06.06.09, 05:16 AM 10 replies
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ok here goes, simple office flirting is turning out to be a full fledge romance, both individuals are married but unhappy in their marriage, strongly believe in committment, therefore obligations are outweighing the unhappiness...both individuals admitted having these feelings for one another, one individual is ready to pack up and leave the marriage, while the other individual is not but can't deny the feelings/attraction..what should the individual do...keep the office flirting to a minimum and hope that it will work itself out or should that individual confront and tell him delicately that its not going to happen??? What r your thoughts?

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  • ok here goes, simple office flirting is turning out to be a full fledge romance, both individuals are married but unhappy in their marriage, strongly believe in committment, therefore obligations are outweighing the unhappiness...both individuals admitted having these feelings for one another, one individual is ready to pack up and leave the marriage, while the other individual is not but can't deny the feelings/attraction..what should the individual do...keep the office flirting to a minimum and hope that it will work itself out or should that individual confront and tell him delicately that its not going to happen??? What r your thoughts?

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    06.06.09, 05:16 AM Flag ]

    • Tell him and follow up by showing him. By telling him you set a standard for both of you to live up to. If you leave it ambiguous, it is not fair to him (or his wife who is no longer the focus of his sexual energty), and it leaves things too open for future flirtation etc. End this now.

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      06.06.09, 05:30 AM Flag

    • have they done anything yet? if you are sure you don't want to do anything, I think you need to tell him outright if it's obvious there is something going on between the two of you.

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      06.06.09, 05:32 AM Flag

    • if you aren't ready to walk out on your marriage stop being an ass with this guy.

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      06.06.09, 06:33 AM Flag

    • change jobs now before you do something you'll regret forever

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      06.06.09, 09:44 AM Flag

    • you're going to get very hurt; end it all now.

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      06.06.09, 01:38 PM Flag

    • ridiculous to let yourself slide into this dangerous situation. transfer or find another job...if that's not feasible just say flat out "this has gone too far" and stop it. your dh deserves better and i'm sure his dw does as well.

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      06.06.09, 01:41 PM Flag

    • Sorry but you lost me at, "strongly believe in commitment."

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      06.06.09, 02:01 PM Flag

    • Enjoy it! It happens so rarely...

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      06.06.09, 02:33 PM Flag
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