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  • What's your top 3 so far? Indicate FC if any.

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    01.24.12, 08:29 AM Flag ]
    • St Anns, Ethical, Dalton (FC = St Anns)

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      01.24.12, 08:29 AM Flag
    • Grace, Trinity, St Lukes (Fc= grace)

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      01.24.12, 08:29 AM Flag
    • Collegiate, Dalton (fc) and HM

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      01.24.12, 08:30 AM Flag
    • grace, friends, avenues

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      01.24.12, 08:30 AM Flag
    • Speyer, St Anns, Dalton / fc = Speyer

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      01.24.12, 08:31 AM Flag
      • Fake! Speyer-Spam-A-Lot! No one in their right mind would choose Speyer over those two TT schools!

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        01.24.12, 11:45 AM Flag
        • Sorry to disappoint you but the post is real.

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          01.25.12, 04:29 AM Flag
          • ignore the troll. it's just more speyer-envy

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            01.25.12, 07:21 AM Flag
          • Why the hell would you want to send your kid to a pressure cooker for kindergarten???

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            01.26.12, 06:16 AM Flag
            • np: You clearly don't know Speyer. It is Not a pressure cooker. There's rigor for sure but it's rigor without pressure. The kids there thrive on rigor.. They crave it.

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              01.26.12, 06:18 AM Flag
              • NP: I have a kid in K at Speyer. It absolutely can be a pressure cooker.

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                01.29.12, 02:20 PM Flag
              • barf. DC: "Mommy, please give me rigor! But rigor without pressure, ok?" DM: "Of course, snookums. I'll turn down Dalton and Trinity and all of those EASY, pressurized schools, and send you to Speyer!" That's just so believable...

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                01.31.12, 02:49 PM Flag
                • Says the 3rd tier mom. It is so clear you're jealous.

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                  01.31.12, 02:51 PM Flag
                • Well, it is true that trinity or dalton would be too easy for an advanced kid.

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                  01.31.12, 04:06 PM Flag
                  • i regognize your post. you sound like the disgruntled PITA dalton mom who complains non-stop that her snowflake isn't being challenged enough. well take your kid out and stop complaining on ub.

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                    01.31.12, 07:29 PM Flag
      • Ditto on Speyer and St.Anns! but no clear fc yet.

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        01.28.12, 12:44 PM Flag
    • nightingale, chapin, trinity

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      01.24.12, 08:31 AM Flag
    • Brearley, Spence, Chapin

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      01.24.12, 08:32 AM Flag
    • Speyer(fc), Horace Mann, Hunter

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      01.24.12, 08:34 AM Flag
      • ditto but Collegiate instead of Hunter

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        01.24.12, 08:37 AM Flag
        • Fake! Speyer-Spam-A-Lot! No one in their right mind would choose Speyer over those two TT schools!

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          01.24.12, 11:45 AM Flag
        • Is your dc at WSMS?

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          01.28.12, 12:20 PM Flag
          • No, but why WSMS?

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            01.28.12, 12:41 PM Flag
            • I was just curious based on your top choices. Speyer and Collegiate are the top guns at WSMS.

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              01.28.12, 01:02 PM Flag
              • this. and i don't get it

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                01.29.12, 02:21 PM Flag
      • Fake! Speyer-Spam-A-Lot! No one in their right mind would choose Speyer over those two TT schools!

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        01.24.12, 11:45 AM Flag
    • Oh my, how are any of our dcs ever going to get into the few spaces at each school. I swear my dc has such a strong application at our fc, except for a famous or billionaire parent, it hits every point soundly, plus. If my dc doesn't get in, and that is likely, who does? Luck be a lady till dc gets in.

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      01.24.12, 08:35 AM Flag
      • you have posted this before - what do you mean? your child is better than others?

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        01.24.12, 08:38 AM Flag
        • yes. that is what she means.

