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  • Weekend wrecked. Just checked email and we didn't get in to a public PreK. Applied to 5, including our zoned school which has a PreK. This is horrible. I'm so angry and upset I don't even know what to do. Anyone else hear?

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    05.22.09, 05:19 PM [ Flag ]
    • Oh my gosh that is bad! I have a 1 and 2 year old so this is pretty scary to me too. I'll need to watch this to see what advice you get. Good luck.

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      05.22.09, 05:21 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • op: can't figure out why. I mean, I guess it's obvious. There's too many people applying. But to not get into a single one? I'm speechless. Angry and speechless beyond belief. We have always planned to go public school system - never a doubt in our mind - and we can't get into a public PreK. Nice start.

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        05.22.09, 05:23 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • pre-K is not mandatory.

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          05.22.09, 06:29 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • np Right. Nor is it an ENTITLEMENT--like OP seems to believe.

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            05.22.09, 06:48 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • agree. who are these people who think they have a right to public pre-k???

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              05.23.09, 08:29 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • Don't know. But it should be eliminated so the schools have more space for K.

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                05.23.09, 08:36 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • if the city was serious, it could easily find enough space for pre-K and K kids.

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                  05.23.09, 08:45 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                  • i'd rather the doe spend its limited funds on something else. if you can't afford daycare or babysitting, you should look into head start.

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                    05.23.09, 11:14 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                    • there aren't nearly enough head start places for the eligible kids. simply ramping up those numbers would be a start. the income requirements for head start keep out a huge number of kids who's parents can't afford daycare or babysitting, though, and who would really benefit from some program that gets them away from the TV during the day. i think a lot more needs to be done for the low-income under-5 crowd in this city.

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                      05.23.09, 11:26 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • ita!!

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                  05.23.09, 11:08 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • np: well, in a lot of other states, public pre-K IS universal. i think it should be available in NY as well. people definitely have the right to wonder why their state is so behind the times.

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                05.23.09, 08:44 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • sorry, but i'd rather my tax dollars not pay for free babysitting. the fact that the doe is bending over backwards to make room for pre-k dcs in 41/3 zone is an outrage.

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                  05.23.09, 11:12 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                  • it's not just free babysitting--or it shouldn't be, anyway. pre-K helps low-income kids get a leg up on the skills they need for school. things they may not be getting at home. if done well, it helps narrow the achievement gap between kids who are starting school.

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                    05.23.09, 11:28 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • nor is K btw

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            05.22.09, 06:53 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • i don't think this is unusual... when we moved here, my work's school search told us that we shouldn't expect to get into pre-K and i shouldn't bother trying.

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          05.22.09, 06:35 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Hang on in there. Many people may not take up their slots. or might have applied, then made other plans. Let the DOE know you are still keen to take up a place if one should become available.

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      05.22.09, 05:49 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • op: Thanks for sympathy;) I know I'm getting flamed for my comments but I'm still upset.

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        05.22.09, 05:50 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • This is two years ago, but I was in same situation, I went to district office, dropped off letter explaining how I would benefit from my dc being given a place if anything came available, and a week later, yes.

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          05.22.09, 05:52 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • I agree. I would let them know you are waiting and still expecting a spot and how much you value it.

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            05.22.09, 06:31 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • luckily, the doe has made this impossible to do now. (that is, people trying to get a slot above everyone else by kissing a$$.) there is a wl, and when and if it moves enough, op will get a slot. not by currying favor.

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            05.23.09, 07:09 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Last year ps191 had spaces avail. in October and the DOE as begging parents to enroll. Try 191 on the UWS.

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      05.22.09, 06:16 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • again, why would you count on this? it's like saying your weekend is wrecked because you didn't win the megamillions last night.

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      05.23.09, 07:07 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • i'm in the same boat. applied to 5 but didn't get in anywhere. would it be more fruitful to talk to DoE or to the individual schools' parent coordinators to try to get in? has anyone gotten into a school via the round 2 lottery?

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      05.23.09, 07:20 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • give it a rest. you're not getting in. move on.

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        05.23.09, 11:10 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • op: Do you mind sharing what D you are in? I met another D3 family today who said they chose 4 in D3 and didn't get any either - and they selected a combo of full/half day (whereas I only opted for FD)

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        05.23.09, 05:45 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Here's a suggestion: GET A FREAKING LIFE. Kids don't need preschool.

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      05.23.09, 12:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • op: And who is going to watch my kid while I work then? I'm a single mom. Maybe the 'need' of preschool is about someone taking care of my child while I work. I'm not some affluent mom who can afford a nanny. Nor am I someone who believes PreK is some leg-up kind of entry-way into a fabulous private school.

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        05.23.09, 05:17 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • npSchool isn't daycare, lady.

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          05.23.09, 05:20 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • op: Not looking for daycare. Looking for a good environment for my kid. And the public PreKs I toured looked great. Inviting, safe, interesting, etc. Who the hell are you?

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            05.23.09, 05:22 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • "And who is going to watch my kid while I work then?" suggests you're looking for daycare.

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              05.23.09, 05:25 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • op: I was trying to be brief. Next time I will (as now) write "I really was hoping for a great environment, preferably at my zoned school or some decent public school in my neighborhood, where my child can get a great experience every day that incorporates the arts, science, etc. And I'd prefer a public school setting because even though PreK and K admissions are two separate entities and nightmares, I do plan on sending my child to public school because I believe in it - assuming my zoned school isn't horrific (which it's not) and I also work in public education so I have a vested interest in contributing to my zoned school (or whatever school my child ends up at) because that's important to me."

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                05.23.09, 05:29 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • np: good luck, op. hope you get off the waiting list. a lot of these posters are banshees that don't seem to understand most moms have to work to support their families. they may find out about this soon, though!

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                  05.23.09, 05:38 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • Great. Send your kid to K, but don't expect the taxpayer to foot the bill for preschool.

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                  05.23.09, 05:39 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                  • oh, give it a rest. i'm not OP, but i, as a taxpayer, will happily foot the bill for the child of a working single mom to attend a high-quality preschool. i think kids are a good investment.

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                    05.23.09, 05:43 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                  • op: I'm curious. Are your kid(s) in public/private? PreK?

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                    05.23.09, 05:44 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                    • i am guessing she is some weird extremist freak who homeschools her kids in the compound. they hoard money and rifles and live in isolation. they don't trust banks (that part might be wise) and would hate to have to pay a penny in taxes to support education.

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                      05.23.09, 05:59 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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