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Do you 'enjoy' spending time with your kids?
- Yes, most of the time we really have fun together
- Sometimes it's fun, sometimes it's really dull and aggravating
- Honestly most of the time it's not fun at all, but it's not supposed to be fun
- I really don't enjoy it at all, and wish I could spend less time with them
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How normal is it to have an 8 month old, and not want to have sex at all, ever, with DH? We did try a bit after a few months, but I'm just so tired, and not feeling sexy, that the whole thing feels absurd. Last time was January. Once. Of course, the situation is a bit complicated: we're in a 1 bedroom, as DH got laid off and we can't afford to move. So the baby is in our room....
17 replies [ Reply | Watch | Moreare you me? We have a 9 mo, have had sex once since she was born. I'm hoping it will improve when we move to a 2 br in 2 months
[ Reply | More ]OP here. Thank you all for your posts! I was beginning to think I was the only one who had lost her mojo. Any tips on finding it again from you moms who are back in the saddle (ouch!)
[ Reply | More ]oh thank god! i thought i was the only crazy woman who never had sex with her husband. DS is almost 13 months, and we've had sex maybe 6 times since he was born. its been getting better the last 3 months - about 1x/month lately. we still co-sleep (we love it!) but have sex in the guest bedroom (2bed apt). my other gf's hint that they have sex like all the time and talk about how important it is that we dont let a baby get in the way of our sex-life...i see their point, but i also think its impossible to not let a baby get in the way.
[ Reply | More ]Hey, are you me? By 6 months my husband was looking elsewhere for sex, and by 9 months we were getting a divorce. So either take one for the team and save your marriage, or buy a lifetime supply of condoms so you don't pick up any diseases from the women your husband is screwing.
[ Reply | More ]In my experience, the pain won't go away if you don't have sex. I finally bit the bullet after 4 months of avoiding sex and had sex 2-3 times a week even though it hurt at the beginning. By 3 weeks of that, the pain is gone, though I still have to use lube. I highly recommend a lube that is heating, it makes it feel so much better.
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