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Do you 'enjoy' spending time with your kids?
- Yes, most of the time we really have fun together
- Sometimes it's fun, sometimes it's really dull and aggravating
- Honestly most of the time it's not fun at all, but it's not supposed to be fun
- I really don't enjoy it at all, and wish I could spend less time with them
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Posted September 13, 2007(191 replies)
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I will say that although I am against gay marriage I do not 'hate' gay people or 'treat them badly'. Everybody sees things a different way based on how you were raised and what you believe. It has NOTHING to do with hate. It is a disagreement about what people feel is appropriate vs inappropriate. We will just have to learn to agree to disagree.
30 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreYou can say they are wrong all you want but that means you are calling about 75% of other people wrong. The votes voted to stop gay marriage and it wasn't by a landslide. Obviously, I am not the only one who is wrong. Maybe you just don't want to admit that you might be the one who is 'wrong'.
[ Reply | More ]You think being in the majority makes you right? There was a time when the majority believed that enslaving other human beings was right. You're not too bright, huh?
[ Reply | More ]All I am saying is that the majority of people (who ALL have the same rights, different background, different morals) voted no to gay marriage. It is completely different than the whole race being enslaved.
[ Reply | More ]NP: The MAJORITY of the South believed in slavery. That didn't make them right. I respect your beliefs but stop using this majority = right argument, it's stupid. Looking back on history, the majority believed in plenty of stupid-ass things.
[ Reply | More ]And the majority of people back in the '60s were perfectly fine with blacks not being able to marry whites, blacks not being able to patronize certain establishments, and blacks not being able to use the "nice" restrooms. Perhaps since the majority of Americans didn't agree with it, we should repeal the Civil Rights Act ...
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ITTTA. I don't "hate" black people, or "treat them badly". Everybody sees things a different way based on how you were raised and what you believe. It has NOTHING to do with hate. It is a disagreement about what people feel is appropriate vs inappropriate. We will just have to learn to agree to disagree. Now stop using the "white" restrooms and water fountains, please.
[ Reply | More ]Right. I disagree with you that marrying a gay person is the same as marrying a dog. That's all it is, a difference of opinion.
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^^ it drives me crazy that people thinking others will change their mind by simply saying it's a violation of rights. Those of us who believe it is wrong, believe it is wrong, period.
[ Reply | More ]I do think it's a violation of rights but I also believe that you think it's wrong and guess what, that's okay, we don't have to agree. But that's not what I am talking about. I am talking about comparing gay marriage to marrying pets. You can disagree on gay marriage and not stoop that low on a humanity level.
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What people like the OP need to understand is that you have no right to impose your feelings/belief system/standard of appropriatness on another person. That person deserves the right to marry another human being just like you do, and peoples beliefs about what gender that person should be HAVE NO BEARING ON THIS. Because denying these rights for some people based on the gender of their proposed spouse is a violation of their constitutional rights and their rights as a human being. Gay people are not second class citizens, and who they marry doesnt affect you in the slightest. Stop denying people basic human rights because it makes you feel "uncomfortable" Anyone who would want to do that is just a bigot, plain and simple.
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