flag
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This is awful advice. OP doesn't want children, period. Good childcare isn't going to change that. 24-hour childcare won't change that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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oh shutup. you sound insufferable. your poor child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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and you sound like a babyworshipper. YOUR poor child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 11:44 PM Flag
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You should never have a child for someone else, against your own wishes. It isn't good for your or the kid - kids feel that resentment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:23 PM Flag
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Get over it today or you can add divorced to the list of things you'll be depressed about [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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unlikely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 11:46 PM Flag
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let's hope your husband is a little more maternal - but don't worry you'll find your home/work/family balance, might take a while but you will [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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Or--why is this crowd so tough? Wondering if your life will change doesn't make you in-maternal. Sheesh. Btw what I said above applies less to two--which we are gearing up for. It's going to get tougher to balance. Friends with 1 DC can have lots of balance from what I see [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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i actually though i was being supportive...oh well, fail on my part again - i am not the best writer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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I'm hoping DH is paternal and not maternal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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You won't always feel like this. I had the se type of feelings when I found I was pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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I had those feelings too. Was so focused on career and freedom. Now I have DD and couldn't be happier, I know how cheesy that sounds.. I turned down career opportunities and enjoy spending time with DD and other moms even though I used to say all those moms are crazy. It's hard to explain, but trust me, you won't regret it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:51 PM Flag
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Lots of ambivalent feeling while pregnant. Normal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:29 PM Flag
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What out for karma [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:29 PM Flag
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Hang in there. As it closer to your due and you feel the little one kicking, you'll get excited. Life does change but you'll find new happiness that you didn't know was possible. You'll have to compromise on some things but your life isn't ending. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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I felt the same way when I was preg. The plan was that my mom would take care of ds and I would carry on with my career etc. THEN ds was born and something magical happened! I can not even explain the love I suddenly had for this little guy. I didn't even let my mom hold him!! Lol! To this day, I know ds is th best thing that ever happened to me! He s 6 yo now. Hang in there. When you see the baby and hold it your priorities will suddenly change. You will feel emotions ou have never felt before! Career is far less important to me now. DS is a blessing, I absolutely love spending time with him in the park even on his cranky days! GL, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:53 PM Flag
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WHY DID YOU GET PREGNANT ON THE FIRST PLACE IF IT IS OBVIOUS YOU DO NOT LIKE KIDS. WTF ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 09:59 PM Flag
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Stop screaming, she never said she doesn't like kids, just having some normal panic reaction. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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AMEN!!!! These are the people who SHOULDN'T HAVE KIDS!!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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disagree. this woman is actually right! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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*IN* the first place. If you're going to yell and be a b*tch, at least do it with proper English. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.19.13, 11:43 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.20.13, 12:14 AM Flag
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My, my what a narcissist you are! Yikes it sounds like you'll be a bad mom if you keep up with this attitude. I'd hate to be your kid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.20.13, 12:04 AM Flag
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Expecting 05.17.13, 09:08 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:09 PM Flag
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? how come? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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this is not an advertising space. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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Yeah, let us go back to racist comments and weight-baiting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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Just wanted to make people aware of the resource. Apologies if I have misused the space - honest mistake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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Oh for god sake, this is a useful resource for lots of women on this board. (and if you'll look to your right you'll see a whole bunch of ads) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:23 PM Flag
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Nope, have you ever heard of adblocker? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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Wow you must be in a dark place to flag a post like this. There's plenty to flag on this board, go do your worthy flaggin work on another thread. [ Reply | More
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my god, you have very little to do with your time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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You have to take the time to create a fake post, then slip the link in as a fake responder like everyone else does. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:31 PM Flag
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I don't spend much time on these boards. Sorry for any confusion. I am a beginner. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.17.13, 09:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have any recent experience with Dr. Melissa Waterstone? I am 6 weeks pregnant and looking for a great OB for baby #2. I've read that she's not a hand holder, which is fine, but want to make sure she's a competent and caring doctor. Thanks! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.14.13, 07:01 PM Flag
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That is a perfect description of her. She was my OB and delivered DS in 2010 - LOVED her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:03 PM Flag
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^i.e. not a handholder, but competent and caring. I had a scary complication after an otherwise normal delivery and she took charge immediately. She was great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:06 PM Flag
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np: ita. she was my OB for dc born in 2008 and that's exactly how i'd describer her: competent and caring and definitely friendly, but not super warm and fuzzy. she's not the OB for the patient who's the type who wants to call 5x a week with 10 questions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:24 PM Flag
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Not super warm and fuzzy, but caring, very competent, definitely not unpleasant, and more responsive than most doctors I see. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:02 PM Flag
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Love Dr Lee Ellen Morrone (UES) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 07:08 PM Flag
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She delivered my first. LOVED her!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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Had a great experience with her in 2011. I moved to westchester and had to commute an hour to the hospital in labor. She 'accidentally' broke my water for me so that I didn't have to leave and go home despite not being quite far enough yet. Also she stuck through with me when labor stalled, didn't force a cssection when I had been there too long. She was leaving for vacation at the end of her shift and stayed on two hours longer than she needed to to help me deliver. Not warm and fuzzy, but happy to answer all questions and very supportive when you need it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.14.13, 10:12 PM Flag
[ - ] Going to a wedding in a few weeks at which time I'll be 28 weeks pregnant. I am tall and busty but belly is not yet huge (could pop within the next few weeks). How is this dress? (Link inside). It looks good on the skinny model who has a small chest, but wondering if it will look strange on someone with boobs. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.13.13, 01:18 AM Flag
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http://www.shopbop.com/maxi-halter-beaded-dress-tbags/vp/v=1/845524441950032.htm?folderID=2534374302063654&fm=other-shopbysize-viewall&colorId=12867#reviewsArea [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:18 AM Flag
