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  • poll: was your child reading by the end of K this year and what was the school? was it g&t or General ed?

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    07.03.08, 10:33 AM [ Flag ]
    • yes. 116, gen ed

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      07.03.08, 10:34 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Every child in the class was reading by the end of K (only one just barely) - D2 general ed

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      07.03.08, 10:34 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • which school?

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        07.03.08, 10:35 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • Now that I have said that one wasn't doing well - I'm kind of afraid to say for fear of insulting the parent. But I will say it is either 41/3/234 is that ok?

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          07.03.08, 10:37 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • interesting, my kids are older but when they were in K I certainly wasn't keeping tabs on the reading level of every kid in their class. Psycho hover mom.

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        07.03.08, 10:39 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • hello, you have no idea. The parents are invited into the classroom once a week to choose the correct level books for the children. Those children whose parents cannot come in, get help from the other parents. Name calling, ASSuming mom.

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          07.03.08, 10:41 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • So coming in once a week you evaluated every single child in the class? you need to find something better to do.

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            07.03.08, 10:44 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • What is you problem lady. Once a week the parents went thru all the books and helped ALL the children pick out the books that were on their level. No one is evaluating anything. I answered ops question. Why are you on this thread if your children are so old anyone and why are you obsessing about the fact that the parents came into our class weekly to help with reading? Give it a rest.

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              07.03.08, 10:47 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • I think they shouldn't let you in. Look at what you have done. You check out the kids, have this info and post it on a message board. now all the moms at those schools are thinking some beeyotch in the parent body is assessing their kid and talking about it, even if this is anonymous...its not right. really think the schools should do away with this parent involvement. np, btw

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                07.03.08, 11:54 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • public schools need parent involvement. Do you even have a child at a public school?

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                  07.03.08, 02:28 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                  • some schools allow it, some don't. I am happy to be in a school that doesn't allow this sort of thing. the school does a ggod job hiring asst teachers, and parents are not needed in the school in this way. thank goodness.

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                    07.03.08, 06:17 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • she is not psycho. she was just answering the question. BTW, look like you could use a lesson or two in grammar.

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          07.03.08, 10:41 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • I know that my ds's class are all reading from going to group things they did and from participating once in a while in the "Parents as Reading Partners" program. -np

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          07.03.08, 10:44 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • careful, ASSuming mom will jummp down your throat for having this information!

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            07.03.08, 10:48 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • children in my dd's class stood up and read to all the parents. It was painfully obvious who could and couldn't read.

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            07.03.08, 10:50 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • NP: Was this in K? That sounds like a potentially traumatic experience and I don't see the educational value in this. Was there more to it? It surprises me. My 5 yo has been able to read for 6 mos, but only now has warmed up to the idea. Until now, she's been afraid of making mistakes. So I cannot imagine making little kids read in front of a group of adults (unless they volunteered)

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              07.03.08, 10:53 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • NNP: In dc's K class, everyone wrote poems, and we had a Writing Celebration, where everyone was supposed to read their own poems. The ones who didn't want to were not forced to, and the teacher read and showed the poem to the class and parents. It was a nice and positive experience for all of the kids, but you definitely can get a sense of the differing levels of the kids, whether or not you cared.

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                07.03.08, 12:19 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • yes, K and not traumatic. If child refused no one beat them into submission :)

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                07.03.08, 02:39 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • Why do people like you hijack posts? OP was curious about something. Easy question, easy answers. Until...

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          07.03.08, 10:53 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • dd is already reading, starts K in September. Going gen ed.

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      07.03.08, 10:35 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Mine was not and still not reading well by end of 1st - now finishing 2nd he reads 4-5th grade chapter books alone (all the time because he likes it)

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      07.03.08, 10:37 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • similar story with my dc -- barely read at end of K, but took off at end of 1st. Now one of best readers in grade -- better than many of the "early" readers who could read in pre-k and loves to read all the time. I try to tell posters here all the time not to push this. If dc has problems in 1st grade and not progressing, then fine, but all this concern about reading before or in K is such a waste and probably makes kids hate to read.

