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[-]Looking for a derm to treat my terrible skin. Lots of hormonal breakouts (and BC is not an option). Suggestions?
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Fwiw, just went to my derm about this same thing. The only option I was given if I don't want to do bc is a combo of benzoyl and retina-a.
[ Reply | More ]I can't do BC (health-wise, even low dosages). Do you like your derm - or is your point that I can just go to anyone b/c options are limited.
[ Reply | More ]I like my derm (Cynthia Chen at Weill-Cornell) but I think I was just trying to prepare you for what you might hear when you actually visit a derm. I don't want to go on bc for a variety of reasons, so will try the topical methods for now.
[ Reply | More ]Thanks. Know better than to expect some sort of easy, miracle-cure (I wish!). Do you feel as though the topical methods are working for you?
[ Reply | More ]I've use benzoyl for years, and yes it works, but I need to step it up -- usually just use for spot treatment and now need to use all over my phase. Derm recommended I use that during the day, and then apply retin-a at night. Going to pick up retina rx tomorrow, so hopefully will see some results.
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nothing, everything tastes better abroad - produce, dairy, antibiotic free meat, bread and pastries. I guess I am lucky to travel to places with excellent food
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[-]Which pair of shoes would you choose as a springtime go-to? Link: http://us.jimmychoo.com/en/us/shoes/ballet-flats/icat/flatsus/&itemsperpage=29&isviewall=1
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[-]Sending a "thank you" gift...considering a basket from Sherry-Lehman, but am also looking for other ideas. Budget is $50-$80. Recipient is a gay male, single, lives in Westchester, works a ton. Would like to send food or drink, not a GC or an item.
7 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreWhat does he like? I think a gift basket is a good idea. If you wanted to switch it up you could do a basic one from Sherry-Lehman but then buy some items to through in there that really personalizes it. Like add a classic book that he loves or some of his favorite candy or some items from his favorite place to visit.
[ Reply | More ]a good bottle of whiskey or cognac. It lasts longer than a bottle of wine and it's always nice to have in the cabinet.
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[-]I just bought Young America nursery furniture in the Lilac finish. What Benjanim Moore paint color should I use on the walls? Thanks for the advice.
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[-]POLL: What is the hardest you have laughed at a post on UB? What was it about?
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[-]Is it normal for my mother to not want to babysit? It's like pulling teeth. She loves them but almost always has an excuse not to take them.
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It's certainly common. My mom would rather go to the office than stay with children ( honestly even when she could easily have time off). It's her life and her choice, so I respect it...
[ Reply | More ]yeah I have only brought it up one time when i was really upset and it was this huuuuge thing that blew up and she was all mad at me. but yeah... on her days off she is busy doing things on her house or garden and then later i find out she never even did them. its frustrating because my friends mom's love taking their grandbabies and even ask to take them. *sigh*
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Have you asked her? Maybe she thinks your ask too much, or stay out too long, or you are too demanding of what they eat, do, etc. There must be a reason, and once you know what it is, you can work it out.
[ Reply | More ]yeah i asked her once and that was when she got mad. she said they are not her kids and if she doesnt feel up to it she shouldnt have to. but i just dont like that she makes excuses. and it makes me sad she never wants to. she doesnt have them often... maybe once a month if that. and never overnight, just so me and hubby can go to a movie or dinner. im not anal about what they eat or anything. as long as they are alive when i get back i dont even ask questions, haha. she is my mom, i totally trust her.
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so true. some are just not into it. my mom loves to spend short amounts of time w/ ds now that he is older, reading with him / teaching him to read in our native language (she is a former teacher), but she is never motivated by just helping out, and is too busy with her own projects to help most of the time. It used to upset me, but I've now accepted it.
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If your Mom is anything like my Mom was - she may have an active social life and/or has cocktail or a beer every evening.. Now that my Mom is 55 and my children are near 8; my Mom has only had my kids at her house 1 time.. I think the reason she doesn't offer is because of how tired she is now.. I jsut don't understand how my Mom has so much energy to visit and do things for her friends (even some she just met).. She'
[ Reply | More ]In my Mom's case; she is 55 and doesn't offer or act like she'd ever want to babysit my 2 kids. When she visits, she makes excuses to leave within 2 hours and it takes her an hour to get here...I practically do not blame her for not wanting my kids around, as they can be very unruly and loud (despite the fact I've been very stern with my children to stay calm). I just wanted the motherly advice more than anything from her. Especially when my kids were itty bitty babies. All in all, I found that relying on people with your expectations makes you hate them.. Rely on God ONLY. He is never too busy for needs. I pray to cope with the stress of my kids a lot - and it's helping. Also I'm not bitter at my Mom anymore.. I was because I tho...