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It will NOT look good on a busty woman - it is a gorgeous dress, but with just a bit of curve, it ends up looking like a muumuu (?). If you popped big time, you could get away with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:15 AM Flag
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Ha definitely don't want to look like I am wearing a muumuu. Figured that might be the case! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:21 AM Flag
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+1. I think your best bet is something with empire cut [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:22 AM Flag
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OR I agree with this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:16 AM Flag
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It will NOT look good on a busty woman - it is a gorgeous dress, but with just a bit of curve, it ends up looking like a muumuu (?). If you popped big time, you could get away with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:15 AM Flag
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As a busty girl, I'm sad to say it will probably hang funny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:21 AM Flag
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I think it will be fine, but people might not realize you are pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:22 AM Flag
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I have boobs and would never wear this. Can't wear normal bra with it, high neckline is not flattering, and dress has no structure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:23 AM Flag
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Actually probably not bad on a PG tall woman... Signed short & busty... Don't love the hemline - but that's just a matter of taste. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:17 AM Flag
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http://www1.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/aqua-maxi-dress-grecian?ID=690886&CategoryID=21683&LinkType=&color=Black#fn=COLOR%3DBlack%26LENGTH_M%3DLong%26spp%3D20%26ppp%3D96%26sp%3D1%26rid%3D61%26spc%3D84 Maybe something like this> [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:24 AM Flag
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http://www1.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/karen-kane-maxi-dress?ID=683106&CategoryID=21683&LinkType=#fn=COLOR%3DBlack%26LENGTH_M%3DLong%26spp%3D29%26ppp%3D96%26sp%3D1%26rid%3D61%26spc%3D84 or this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:28 AM Flag
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OP here, thank you! Definitely think empire waist is better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:36 AM Flag
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what size are your boobs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:28 AM Flag
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34F [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 01:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Just found out we're having a son. We already have one DS and like more traditional names. Any suggestions? First DS is Alexander. 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.10.13, 03:27 PM Flag
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Christopher? A classic you don't hear too often. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:28 PM Flag
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+1 Alex & Chris, really nice [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:27 PM Flag
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OP: These are some great suggestions - thank you! I'm torn between a few of these now and a fairly unpopular (these days) family name. Part of me wants to use it but I want to be 100% certain, you know? It's Fredrick, by the way. My father's name, who is by far the kindest person I have ever met (in fact, I've never met a Fred I didn't get along with). Thoughts? It was also my grandfather's name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 04:15 PM Flag
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Thought it was spelled "Frederick"? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 07:51 PM Flag
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OP: Correct - typo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.13.13, 03:38 PM Flag
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If you like traditional I'd like to put in a plug for puritan virtue names. How about Steadfast? Or Zeal? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:24 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:29 PM Flag
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Richard isn't used very often today. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:32 PM Flag
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Dick.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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Rick... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:42 PM Flag
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Benjamin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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+1. This is our kid's name. Very traditional but there won't be four in the class. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:31 PM Flag
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+2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:51 PM Flag
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Andrew, Michael [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:30 PM Flag
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Phillip and Gregory are horribly underused (but if you call DS Alex you may get Phil and Greg which are very 70s). If you like nicknames, Charles (Charlie), Theodore (Teddy) and Nicholas could work nicely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:36 PM Flag
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I have a Theodore, classic and lovely. We call him Theo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:31 PM Flag
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^^ I also like Edward, Zachary, Thomas, Gregory and Benjamin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:31 PM Flag
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August [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:39 PM Flag
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Andrew, Henry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:34 PM Flag
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George, Stephen, Peter, Henry, John [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:37 PM Flag
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You hit 3 of my 4 sons'. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:55 PM Flag
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James, William, David [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 04:31 PM Flag
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Julian, I would love to use it but we decided to stick to family names. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:51 PM Flag
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Peter [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 03:59 PM Flag
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Maverick is becoming a popular name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 05:04 PM Flag
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Get a grip! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 07:51 PM Flag
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Gabriel [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 08:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Name poll: Cary for a boy (I.e. Cary Grant). 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 05.10.13, 01:35 AM Flag
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Honestly? I love it. You could also do "Carey" for the Joni Mitchell song. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:38 AM Flag
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Anglo Irish. Only. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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Love [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:44 AM Flag
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Bit wussy sounding for a boy. Sorry no love from me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:53 AM Flag
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Just do a very strong and undoubtedly masculine middle name [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:54 AM Flag
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groomed to be gay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:54 AM Flag
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Love the name but I did know a kid by this name who was obviously gay and went to one of those "pray away the gay" churches to be "cured" and he's still married to a woman (that he met there and God "told" him to marry) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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I went to business school with one and he was wonderful, so I vote yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:01 AM Flag
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No. I recently met a Cary(Carey), my friend's brother. It's really odd. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:16 AM Flag
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Awful.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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What's with the gay comments? Are you rednecks or WT? Is this Alabama hour on UB? Cary is a very posh name. Love! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Love [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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People will always assume a girl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 04:46 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 01:14 PM Flag
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Cary Grant was a stage name for Archie Leach. It's unusual and somewhat effete, IMO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.10.13, 11:28 AM Flag
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