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        07.03.08, 10:44 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • I so agree with you. better it come naturally. My dc at G&T citywide entered kindergarden and many of the dcs were already reading. The teacher pull me aside and told, "they have been worked with". My dc was reading by the end of the year. Some of the kids were reading at really high levels some were not. All kids equally intelligent. Just some of the kids were worked with at home others were not.

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          07.06.08, 08:42 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • no. Mid-first grade. Gen ed.

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      07.03.08, 10:38 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Like many of his peers, my ds was reading before he began K at NEST this year. His whole class was readign by the end.

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      07.03.08, 10:39 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • You do realize that the way you started that sentence, makes you sound totally snobbish and superior, right? "Like many of his peers...." oh Lordy Lordy NEST strikes again.

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        07.03.08, 10:42 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • thank GOd they have corraled them all together. np

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          07.03.08, 10:43 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • whatever -or

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          07.03.08, 10:47 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • huh? np here. Did I miss something? Why are you attacking her? There is nothing in what she said that is offensive.

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          07.03.08, 12:56 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • The offense is that I mentioned my ds goes to NEST. There is a UB regular whose childhood dog was hit by a car with NEST+m license plates. Any post which mentions NEST elicits a senseless attack. Then she replies to herself with a post which she closes with "np"

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            07.03.08, 01:53 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • "Like many of his peers" pointed out that of course the NEST geniuses can all read before kindergarten.

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            07.04.08, 06:11 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • np. It seemed to me she was trying to convey that she doesn't think her dc's early reading means he's The Most Brilliant Speshul Child EVER, because a lot of the other dc were doing the same thing.

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          07.03.08, 11:24 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • np. ITTTTTA! the nest posters are so full of themselves and such braggarts.

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          07.07.08, 08:14 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Define reading. My son can find all his favorite TV programs on the cable guide and tell me when the show is going to be on. He will ID things of his interest in all print materials. Will you say he can read? He is 5 years old.

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      07.03.08, 11:50 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • I wasn't reading til late in 1st grade and within a few months was reading 200-300 page books. Not a trauma to not be reading in kindergarten!

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        07.03.08, 11:56 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Dd was reading at age 2.5, will enter gifted k next fall. Not all the kids accepted into her gifted program are reading, and the principal said they hope all the kids will be reading by the end of the school year.

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      07.03.08, 11:59 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • Reading at 2.5? What is your definition of reading?

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        07.03.08, 12:46 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • My kid started to read at that age as well. To be honest it is really hard to pinpoint when exactly a child started to read because the learning process is very gradual. Is your kid able to read when he can read his first word w/o having it memorized (how would you know)? When he reads his first book (what kind of book)? That said my child started to read words on sight at around 2.5 years (mostly memorized short words). At around 3.5 he read simple books on her own. At 4 he started to read simple chapter books. He just turned five and can pretty much read anything you put in front of him.

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          07.03.08, 12:54 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • Ditto here. My dc started to read on his own (and self-taught) a few months before he turned 3 yo. He was really motivated to learn.

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            07.03.08, 03:38 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • np. Mine was the same. Sounding out simple 3-letter words and had a pretty big sight vocabulary by then.

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          07.04.08, 06:03 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • my child entered K reading. by the end of the year i think most of the kids in his class were, and the ones that weren't were either ELL or the youngest, as far as I could tell.

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      07.03.08, 12:30 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • He just finished K and he's still working on it. I'm not stressed about it at all. He loves being read to, is working on reading things on his own--doesn't do well if I sit down to have him read to me. He's doing writing on his own, unprompted. But I do think many kids came into his class already reading or close--lots of older girls in his class particularly.

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      07.03.08, 12:49 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • DD has been reading since age 3 and a half. Going to district G&T.

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      07.03.08, 01:22 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Yes, PS 183, gen'l ed.

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      07.03.08, 01:30 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • No. Brearley. No pressure to read at all.

