new post »
see more posts »
DHs out there?I had talk with DH because I have a lower drive than he does--I told him that 99% of the time, i am totally game, just that he will have to initiate. Yet he rarely does. I wind up initiating more often bc, thought I don't feel like it, I am sure that he does so I want him to at least feel a little satisfied in his marriage. I swear, I think he expends all of his energy on porn. I know I have a lower drive so I try to initiate as well as tell him to as well. I always feel like he is on the edge of an affair, but don't know what else to do.
4 replies [ Reply | Watch | Options ]DH: ok, he prob feels like it would be selfish of him to take you when you have made it clear that you are not really interested - all men want the "girlfriend" experience, they want to feel like they are wanted just like you do, that is why strip clubs stay in biz. DW's act like sleep is more precious than loving their men and so we log on to redtube, which promotes a totally erroneous view of sex and further divides the sexes. I would say, tell him he is sexy looking and that you are looking forward to later for some quiet time, lay the groundwork for intimacy, demand some cuddling and get yourself a massage out of it at least! Next thing you know, he will ask you regularly if you want a massage - now you know my MO.
[ Reply | Options ]
Boards Help
Abbreviations
More Boards Help
Site Feedback Thank you for your feedback about the new site. We are paying close attention to your comments and we will incorporate them as we make improvements to the site. Please continue to report problems and offer feedback on the Site Feedback Board and visit our Site Talk blog for answers to some of your questions and updates on specific issues.
More Boards Help
Site Feedback Thank you for your feedback about the new site. We are paying close attention to your comments and we will incorporate them as we make improvements to the site. Please continue to report problems and offer feedback on the Site Feedback Board and visit our Site Talk blog for answers to some of your questions and updates on specific issues.
Flashback