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          01.24.12, 09:14 AM Flag
        • I do not mean my dc is better than other. I mean my dc's application is better than most, 99 ERB, top preschool who likes dc a lot, strong board support at fc, dc does very well with admissions people, dc plays an instrument well, parent's have interesting jobs and some diversity, but there are still enough dc's that have better applications that getting in to any of the schools we want to dc to be at is a long shot. I have said this before because I am anxious, not to put anyone down. There is a difference between have a strong application and being better than other people.

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          01.24.12, 10:56 AM Flag
          • You do realize that many people have this package, correct? Sit tight and see what happens.

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            01.24.12, 06:18 PM Flag
          • You totally make sense. Thx for being open

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            01.24.12, 06:30 PM Flag
          • I posted above, "I do not mean my dc...". I am really worried now, this is not a back-handed way to show off. Talked to a friend who works at a school. I think we may be in a less good position than I thought, that is we are shooting for top schools and there is a bigger chance than I though of being shut out. We worked very hard on these applications, cultivating recommendations over the last few years, working to get into a top preschool, etc. I will be so disappointed if we get shut out. I know it is only kindergarten and there is a long road ahead, but we worked so hard on this.....it is like going to the Olympics and there is only a gold medal, no silver or bronze.

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            01.25.12, 07:41 AM Flag
            • ^^^^and, most importantly, we have a wonderful, smart, likable, curious, etc., etc., etc, child who will be a positive in any kindergarten class.

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              01.25.12, 08:08 AM Flag
      • +200

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        01.24.12, 08:40 AM Flag
      • Erb score?

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        01.24.12, 08:41 AM Flag
    • Ethical, Friends, Dalton

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      01.24.12, 08:38 AM Flag
      • +1

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        01.24.12, 08:39 AM Flag
      • +2

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        01.24.12, 08:40 AM Flag
      • plus everyone else at Beginnings

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        01.24.12, 08:41 AM Flag
        • lol, so true! why does the entire school want the same?

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          01.24.12, 05:44 PM Flag
          • Because they all are progressive and have tons of B families at each. It would be an easy transition for the kids because the teaching philosophies are pretty much the same.

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            01.24.12, 06:19 PM Flag
            • B has pull at Dalton and Friends. EC, not sure, but they love the school.

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              01.24.12, 06:21 PM Flag
            • is Friends progressive?

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              01.24.12, 06:22 PM Flag
            • are there a ton of B families at Ethical? In my experience about one/year got to prek. rare at k.

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              01.24.12, 06:47 PM Flag
      • FC?

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        01.24.12, 10:35 AM Flag
    • collegiate (fc)

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      01.24.12, 08:41 AM Flag
    • Dalton, Collegiate, Trinity, FC= Trinity

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      01.24.12, 08:45 AM Flag
    • Speyer, Hunter

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      01.24.12, 08:46 AM Flag
      • Speyer, Horace Mann

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        01.24.12, 08:51 AM Flag
        • fc?

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          01.24.12, 10:48 AM Flag
          • Speyer

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            01.24.12, 12:03 PM Flag
            • Us too. Some nutto called my post fake. Is your dc girl or boy? Care to share ERB?

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              01.24.12, 12:07 PM Flag
              • boy. 99x7. ignore the angry troll, i actually feel sorry for her. anyway, so what about your dcs's score?

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                01.24.12, 12:14 PM Flag
                • 99x5. also a boy. Do you have a 3rd choice? DH thinks Speyer and HM are the only two schools worth $35K+.

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                  01.24.12, 12:22 PM Flag
                  • I am totally missing something in some of these posts. How do you know that your child is 99 x 5 or 7, rather than 3? I saw only three scores on the ERB that made up the SSS.

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                    01.24.12, 12:30 PM Flag
                    • There are 8 subtests. Look at the scaled scores for each subtest. If your kid got at least a 17 then that is a 99 percentile for that particular subtest. You can also see these scaled score numbers on the bar graph. A 99x8 means a dc scored 17+ (or 99%) on each of the 8 subtests.

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                      01.24.12, 12:42 PM Flag
                      • Well, I'll be darned. She had 99th percentile on five of the subtests. I hadn't realized that a 17 was 99th percentile!

