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Speaking of sleep away camp. My DD just got back after her first time, and said never again. She liked the camp but hated be away from home. D0 i make her go next year?

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  • Speaking of sleep away camp. My DD just got back after her first time, and said never again. She liked the camp but hated be away from home. D0 i make her go next year?

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    08.11.09, 10:26 AM Flag ]
    • I would not, but if you need childcare she may still need to go to day camp. What would be your reasoning for forcing her to go to sleepaway again?

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      08.11.09, 10:42 AM Flag
      • Other parents say she will learn to be strong and independent, otherwise i am enabling her. They think she should give it another try.

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        08.11.09, 10:55 AM Flag
        • np It's a YEAR from now. Worry in 9 months or so.

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          08.11.09, 11:05 AM Flag
          • if it's a high demand camp, they usually fill up in the fall for the following summer so thinking about it now is reasonable.

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            08.11.09, 11:55 AM Flag
            • Don't worry about that camp. Wait and see how she feels later.

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              08.11.09, 12:02 PM Flag
        • Obv don't know you or your dd, but this seems silly reasoning to me. By that argument, a dc cannot be strong or independent w/o summer camp? My dc hated summer camp so the next year we worked on finding a camp that was a better fit, and one year we did no camp. Camp should be fun, not torture.

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          08.11.09, 11:55 AM Flag
        • Outside of the NYC area I don't think most children go to sleep away camp. But they still learn to be strong and independent. She's just a kid, if she says she does't want to be away from home what's the rush.

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          08.11.09, 11:59 AM Flag
    • wait and see what she wants in 6 mos frm now. i said that every yr, and then a month later couldnt wait to go back. just dont make a huge deal now or she will become more set in her position.

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      08.11.09, 12:00 PM Flag
    • why would you force her? of course not.

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      08.11.09, 12:01 PM Flag
    • I can't imagine why it could be good to force a young child to be away from home for long periods of time. And I am not at all anti sleep away camp. I went starting at 8 years old, but I WANTED to go. My 8 year old dd has told me that she never wants to go. Fine. And if she changes her mind, that's fine too. But why force it? What's wrong with day camp?

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      08.11.09, 12:07 PM Flag
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