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  • What's the funniest, best, worst thing your DC has done on a school interview/playdate?

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    11.17.09, 04:02 PM Flag ]
    • ^^ Mine, for preschool, said not one word the whole time, kept lips tightly pursed and looked at DOA like she was insane when she tried to get the group singing the ABCs. Hard to describe but it was a look that seemed to say "Where did you come up with that stupid song, and why on earth are you singing to me"

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      11.17.09, 04:04 PM Flag
      • and we are there now, but off wait list. there's hope for all!

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        11.17.09, 04:07 PM Flag
    • Best, To DOA, "Excuse me, but would you mind if I stayed here all afternoon? I like it here" Worst, other dc sat in corner picking nose, refusing to participate.

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      11.17.09, 04:05 PM Flag
      • lol

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        11.17.09, 04:08 PM Flag
      • I hope it was ok with parents that the kid fc'd the school without checking with them and psd!

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        11.17.09, 04:20 PM Flag
        • Yeah, we just left him there...we picked him up when he finished 12th grade!

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          11.17.09, 04:22 PM Flag
    • not mine, but friend's dc tore all the pictures off the wall at a pretty stiff TT

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      11.17.09, 04:09 PM Flag
      • If that isn't an indication of a poor fit, I don't know what is.

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        11.17.09, 04:21 PM Flag
        • np Sounds like the kid's just a brat.

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          11.17.09, 04:40 PM Flag
          • not really, just very energetic and to the point above, not a good fit with the school!

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            11.17.09, 06:08 PM Flag
            • Tearing pictures off the wall has NOTHING to do with being energetic.

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              11.17.09, 06:18 PM Flag
              • ita.

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                11.17.09, 06:21 PM Flag
              • yes it does. children need to expend their energy.

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                11.17.09, 07:19 PM Flag
                • *appropriately*. That's not appropriate, and a 4 or 5 yo should know better.

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                  11.17.09, 07:35 PM Flag
                  • talking preschool. dc was 2

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                    11.17.09, 07:39 PM Flag
            • Was this for pre-school or a kindergarten interview? If kindergarten - completely inappropriate and your friend should be mortified.

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              11.17.09, 07:27 PM Flag
              • preschool. i guess kid was 2 at the time. and yes, she was completely mortified. but seriously, they are 2!

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                11.17.09, 07:30 PM Flag
                • What on earth was your friend doing when her kid did this? Parents STAY with 2 yo. Says more about her parenting skills than the kid's behavior, imo

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                  11.17.09, 07:40 PM Flag
                  • as i said above she was mortified. probably standing there horrified wishing for it to be over like we all are on those preschool things when/if our dc does someting "wrong". it is an odd, strange experience to take a 2 yo into a group setting like that and they generally tell you to stand back.

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                    11.17.09, 07:56 PM Flag
                  • wow, judgmental much? has your dc NEVER done anything you didn't want them to do? you know, you can't always control them.

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                    11.17.09, 07:58 PM Flag
                    • If I was standing right there, no, dc would not be tearing pictures (plural) off a wall.

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                      11.18.09, 06:44 PM Flag
                      • congrats perfect mother.

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                        11.19.09, 07:47 AM Flag
                  • It depends on the school. Some ask parents to sit along the side of the room and let the teachers work with the DCs.

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                    11.18.09, 11:49 AM Flag
                • With a 2 year old, this is acceptable - not great, but not horrible. I thought this was a 5 year old on a kindergarten interview!

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                  11.17.09, 07:44 PM Flag
    • best thing was my nephew, at intv for tt entry (he's 12). Asked what his favorite things / hobbies are, he replied: playing video games and watching TV. DOA commented on his 'refreshing honesty' to my sister afterwards. (PS: He got in, but was a sibling and plenty smart, so that helped).

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      11.17.09, 05:50 PM Flag
      • I know a kid who had an admissions essay question that was something like what would you do with a completely free day, or what have you wanted to try or something. He wrote that he would like to go to a shooting range and/or play paintball because his mother never lets them have toy guns in the house. This was for a Catholic school. He got in.

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        11.17.09, 06:07 PM Flag
        • OR: I love it. It's true, these two anecdotes describe healthy, normal, well rounded boys!!! Whou wouldn't accept them????!!! (biased loving aunt here). At the time though my sis was a bit worried as she wasn't sure how the DOA really meant that "refreshing" ..whether she was ruffled by his pedestrian response or not...

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          11.17.09, 06:11 PM Flag
          • Yep. Mom of the gun boy was pretty horrified.

