[-]I had a CVS yesterday morning (at Mt sinai) and have had no cramping or bleeding...am I out of the woods? I'm not planning to run a marathon or anything, but I've been walking on eggshells and trying not to move around much.
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[-]What is the earliest you accepted visitors at your house for visiting your newborn?
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[-]ANyone get a Jive Turkey for thanksgiving. What is the wait like?
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[-]Does anyone think it is odd that the healthcare reform passes congress and all of a sudden we have new guidelines for cancer screening?The government is now flipping the bill actual correction, taxpayers are paying and they are establishing new rules for cancer screening. So sad.
17 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]I agree the timing seems suspicious but it doesn't make sense for the gov't to do this. If you don't catch cancer early its more difficult and more expensive to treat so whoever is footing the bill should be in favor of screenings as early as they'd be meaningful. This is just from a $$ perspective -- I don't expect anyone to be on the lookout for our health but ourselves.
[ Reply | Options ]The new guidelines are based on scientific information. The old screening was based on "feelings". It's actually a good thing to use science to make these decisions, which, by the way, come from the medical community, not the government. By the way, I got cancer in my 40s and I could feel the lump but it did NOT show up on a mammogram, only ultrasound. Unfortunately, with younger women, cancers often don't appear on mammograms because of dense breast tissue. Don't you think that's important to know and consider?
[ Reply | Options ]i think too many ppl on this board are so blinded by obama's charm that they refuse to look at this with a clear perspective that maybe it is a little troubling.
[ Reply | Options ]??? The group that put out the guidelines has nothing to do with Obama. They weren't appointed by him and they started the work that lead to the recommendations long before he was president. I think you're the one that lacks a clear perspective - like maybe the difference between politics and science?
[ Reply | Options ]Wow, what an intelligent comment! You are correct, the guidelines for cancer screening were changed because Pres. Obama decided to hell with mammograms, they are just too expensive. We would be far better off if our country was run by rational people like Sarah Palin and Bill O'Reilly, who use reason and intelligence to make every decision.
[ Reply | Options ]I agree 100%. People are so blinded by Obama's eloquent speaking that they don't realize he is driving this country into the ground. Trillions of dollars being spent on healthcare reform and it the new cancer screening recommendations is only a "conicidence". Yea right.
[ Reply | Options ]Of course! Obama really wants to make sure those trillions go right in the pocket of insurance companies because that's what he's all about. He does NOT want to make sure people who don't have insurance can get it -- that's just a lie he says in order to make sure insurance execs get lots of dough! If we had President Sarah Palin, she'd definitely make sure every woman, rich or poor, got a mammogram at age 40 because she believes with all her heart in spending taxpayers money to make sure even the poorest women get great medical care!
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^^^but, I do love how people can believe Obama is both a socialist and also only interested in giving money to big business. It's takes a certain ability to believe two contradictory ideas at the same time, and I guess I'm just lacking it. However, posters like the above and people like Palin and O'Reilly have that special ability to argue two contradictory things are true! It's quite amazing!
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Do you honestly think the government is this coordinated? And I work for the government!
[ Reply | Options ]Of course she believes this! She believes that the government is fantastically coordinated and yet completely inept at the same time!
[ Reply | Options ]No...Obama isn't a socialist. He is eliminating bonuses, firing ceo's, creating healthcare system controlled by the govt....let's see what else....but no he isn't a socialist. Oh I forgot he is telling oil speculators what the true price for oil should be, because you know he pretty much knows everything.
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[-]3 1/2 yo ds will not be potty trained. I am wohm and have a decent nanny. If I have to change another diaper will scream! What do I do?
7 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]Why won't he be? What role are you taking in it? This is one area where I did not let my kids tell me when they were ready. Just before age 3, I told them both they were too old for diapers, we threw them away, and we were done with them. It was as much a mental shift for me and their caregivers as it was for them. But sooooo worth it.
