[-]Anyone ever dye their hair from bright blonde to dark blonde/light brown? no time/extra money to get to the salon before vacation this weekend and roots are BAD! my natural color is dark blonde, looking to get closer to my natural color. have previously dyed my hair on my own, but never light to dark. any tips?
11 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]if your hair is highlighted, then dying it at home can be precarious bc highlighted hair is already treated and won't take new color the same way as the untreated hair. so you could end up with a mix of colors on your head. i would be more inclined to go someplace that can sqeeze you in for a quick touch up, then to mess w it at home.
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[-]Any experience with "drive away"? Have to move grandfather's car from midwest to NY and can't do it ourselves. there are companies that do this for big fee, but how to choose among them? Anyone do this? Could also hire a college student (craigslist???) but I worry about liability, etc. Advice? BTDT?
7 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]my father does this for a living for car dealerships...you might contact some in your area as they probably ahve 'drivers' they call to deliver cars and could probably give you a referral
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...on the other hand, school breaks are coming up. If you have a nephew or someone close, pay their one-way airfare out there and some extra cash to go pick up grandpa's car. It could save some $$ and it will be someone that you know. And what are they going to do for their 3 weeks off from school besides party and sleep late?
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Thanks for the recommendation. But my question is should she send my deposit back or is that what she'll consider payment for the time she spent. Even though she didn't do the ring for me?
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[-]I have a silk dress that is wrinkled - what do I do? the cleaners wont help as it will go in a suitcase on a trip...
3 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]well, for now, either get it steamed or do the showrer thing (if your shower has a built in "steam" feature with floor to cieling glass walls, that works best). to pack, rather than folding it or laying it flat - take some other clothing items that can be wrinkled - undeshirts, tshirts, sweaters, jeans, tights, etc, and roll them into a "tube" shape, and then pack your silk dress wrapped around the outside of those! I do that all the time on long trips (transatlantic) and it works like a charm.
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[-]Please comment on the dinner menu below-- need some help: firstcrudite, stuffed mushrooms. appetizer 2. mini chicken wellingtons 3. main- french roast with balsamic reduction, chimmichurri grilled chicken, side: spinach salad either w pear dressing and pears/apples or with grapefruit dressing, grapefruit and cranberries, brown rice w carmelized shallots, baked acorn squash 4. dessetr tbd. i apreciate your help
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Wait, all this food? Or like, pick ONE main ONE app, etc? B/c this is a lot of food.
[ Reply | Options ]What is a French Roast? And chimichurri seems out of place with everything else. And chicken wellingtons--also not familiar--assuming like little beef wellingtons? If you're making yourself, sounds like a lot of effort.
[ Reply | Options ]it's just a cut of meat-- like a california roast. i know the chimi sounds out of place-- that's what i was worried about-- any suggestions for a great boneless chicken breast recipe. i normally would do turkey but dont want to since it's thanksgiving next week. the weelingtons or yummy and most of the steps can be done in advance
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Private school moms: Possibly moving to Chicago over the summer. Have a 2nd grader. Do spots open up at some private schools that late in the year for the following year? All schools, some or just one or two? Would like to apply as soon as possible but we aren't sure about the move yet.
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[-]Had an argument with DH over this, would you take your family to Hooters? Does DH go to Hooters?
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no, he doesn't go. he might if everyone from work went for lunch or something, but he would never suggest it or want to go there of his own volition! and no, definitely wouldn't take my family there. in high school i know a couple of girls who worked there. they kind of had a hard time telling people what they did (similar to being a stripper), and there were always tons of sleazy guys. definitely not something i would want my family to be around!
[ Reply | Options ]My dad got restaurant vouchers from work for whatever reason, and took my mom out to dinner, to a place they had never been. It turned out to be a Hooters-knock-off type bar, where the servers were girls in really tiny outfits and horrible high heels! My poor conservative mom felt so bad for them, having to work all night in those shoes and with all the drunk guys acting like fools. But she left a BIG tip!
[ Reply | Options ]Wasn't this exact question just posted yesterday and discussed in detail? Am i imaginging things?
