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dh and i have been living seprately by choice for over a year due to a job situation. he's in the process of getting a new job and will soon be back living with me and our 4 yo ds. i just found out that he's been looking at playboy.com and I also saw an email was sent to him from woman living in russia looking for love. very tame and generic. not sure if he's corresponded with her or this is spam. he made up a fake name for himself on a hotmail account. i'm very jealous and worried. should i just let it go for now because he's by himself, lonely, and understand men have physical needs. then when he's back and if it still goes on, then say something. thanks, i can't stop thinking about this. when we are together, we have a great sexual relationship and i always thought i was all he needed. naive.
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i guess he must have joined playboy or something like that. how else would they have his email
[ Reply | Options ]that's what I would think, even with my space and other huge sites people will get your email and keep sending bizarre shit. My ex dh used to constantly get emails for Penile Implants and Sexual Enhancements, while he was a jerk for so many other reasons, he didn't need any help in those depts.
[ Reply | Options ]so i can assume that he's not just looking. he must have joined a site and logged in otherwise they would not know his email
[ Reply | Options ]He could of joined Playboy, which is just looking, he's not meeting up with bunnies! Or hotmail could have sold his address to a ton of companies. I had a kids t-shirt website at one time and the sex spam for the business account was outrageous! We never gave out our email to sex sites, but we got about 20 sexual emails a day saying stuuf like "Candy wants to speak with you again."
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you again? obviously you are completely obsessed with this issue. I suggest you try and separate yourself from this issue. Separate. Separate. Separate! keep saying it like a mantra. he was away and lonely. no harm, no foul. all men look at porn. it is a fact of life. that does not mean that your husband does not love you. men need an outlet. looking at porn is an acceptable outlet imho.
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