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okay ladies, I need advice. TIA. I'm a single mom with 2 dbs, recently divorced for about a year. I've decided to become involved with a very nice man who has no children, but seems to like them, and has also been divorced in the past two years. Everything is great between us. I have not introduced the boys to him yet as I'm not ready. Thing is- he keeps a busy lifestyle on my weekends off: for example he worked this past weekend. And, he sometimes turns me down to do other things, though like I said, he seems like he's crazy for me. I don't think he understands my urgency about time, such as, I think he should take advantage of the spare time I have and spend more with me. What should I do? I don't want to dissuade him, but feel like I'm put second to his work sometimes. Is this resonable to want him to spend the little time I have free with me?

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  • okay ladies, I need advice. TIA. I'm a single mom with 2 dbs, recently divorced for about a year. I've decided to become involved with a very nice man who has no children, but seems to like them, and has also been divorced in the past two years. Everything is great between us. I have not introduced the boys to him yet as I'm not ready. Thing is- he keeps a busy lifestyle on my weekends off: for example he worked this past weekend. And, he sometimes turns me down to do other things, though like I said, he seems like he's crazy for me. I don't think he understands my urgency about time, such as, I think he should take advantage of the spare time I have and spend more with me. What should I do? I don't want to dissuade him, but feel like I'm put second to his work sometimes. Is this resonable to want him to spend the little time I have free with me?

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    • if he cares about you then no, it is not unreasonable, never make excuses for anyone. GL. Keep your options open and see other people if you have the chance. Good for you for not introducing your kids yet, as a child of divorced parents, don't until there is a real serious/committed relationship.

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