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[-]Planning a boys first birthday party in manhattan. Most guests do not have children but there are a few. Kids vary in age from 1 year to 10 years. Any ideas of places good for adults (food and drinks available) but where the kids won't be bored to death. Group is about 50 people - 10 kids/40 adults. have looked everywhere on line and having no luck - HELP!
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[-]3 year-old DC has a hard time participating in soccer class. He either runs around or comes running back to me. Any thoughts on how to get him more with the program? He doesn't have this prob. with school. Doing great at school and seems to follow teacher direction well. Any thoughts? I had also taken him to a Music Together class and the same thing happened. I got so tired of chasing after him that I stopped going. Am a bit thrustrated spending money on classes and watching him not participate. Any input most appreciated.
10 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]He's 3. Why is it so important to you that he do soccer or music? He's already in preschool and doing well there. That's enough for this age.
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This is totally typical of 3 yos. The ones who you feel like are always participating have either taken soccer already or are just into it for this session. They can bounce all over in their desire to participate. Just keep going because you paid and some days dc will play and some days they won't.
[ Reply | Options ]Two options: 1) decide he's too young for it and hold off for 6 months or a year. If that doesn't work, then 2) don't watch. I tell my son that if he can't do it without me, then I need to leave and I stand outside the classroom after handing him off to the instructor. It's worked wonders and now I can watch again.
[ Reply | Options ]This is quite typical of 3 y.o. boys. Short attention span, distractable. If he's enjoying himself during these classes, I think it's still money well-spent.
[ Reply | Options ]Thanks for the advice. He does seem to enjoy himself whether he's running around or sitting out with me and watching. Always seems to make it back in time for the last goal and stickers. The coaches don't seem to mind that he's running around and they've been very good at trying to redirect him.
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I don't think any 3yo will particpate for the whole class. My ds took soccer at 3 and the kids were lying down in the middle of the game, wandering off to play together, etc. It's more, IMO, for the social experience and exposure to team play than anything else. If he's not engaging at all then maybe you should wait, but if he's just taking a break every once in awhile, then I think that is normal and expected.
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[-]If you like your dd to become a doctor, send her to Brearley. If you want your dd to marry a doctor, send her to Spence. If you want your dd to be mistress to a doctor, send her to Chapin.
7 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]That isn't how it went. Spence was the mistress, Chapin the wife and Brearley the doctor. If you are going to be stupid get it right
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Actually, if want your girl to produce trashy TV reality shows that embarrass the youth, go to Brearley. If you don't want your girls to participate in those shows, send them to Spence or Chapin.
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[-]Is Clomid 50mg usually the first thing doctors give you after you try for a few months? I am 39 and have been trying only for 2 months but doc said to try Clomid this cycle, given my age. WWYD?
8 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]After having taken Clomid for six cycles I read that more and more literature suggestst that Clomid fixes certain things -- e.g., if you are not ovulating or if have pcos -- but doesn't do much for unexplained infertility. Yet it has become standard 'first line of defense'. If I was you (and I was) I would waste no time, find out what the underlying problem is (if you can) and use the most direct means to address it.
[ Reply | Options ]Agreeing with the post above, though I'm not BTDT, it seems that more and more ob/gyns are leaping to try it before doing a real assessment of the fertility issues. Via friends who have gone that route, I'd encourage you to really read up on it because while it can fix certain specific problems it can also create other obstacles (lessen cervical fluid, etc.). I'm almost 39, so I know the sense of urgency, but two months of trying also really isn't that long. Are you doing all the "cycle tracking" you can (temp, OPKs, cervical fluid, etc.)?
[ Reply | Options ]I hope you are seeing a fertility doctor and not a regular ob/gyn. If you are seeing a RE (fertility) clomid and IUI would be the first step. If that doesn't work, they could introduce injectables to help you produce more eggs (with iui). If that doesn't work, given your age, I would go straight to IVF and not waste time. Good luck.
