If you caught your dh cheating, did you confront the other woman?

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  • If you caught your dh cheating, did you confront the other woman?

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    • did you?

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      03.26.09, 11:30 AM Flag
    • If I didn't already know her, then no.

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      03.26.09, 11:31 AM Flag
      • heck, how many times has this happened to you?

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        03.26.09, 11:35 AM Flag
    • Do you know the other woman? If you do not have a relationship with her already I would think it would be more important to deal with DH. If you do have a relationship with her, that's a different story - but you have to ask yourself what you would like to achieve in the confrontation and is it worth it?

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      03.26.09, 11:31 AM Flag
      • op: I'm thinking about it. I'm not friends with her, but I know who she is.

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        03.26.09, 11:36 AM Flag
        • a few friends of mine confronted them and I think they found it incredibly empowering not to mention is scared the shit out of the husbands! an added plus imho.

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          03.26.09, 11:54 AM Flag
        • My DH cheated on me 8 yrs ago (went to therapy etc...) I kow who the woman is and I wid

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          03.26.09, 11:54 AM Flag
          • Sorry, hit return by accident. I still wish I had said something to her.

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            03.26.09, 11:56 AM Flag
            • Nope-Don't allow her further into your life and your relationship with your husband. I promise you'll feel stronger-through all your rage and pain-if you remain focused on who the cheating bitch is-your tacky husband. It is really awful when you turn around and realize the further access you've given, when you've confronted the other person. Don't.

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              03.26.09, 12:17 PM Flag
    • not in this situation but if I was...YES I WOULD..oh but only after I RIPPED HIM A NEW ASSHOLE

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      03.26.09, 11:55 AM Flag
      • ditto!!!! I would verbally go to town on both of them!!

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        03.26.09, 12:27 PM Flag
    • I caught my dad cheating..and after I ripped into him, I ripped into her. IT FELT GOOD

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      03.26.09, 11:56 AM Flag
      • You aren't his wife-it's different.

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        03.26.09, 12:18 PM Flag
        • yes I know..but I'm his daughter..someone had to stand up for my mom. They were out in the open and not even trying to hide it. I wasn't going to let them make a fool out of my mother and our family. I told him off...and I told her off. She knew he was married. He was not bringing money home (no food) but spending the family money on her. I wasn't going to let that one go. I was 18yr old at the time and I don't regret it one bit. I actually gained my father's respect when I confronted him!

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          03.26.09, 12:23 PM Flag
          • ^^btw I never said it was the same as catching your dh.

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            03.26.09, 12:24 PM Flag
    • I caught a bf cheating years ago and confronted the woman and I felt like a complete loser. Not empowering at all. She didn't even know he had a girlfriend, in fact, she thought she was his girlfriend. My confrontation with him on the other hand, was quite gratifying even though I was very hurt and heartbroken. I still rememeber the last cursing insults I said to him word for word and it was nearly 10 years ago!

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      03.26.09, 12:14 PM Flag
    • I'd probably keep it simple like quietly approach her (as I looked my absolute best with one of my brother's hot friends on my arm for effect) and say "I feel for you. It must be hard to be a homewrecking whore who sleeps with a married man with children." and walk away.

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      03.26.09, 12:24 PM Flag
    • Confronted her. She was married and was terrified that I'd tell her husband. (I didn't.) Ditched the cheater once I recovered my own self-esteem. It wasn't the sex that got to me. It was the betrayal of trust.

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      03.26.09, 12:41 PM Flag
    • dh wouldn't admit to affair, so in front of him i called OW and her dh answered, handed phone to her and i acted like dh had spilled all so she confessed i then intercepted an email from her to dh where she said she had to go to the Hospital after talking to me because she thought she was having a heart attack

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      03.27.09, 09:51 PM Flag
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