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No but only because the menu isn't good. No problem with waitresses in short shorts...even with the family. If we were on vacation in florida and it was around and nothing else was, I would be fine going in and getting the kids chicken nuggets. Not sleazy if that is your concern.
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[-]in such a bind. married a wonderful man i respect greatly but had zero sexual attraction for. been together 10 years. i was screwed up at the time (eating disorders, family trauma, etc) and didnt realize it but NOW i see i made a bargain - emotional security for sex. i have never been happy sexually in our marriage or before. recently met a man thru work that i am madly wildly passionate for and started an affair (flamers field day!) and i have asked my husand for a sep. he is fighting tooth and nail. wants our marriage to work. i feel i am in love with another man and soooooo torn. we have 2 kids. some will say i am selfish. others will say no one wants a martyr for a mother. any experience ub-ers?
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hmm, i dont think of it that simply but have passion, sexual desire, sensual experiences with my partner are important to me. these are things i have forsaken in my life til now. i am 37 and just realizing that sexuality is extremely important."sex" isnt just a tiny compartment of life.
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Catholics have to go to pre-marriage counseling before we get married, it's called pre-cana. And I still remember the Priest talking to us. He said, " I always tell couples, you will meet the person you should have married after you are already married. Marriage is a choice you make each day when you wake up." If you are done making the choice to be married, I don't think its really fair that you stay with your lover. You owe it to yourself, kids, and husband actually, to separate, and get your act together, before diving in with the new guy. Sex does not last.
[ Reply | Options ]hmm, so interesting what your priest says. do you meet the man you should have married as a test to your commitment to marriage? i feel like i committed to my marriage because i didnt know what else to do.
[ Reply | Options ]I thought it was really great advice. I took it that marriage is hard work. You have to do the work every day. And of course, anyone who has dated someone for 3 years knows it gets old, and boring, and its tempting to look around. Do you do the work, or throw in the towel. To OP, I would say, I find your husband attractive that he was a loyal, loving husband and father for 10 years, much more attractive to me than your lover who would break up a family. I really do. I have a number of single girlfriends I would like to set your soon to be ex-husband up with after you have left him. He soudns like an honrable guy.
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I find it amazing that you found a man whom you respect, who was willing to go through all your screwed up stuff, and be the father to your children and is willing to fight for you tooth and nail that you don't value him and your family enough to find a way to improve your sex life with him. HOnestly, Ithink he is the martyr in this situation - I think you would be foolish to throw all this away and will probably really regret it. It sounds like you have a long pattern of self-destructive behavior and this affair is part of it. Affairs are self-destructive - and destructive of others. Is the affair all about sex or is there more to it?
[ Reply | Options ]much more to it. he is emotionally present, we get along very well, "get" each other, both have walked through really difficult stuff. by martyr, i meant being in a sexless, safe marriage because i "owe" it to him, rather than having the courage to creatie the life & love i want? also - i have taken my husband to sex therpay several times. he wasnt willing to look at himself. it;s always ME that is the problem.
[ Reply | Options ]more from OP, i value my family and kids tremendously but i am not so attached to the hallmark picture of a nuclear family to suppress all of my desires to maintain that picture. sounds like a recipe for divorce once the kids go to college. my therapist says i have re-created the incest of my childhood by having 10 years of sex that i d idnt want to have. literally, REPULSED by my husband's body. but always made it MY FAULT for thinking that. maybe we dont have "chemistry". can you conjure chemistry?
[ Reply | Options ]more from OP - trust me, i am terrified of making a decision i will regret. i couldnt live with that... so i am doing tons and tons of work on myself and the marriage to see what can be improved. including 86'ing the affair.
[ Reply | Options ]it really doesn't matter how physically unattracted you are to your husband, that's no excuse for hurting him in this way. and it doesn't matter how dysfunctional your family/childhood was, you are a grown woman responsible for your own actions and your actions are inexcusable. if you were terminally unhappy with your marriage, you should have ended it before you moved onto another intimate relationship. can you imagine your two children someday trying to blame their adult problems on the fact that their mother was a damaged, selfish, addictive personality who broke up their family and destroyed their father all because she cared more about her sex life with a boyfriend than her marriage and family? doesn't sound like a pattern you should b...