[ Reply | Options ]BTDT - also 39 when we started trying, after 6 mos, OB then RE tried us on 3 rounds of 100mg Clomid/IUI without success. First IVF cycle = 1 DC, 2nd IVF cycle = 2 DCs. I would agree with previous posters that I wouldn't waste a lot of time on Clomid, particularily if your infertility is unexplained but after only 2 mos, you probably don't even know if an issue exists. Glad you are going to an RE for a full work-up so you'll know how best to proceed. In the meantime tho, I don't see the harm in doing Clomid. Good luck!
[ Reply | Options ]After having unexplained infertility for FOUR years, I determined on my own that I had a short luteal phase. I had no idea Clomid would be helpful for this (because I was ovulating each month like clockwork), but after doing my own research on medical websites, I discovered that Clomid was known to help with this. I went to my OB, took 1 round of Clomid, and got pregnant. I have another friend who got pregnant after her second round, and then lots of others for whom Clomid was the "gateway drug" to IUI, IVF, etc. So you never know.
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[-]Playdate etiquette question: My 3 yr old dd has just been invited for her fisrt playdate from a classmate. (1) I live all the way up in washington Heights so how do I ask if it can be done at their house. (2) Would my nanny drop her off and I pick up (I work) or would she stay the whole time? (which she would not want to do). Tia.
15 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]I usually say how about your house this time and ours the next if you want it there. At 3 yo your nanny should stay esp bcse it's the first playdate. She shouldn't not want to do this, imo because it's part of her job and also bcse she should be there to help supervise and also make sure that the environment is ok. 3 is too young for drop offs anyway.
[ Reply | Options ]OP here, I should have mentioned that my nanny is also my aunt so we both take liberties (she prefers watching dd at her house in the Bronx so pretty much only goes from point A to point B, but I come home late sometimes, etc.) I just know she would be really huffy about not being able to go home, she's kindof lazy.
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I agree with OR--your nanny doesn't have a choice. She needs to stay at the playdate, and why should it be a big deal for her? My babysitter goes on lots of playdates--it's part of her job. She brings books, or homework to do, or her laptop.
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You can't drop off a 3 yo! Too young! 3 yos can be high maintenance -- need help resolving conflicts, diaper or potty issues, emotionally unpredictable -- and you can't expect a classmate's parent or sitter to take care of her. You pay your sitter, she needs to stay there. No problem asking if it could be done at the other person's more convenient home.
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[-]What are some good educational/stimulating toys for birth to 6 months, other than a good mobile above the crib?
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tupperware and wooden spoons. they play with them and when they outgrow it you can use them in the kitchen
[ Reply | Options ]So many developmental milestones were hit on the TinyLove Gymini playmat-from 5 weeks-5 mos. Also, those stripey sox w/colorful plush additions on tops of the feet are pretty great. Lamaze makes those. The Ikea folding cloth,plush animals, soft barn is such a great toy to have through the stages and will be around for at least 2 years. HABA does fun,wooden, pull back toys which will be vey engaging and encourage movement and hand-eye.
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[-]I need a recommendation for a good place for a company holiday party in NYC.
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[-]NYC Moms: would you be interested in a "Mom and Me" self defense course? Aimed at dc's ages 6 to 12, teaching basic self defense techniques and giving information about being "street smart." If yes, why and if no, why not?
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[-]Have you ordered food items from Williams Sonoma? Is it any good?
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I've sent food from them as presents - always very well-received. Agree it's pricey but seems to be worth it
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^^it was either this or something similar : http://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/fd681/?pkey=cmeat-poultry
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[-]Hunter parents/prospective parents: any recommendations for a nice psychologist for the stanford-binet? Would like somebody somewhat gentle. . . . Thanks.
4 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]Hunter mom here - I really don't think it matters. I chose the one closest to us with availability, I literally had about 2-3 mins of interaction with her. DS was neither giddy/bored/offended with or by her best I could tell. I was Jackson FWIW. I have not heard anything bad about any of them.
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