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  • Nanny vs. daycare. Pls advise.

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    • I did a Nanny for 1st year of life and then switched to daycare. I felt that was a good age to becoming more interactive with other dbs.

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      07.16.08, 11:00 AM Flag
      • where do u live?

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        07.16.08, 11:02 AM Flag
        • UES

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          07.16.08, 11:04 AM Flag
          • where on earth is there daycare -- i live there too.

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            07.16.08, 11:10 AM Flag
            • yeah, NYC has so so few daycares, it's almost not an option

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              07.16.08, 11:17 AM Flag
            • np-bright horizons on 70th bw 1st and York. Mostly Cornell Med people, though.

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              07.16.08, 11:25 AM Flag
              • right, they told me not to even bother if i wasnt w/cornell

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                07.16.08, 11:34 AM Flag
        • ditto!

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          07.16.08, 11:10 AM Flag
          • is that a new nabe acronym I don't know of? is it near dumbo?

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            02.07.11, 01:49 PM Flag
      • i agree - nanny for first year or year and a half, and then daycare

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        02.07.11, 01:52 PM Flag
    • depends on many things. we have a nanny, and to me the pros are: one on one care; its in your home, which is familiar nad you don't have to get it together to do drop off; more flexibile in terms of hours; almost alwyas cheaper to add a 2d kid. cons: you are dependent on one person; you may not like having someone work in your home; less oversight.

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      07.16.08, 11:03 AM Flag
      • ^^oh, adn the obvious upside to daycare of socialization.

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        07.16.08, 11:05 AM Flag
    • I think you can't beat the convenience of the nanny situation. No lunch to pack, no child to dress and get out the door, my commute isn't any longer b/c i have to do drop off and pick up, etc. It's great. Plus, assuming you find the right person, it's very nice for a baby to have a caregiver who is devoted to them alone, imho.

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      07.16.08, 11:04 AM Flag
      • If taking care of a kid is so much of a hassle to you, why did you have one in the first place??

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        03.09.09, 02:29 PM Flag
        • Are you serious? That was SO rude of you to say. You shouldn't judge others in such a way. How can you actually ask someone why they brought a precious child into this world? Just because someone expresses the many responsibilities involved with preparing a child for daycare does not mean that they should have second guessed bringing their child into this world. That was a very ignorant a mean statement to make.

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          02.07.11, 01:41 PM Flag
    • We have always used daycare. Mostly liked the idea of dd being around multiple adults & children- seemed like it'd give her more options of people to relate to, and somehow felt safer to me (though now that i know a lot of nannies, i dont think i would feel unsafe about one at all). Also, i didn't want to have to manage an employee. It's worked out well, though it's not as convenient as a nanny.

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      07.16.08, 11:06 AM Flag
      • I could have written this myself. Also, while I feel better about nannies now than pre-ds, I also see all of my friends encounter nanny issues at some point (make go through a couple before they find one they like, they get pregnant themselves, etc.). But I feel like dd might go out more with a nanny vs. at daycare and my Mom has to help when ds gets sick.

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        07.16.08, 12:09 PM Flag
    • Daycare. My own. Priceless.

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      03.09.09, 02:30 PM Flag
      • so all moms should stay home?

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        03.09.09, 02:37 PM Flag
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      12.09.09, 06:58 PM
    • 1. The Obama family is moving in their mother-in-law to the White House. More and more families are looking into hiring a Granny Nanny. 2. Affordability of a nanny in today's society. a. Nannies are not just for the wealthy. b. If you have 2 or more kids in daycare; you would be paying the same for a nanny in most cases. c. If your kids are sick, you can still go to work - a nanny could stay with the kids and kids seem to stay more healthy out of daycare settings. 3. Families hiring nannies online and saving thousands of dollars rather than using a Nanny Placement Agency. 4. A nanny can simplify your life. 5. Nanny Share - Where 2 families are sharing a nanny due to cost. Carolin Soldo

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      12.09.09, 07:01 PM Flag
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