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6 yold DS pulled down his pants today at daycare! His friend and he were just horsing around but a 5 year old girl saw and told teacher WWYD??
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08.14.08, 06:04 PM [ Flag ]
- what do you mean? what are you options? Doesn't sound like anything needs to be done...
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  08.14.08, 06:05 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- I wouldn't discipline. Just remind him that his body is private, and he must not do this again in public.
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  08.14.08, 06:06 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - ITA/ no need to make a big deal of it
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    08.14.08, 06:14 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- Tell him not to do that again and that's about it.
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  08.14.08, 06:06 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- What is a 6 year old doing in daycare?
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  08.14.08, 06:06 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - np: maybe aftercare?
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    08.14.08, 06:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - What's aftercare?
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      08.14.08, 06:09 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - oh please. daycare that does from when school ends until the parent gets off of work...
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        08.15.08, 04:00 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - OP:summer camp/daycare
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    08.14.08, 06:18 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - Do they not have enough supervision at this place?
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      08.14.08, 06:21 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - It sounds like he whipped his pants down and up again and the girl saw and siad something..he gets silly and was laughing about having a penis with his friend or something..that's what he's telling me. My DH is po'd!
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        08.14.08, 06:23 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- That some pretty poor impulse control in a 6 year old boy. Are there are any other behaviors/problems? If its a one off I guess you punish and move on. Otherwise I would be concerned
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  08.14.08, 06:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - I went through a pulling down my pants phase in nursery school. The teacher told my mom, "mark my words, this one is going to be trouble her whole life." I turned out fine.
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    08.14.08, 06:22 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - your anecdote is cute but not relevant to a 6 year old boy
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      08.14.08, 06:34 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - Why? I was about 4 - not so much younger than a 6 year old.
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        08.14.08, 06:34 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        developmentally I would say that is quite wrong
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        08.14.08, 06:41 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        It's wrong that the 6 year ds did this? Of that I did this at 4? Or that there's a big difference between 4 and 6?
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        08.14.08, 06:42 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        Where did you get your degree in child development?
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        08.14.08, 06:56 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- I moond the bride and groom at my fb wedding. I was 22.
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  08.14.08, 06:57 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- doesn't sound like that big a deal at that age. I'd just tell him to keep his peenie in his pants from now on.
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  08.14.08, 08:58 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - peenie? oy
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    08.15.08, 04:09 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

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6 yold DS pulled down his pants today at daycare! His friend and he were just horsing around but a 5 year old girl saw and told teacher WWYD??

what do you mean? what are you options? Doesn't sound like anything needs to be done...

I wouldn't discipline. Just remind him that his body is private, and he must not do this again in public.

ITA/ no need to make a big deal of it

Tell him not to do that again and that's about it.

What is a 6 year old doing in daycare?

np: maybe aftercare?

What's aftercare?

oh please. daycare that does from when school ends until the parent gets off of work...

OP:summer camp/daycare

Do they not have enough supervision at this place?

It sounds like he whipped his pants down and up again and the girl saw and siad something..he gets silly and was laughing about having a penis with his friend or something..that's what he's telling me. My DH is po'd!

That some pretty poor impulse control in a 6 year old boy. Are there are any other behaviors/problems? If its a one off I guess you punish and move on. Otherwise I would be concerned

I went through a pulling down my pants phase in nursery school. The teacher told my mom, "mark my words, this one is going to be trouble her whole life." I turned out fine.

your anecdote is cute but not relevant to a 6 year old boy

Why? I was about 4 - not so much younger than a 6 year old.

developmentally I would say that is quite wrong

It's wrong that the 6 year ds did this? Of that I did this at 4? Or that there's a big difference between 4 and 6?

Where did you get your degree in child development?

I moond the bride and groom at my fb wedding. I was 22.

doesn't sound like that big a deal at that age. I'd just tell him to keep his peenie in his pants from now on.

peenie? oy

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