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                        01.24.12, 01:09 PM Flag
                        • we are 99x6 then!

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                          01.24.12, 05:58 PM Flag
                        • well, i'll be darned too! 4 posters right in a row who happen to have dcs who scored above the 99th percentile across 4 or more subtests and they all want SPEYER!! Nice one. I like how you are also injected the higher than 99x3 piece into the conversation to really set it apart.

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                          01.25.12, 07:46 PM Flag
                      • OMG this is a new low. Now I've heard it all...

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                        01.24.12, 06:40 PM Flag
                    • 99x8 is a shorthand way of saying: picture concepts 99, coding 99, block design 99, matrix reasoning 99, vocabulary 99, similarities 99, word reasoning 99, comprehension 99

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                      01.24.12, 01:08 PM Flag
                  • we have a distant 3rd choice.

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                    01.24.12, 12:31 PM Flag
                    • np: Would love to know what it is, as we have Hunter, Speyer as top choices

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                      01.24.12, 12:35 PM Flag
                      • rather not say but its a school considered tt on ub

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                        01.24.12, 12:49 PM Flag
                    • Which one are you - the Speyer/Hunter poster? or the Speyer/HM poster?

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                      01.25.12, 06:47 AM Flag
                      • speyer/hm

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                        01.25.12, 07:23 AM Flag
                        • GL! So much speyer-envy on this board lately.

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                          01.25.12, 08:05 AM Flag
                        • yea, I know.. it's pretty amazing though how a small and new school could have that much of an effect on people. I can understand the envy but the vile hate? that's just too bizzare, it can only mean one thing -- deep resentment by that anti-speyer poster. huge axe to grinding for sure.

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                          01.25.12, 08:21 AM Flag
                        • small school + big impact = damn powerful school!

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                          01.25.12, 08:24 AM Flag
                        • ;-)

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                          01.25.12, 08:26 AM Flag
        • Fake! Speyer-Spam-A-Lot! No one in their right mind would choose Speyer over those two TT schools!

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          01.24.12, 11:46 AM Flag
      • Fake! Speyer-Spam-A-Lot! No one in their right mind would choose Speyer over those two TT schools!

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        01.24.12, 11:46 AM Flag
        • Just stop. I am brand new to this site and the single most annoying thing about it is your repeated postings. Stop cluttering up these pages -- I'm sure everyone understands that you think all Speyer-lovers are fake posters. Who really cares?

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          01.31.12, 08:08 AM Flag
    • Packer, Friends, St. Lukes (FC=Packer)

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      01.24.12, 08:46 AM Flag
    • Dalton and Collegiate. On par.

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      01.24.12, 08:46 AM Flag
    • Collegiate, Dalton

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      01.24.12, 08:47 AM Flag
    • Lots of Collegiate/Dalton picks. And its a tough year for boys so things should be interesting.

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      01.24.12, 08:49 AM Flag
      • Why do you say that? Our psd and Babby said this was untrue

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        01.24.12, 08:51 AM Flag
        • it's UB where people like to create drama and hype

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          01.24.12, 08:53 AM Flag
          • ITA. Every year they say this!

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            01.24.12, 08:55 AM Flag
        • You asked Babby? Would she tell you the truth?

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          01.24.12, 08:54 AM Flag
        • Babby told our connected PSD she is not taking any boys. Are we the only ones hearing that?

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          01.24.12, 08:59 AM Flag
          • Yes.

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            01.24.12, 09:00 AM Flag
          • IME that's a classic way for a psd to tell families to move on without providing specific feedback.

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            01.24.12, 09:02 AM Flag
          • Yes. We got feedback that they were interested in our son.

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            01.24.12, 09:08 AM Flag
          • we got that too. (our whole school was told it's tough for boys). unless we are at the same school?

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            01.24.12, 05:42 PM Flag
            • if she is really telling everyone that, it seems to me that no boys from your preK are getting into D. that doesn't mean *no* boys are getting into D, obviously. there will be plenty, as there are every year, just not from your school.

