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do you believe once a cheat always a cheat?
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08.06.09, 09:08 AM [ Flag ]
- Yes. I am.
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  08.06.09, 09:10 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - yes, especially if s/he gets away with it. Why would a person think it's OK once, and then all of a sudden "get religion"?
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    08.06.09, 05:54 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - "The most dangerous thing in the world is when you start to believe your own bullshit."
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    08.06.09, 05:55 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- yes. if he or she can rationalize it once, they can rationalize it again.
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  08.06.09, 09:58 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - sorry - they = he or she
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    08.06.09, 09:59 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- nope.
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  08.06.09, 10:00 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- too broad of a statement...i know people who cheated on boy/girlfriends but see the marriage thing as sacred...i on the other hand was good at monogamy when it was for a year or 2 here, 2 or 3 there...now, not quite as good
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  08.06.09, 10:11 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- no.
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  08.06.09, 10:13 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- Not in every cases but in most. I believe that if they admit it right away and realize their error in judgment, agree to therapy, and try to rebuild trust then no.
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  08.06.09, 10:39 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - are you a therapist or do you just play one on television.
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    08.06.09, 11:16 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- yes
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  08.06.09, 10:59 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - ditto
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    08.06.09, 11:14 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- I've cheated in pretty much ever single relationship I've ever had except the one I'm currently in. I'm married and intend on staying married. I have absolutely no desire to cheat. Not worth losing him or hurting my family for. However, I think that if you cheat in a marriage you'll always be a cheat. Especially if the cheater is male. JMO.
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  08.06.09, 12:34 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- yup
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  08.06.09, 12:36 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]