dh & i have been on the outs for years. we have stayed together solely because of the kids. both are going to be in school full-time come september so i am planning on working full-time (sahm for 6 years). i will be leaving dh once i can support myself in an apartment. it won't come as a surprise to him per se, things are really bad between us. anyway, there is this dad at dc's school that i think is HOT. and i want him now, but am willing to wait. he has never been married (baby daddy - wife psychoish) and so he's available (well, as of now that is). i'm just thinking about all the gossip at dc's school (and it's not a gossipy type place, just something like this might spark interest) if we end up dating