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np-can you read in your post that you are blaming someone and assuming THEY must have something wrong with them ("can you conjure chemistry"?) This is a pattern. it's NOT everyone else's fault. You need to take a step back and stop acting like an 18 yr old school girl.
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np-your frame is all wrong. you dont stay in a marriage because you owe it to them. you stay in because of all of hte blessings that you have and because you YOURSELF made a commitment to be married. you need to stop thinking about what you dont have and start thinking about what you value. do you value truthfulness? honesty? doing what you said you would do? therapy isnt about the other person's problems. it's about our OWN. what is it inside of you that thinks you should be so callous with these tremendous blessings?
[ Reply | Options ]i havent been callous. i have been completely devoted and focused ENTIRELY on what a wonderful man he is for 10 years. i have only looked at my own deficiencies and blocks. (see my postings above). i do feel incredibly blessed. i think because of my sexual trauma and abuse though, i chose a man based on that framework. not from a healthy confident place. so, do you believe in the "you've made your bed now lie in it" way of approaching life? do you believe people who stay in sexless repressed marriages benefit their children? i grew up in a sexless home and that is why i had NO IDEA about sexuality in life and married someone who repulsed me physically.
[ Reply | Options ]look. i'm sure that you and your therapist have discussed this a good deal. but the tone of your email is "i" this and "i" that. it's all about you. which is a framework for life you get to have before YOU choose the responsibility of creating a family. then it doesnt get to be "i" "i". once YOU make that choice, whoever you were when you made it, then your frame needs to shift. otherwise, yes, you are callous and self absorbed. period.
[ Reply | Options ]i have put my husband's feeling before mine for the last 10 years. he was so afraid of losing me he didnt want me to go to rehab because he was afraid i would "get well" and leave him, was afraid if me going on a retreat because it sounds risque to him and thereatened him, my post sounds all I I I because YES it finally is about me. most of my life has been about people pleasing for survival, my family, now my husband. it sounds like YOUR framework for life is VERY punitive. no one can change their mind. no one can make mistakes.
[ Reply | Options ]Oh OP, best of luck to you, Sex isn't everything but it is a very important,vital energy. It sounds like you need to have a realized sexual existence. If it isn't with your husband, you'll need to suffer that loss. I'm truly sorry.
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it sounds to me like you've had way too much therapy if you ask me. i have experience with your type in my own dysfunctional family. you've had so much therapy that you know all the lingo (so you, therefore, "know it all" and are pretty much beyond help at this point). and, because you are so well-versed in all this psycho-babble, you have gotten to the point where you see everyone's deficiencies but your own. if you had only stayed faithful, this whole story would read much differently. but your infidelity, in my opinion, is unconscionable.
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NP: You are clearly very mad at your husband. I am not shrink, bt I would guess you are deflecting, or trying t make yourself mad at him so he's easier to leave?? Also, you talk so much about hte importance of sexuality in life.. it's odd to me. I just don't see it as important. Maybe 5% of our marriage is sexuality, 25% humor, etc..
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why ? because she is saying that you just have to stick out your commitments even though it is a daily inner torture? because he is a good man? because sex "isnt everything"? never said it was "everything" but ANY marraige counselor will say that physical attraction and chemistry is a MUST. unless BOTH partners do not value sexual vitality.
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The point at which you were most selfish is when you married him - not now (yes, yes, I know you had issues). Does he know that you actually find him repulsive and he's OK with that? If he is, what about an open marriage?
