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  • dh friends with a married co-worker. she is good looking but then again so am i (whatever dont crucify me). do i have right to tell him to stop being friends with her. i think yes. married men dont need female friends.

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    07.25.08, 12:05 AM [ Flag ]

    • i am with you - but you will sound insecure to your husband. i wouldnt say anything. never let DH "see you sweat"

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      07.25.08, 12:06 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

      • how sad is that. known him over 20 years. meet young. we know eachother too well. and i have poor impulse control with my anger and jealousy. how do you elevate your relationship when you are always playing games

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        07.25.08, 12:08 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • What? Why can't men and women be friends? That is the silliest thing I've ever heard.

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      07.25.08, 06:59 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • This is is really controlling and insecure.

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      07.25.08, 07:17 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • a dh: You have a right to tell him how you feel. He has a right to behave like an adult. This includes making adult decisions, like who his friends are. If the man you married is trustworthy -- you need to trust him. If not -- you both need to work on this. (I would add though, do you think he should have a right to veto who your friends are?)

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      07.25.08, 07:24 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • My husband is friends with all sorts of women, always has been. He is a great guy who is quite clear that he wants me and only me. I can't imagine objecting to him having a friend of any sex, color, religion... That's just juvenile.

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      07.25.08, 07:29 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • I think if it really bothers you that you should tell your husband that his relationship makes you uncomfortable. Tell him you respect his relationship with others, but you would prefer if he didn't spend a lot of time with her.

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      07.25.08, 07:31 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • does he go out with her one on one?

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      07.25.08, 07:52 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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