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  • I know this has been done to death but I'd love some input. I pay my amazing cleaning woman $100 for 2300 square feet. She's here 6 1/2 hours (and cleans under rugs, books on shelves, etc.). I think she deserves a raise but how much? She comes every other week and has never asked for a raise or anything else. Would a 5$ raise look cheap? $10? Tx!

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    11.07.09, 09:00 AM [ Flag ]
    • Go to 125

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      11.07.09, 09:00 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Actually, worse than cheap, it'd be an insult. I think you go up by $20 minimum or nothing.

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      11.07.09, 09:01 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • OP: OK, but who is giving 20 - 25% raises in the working world? I'm lucky if I get 3% in publishing. And she's not paying taxes on it. 5$ might look cheap, but it's 5%.

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        11.07.09, 09:04 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • it is cheap. go $20 or nothing.

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          11.07.09, 09:05 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • ^^I don't know why I keep reversing the dollar sign. Sleep deprivation...

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          11.07.09, 09:07 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • Don't think of it as 20%. Think of it as $20. Give it to her - don't be cheap.

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          11.07.09, 09:12 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • A 25% raise when you're making slave wages is hardly the same as a 3% raise when you're making six figures. Get a freaking clue.

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          11.07.09, 09:13 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • Yup. If you go to a diner and get table service and the bill comes to $6, do you leave 15%, i.e. exactly 90 cents or do you at least round up to a dollar or a dollar plus whatever coins you get back? Same principal.

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            11.07.09, 09:17 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • Exactly. In restaurants I tip at least 20% (25% for really good service) or $5, whichever is greater. I think leaving anything less than a five dollar bill is insulting.

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              11.07.09, 09:19 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • Yup, same for fresh direct, I always get several boxes and give a $5 bill.

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                11.07.09, 09:21 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • I tip $10. But I'm on the fifth floor of a walk-up building.

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                  11.07.09, 09:23 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                  • I used to live on the 5th floor in a walkup too, and I would always get a 6 pack of 2 liter soda bottles delivered. I always tipped more then, too. But now I live in an elevator building and there's a ramp from the street to the lobby, so it's just $5.

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                    11.07.09, 09:25 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • I don't know if you know anyone in publishing, but in all seriousness, I probably make less than my cleaning woman. And I get killed in taxes. I'm going up another $20. No need to get nasty!

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            11.07.09, 09:21 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • Sorry, didn't mean to come across nasty. That makes no sense; if you're paying a lot in taxes, that means your husband makes plenty of money and his income is making your marginal tax rate high. Do you mean you make less per hour than your cleaning lady after you pay taxes? If so, wouldn't it make more sense for you to clean your home yourself?

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              11.07.09, 09:24 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • Unless you're at the lowest level in of the publishing industry, you're making at least $60K. At her rate of pay -- $100 for 6.5 hours of work, or $15.38/hour, even working full time she'd only be making about half what you pull in -- $31,999.

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              11.07.09, 09:26 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • Total tangent - I don't want to out myself but in the area of publishing I work in, it is common for people with 5-10 years of experience to make less than $60K. I'm not joking. And I started at way less than $32K. But it doesn't matter. I agree she deserves a big raise.

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                11.07.09, 09:30 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • Wow, that stinks, but on the other hand, you probably love your job, so good for you!

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                  11.07.09, 09:31 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • In publishing, it's also common for people with 5-10 years of experience to be making half a million dollars. It all depends on how good you are.

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                  11.07.09, 09:33 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • ITA. And let's not forget that while Mizz Thang over at Hearst is spending half her day updating her Facebook page, pumping her breast milk in the conference room, UBing, "doing lunch", and generally not scuffing her manicure, the cleaning woman is on her hands and knees scrubbing someone else's shitty toilets.

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                11.07.09, 09:31 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • np: that's neither here nor there; the cleaning lady has made a choice to do the work, no one is forcing her to do it and $15 off the books is not too shabby

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                  11.07.09, 09:32 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • Wow, i'm sorry you're so miserable that you have to think the worst of people.

