grrr. man i am dating is terrible about including me in his plans. when he invites me to things (not dinner, but events) he tells me about them and kind of waits to see if i say i want to go. its similar to the seinfeld where elaine doesn't know if she is being invited somewhere or not by her date. anyway, he just told me about some weekend away fundraiser he is going to and spent 10 mins telling me about who is entertaining, which celebs are involved etc. at the end of it i said "oh, that sounds really fun", as i couldn't believe he wouldn't invite me to it. he said it would be ok. now i am pissed. i invite him to everything. how do i handle this? its not even that i want to go so badly, just want the decency of an invite

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