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Do you 'enjoy' spending time with your kids?
- Yes, most of the time we really have fun together
- Sometimes it's fun, sometimes it's really dull and aggravating
- Honestly most of the time it's not fun at all, but it's not supposed to be fun
- I really don't enjoy it at all, and wish I could spend less time with them
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Posted September 13, 2007(191 replies)
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How do I keep myself from losing my patience with 4.5 yr old dd? She pushes the triggers often, and I try to be consistent with discipline, rewarding good behavior and all, but I find myself getting annoyed a lot, and I really don't like doing that.
5 replies [ Reply | Watch | MoreShe needs you know matter what her age. She growing into a person with her own ideas, point of view and agenda...and that's healthy! Get the Positive Discipline series by Dr. Jane Nelsen. It completely changed our prespective. This annoying behavior is her trying to communicate/connect with you...but she's doing it like a 4.5 year old..which is why it is so annoying.
[ Reply | More ]Deep breathing. I would take deep breaths and then tell myself to relax. I also asked myself: Is this going to matter tomorrow or next week? 99% of the time the answer is no. I'd also do a check with myself: Are we tired? Hungry? When we were both tired and hungry, we'd have enormous blow-outs. Then I realized: Remember this...and now I know when I begin to feel super aggravated what the origin of that feeling is.
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