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[-]Raise question for part time nanny. Currently she work 2 days a week and get $15 per hour. How much should she get after I have the second baby next month. I am SAHM and plan to nurse newborn and care for him, but I am sure I will need a nap at some points and she might have both kids. Currently she usually takes 2 year old out to play at parks and helps with light housework. I am currently on partial bedrest.
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[-]16 month old has NO balance and will walk only on tippy toes while holding someone's hands. Anyone experience this? Did it resolve on its own or did you need to do therapy? TIA
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[-]Can we UB from 1776 PLEASE?____________________________________
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no interest in dh, but can't stop thinking about a certain slave...wish both he and i were free to do what we wanted
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It's 90 degrees, have mercy, God, please. For it's hot as hell...in Philadel...phia!
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My dh keeps sending he will send me pins, and they nver come. I SENT HIM SALTPETER, didn't I?
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A mom at the one room schoolhouse is bragging about being descended from Mayflower people. DH's relative was on the santa Maria,and you don't hear me bragging.
[ Reply | More ]Frances scott Key is trying to make a comeback...did you hear that Star Spangled banner tune he thinks passes for a song? And he's got no business wearing such tight britches since he's gained that weight
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I started this post--props to me. Great answers everyone! BTW I am posture Mom.POSTURE LADIES!!!!
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i've decided, i'm not wearing my corset at night anymore. dh will just have to be ok with my waist being 21" instead of 20
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Goody Proctor is a complete whore. Last night I saw her with her sister's husband at the tavern and she was all viva Paul Revere!
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I caught dh banging our slave and now she is pg with his mulatto bastard children. How will I deal with the scandal?
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Expecting my first. Scared, the last 3 out of 4 women I know in my town have died during the birthing...
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[-]Which is a better use of my time...ordering a bunch of different sizes/styles of jeans from Zappos (and then returning what doesn't work)...or going to Bloomingdales and trying everything on and then making a decision? I work and need clothes for a trip this weekend (so I'm on a deadline)...there's a UPS Store down the block from my apt. (for the Zappos returns)...I can go to Bloomingdales after work tomorrow.
10 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreOP: Chances are, I will buy a second pair of my current favorite jeans (I wear jeans all the time, so I don't mind doing so)...but I lost a little weight and might need to size down (thus the multiple sizes). Would consider a different style, but know that it's a crap-shoot (which is why I'd order mutliple styles). Tired just reading that, haha!
[ Reply | More ]I'd do Zappos. Now that I'm a mom, I just find it do much easier & a better use of my time to shop online, especially for myself. Zappos has overnight shipping - do if you order tonight, you will have all you need by Wednesday. You don't even need to immediately return everything - I'm pretty sure you have up to 30 days. Unless you feel like you would like others opinions (salesperson), I think spending time multitasking & shopping at zappos will save time in the long run.
[ Reply | More ]call bloomingdales, make an appt with a personal shopper, tell her what you're looking for and she'll stock your dressing room before you arrive with things for you to try on. Go to your appt. try things on, personal shopper will get you different sizes, bring you tops, accessories shoes. Will call the tailor if necessary and you'll be all set up within the hour.
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[-]Are blondies supposed to be cookie-like (crispy) or brownie-like (softer)?
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[-]During what season would you do family (mostly DC) photographs? We did a session outside last summer when DB was 5mo and we're planning on doing it again this year when DB is 1.5. Was really hot outside last June and somewhat uncomfortable. Would fall be nice? TIA
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[-]Baking with a Williams Sonoma Gold Touch pan for the first time tonight. Do I really not need to butter it at all?
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WS calls it "nonstick", but doesn't specify. http://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/usa-pan-goldtouch-nonstick-9-by-13-inch-cake-pan/?pkey=ccake-pans
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[-]I recently accepted a nannying position taking care of two year old twin girls. They are highly verbal, very sweet, smart, and play wonderfully together at home. Their mother told me they are "afraid of other children" and she would like for them to make friends. So far, whether we are on the playground, the library, or music class, whenever other children approach them they run the other way, hide behind me, or both.
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[-]Poster who thought my friend was "picky" and "unrealistic" for not wanting to marry a philanderer or move to Angola with normal-bf-turned-wild-eyed-do-gooder, explain yourself, please. Is this the true state of NYC dating, that THAT is being too pick o boot a cheater or to refuse to move to sub-saharan Africa in a war-torn country?
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[-]Want to start storing pantry items (flour, sugar, etc.) in glass jars. Anything to keep in mind when choosing jars (lids, etc.)? Any brands/stores to recommend (besides the Container Store)?
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[-]Ordered from Gilt yesterday, but forgot to use a promo code. Figure there's no harm in asking to have it applied after-the-fact. Do you think that I'll have better luck via Twitter or email?
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[-]The Postcard coat the UB loves to hate is on major sale!! http://www.searlenyc.com/store/index.html
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