Dating Advice Needed- how to convey that I want a relationship/commitment to a guy I've been dating who thinks I don't and may be pulling back bec he thinks i'm not serious? He knows I've been dating "around"- ie casually, with different people- since breaking up with serious boyfriend six months ago and he knows that during this period for the first time in my life i haven't wanted a relationship. but now i think i do want one with him and I need to let him know bec otherwise he will think i am not serious abt him. how to tell him without sending him running? i think i've been depicting myself to him as excessively footless and fancy free because I was afraid of scaring him off (after dating several distancers) and now I realize that i may have gone too far in that direction. i need to clarify but couldnt' find a moment during our date today (outside in the park) to do that. how to bring it up without being too serious/solemn etc? in email? any and all thoughts welcome and TIA