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what do you think if a man you are friendly with always emails late at night (after 11) or early morning (before 6)?

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  • what do you think if a man you are friendly with always emails late at night (after 11) or early morning (before 6)?

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    07.19.09, 11:41 AM Flag ]
    • I would look at the total picture. Do I have his phone numbers? Cell AND home? Does he have a job with odd hours or an odd job, like undercover cop? When we converse does the conversation meander towards what he did throughout the day or are we just talking about sexy stuff? If the answers are No, No, No, Yes. He has a wife or live-in girlfriend.

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      07.19.09, 11:58 AM Flag
      • If he had a wife or live-in seems like he'd be emailing during work hours not so early or late-- wouldn't that be more suspicious? But what do I know.

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        07.19.09, 05:51 PM Flag
        • some people just don't have time or privacy at their jobs to email stuff like that maybe?

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          07.19.09, 06:00 PM Flag
      • I already know he is married, that's not the issue. Just wondering if he's hiding it from his wife (our friendship) and why that is.

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        07.19.09, 06:01 PM Flag
        • i would say that the no-brainer answer is that he's OBVIOUSLY sneaking around since his wife doesn't know. sounds like an unwise situation to place yourself in, IMO.

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          07.19.09, 06:03 PM Flag
          • sneaking around to do what?

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            07.20.09, 07:13 AM Flag
            • Emailing you. You may think you're not doing anything wrong. But he probably thinks he is and while he's being friendly with you, that is probably not his true intention to "just be friends". I have male friends, lots of them as my industry is super male-dominated. My husband knows about these men and I don't sneak around emailing them.

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              07.20.09, 07:26 AM Flag
            • duh

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              07.20.09, 09:24 AM Flag
    • i don't think anything at all.

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      07.20.09, 07:13 AM Flag
    • i know a lot of people who cannot send personal emails during the day at all. so they email when they get home and get dcs settled, or in the morning before the chaos of the day starts. it's not necessarily suspicious. why don't you ask him?

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      07.20.09, 07:24 AM Flag
    • it all depends on what he emails you ABOUT. these hours are not unusual and the fact that you are asking about it makes me think you're not completely on board with something about this friendship. is there more to it and the emails are reflecting this?

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      07.20.09, 08:05 AM Flag
    • I'd think he stays up late or gets up early. No big deal unless he is crossing the boundaries of friendship with inappropriate messages for the situaion

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      07.20.09, 08:48 AM Flag
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