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                  11.07.09, 09:36 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • I personally do not think $20 is necessary. It is too much. She is making cash if she wants more then give it to her or just give her a great holiday tip.

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              11.08.09, 08:29 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • Do you have health benefits in your publishing jogb?steady, guaranteed hours,bonuses or other benefits resulting from salaried employment? Your reply seems like you don't want to hear that a $5 raise looks(is) cheap. Do you regularly tip? If yes, how much? You're paying her a pretty skimpy rate for every 2 weeks and a promise of dependability,imo.

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          11.07.09, 03:34 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • ittttttta

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        11.07.09, 09:05 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • I think $5 looks cheap, but $10 would be okay. If you go for $20 then the following year it's going to be hard to just do $10.

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      11.07.09, 09:14 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • she doesn't have to give a raise every year, but when she does give one, it should be decent

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        11.07.09, 09:17 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • Agreed. If it's not a raise that would make a meaningful difference (at least $20 per week), then it's almost like you're sending the cleaning woman a message that she should be doing a better job.

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          11.07.09, 09:22 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Here's another way to go about this.We are talking about $130 a year increase (at 5, very two weeks) or $520, with $20 every two weeks. If you can't afford the $500, a nice way might be to say Here's your holiday bonus (maybe $100/200/whatever and we're going to raise your hourly rate from 15 to 16 this year. That doesn't seem cheap to me. I wouldn't take my nanny from 20/hr to 25 an hour in one year. Do you normally give her an xmas bonus? How much? How long have you had her? Glad you are trying to be fair.

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      11.07.09, 10:12 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • I thought this was a joke post but given the level of discussion, I guess not. OP should not be thinking in terms of percentages... the cleaning lady is grossly underpaid as a base and she deserves a huge salary adjustment to just bring her in line with other cleaning people. A recent post on this same subject (maybe 1.5 wks ago) showed that very few paid $15/hr, most paid $20-25 and the highest paid $30/hr. We are on the high end, paying our cleaning guy $180 for our 3000 sq ft apt which takes about 6 hrs to clean. I wish I could poach OPs cleaning lady... I'd gladly give her a 50% raise and still pay less than I am doing now!

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        11.07.09, 10:31 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • OP: She could have left us years ago if she were making more somewhere else, or else asked for a raise. I'm not sure I believe those numbers are truly representative. My friends pay $15 - 20/hour. But I don't want to be cheap and I'm feeling guilty based on the responses here.

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          11.07.09, 11:06 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • Thanks for your response. I always give $100 bonus at Xmas. We've had her almost 4 years. Raised her from $70 (her quoted fee) to $100 when we moved to bigger apt. This year we'll do $120 bonus plus $20 raise. I think she's worth it and the people here convinced me it's the right thing to do. Thanks!

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        11.07.09, 10:33 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Sounds like you are already doing a nice raise so I'm not being critical, but the hourly rate you pay your HKer is well below norm. Especially for someone you've employed for 4 years. Even in this economy new hking jobs are starting above 15/hr (where your hk of 4 years is!). Going rate for hk is $17-22/hr (even up to $25) and that's for weekly. For biweekly they sometimes charge more.

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      11.07.09, 11:44 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Agreed to go up $20 and also agree that you're getting her for less than nothing. Maybe I'm overpaying (probably), but we have 2600 sq ft, and I pay $200 every week (she's here for about 7-8 hrs), just for a price comparison and some perspective.

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      11.07.09, 11:59 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • I pay 140 for same hours.

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      11.07.09, 02:53 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • np: OP may be clueless but many of you are overpaying and trying to justify it here.

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      11.07.09, 10:09 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • rich people are rich because they don't overpay for things. Do not let these answers sucker you in to spending more than you have to. Raise what you see fit

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      11.08.09, 08:36 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • i pay 85 for 3.5 hrs 1600 sq ft

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      11.08.09, 08:42 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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