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              01.24.12, 06:02 PM Flag
            • Ditto at Beginnings.

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              01.31.12, 04:04 AM Flag
      • It's always like that. A lot will get into Dalton, a very few will get into Collegiate and the vast majority of the ones who don't get either will get in somewhere else they really like (those two are the big crowd-pleasers and best in their category, so one of them is generally the top choice for many parents of boys, but #2-#5 on those people's lists will vary widely, from buckley to ecfs to riverdale to friends, depending on the family). -btdt twice

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        01.24.12, 08:55 AM Flag
    • St. Hilda's & St. Hugh's, Spence, Speyer, Cathedral (but hoping for Hunter) as we don't have $$

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      01.24.12, 08:53 AM Flag
    • Speyer, HM, Brearley (FC=Speyer)

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      01.24.12, 08:55 AM Flag
      • Fake! Speyer-Spam-A-Lot! No one in their right mind would choose Speyer over those two TT schools!

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        01.24.12, 11:46 AM Flag
        • Not fake, but thank you for further confirming how threatened you are by my choice. signed mom who is very much in her right mind to choose a school she firmly believes is best suited for her child.

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          01.25.12, 03:36 AM Flag
          • NP: I believe you. I posted Speyer/HM/Collegiate earlier.

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            01.25.12, 04:25 AM Flag
          • I'm a Brearley parent and I believe you. I work with children and have had the wonderful pleasure of meeting some truly remarkable kids from Speyer. I don't doubt for a moment that the school would be a wise first choice for many. Good luck to you and your daughter.

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            01.25.12, 07:16 AM Flag
            • Another B parent and ITA.

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              01.26.12, 12:05 PM Flag
    • Dalton, Ethical, Grace (FC= Dalton)

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      01.24.12, 08:57 AM Flag
      • can't imagine how if you like dalton you also like grace?

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        01.24.12, 05:55 PM Flag
    • Calhoun, Trevor, Town

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      01.24.12, 09:00 AM Flag
    • Grace (fc), St Lukes,...., Trinity (distant 3rd)

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      01.24.12, 09:04 AM Flag
    • Speyer and Hunter (top two!)

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      01.24.12, 09:05 AM Flag
      • Fake! Speyer-Spam-A-Lot! No one in their right mind would choose Speyer over those two TT schools!

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        01.24.12, 11:47 AM Flag
      • Are you at Hollingworth by chance?

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        01.25.12, 08:35 AM Flag
    • Riverdale Dalton Trinity

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      01.24.12, 09:07 AM Flag
    • Riverdale Collegiate St Bernards

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      01.24.12, 09:07 AM Flag
    • Grace, Ethical and .... Dalton (distant 3rd)

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      01.24.12, 09:10 AM Flag
    • Collegiate, St. Bernard's, St. David's.

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      01.24.12, 09:38 AM Flag
    • Chapin and Spence (FC is probably S). no clear third.

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      01.24.12, 09:41 AM Flag
    • Grace, Avenues, St Anns

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      01.24.12, 09:44 AM Flag
    • UNIS and Trinity (FC is UNIS but have strong connection at Trinity)

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      01.24.12, 09:51 AM Flag
      • us too, have connections to T and EC but loved UNIS

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        01.28.12, 03:36 PM Flag
    • I hope 90% of you have kids with excellent erbs (or you have billions). Clearly, feedback is NOT in.

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      01.24.12, 09:58 AM Flag
      • what do you mean clearly? b/c these hopes are too unrealistic?

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        01.24.12, 10:03 AM Flag
        • YES. The ss tts might have 25 spots each.

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          01.24.12, 12:52 PM Flag
          • exactly. and dalton has 50, and Ethical 18 (maybe). more people here want these schools then there are spots.

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            01.24.12, 08:17 PM Flag
      • Well we all know you Speyer hopefuls had at least 99x8 right? ;-)

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        01.24.12, 10:06 AM Flag
        • that's a given.

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          01.24.12, 10:28 AM Flag
          • and they still won't get in

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            01.27.12, 08:59 AM Flag
            • wrong. My niece at Speyer had a 99x7.

