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  • A business colleague and I admitted we are attracted to each other. Now he is coming to town and I think he thinks we will hook up. How do I handle this? Would not mind seeing him and hanging out as we have in the past - he is nice to look at - but seriously don't want to be in an uncomfortable situation.

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    07.10.08, 10:23 AM [ Flag ]

    • are either of you married?

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      07.10.08, 10:24 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

      • Yes, both married, both have kids, both well aware the other is married with kids.

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        07.10.08, 10:24 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

        • and to put it mildly - things got racy in email

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          07.10.08, 10:25 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

          • You have already put yourself in an uncomfortable situation by admitting that you are attracted to him. Sounds like you can no longer just hang out as you have in the past.

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            07.10.08, 10:32 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

            • so then say no?

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              07.10.08, 10:32 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

              • you know the answer to this. you already said that you think he plans to hook up.

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                07.10.08, 10:34 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

                • I made it clear to him that would not happen. But he is writing to me telling me he is thinking about me, etc.

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                  07.10.08, 11:34 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

                  • I would tell him you were just joking around and you're sorry he took you so seriously. Hopefully he'll believe it and feel embarrassed, but if he pursues, ignore any correspondence that is the slightest bit suggestive

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                    07.10.08, 11:38 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

            • ITTA...and to think you can is just fooling yourself (or you are playing dumb)

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              07.10.08, 10:41 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

              • ITA--run, don't walk away from this situation. If you meet him it sounds like a hook-up will be inevitable and you will really regret it, trust me.

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                07.10.08, 10:48 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • nip it. this guy probably casts a wide net

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      07.10.08, 11:02 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • You know the answer- you just want us to rationalize your attraction to him. You want to have sex with him & put your marriage at risk? Then go meet him. You & I both know that is exactly what will happen so you can't pretend anything else will happen.

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      07.10.08, 11:43 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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