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do you believe once a cheat always a cheat?

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  • do you believe once a cheat always a cheat?

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    08.06.09, 09:08 AM Flag ]
    • Yes. I am.

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      08.06.09, 09:10 AM Flag
      • yes, especially if s/he gets away with it. Why would a person think it's OK once, and then all of a sudden "get religion"?

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        08.06.09, 05:54 PM Flag
      • "The most dangerous thing in the world is when you start to believe your own bullshit."

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        08.06.09, 05:55 PM Flag
    • yes. if he or she can rationalize it once, they can rationalize it again.

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      08.06.09, 09:58 AM Flag
      • sorry - they = he or she

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        08.06.09, 09:59 AM Flag
    • nope.

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      08.06.09, 10:00 AM Flag
    • too broad of a statement...i know people who cheated on boy/girlfriends but see the marriage thing as sacred...i on the other hand was good at monogamy when it was for a year or 2 here, 2 or 3 there...now, not quite as good

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      08.06.09, 10:11 AM Flag
    • no.

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      08.06.09, 10:13 AM Flag
    • Not in every cases but in most. I believe that if they admit it right away and realize their error in judgment, agree to therapy, and try to rebuild trust then no.

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      08.06.09, 10:39 AM Flag
      • are you a therapist or do you just play one on television.

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        08.06.09, 11:16 AM Flag
    • yes

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      08.06.09, 10:59 AM Flag
    • I've cheated in pretty much ever single relationship I've ever had except the one I'm currently in. I'm married and intend on staying married. I have absolutely no desire to cheat. Not worth losing him or hurting my family for. However, I think that if you cheat in a marriage you'll always be a cheat. Especially if the cheater is male. JMO.

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      08.06.09, 12:34 PM Flag
    • yup

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      08.06.09, 12:36 PM Flag
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