[ Reply | Options ]trust me - i know that is when i was most selfish and it is a testament to how little i trusted myself and my instincts. i had a teeny tiny voice saying he wasnt the one but i didnt trust myself as i had made so many bad decisions. i have told him t hat i never truly chose to have a SEXUAL relationship with him. that i have always done it to please him, never myself. he knows this now.. and is accepting it. and now that we are FINALLY being honest with each other we are looking at how we can COMPLETELY re-boot our sex life. reading books... looking at more spiritual appraoches to sex
[ Reply | Options ]Oh my goodness. How could you say this to him? I'm siging off this post, because it is so upsetting. I feel for your DH. If my DH told me he only had sex w me to please me, not himself, I would be heartbroken. If you hate him so much, please do leave him. Let him find a loving wife who will be there through thick and thin. There are many more single women out there.
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You did your husband a great disservice by marrying him when you felt no attraction at all towards him. It was selfish and you basically used him for security. You did a greater disservice by having two children with this husband that you felt repulsed by. And now you want to dump them all because you want a better life? You do not sound worthy of your husband or children and I hope he gets them in a custody battle, because he is better suited to be a responsible parent. I'm sorry you had an early trauma, but does that give you license to do what you will do to three people? I say NO. You've made your decisions, now honor up to them.
[ Reply | Options ]I feel like this could have been written by a man, and he would be ripped to shreds on this board.
[ Reply | Options ]You've missed the point; most here do not approve or respect what she has done and the kids and dh are the innocent victims. OP needs to own up to responsibility and not cause pain to family. OP is an adolescent mentality with a fantasy life when she has dc who need her to be an adult.
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sexual attraction is NOT a good thing to base a relationship on. Respect and trust come in MUCH more handy. Don't know about you, but any man I was ever really attracted to and had great sex with was not someone whom I trusted or respected very much. I would advise you to work on your sex life with your dh. Take it as a challenge, you never know!! Think of all the pain and suffering you will cause the way you're going
[ Reply | Options ]my mother broke up a stable (though there were problems) family for a man she was into sexually (though that of course didn't last, it never does). I have sympathy for her, but after years of analysis therapy and bad behavior on my part, but only after that and a lot of grief, I have trained myself to make better choices than her. But it was very very hard, and I wish I had had better models.
[ Reply | Options ]Lone dissenter here. You get one life. If you and your husband are not happy together, you don't need to stay out of some type of obligation. Separate.
[ Reply | Options ]not alone - the most selfish part was marrying him in the first place (though from some of OPs posts, if looks like dh was looking for someone who was easy to control) - that's done and shouldn't necessarily be perpetuated. If they can't ignite the fire or agree to let the fire be ignited elsewhere, then enough.
[ Reply | Options ]I just don't think divorce is the worst thing ever. Even if we disagree with every choice she made in the past, she is here now, and basically can get a divorce and pursue happiness. JMO.
[ Reply | Options ]NP: Do you seriously think she'll find happiness with this other guy? (And let's be honest, the other guy is the reason she's contemplating leaving, not some great personal epiphany like she's trying to paint it above.) I feel like we'll just see another thread from her a few years down the road with lots of ALL CAPS talking about everything that's wrong with guy #2 and it's not really her fault because it was her first bad marriage that made her make this mistake in her second marriage and . . .
[ Reply | Options ]A lot of times guy #2 IS a device to get out of the situation. It is called Triangulation and does not mean that she has to be with him. Her ultimate happiness clearly does not lie with her husband, and both of them need a chance at a REAL marriage, whether or not he realizes it yet.
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Dh is willing to fight tooth and nail but is not willing to work on making himself more attractive? That doesn't seem to jibe.
[ Reply | Options ]is your lover going to weave into what would be your new life as a single mother with two dc, or are you going to give custody to ex-dh? it's not like you're single w/o kids and can flop in bed whenever you want. is lover going to fit into any kind of life with whatever custody arrangments would be made? think about that.
[ Reply | Options ]np: I'll join in with the lone dissenter above and say that if you feel the marriage is beyond repair, then leave. Divorce isn't the end of everything, and if you can find a way to build a happier life, then I say go for it. Yes, you took vows but every once in a while, life goes askew, and as the poster wrote above, you only have one life to live. Go out and live it.