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            11.17.09, 06:24 PM Flag
          • i don't find either of these boys healthy or well-rounded. just because they were accepted with a sib at some third-rate private or parochial. YUCK.

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            11.18.09, 06:56 PM Flag
            • NP: you and the one above who thinks their kid would never do anything wrong are a real barrel of laughs. LIGHTEN UP!!

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              11.19.09, 10:40 AM Flag
    • used a few 5-syllable words

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      11.17.09, 06:02 PM Flag
      • hmm.. struggling to think of any

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        11.17.09, 07:21 PM Flag
    • Said, at circle time, she drank chocolate milkshakes for breakfast every day (really protein shake from healthfood store because she was SUCH a slowpoke of an eater in the morning).

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      11.17.09, 06:11 PM Flag
    • had an accident......of the poop variety. It was lovely let me tell you! I can laugh about it now, so that good, but it was not so funny then!

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      11.17.09, 06:11 PM Flag
      • did dc get in, or were you SOL? hahah. (sorry, couldnt resist)

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        11.17.09, 06:13 PM Flag
        • ill let you know when we find out...it happened last week!

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          11.17.09, 06:15 PM Flag
          • doh! yes, plz come back in feb and let us know!

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            11.17.09, 06:20 PM Flag
          • np Was this a preschool playdate? Can't imagine they'd care much. If K, I doubt a kid who does this has much of a shot.

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            11.17.09, 06:20 PM Flag
            • Kindergarten, and he hasn't had an accident since he was 3, it was a total fluke thing, i have no idea why. Hasn't happened since, it just become laughable to me, maybe its just a sign that that is not the school for us.

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              11.17.09, 06:31 PM Flag
              • Aw, poor thing. He was probably so upset. maybe it will make you stand out in the process!

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                11.17.09, 07:59 PM Flag
                • true...thanks for the support, ill post about when I find out if he gets in!

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                  11.18.09, 04:51 AM Flag
      • My ds did the same thing - he got in. Full disclosure - he is a sib.

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        11.18.09, 09:45 AM Flag
    • JCC, teachers took out Brown Bear Brown Bear to read. This was after all this false 'fun' effort at "play". DC sat there with the juice cup in front of him, and burst into tears. Who could blame him. What on earth were we doing there? Who WERE these ppl? He had heard that story about 100 times before...and none of it, from the puzzles to the boring story, was fun. We were politely WL'd.

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      11.17.09, 06:14 PM Flag
      • i think you sound like a nut. it's a preschool playdate -- did you expect them to take out war and peace?

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        11.18.09, 10:47 AM Flag
        • No, but make an effort to take out an age appropriate book that maybe EVERYONE IN THE WORLD does NOT have and has NOT read A ZILLION TIMES. They're the preschool! They should have a better selection / knowledge than me!

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          11.18.09, 05:37 PM Flag
          • I have no idea what that book is. Never read it to my 3yo

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            11.18.09, 06:44 PM Flag
            • NP: you either aren't in school yet or live under a rock.

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              11.19.09, 10:41 AM Flag
    • Crawled under a giant globe and howled "there's the Antartica!"

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      11.17.09, 06:20 PM Flag
    • waiting for the playgroup to start, my dc went around to all the others (they were given paper, books, crayons to amuse them while waiting) and started "correcting" their coloring/letters or reading the books their parents were trying to read to them. DH and I were mortified. It was very odd, as if DC thought this was a competition and he was trying to rattle or impress the others.

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      11.17.09, 07:29 PM Flag
      • DC had it correct, in a way. very perceptive kid. Probably not good for dc's chances, but it does show dc knows all too well what is going on. Poor kid.

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        11.17.09, 08:36 PM Flag
        • i know. it was strange behavior for him, he must sense he's been compared. that part sucks!

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          11.18.09, 10:13 AM Flag
    • For preschool my 2year-old dc reached out to a very well-endowed teaching assitant and after touching her breasts, exclaimed, "WOW what's in there?"

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      11.17.09, 08:49 PM Flag
    • Moving to NYC from out of town, we showed up late. When asked what other schools we were applying to, we said "none", and we didn't say that we were comfortable with our public option. So, we got an intro lecture on the competitiveness of NY private school admissions. Humiliating and didn't show us in a very positive light. WL, ultimately accepted.

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      11.17.09, 09:09 PM Flag
      • what does this have to do with something your dc did? and, what school asks where else you are applying???

