on topic of moms..mine loves to help with my kids, and they love spending time with her, however shes always giving me underhanded put downs in front of them--how i dont discipline them right, feed them right, etc. ive told her its very hurtful and i think she doesnt even realize shes being so nasty, but i know thats the way she is and its not gonna get better. now having a baby, and shes offered to babysit one day a wk so i can work. i know it will come with the commens, but is it worth it to save $ on nanny and know the baby is getting amazing loving care, or will i regret it?

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