[ Reply | Options ]tritto regarding having one life to lead. But remember, things in our head don't always translate so neatly into real life, i.e. the sexy boyfriend and happily ever after. Also, let's be fair: any guy that is fighting tooth and nail to stay in a miserable situation has some serious co-dependency issues of his own.
[ Reply | Options ]OR from above: yes, there is no doubt that the boyfriend in the wings has been idealized, but objectively, it does seem like she feels that her marriage is beyond repair. And like it or not, sometimes marriage is. (And nope, I'm not divorced - married 8 yrs...and I know you're agreeing w/me, so I'm directing this at other posters, not you :) I think what someone suggested above is probably best: leave husband AND boyfriend. Figure herself out first.
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I think you should think about your kids first. What effect will your split have on them? They are going to learn that you cheated on their dad. They will probably learn that their dad desperately tried to save your marriage. The other man is going to be gone in a matter of time, and if you think you feel unhappy and unfulfilled now, just think about how you're going to feel as a single mom. You're enjoying the passion and excitement now, but it's just temporary. I have seen this happen so many times. Odds are so stacked against you--this thing with the other guy is not going to work out, and you are going to be alone, and your kids' lives are going to suffer for your bad judgment. Try to look at this like a grownup and make things work wit...
[ Reply | Options ]eventually you'll lose the passion for new guy, it will become a intense friendship with the same 'emotional security' (or maybe not even that)...and then you'll miss the old father of your kids. just screw around with new guy a few times to get it out of your system during the separation, realize he has a ugly dick, and then go back to old guy with a new appreciation for him.
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[-]So, my family has decided to leave the city for the suburbs due to my husband's commute time (which is crazy long). I am totally depressed about it. I hate the suburbs. I love Chicago. We got into a freaky good magnet school that is unbelievably amazing and won't see anything that comes close to its quality where we are going.
11 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]op here: pushed enter too soon. I love my husband and can do this for our family so we actually get to see him more. But ugh....we'll be going from diversity to lily white, from fun and interesting and a million friends to knowing no one and totally boring. Has anyone felt the same and then found out they really loved the suburbs? Is that even possible?
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also, op here again, if we leave, we give up our spot at one of the single best magnet schools in Chicago. We will never get it back if we go. And getting into a good school was a stroke of complete and total luck. Our neighborhood school is pretty bad and we cannot afford private. As well, Illinois schools don't allow you to carry more than 2-5 years of experience with you from district to district, so if we were to return to the city after being in the suburbs once our kids graduated, my husband would take a massive pay cut. Once we go, we aren't coming back.
[ Reply | Options ]I live in Illinois and am a teacher, and I do not believe that is true about only taking 2-5 years of experience from district to district. There are plenty of teaching jobs available in the city. I'd look for a new job closer to the city and stay put.
[ Reply | Options ]I know Chicago will only allow you to carry in 2 years experience from outside the system (I taught there myself) and Evanston will only allow 5. Many others will let you carry in a few. There may be a few exceptions, though. And there actually aren't a lot of teaching jobs in the city. Myself and 4 friends tried to get jobs this fall and nothing. I got one interview. CPS has been laying off teachers and closing down schools and office jobs (which puts the office people who used to be teachers back in the system looking for jobs). It used to be true that there were a lot of city jobs, especially if you were willing to go to a bad area (I am willing) but now, unless you are special ed, bilingual or middle school math, it is really har...
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[-]Okay so I am the poster with the biological father dying of probable murder... Just found out hubby needs surgery that will keep him from using his arm for 6 months.. that means mom is on CONSTANT baby duty for 6 months, in addition to starting my own branch of a business and had a serious set back/let down today. Mommys, how do you cope with being stretched so thin. I normally would have a glass of wine, dont want to turn to alcohol.
3 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]Seriously - my friends get me through. Having two women who have known me for the last 15 years and have been to hell and back with me. Having someone who is willing to listen to you vent, let you bounce the craziest ideas off of them and will just let you sit on their couch and cry when you need to makes the biggest difference (also having them do childcare sometimes helps too). I hope you have someone like this in your life - you need friends like them and everyone, particularly you, absolutely deserve them. GL.