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        11.18.09, 05:06 AM Flag
    • for a preschool playdate, our 2 year old was playing at the sand table and flicked a shovel full on the kid next to him. the teacher asked him to stop and he did it again. and again. my dh got up and removed him ... we were sitting in a corner and not supposed to intervene. polite wl that should have been a reject. btw, our ds is probably one of the best behaved kids in his preschool class now. the terrible two's were an awful time to do preschool playdates!

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      11.18.09, 08:04 AM Flag
      • i know. there is no way to control them at that age!

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        11.18.09, 10:14 AM Flag
      • This what kills me about playdates -- they're 2!!! How do you assess a 2-year-old? My 2-year-old is an angel on some days and frankly, acts like a brat on others.

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        11.18.09, 10:23 AM Flag
    • At Friends ds kept asking when the playdate was going to start. When they eventually told him it was happening right now, he said "that's not true because the room is not like a classroom, it's boring, there's nothing fun to do and the grown-ups are not doing anything interesting, so it can't be a playdate". Feedback was "He did not have a good playdate" YA THINK!!!

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      11.18.09, 10:14 AM Flag
      • Omg, so funny. Where do they do their playdates? Sounds like you have an observant and articulate DS!

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        11.18.09, 12:49 PM Flag
    • Funniest - preschool playdate, just turned 2 - walked into the classroom, went to a corner behind a chair and took a big, stinky dump in her diaper. Then she walked over to me, smiling, "Mommy, poopy." I took her to a bathroom, changed her and brought her back. She promptly walked over to another DC and swiped the toy he was playing with. I thought we were toast. She got in anyway.

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      11.18.09, 11:48 AM Flag
      • isn't it strange? for preschool the playdate we thought DC rocked was a flat our reject. The two we got into he was questionable at best.

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        11.18.09, 12:51 PM Flag
        • All of this makes me so nervous! I thought our DC rocked playdate at FC as well, but am really nervous they just want shy kids after reading UB!

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          11.18.09, 06:35 PM Flag
    • Beginnings playdate, many years ago. DC#1 was only 1.5 y.o., and I had just had DC#2 a few weeks before. DC#1 was so jealous she completely regressed, and spent the entire playdate crawling on the floor and babbling like a baby -- all the more humiliating because other kids were reciting colors and counting in Spanish to their adoring parents. We left thinking that we wouldn't want to go to any school that accepted a DC like ours appeared to be that day!

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      11.18.09, 06:18 PM Flag
      • Did you get in?

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        11.18.09, 06:36 PM Flag
      • well, did you get in? hello, punch line?

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        11.18.09, 06:38 PM Flag
      • that is really funny. (hopefully you can look back and laugh!) love too the kids counting in spanish! at 2!

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        11.19.09, 07:51 AM Flag
        • yes, i can look back and laugh (thanks). and the counting in spanish was as a result of a lot of parental prompting!

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          11.19.09, 07:03 PM Flag
    • Bribed ds to do Riverdale playdate; we had rented a car & everything. We get there & he refuses to get out of the car. I said (horrible!) "But u won't get any candy if you don't go." He thought about it, then "Ok. I won't have the candy." Good for him!

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      11.19.09, 06:35 AM Flag
      • wow, he didn't go in? After you drove up there. What did you do? I guess you can't force them!

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        11.19.09, 07:50 AM Flag
    • after playdate my DS (and everyone else) got a prize for their hard work--DS took prize and said, no thanks I want to go to XYZ (another) school anyway--

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      11.19.09, 07:52 AM Flag
      • wow, was it true? How did this turn out?

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        11.19.09, 10:41 AM Flag
        • yes true--he ultimately went to our FC for him--slowly weaned him off of his FC..loves his new K..

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          11.19.09, 10:50 AM Flag
          • What, at that age a dc has a FC of his/her own? Come on.

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            11.19.09, 11:30 AM Flag
            • read the prior post about what he said as he was leaving interview--obviously he did not really have FC

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              11.19.09, 11:58 AM Flag
    • Friend took DC to a playdate for PS applying as a very young 2. DC couldn't walk yet and she didn't want it to be used against her so she kept acting like DC was only playing around saying things like "she's so funny, not sure why she wants to crawl today!..."

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      11.19.09, 10:40 AM Flag
      • that was quick thinking! did she get in?

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        11.20.09, 05:52 PM Flag
    • Ds was given a small flashlight at the end of one school playdate. He promptly began using it to swordfight with another boy. It broke.

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      11.19.09, 04:08 PM Flag
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