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  • Is 144 on SB good? exceptional? above average?

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    10.15.08, 07:52 AM [ Flagged ]
    • Your DC did not get the brains from you!

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      10.15.08, 07:54 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
    • it's quite exceptional! did your child get this score? if so, congratulations!

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      10.15.08, 07:56 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
    • Just from what I've vaguely seen here I think that it's good & def above average but not 100% certain that it will be above the cut off

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      10.15.08, 07:58 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
      • thank you! how can we know what the cutoff is?

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        10.15.08, 08:00 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
        • well, they had the cutoff from last year listed as minimally 142-145 but the thing is that they are taking a lot fewer kids to round 2 this year and also with sum scored totals rather than percentage scores, the list will be much more refined as well

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          10.15.08, 08:03 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
          • Thanks - so we're right on the borderline. What do we do now - sit and wait?

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            10.15.08, 08:04 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
            • yes - and hope and pray - and so something else because you'll drive yourself INSANE if you stay here till then! good luck...

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              10.15.08, 08:06 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
              • Thank you! Yes gotta focus on something else for now. Do I let ds know how excited we are or just tell him good job or not even mention?

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                10.15.08, 08:08 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                • if I were you I wouldn't even mention but just give him all the hugs and pride you are feeling because they always appreciate that

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                  10.15.08, 08:25 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                  • Thanks - hugs and ice cream for sure, and if he asks why I'll say because he is smart and good and we love him and are proud of him, no mention of test.

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                    10.15.08, 08:27 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                    • don't say because he is smart. egads. I see a long road of psychotherapy ahead for this kid

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                      10.15.08, 08:35 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                      • Now, why on earth would you say that??? jealous?

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                        10.15.08, 08:37 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                        • no. I have a dc at hunter. I think if she bursts on the scene offering ice cream and tells the kid it is because he is smart, he will not know where its coming from, but he will start to see his self worth as being valued in his mother;s eyes as coming from being smart. most smart kids know they are smart. the parents need to watch being overly invested in the kid's smarts so that he doesn't over invest in that as the major way to have his parents love him. she should not make her kid aware of her own selfish investment in him if she can help it, and she should not make him so aware of the school process.

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                          10.15.08, 08:42 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                        • also, what f that score doesn't make the cutoff? then OP will look at her son in a negative light if she is too invested. she will feel bitter looking at the kids who do, feeling they couldn't be superior, but thinking they might be, and on and on. see it here every year. op needs to be pleased, a bit proud, but not too invested, and certainly not show it to her dc

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                          10.15.08, 08:50 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                        • OP here. I'm definitely pleased and proud, and like I said above I will NOT mention the test or score or anything to ds. He doesn't know what the test was for, never asked follow up questions, does not connect the test to schools or anything like that. I see nothing wrong in telling a smart kid he is smart. When he does puzzles well or figures out something I often tell him good job, what a smart boy. It won't be the first time he hears it.

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                          10.15.08, 08:54 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                        • like I said, it will be a long road.

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                          10.15.08, 08:56 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                        • if you're still reading, you definitely don't tell smart kids they're smart. I'd read about this before, but the sheets they give out at the Hunter tour talk about a study that proves this. Counterintuative, maybe, but you want a kid to feel valued because they work hard, they try, they learn - that they can always get better at. If you tell them they're "smart" they never want to do anything that may show they're not smart.

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                          10.17.08, 01:26 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                    • np Are you saving for therapy? My kid got 99 (and 99s on erb). I've never told her she's "smart and good" (therby correlating those in her mind). Gross.

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                      10.15.08, 09:28 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
            • unfortunately, yes. we all have to wait until everyone has taken the test. round 2 invite letters will go out in december. but you are most likely going to get one. congrats!

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              10.15.08, 08:06 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
              • December? cr@@@@p that is SO far away... I'll definitely try to just enjoy the day today and put it aside for the time being.

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                10.15.08, 08:07 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
    • wow. very good. might even make the cutoff for Hunter this year

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      10.15.08, 07:58 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
    • Congratulations, great score! Don't listen to the mean spirited responder above.

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      10.15.08, 07:59 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
      • thank you thank you! just got the score and obviously very excited

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        10.15.08, 08:01 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
        • Fabulous! Revel in it and be happy! Your kid did a great job!

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          10.15.08, 08:03 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
          • Thank you so much! When dc took the test he came out beaming and kept telling me how fun it was. I was happy he had a good experience, but now I really hope we get to round 2. Ds is definitely getting ice cream today :)

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            10.15.08, 08:05 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
        • it's an amazing score and definitely something to be excited about! congrats!

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          10.15.08, 08:04 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
          • thanks SO much! Looks like we're borderline passing for H.

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            10.15.08, 08:06 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
          • why is everyone saying it is so amazing if we don't even know if it makes the cutoff? many average kids made the cutoff last year that I know. np, btw

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            10.15.08, 08:44 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
            • 144 is an amazing score regardless of the cutoff. also if kids made the round 2 of Hunter last year they are by definition not average. they are in the 98th and 99th percentile. that is far from average

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              10.15.08, 09:02 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
              • on a test many are prepped for. sorry, but I don't buy it. know many average kids who did well on it. many very smart ones who didn't.

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                10.15.08, 01:02 PM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
                • there is actually no way to prep for the SB. you sound bitter and delusional

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                  10.15.08, 01:56 PM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
    • it is great, bordeline for second round at Hunter for sure!

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      10.15.08, 08:05 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
    • very, very good, but cutoff will most likely be 147 or so.

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      10.15.08, 08:28 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
      • oh no... really? above said 142-145... so still not good enough for H?

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        10.15.08, 08:29 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
        • that was last year. most likely they will up the cutoff in order to take fewer dcs for round 2. you never know, though. i would assume dc did not make the cutoff and then be pleasantly surprised.

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          10.15.08, 08:39 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
          • thanks, that's a good attitute. To me my ds is #1, cutoff or not. I'll try not to stress (easier said than done) :)

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            10.15.08, 08:44 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
        • np: @ years ago cutoff equivalent was 142... last year it was equivalent to 145. They changed to scaled scores this year because they want FEWER kids than last year. So it seems unlikely that the cutoff will be below 145 this year. Most likely higher... especially since more kids are probably taking the test this year, given Hunter's ascending popularity and the economy's potential impact on people's interest in paying for private school. So 144, while an amazing score, will very likely not make the Round 2 cutoff. But you should be proud nonetheless!

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          10.15.08, 08:40 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
          • Thanks. It's sad that they base their round 2s on a number only without spending time with the kid.

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            10.15.08, 08:45 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
            • NP: yeah, but remember that the vast majority of kids who do make it to round 2 are flat out rejected after the evaluation.

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              10.15.08, 09:20 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
            • they do spend time with the dcs. 200 of them for 48 slots. which is better than they do for doe g&ts. they just don't spend time with everyone who scored in the gifted range.

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              10.15.08, 09:22 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
    • OP, are you still around? I am waiting for scores and wondering how long you waited for yours. would love to know how long it took...

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      10.15.08, 09:26 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
      • OP here - took 3 weeks 2 days. Hang in there! (PS can't believe the negativity some people are spewing out - now I feel bad I ever posted this)

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        10.15.08, 09:43 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
        • thanks for telling me and don't feel bad! it's a great score and you should just be happy about it. don't worry about the haters.

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          10.15.08, 09:53 AM [ Flagged | link to this post ]
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