[ Reply | Options ]OMG... you poor dear!! they say that bad things happen in threes but you seem to be getting a six-pack! I'm so, so sorry... wish I had some great epiphany-type advice for you but there really are no quick fixes to some situations. Maybe don't try to confront all your challenges in simultaneously and in their entirety. Approach each one in smaller increments that you know you can handle at the moment and once you've done that, put another goal in front of yourself. Basically, be aware of the bigger game plan but keep chipping at it in easily achievable bits. BTW - even if your husband's (one?) arm is out of commish for 6 months, that should not prevent him from helping you do a lot of childcare. Best of luck to you and keep the faith ...
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[-]Need banking help/advice. Just realized bank had been charging me various insufficient fund fees every few days. It looks like they paid an automatic debit item which put my account overdrawn. It looks like they've charged about $700 in fees to my account. Is this legal? Please send advice with no flames.
2 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]I have "overdraft protection" and my bank, TD, charges exhorbitant rates that rocket past original $25 overdraft to tune of 1000s of dollars by charging on entire ovredraft limit - meaning on the $5000 I'm allowed, not on the $25 I actually went over. And they look at me straightfaced and tell me I am responsible for it and they keep charging on interest on the $5000. So yes, I'm afraid this full frontal fiscal attack is legal
[ Reply | Options ]its pretty disgusting, I tried to opt out of it and my bank won't let me. I didn't know I was overdrawn and lunch, a cab ride, and nail polish turned into over $100 in fees. I called the bank and they said that it was my problem. This is the same bank that had a HUGE profit last quarter. I hate, hate, hate them.
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[-]My MIL insists I do everything (okay not everything but most) like her daughter does and thinks I should be calling her all the time for advice and whatnot. Why am I not allowed independent thought and to be my own person? She assumes I will go to all of the family functions because I "have to". What's up with that???
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Is your mother still alive? The reason I am asking is b/c I always ask my mom about things but dh always asks his mom. My mom said she was worried that my brothers wife would just always go to her mom but I do, that's just the way it works.
[ Reply | Options ]Yep my mother is still alive and kind of "stays out of it". She tells me to just drink wine LOL And my siblings have kids too so we are stymied over the I "should call SIL" for advice.
[ Reply | Options ]She is just being intrusive. Do you ever call MIL for anything? Maybe calling a few times about simple things will get her off your back. Also tell you that you can not attend every family function b/c your family deserves some of your time too. Tell her that you will try to be as fair as possible.
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Here is an example: I took DD and DS to see cloudy with a chance of meatballs by myself. DH had to work so I said "let's go and have some fun." Well when MIL heard I did that she got all up in arms that I didn't call SIL and her DCs to go. How was I able to do that by myself, she asked. Frankly the three of us had a blast.
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[-]Does your child's school have a rule that all treats must be store-bought? How do you feel about that?
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[-]My husband and I are invited to a party this weekend, need to dress up, don't want to makea fuss, and want to feel comfertable. Any suggestions for easy customes for an adult couple?
15 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]Does your husband have a nice black suit and vampire teeth? Can you simulate a cheerleading costume (pleated skirt, fitted sweater (you know that one you grew out of because your baby made you go from a B cup to a D cup). Wooden stake. Buffy The Vampire Slayer. A fedora and french baret (sp) can get you close to Bonnie & Clyde. Can you get some wigs and go as John & Yoko?
[ Reply | Options ]The most recent time we dressed for Halloween, DH and I went as Men In Black--suits, skinny ties, sunglasses. pretty easy. may not be timely, but who cares...
[ Reply | Options ]He can wear a suit be Don Draper and you can be Betty or any of the other characters in Mad Men.
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doctor and a nurse. (Though it's hard to find a nurse that's not trashy.) I just bought a lab coat and white tights, and wore white shoes, white skirt, white shirt, and wore a Fisher Price stethoscope. I made a hat out of paper. DH wore a lab coat and a nametag and a stethoscope. I have other ideas, but this is the most basic one.
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