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you know what makes me mad? the office vixen who giggles at every little thing, and who every male in the office goes out of their way to say good morning to her.
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It bothers me because I hate to see women use this kittenish sex thing to get attention. I think it is demeaning to women. NP by the way.
[ Reply | Options ]Have you ever considered that maybe it is just part of her personality? Both my DH and I are naturally flirtatious-we have toned it down quite a bit, but we both enjoy chatting with persons of the opposite sex!
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OMG, dh works with her, actually sits right next to her. She is 30, has a myspace, and shows ppl in her office her vacation pics, which of course always includes her in a bikini(not even a great bod)she goes clubbing as if she were 16, has no kids, no dh, wears shirts cut down to her stomach where you can see her bra (her myspace pics) dresses skanky to work...and tries to cause trouble with dh and I, what i really HATE is that of all people, he goes to her for advice about me.
[ Reply | Options ]I have a friend who is this girl. I have basically written her off because it's too much to handle. Too much detail about her sexual exploits (with the pres of the company...) and her nights out when she blacks out (who drinks that much at 31???)...I can relate to your frustration!
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Men like attention. They love that giggly flirtatious stuff, even if they happened to married to a broad-shoulders, snark-talking, Katherine Hepburn type. I'm sure most men think it's cute but don't think about her once the 5 o'clock bell rings. No if she goes over the line, touching, sexy office-wear, obscene emails, well that is problem for HR. I'm sure men like the flirting, but they are not about to risk their job over an office scandal with the hot piece of tail.
[ Reply | Options ]IDK..but how can they not think about them if they see these little "vixens" every day?
[ Reply | Options ]I'm probably just assuming they don't think about her. I'm totally crushing on the UPS guy who is the twin of that actor Leon (Madonna's Like A Prayer video) who is just a fine tall dark drink of sweet rum...umm, oops got distracted, and he knows it and always flashes that raw sexual smile. But once I'm hustling to get home on that 6 train, he's like the last thing on my mind. Okay, except for maybe when I'm taking a bubble bath. But hey it's just a fantasy.
[ Reply | Options ]now imagine this guy was your co-worker (around the office all day long) and not the ups guy, and he flirted with every single woman and flashed those beautiful teeth at them all day long. rarely do men giggle, but think of some similar obnoxious behavior that a male flirt would do. can you see how some would get fed up?
[ Reply | Options ]I think the overt sexiness of one female co-worker does make other female co-workers feel like that not only do they have to battle office sexism but they have to battle a woman who is undermining their efforts. It sucks and their is never an easy solution. I try to take faith in that cream (brains and hardwork) will rise to top and big boobs will sink like an anvil.
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yeah but (for those of us who work full time) professional women, doesn't it anger you that you are passed up for jobs, projects, meetings, simply because the old men CEO's would rather look at a young gorgeous woman than work with a professional, educated, knowledgeable woman? I see this go on in my office, and it really blows. They once hired a young girl because she had big breasts (and no experience). Sure she was dumb as s*** and eventually got fired, but still!
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When I ride in a taxi cab with my DC I:
- Use a carseat
- Buckle him/her in his/her own seat
- Hold him/her on my lap
- I'd never ride in a taxi with my DC, it's much too dangerous!
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