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Had sex with a guy for the first time (w/ him, not ever) the other night and he never seemed to get that hard. Hard enough for penetration and he came very quickly, but it just didn't seem rock solid. Any significance? Maybe he wasn't that turned on?
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07.04.09, 05:48 AM Flag ]
- Who knows...could be so many things...1st time jitters, alcohol, sleep (lack of)...if you like him, give it another try.
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  07.04.09, 07:28 AM Flag
- try a bit of oral " encouragement" next time
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  07.04.09, 07:42 AM Flag
  - op: I did and I know he liked it, but maybe not enough. Oh well.
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    07.04.09, 08:12 AM Flag
- how old is he?
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  07.04.09, 06:34 PM Flag
  - np: I dated a guy like this and he rarely every came. It was so odd. He was 42.
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    07.04.09, 06:38 PM Flag
- Try playing with his anus a little
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  07.08.09, 11:10 AM Flag
- prob nervous
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  08.06.09, 01:11 PM Flag
- I'd give him one more chance. If it happens again and you aren't interested in marrying him then bolt. ED sucks. I dated PME man and was never ever ever satisfied and he was in denial of his problem.
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  08.06.09, 01:16 PM Flag

Had sex with a guy for the first time (w/ him, not ever) the other night and he never seemed to get that hard. Hard enough for penetration and he came very quickly, but it just didn't seem rock solid. Any significance? Maybe he wasn't that turned on?

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Had sex with a guy for the first time (w/ him, not ever) the other night and he never seemed to get that hard. Hard enough for penetration and he came very quickly, but it just didn't seem rock solid. Any significance? Maybe he wasn't that turned on?

Who knows...could be so many things...1st time jitters, alcohol, sleep (lack of)...if you like him, give it another try.

try a bit of oral " encouragement" next time

op: I did and I know he liked it, but maybe not enough. Oh well.

how old is he?

np: I dated a guy like this and he rarely every came. It was so odd. He was 42.

Try playing with his anus a little

prob nervous

I'd give him one more chance. If it happens again and you aren't interested in marrying him then bolt. ED sucks. I dated PME man and was never ever ever satisfied and he was in denial of his problem.