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              01.28.12, 09:42 AM Flag
              • My dog got in with less than that.

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                02.03.12, 12:34 PM Flag
                • Do they really accept dogs there? My dog is very smart for a dog.

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                  02.03.12, 12:36 PM Flag
                  • Send him. It is important that he be with his peers and not all the the idiot dogs at the TT kennels.

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                    02.03.12, 12:39 PM Flag
                    • This is animal cruelty. If any of you ladies send your dogs to that dump, I am calling PETA.

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                      02.03.12, 12:57 PM Flag
    • Friends, Little Red, Grace

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      01.24.12, 10:01 AM Flag
    • Why not one Avenues?

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      01.24.12, 10:33 AM Flag
      • Or does that mean that everyone who applied to Avenues got accepted?

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        01.24.12, 10:34 AM Flag
        • Let's look at the logic. If Avenues is your first choice, you would have applied to early decision and you would have either gotten in or not. The ones that got in already have so the question is irrelevant and the ones who didn't already know and wouldn't call Avenues their first choice after being dinged. So why would they answer your post?

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          01.24.12, 11:06 AM Flag
          • Ty. Except for the zinger at the end.

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            01.24.12, 11:07 AM Flag
            • didn't mean for it to be a zinger. sorry if it came off that way.

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              01.24.12, 11:10 AM Flag
            • Np.

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              01.24.12, 11:23 AM Flag
    • Ethical Ethical Ethical

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      01.24.12, 10:46 AM Flag
    • Harvard, Oxbridge, Speyer!

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      01.24.12, 10:58 AM Flag
      • huh?

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        01.24.12, 11:07 AM Flag
      • you're going to insult all those speyer/yale parents

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        01.24.12, 11:12 AM Flag
    • Ok, just for fun, I counted how many people chose each school. Here are counts for top 3 from this post: St Anne's 4, ethical 8, dalton 13, grace 7, collegiate 8, trinity 6, spence 3, Brearley 3, nightingale 2, Chapin 3, st lukes 3, Horace Mann 5, friends 6, avenues 2, Speyer 8, Marymount 1, hunter 3, packer 1, SHSH 1, Cathedral 1, Calhoun 1, Trevor 1, town 1, Riverdale 2, st Bernard's 2, st David's 1, UNIS 1, little red 1. No "top 3" votes for Allen Stevenson, CGPS, town & country, what else? No idea what this means, but seems interesting.

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      01.24.12, 12:09 PM Flag
      • Above poster: so top choices in this group are: Dalton 13, ethical 8, collegiate 8, Speyer 8, grace 7, trinity 6, friends 6, HM 5. All others 4, 3, 2, 1 or zero.

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        01.24.12, 12:12 PM Flag
    • Collegiate (fc), St. Bernard's, St. David's

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      01.24.12, 01:54 PM Flag
    • ecfs, calhoun, dalton. FC is ethical

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      01.24.12, 05:43 PM Flag
    • Speyer--otherwise I will leave New York and become a psychotic grifter.

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      01.26.12, 08:09 AM Flag
    • Allen-Stevenson for boys, Trinity for co-ed.

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      01.27.12, 08:00 AM Flag
    • Hewitt, BWL, Speyer

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      01.27.12, 08:31 AM Flag
      • BWL really? Zzzzzzzz

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        01.28.12, 07:46 PM Flag
      • fake

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        01.31.12, 03:05 PM Flag
        • Agreed. Who would really want Speyer, after all?

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          02.03.12, 12:38 PM Flag
    • Saint David's, Buckley, Collegiate (in that order)

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      01.28.12, 09:21 AM Flag
    • St. D's, St. B's, Buckley...fc tied btwn St. D and St. B

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      01.31.12, 06:33 AM Flag
    • Brearley, Spence, Chapin, in that order. FC Brearley.

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      02.03.12, 12:39 PM Flag
      • Nightingale, Brearley, Marymount, FC Nightingale

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        02.05.12, 07:19 AM Flag
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