am i wrong? inlaws babysit on sat. nites approx 2x per month. they usually spend the day, sleep over, and generally invade my home. they are very considerate and generous but I don't need them at my house constantly - mil asked last week if she could come for the day and I said that we were busy, and that I work and have been traveling and really want to spend the day with the kids, she seemed put off, but just asked again for this weekend. I CAN"T TAKE IT!!!! wwyd?

last weekend they babysat sat. nite and stayed until 2 on sunday, they initially wanted to bring other family members over sat. and have brunch with kis, i told them I had plans to take the kids to the pool on sat. and invited them to join if they wanted but was not keeping kids home for brunch. this coming weekend they are not babysitting, and are spending the following weekend at my house, but that was not enough they asked to come for the day this weekend. I think they are generous to help us, but also push the line. i think everyone on here is making me feel like an ogre, I guess I dont' need your advice, writing this out makes me feel stronly that I am in the right.