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Did you and DH swear off alcohol while TTC? I've read that it's a good idea in a few places and wonder how many people actually do it.

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  • Did you and DH swear off alcohol while TTC? I've read that it's a good idea in a few places and wonder how many people actually do it.

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    09.18.09, 10:49 AM Flag ]
    • nope.

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      09.18.09, 10:51 AM Flag
    • LOL. No. Lots of wine involved.

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      09.18.09, 10:56 AM Flag
    • nope. i'm pretty sure i drank even more while TTC knowing that soon i'd be giving up martinis for a very, very long time.

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      09.18.09, 10:59 AM Flag
    • hahahhahahhahah

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      09.18.09, 10:59 AM Flag
    • I think my Dr. even suggested a glass of wine to relax. Being relaxed is key!

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      09.18.09, 11:02 AM Flag
    • No not at all

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      09.18.09, 11:03 AM Flag
    • hells no

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      09.18.09, 11:04 AM Flag
    • I was following my basal body temp and so I figured it was fine to drink up until my estimated ovulation date. Quite amusing - I actually don't drink very much as it is and the month that I conceived I had quite a bit of wine (from winery tours and weddings). Stress is a big hindrance to conception, perhaps all that wine helped lower my stress!!

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      09.18.09, 11:05 AM Flag
    • No but my limit was two drinks max and usually just one.

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      09.18.09, 11:10 AM Flag
    • i drank an i also didn't stop having a glass or two of wine until the doctor confirmed the pregnancy

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      09.18.09, 11:11 AM Flag
    • ttc and i have wine every night..as a matter of fact i even drink wine after the tww of iui..i figured ill give up the wine once i get a ppt..i dont think it effects anything anyway

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      09.18.09, 11:19 AM Flag
      • And your success so far makes you an expert?

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        09.18.09, 11:55 AM Flag
        • im not an expert but i did the no alchol, healthy food, detox and that got me nowhere either..i dont mean drink like a maniac but one or two glasses of wine is not going to do anything

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          09.18.09, 12:19 PM Flag
        • i just dont think your total life needs to turn upside down when ttc...if u want wine..drink wine

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          09.18.09, 12:20 PM Flag
    • Yes, no alcohol - not hot tubs, not hot baths, dh wore boxers not tightie whitie - trying to think of anything else? Oh yea, I took prenatals while ttc and maybe additional folic acid or I made sure I was getting enough with the prenatal - I don't remember for sure.

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      09.18.09, 11:48 AM Flag
      • wow, I drank wine ttc and i think it helped a bit, even forgot we were ttc from time to time and just had fun.

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        09.18.09, 11:58 AM Flag
        • There really wasn't much to forget, got pregnant first try twice and third month another time! But - we always prepared to ttc with above for a month - just to detox.

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          09.18.09, 12:01 PM Flag
    • Friend was trying to conceive for a year...one wkd, went away with hubby, drank a lot of wine, and conceived. You want to be having and happy when you conceive!

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      09.18.09, 12:11 PM Flag
    • hell, if it weren't for alcohol, #1 would be an only.

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      09.18.09, 12:17 PM Flag
    • nope. my dr. told me that the few drinks I had before I knew I was pg were no problem.

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      09.18.09, 12:23 PM Flag
    • nope. neither time. the only real reason to do so would be if you are charting/temping, as i think alcohol elevates your basal body temp.

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      09.18.09, 12:28 PM Flag
    • No. I drank wine. I don't think it can hurt, but I wouldn't overdo it or get really drunk.

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      09.18.09, 12:38 PM Flag
    • This is a very interesting set of replies. Isn't it true that a blastocyst/zygote is much more sensitive to disruption in the early stages than a more developed fetus is in the later stages?

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      09.21.09, 09:59 AM Flag
      • np It's not attached and isn't sharing your blood supply.

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        09.21.09, 11:19 AM Flag
      • I don't remember where I heard this, (though I want to say my dr.) but there is something like a four week rule that i've heard of. Yes, the zygote is much more sensitive, but because of this, if whatever you're doing doesn't kill it in the first four weeks it will likely be fine. a good percentage of pregnancies are miscarried within the first two weeks because of drinking/this sensitivity, and because your period still arrives on time most women are oblivious to ever having conceived. If you want the baby, I'd give up the proverbial 'sauce'.

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        11.21.09, 03:40 AM Flag
    • I swore off almost entirely (nursed a single drink all night when it would be awkward not to), but didn't ask DH to cut back. Why not be extra careful so early? That said, my best friend, who's a pediatrician, said not to worry about minor consumption, particularly before implantation when you're not even sharing a blood supply. Who knows?

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      09.21.09, 10:59 AM Flag
    • you must be kidding me and dh of course

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      11.21.09, 03:44 AM Flag
    • no, both me and dh were drinking quite a bit both times i got pregnant, both basically unplanned. my sil stopped drinking, charted, did everything under the sun and took 9 mos to conceive and imo stressing and being ridid about it impedes conception

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      11.22.09, 06:39 AM Flag
    • Apparently best Clinic in Colorado gives an ambien after transfer...I think anything that relaxes you is good....have that glass of wine, but not the bottle of wine.

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      11.22.09, 07:14 AM Flag
    • I charted my temp and cut back to 1 glass/night after ovulating just in case. Got pg second month and was glad I'd been careful.

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      11.22.09, 02:48 PM Flag
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