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Do you 'enjoy' spending time with your kids?
- Yes, most of the time we really have fun together
- Sometimes it's fun, sometimes it's really dull and aggravating
- Honestly most of the time it's not fun at all, but it's not supposed to be fun
- I really don't enjoy it at all, and wish I could spend less time with them
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Posted September 13, 2007(191 replies)
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My grandfather passed away yesterday. I hadn't taken my 4mo son to meet him yet and am now really regretting it. Just venting, thanks.
9 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreThanks. I do have great memories of him just feel like my priorities are a bit mixed up that I couldn't even travel to see him. I spoke to him the day before he passed so am happy about that. So sorry about the timing of your grandmother's passing. It is hard.
[ Reply | More ]I am sorry for your loss. Write down your priorities. Since my mother has passed, I have prioritized DOING, so that I try to say yes to every invitation. Been on on some crazy trips, and become quite silly. Your not visiting made me think of this, since saying no to a visit feels easier with kids. His memory shouldn't end with his death. Join Geni.com and put up every photo of him you can, every memory, while its still fresh for your db. Visit his grave with db. They don't find this macabre at all. Good luck!
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i'm so sorry. it might be nice to start a little journal for you to put down your memories of him. it'll help your children get a good feel for him when they are old enough to read it.
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