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      07.03.08, 06:31 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • I distinctly remember that during the summer between K and 1st, DS exploded in reading, and suddenly devoured all the early reading books at the library and beyond. DS was at LL, and we were suspicious of balanced literacy and the dopey books and the lack of explicit phonics, but it really worked for him I guess. 2 yrs later, he reads for pleasure at any opportunity (maybe too much!) with great comprehension and expression. Maybe he was always destined to be nerd but I do think LL makes them more likely to be interested in reading and writing, especially writing, they write a lot, beginning in K, and the Publishing Parties are a big deal.

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      07.03.08, 06:35 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • DS entered K reading. All kids in his class were reading by end of K, although levels ranged widely, everything from Harry Potter to Frog and Toad. 1. It doesn't matter when they start reading, so long as they learn and any LDs are caught. 2. If they can read the words and comprehend what they're reading - within hte limits of their social understanding - then, they're reading, not just decoding. A first grader can't read the NYT even if he/she is reading Harry Potter, because they lack the social context. But lacking the social context is different than just decoding.

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        07.03.08, 06:53 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • How many of these "K's" are 6yo going on 7yo or how many are 5yo big difference (mom of young K)

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          07.03.08, 07:01 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • It's public school. Everyone is either 5 or turning 5 by December. Everyone who graduates in June, is either 5 or 6. No one is 7.

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            07.03.08, 07:12 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • np: DS is in public in CA and there is a big range on ages and I can see the difference when I'm in the classroom (when it comes to reading).

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              07.04.08, 06:09 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • But in CA a lot of people redshirt their kids, which is the case in NY suburbs too, so the kids are older. In NYC this is no longer allowed, so all kids in the grade are born within the same calendar year.

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                07.04.08, 06:15 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • I think that's a good solution. Part of the problem out here is that the cut off is so late--Dec 1st. My oldest is a May birthday so it was a no-brainer. My second is a late Nov. birthday and I feel like we're stuck between a rock & a hard place.

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                  07.07.08, 07:49 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • This is not a mark of a good school, focusing on reading in K, as evidenced by all the TT privates who do not stress this until 1st

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      07.04.08, 06:14 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • You make it sound that a TT private is oh so much better when it comes to elementary school education.

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        07.07.08, 07:47 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • np. For offering a well-rounded, developmentally appropriate education, the are.

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          07.07.08, 08:11 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • ^ they. And I would say most of the so-called "2nd tier" privates are also oh so much better than 99% of NYC publics.

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            07.07.08, 08:15 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • and you have experience with all the TT and 2nf tier privates, the 1% public you find okay, and those 99% of "bad" public schools? I would love how you got all this knowledge.

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              07.07.08, 08:19 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • I don't need direct, personal experience with those schools to know it's true any more than I need to go to Antarctica to know it's damned cold there. All you have to do is look at the DOE curriculum to know it's true. The scope of their curriculum has become narrower, more remedial and test-obsessed every year. Compared to what most private schools offer, even the best publics aren't as good.

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                07.07.08, 08:34 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • but you claim there is still a one percent of public schools that are better or as good as 2nd tier privates. How is that possible? And how do you know it is 1% and not .5% or 20%?

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                  07.07.08, 08:39 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                  • You're being disingenuous. You know perfectly well what I meant.

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                    07.07.08, 08:43 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                    • I know that you are biased and very closed minded because you throw around numbers that are absolutely not true. That is all I know about you.

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                      07.07.08, 08:46 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                      • Which means in actuality you know nothing about me. Whatever. I'm not interested in trying to convince you that your assumptions about me are incorrect. If you'd like to talk about the schools, by all means let's talk about them. I've made my opinion pretty clear, I think. What's yours? Which publics do you think are as good as the "tt" and most of the 2nd-tier privates?

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                        07.07.08, 08:55 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • Of course it is. You don't think a TT private offers a better elementary school education than a public school - any public school? I do.

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          07.07.08, 01:28 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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