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  • need to move to a new apt...do i stay in my neighborhood which i LOVE but have no friends in anymore (they all moved) or move to a neighborhood i'm not sure i love, but will have lots of friends around (none of whom have kids yet) i'm a sahm, need your opinion, please!

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    11.04.09, 04:26 PM [ Flag ]
    • maybe you can see if there is potential to make new friends in your current neighborhood. if none of your friends in the potential place have kids you may not see them all that much anyway.

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      11.04.09, 04:30 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Well, tell us what the nabes are, and we can tell you the answer

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      11.04.09, 04:33 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • renting or buying? how dependant are you on having local people to hang around with? did they move b/c the neighborhood is undesirable or did you just have two friends who happened to move? how old is your dc? are you planning on having more dc?

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      11.04.09, 04:34 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • currently in the village...thinking of moving to ues, where we have many friends. renting. i was thinking that wherever i am, i'll probably be on my own anyway, since all my friends will be working during the day (or at least until 3 or 4, many are teachers). most of my friends got priced out of the village and moved uptown for better rents

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        11.04.09, 04:37 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • dc is 1, planning on another, but not for another year or two

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          11.04.09, 04:38 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • Stay in village, lots of opportunity to make friends there, tons of kids, good schools. Make an effort to make new acquaintances, if you stay there. I used to, and I miss it sooooo much.

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          11.04.09, 04:39 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • You are me, I'm in the UWS and all my good friends have moved to Brooklyn, which seems miles away. They're all single and go out in Brooklyn all the time now. I know I would see them a lot more if we lived there too, but my DS is ingrained in life up here and it wouldn't be worth uprooting him.

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      11.04.09, 04:35 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • i hear you...unfortunately it's ME who's all attached to our current neighborhood, ds is too young to even know the difference. i guess i just don't do well with change, and the idea of moving so far uptown makes me pretty nervous. i'm fairly comfortable where i am.

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        11.04.09, 04:40 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • Really depends on your priorities. The UES is more child-focused-- much more to do, more accessibility to parks - not just playgrounds, more schools, etc. Think whether it would be better to be in child-friendly neighborhood when dc are young and you need lots of activities, then you can cab it downtown at night, or if you just want to make new friends which is a perfectly reasonable solution too.

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          11.04.09, 07:12 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • i never would have imagined that. i think downtown is so kid-friendly. do you mind sharing some ideas about what is so child-friendly about the area? (i really need some specific ideas)

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            11.04.09, 07:25 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • Central Park not only has a number of very different playgrounds but the zoo, the castle, the great lawn, the bandshell, Bethesda fountain, the boat pond, the lake, the literary walk, the ice skating rink (which becomes Victorian Gardens amusement park in the summer). It has fields to play in and trees and rocks to climb. There are a number of museums that all have children's programs for various ages. There are tons of movie theaters. There are a million different kid places like Asphalt Green and Kidville, classes and play spaces and drop-in crafty type places and bookstores. And not saying the schools are better, there are just more of them to choose from. Been doing all this with now 5 yr old for years and just taking a walk in Central Park and climbing a rock and or riding bikes or seeing the animal clock chime or getting an ice cream and sitting on a bench is a perfect activity. (Not to mention Carl Shulz park too). It's safe, clean, much more generic than village though.

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              11.04.09, 07:45 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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