When I had my first DS, I called up an old friend and told her. Her response was "Is that what you wanted?" I thought it was an odd response. When I had our second DS, her response was "you can always try again, you're young enough." Now fast forward to my 45th birthday and she got downright angry with me. She said "I can't believe you don't have a girl and you don't want one." I'm very confused with this. Can someone help me? I never stated a preference and I have two healthy, smart, funny and intelligent human beings that I cannot imagine being without.